So my gf says she was raped and preggo today..

[QUOTE="tepni"]

Your girlfriend says she was raped...and you don't know whether to believe her or not?

Dude what type of relationship are you in?

Haha..I'm pretty sure you should trust her and tell someone about it.

EmoDepress777

Well what would u do if your gf told you this would you believe her? (if you was a male)

I personally don't believe your girl friend at all, but you should know her better than we do. Plus as others have stated it sounds like something straight out of a Hollywood movie. Also look at it like this. Would you be able to forgive her if she did have sex with someone else and gave that person consent? Most likely you 2 were broken up during the time that she did have sex with the person, So would you be able to look at her knowing what she had done? She basically broke up with you to have sex with another guy and for whatever reason it didn't work out between them and she went back to you. This is my opinion and it may be completely wrong, but if I am right and this is the case and you can forgive her and move on one this is for sure is that she shouldn't have that baby and if she does due to religious reasons you should feel no obligation to the baby....

NO woman in this world would nonchalantly say "hey babe you can father my rape baby"... lmfao If this didn't cause you're BS detector to go off I don't know what else will. Let me put this whole situation from what you given us into my perspective. She's pregnant regardless of how it happened and apparently her father told her to keep the baby and that he wouldn't support the baby. Now she's telling you that you can father the baby that you didn't create and you're already telling her that you will support this baby which you had nothing to do with? Honestly the father is telling her to keep the baby for a reason and that's because it's not a rape baby. She's telling you to father the baby because she doesn't have a job and wasn't raped and has no one else whose going to support her. The end if you stay with a chick like this you need to find some help man. Good luck.

Either your trolling us, or shes trolling you.

Your girlfriend says she was raped...and you don't know whether to believe her or not?

Dude what type of relationship are you in?

Haha..I'm pretty sure you should trust her and tell someone about it.

tepni

[QUOTE="tepni"]

Your girlfriend says she was raped...and you don't know whether to believe her or not?

Dude what type of relationship are you in?

Haha..I'm pretty sure you should trust her and tell someone about it.

MarkyyR

Rape is the ultimate form of flattery.

I don't believe anything this user says these days, he seems to crave attention and drama and so this will be my last comment or quote to to him.

Sorry, it's just I see you post a lot and i've been keeping an eye on you as your username caught my attention, people who swing by the Emo/Goth kind of thing. especially on a games forum can strikes me as a person who likes to escape reality, so if those are your interests you need to be tactful with your posts and comments so you don't come across as either a poser or a rather young kid. A pattern seems to of emerged which reflects on a person who is creating an online persona of someone they are not in real life, or perhaps it is based roughly on personal interests but made only into reality through words on a forum.

Evil_Saluki

[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"]

I don't believe anything this user says these days, he seems to crave attention and drama and so this will be my last comment or quote to to him.

Sorry, it's just I see you post a lot and i've been keeping an eye on you as your username caught my attention, people who swing by the Emo/Goth kind of thing. especially on a games forum can strikes me as a person who likes to escape reality, so if those are your interests you need to be tactful with your posts and comments so you don't come across as either a poser or a rather young kid. A pattern seems to of emerged which reflects on a person who is creating an online persona of someone they are not in real life, or perhaps it is based roughly on personal interests but made only into reality through words on a forum.

jimmyjammer69

It's your alt isn't it :P

[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"][QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"]

I don't believe anything this user says these days, he seems to crave attention and drama and so this will be my last comment or quote to to him.

Sorry, it's just I see you post a lot and i've been keeping an eye on you as your username caught my attention, people who swing by the Emo/Goth kind of thing. especially on a games forum can strikes me as a person who likes to escape reality, so if those are your interests you need to be tactful with your posts and comments so you don't come across as either a poser or a rather young kid. A pattern seems to of emerged which reflects on a person who is creating an online persona of someone they are not in real life, or perhaps it is based roughly on personal interests but made only into reality through words on a forum.

Evil_Saluki

It's your alt isn't it :P

Well she said some guy raped her and all this and shes preggo . idk if she telling the truth or not. how long do it takes to get preggo? she a virgin or was . so she saying some guys had guns and what not. she's 15 years old. how can i tell if shes being honest or b.s here?

EmoDepress777

Here is my initial reply to this, there are a few things in the thread I will also elaborate on but will respond to those posts as they are.

I have been raped before. A few times. That being said and out of the way, not all rape victims react the same way afterwards, so she may be a little different, if it did happen.

You can get pregnant the very first time you have sex... with or without a condom because condoms can fail (... in many different ways). Every woman is different when it comes to pregnancy.. some show earier then others, some do not. Some still have their periods the first few months. Not every pregnancy is the same, even if its the same woman.

Now, 'some guys had guns' .. that could have happened. To know for sure though, you need to talk to her more about it, and tell her to talk to the police and tell them what happened, because if she doesn't then you will. If she suddenly panics... then its bs. She may cry when you say that because it IS a bit embarrassing to have to tell someone all about that... and she -should have- of course gone to the emergency room right after it happened to have a rape kit done.

Here is the key thing though: When was this alleged rape supposed to have happened? Because if it happened only a few days ago, and shes claiming she is pregnant now, then either A) it happened and she is AFRAID she is pregnant or B) she is bsing you. There is no pregnancy test in the world that can tell only a few days after having sex if you are pregnant or not. You generally have to wait at least 3 to 4 weeks and in many women, miss your period (Apparently Im not normal and I still had my period for my last 3 pregnancies. But skipped it on the first pregnancy :| )

Her story sounds pretty fabricated, but she should be given a chance/ benefit of the doubt till you can disprove her, because stuff like that does happen. If it did... holy crap shes very very very lucky to be alive, considering they had guns.

She said she called them but she don't know how the lad who raped her looked. she said he put her in a black truck and they kidnapped other girls and all that. she keep saying she scared. but i wonder why she tells me this today if it happen a couple days ago.

EmoDepress777

[QUOTE="MystikFollower"]

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

Well she said some guy raped her and all this and shes preggo . idk if she telling the truth or not. how long do it takes to get preggo? she a virgin or was . so she saying some guys had guns and what not. she's 15 years old. how can i tell if shes being honest or b.s here?

EmoDepress777

Tell her to inform the police or you will... Then you'll likely find the truth.

She said she called them but she don't know how the lad who raped her looked. she said he put her in a black truck and they kidnapped other girls and all that. she keep saying she scared. but i wonder why she tells me this today if it happen a couple days ago.

Also.. there is a chance she may or may not have been able to see her attacker's face or features if he was wearing a mask.. but the other girls scenario seems extremely far fetched to me. Not that it is impossible, mind you... but pretty far fetched.

I have been raped before. A few times.xhellcatx

By the same person?

[QUOTE="LongZhiZi"][QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

Well thats what i just asked . idk what she talking about how can she be preggo so soon. she saying she sad and all they, that she was forced. she said she called but idk. i will ask her if she wants me to call them. how do i make her confess the truth or catch her in a lie if shes lying? btw thanks for the info im telling her this now.

EmoDepress777

Well i kinda did , i said my uncle is a cop he will help and she never replied back and went off-line. so i thinks shes lying now. i wonder why she would lie about rape. well she lies a lot. so im sure she is lying now. What do i ask her tomorrow? should i say my uncle made an investigation? to scare her? She said shes showing me her belly tomorrow , so i still know its all lies. now im confused . why do you think she would want me to believe shes pregnant and raped for?

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]

I have been raped before. A few times.Adrianstalker

By the same person?