So my girlfriend kissed another girl today. =/

So OT here I am, making a stupid relationship/help girl thread with me thinking I would never have to make one, but I am kind of in a fix.

I have been dating this girl for almost two months now. She came out today telling me that earlier in the day, she was drinking with some friends and playing games (Apparently she wasn't drunk), and was dared to kiss another girl. Now there are several factors which are making feel uneasy about this, also several reasons as to why I don't just break up with her right now. One of the reasons being that she clearly didn't put my feelings into play, considering she saw nothing wrong about it, and also she brought up drinking was involed (kind of as an excuse) as a factor. Reasons as to why Im having troubles deciding are because she was being honest and actually told me (though I felt she was trying more to brag about it considering how she told me, also saying stuff like the kiss was actually good, ect ect). So OT what do you think? I'm willing to provide more details (not that kind) in the situation if needed, but I'd really need the help here.

Hmm.. it could mean nothing. You should ask her to find out how she feels about that "experience". Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. Or maybe she' s into that stuff in general which may prove to be harmful to your relationship.

So my advice is ask her for an honest answer. Without sounding like an a$$ ofc.

She's proven she'd cheat on you so it's up to you if you have a problem with that or not...

Get over yourself and the taboos society taught you.

Monogamy is just something humans developed through the ages.

It's pointless,actually.

Think about it,it's rather simple.

Just have open relationships and share.

:)

Hmm.. it could mean nothing. You should ask her to find out how she feels about that "experience". Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. Or maybe she' s into that stuff in general which may prove to be harmful to your relationship.

So my advice is ask her for an honest answer. Without sounding like an a$$ ofc.

johnd13

[QUOTE="johnd13"]

Hmm.. it could mean nothing. You should ask her to find out how she feels about that "experience". Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. Or maybe she' s into that stuff in general which may prove to be harmful to your relationship.

So my advice is ask her for an honest answer. Without sounding like an a$$ ofc.

WiiMan21

Because there's nothing wrong with it.

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

Hmm.. it could mean nothing. You should ask her to find out how she feels about that "experience". Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. Or maybe she' s into that stuff in general which may prove to be harmful to your relationship.

So my advice is ask her for an honest answer. Without sounding like an a$$ ofc.

GreekGameManiac

Because there's nothing wrong with it.

Has she dated girls in the past?chaoscougar1

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

Yes, there is absolutely something wrong with it. It's that kind of mentality that hurts other people.WiiMan21

Let me elaborate.

Maybe there's something wrong with it,but that's ONLY because she didn't tell you beforehand.

Maybe she just wants to provoke you,into doing stuff with her.

But,no matter what her intentions are,and what youdecide to do with her,that's not my point.

My point is that maybe you need to reconsider and change your way of thinking,really.

Realise that it's "all in your head",in a sense.

If you could just see differently,out of the box,etc.,it'd be better.

Pls try to get it already.

Why love one person when you can love many?

You just fell into the trap that so many do.

See differently.

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]Has she dated girls in the past?WiiMan21

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"]Yes, there is absolutely something wrong with it. It's that kind of mentality that hurts other people.GreekGameManiac

Let me elaborate.

Maybe there's something wrong with it,but that's ONLY because she didn't tell you beforehand.

Maybe she just wants to provoke you,into doing stuff with her.

But,no matter what her intentions are,and what youdecide to do with her,that's not my point.

My point is that maybe you need to reconsider and change your way of thinking,really.

Realise that it's "all in your head",in a sense.

If you could just see differently,out of the box,etc.,it'd be better.

Pls try to get it already.

Why love one person when you can love many?

You just fell into the trap that so many do.

See differently.

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"]

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]Has she dated girls in the past?chaoscougar1

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

I refuse to because I don't like the idea of if there is one person I really care about, I wouldn't want her doing anything with anyone else regardless of the situation. I don't even like the idea of threesomes or anything like that because I care too much about the other person in a relationship and I am too emotional for that kind of stuff.WiiMan21

....no,you're just close-minded and can't get over social norms.

You are just stuck in your ways.

:/

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="WiiMan21"] She is straight, though I don't know exactly how she is deep down in her mind. xP She has only dated guys.

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

WiiMan21

[QUOTE="johnd13"]

Hmm.. it could mean nothing. You should ask her to find out how she feels about that "experience". Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. Or maybe she' s into that stuff in general which may prove to be harmful to your relationship.

So my advice is ask her for an honest answer. Without sounding like an a$$ ofc.

WiiMan21

Well as you said in the OP she was dared to do it. It seems to me like she was driven by the excitement of the moment (the company of her drunk friends, she might have been a bit drunk herself despite believing not being) so she had no time or the clear head to think about the repercussions. If she hasn' t showed any signs of similar behavoir in the past then you probably shouldn' t worry too much.

Either way you should speak to her honestly about how you feel and then it' s up to you to decide whether it was really important or not.

I don't see the difference of if she kissed a guy.WiiMan21

Maybe she shouldn't have,since you are in a monogamous relationship.

But wanna know what i think?

I wouldn't mind if 5 guys f*cked her hard,and came on her.

Yeah,abit too much,but it's just i've changed alot.

I used to be like you,monogamous.

Till i was 21,i saw the light,i realised that monogamy is pointless.

You have to separate emotion from sex,for one.

And....remember what i said a few comments above?

"Why love one person when you can love many?"

Think about iy.....

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="WiiMan21"] I'm gonna have to pass, but thanks for the sincere advice.WiiMan21

Re-read the part in bold champ
You should be encouraging this behaviour
Just say
"Next time, make sure I'm there to watch"

you had me at the thread tittle..

should ask why she didn't record it

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] Then invite the girl over for a threesome Problem solvedchaoscougar1

Obviously a threesome is the only viable option at this point but TC wants us to say that everything is cool and that it's no big deal his girlfriend kissed another girl and enjoyed it. He's in denial.

Kiss another guy for revenge =PFMAB_GTO

She is influenced by Katy Perry, dump her.

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="WiiMan21"] She is straight, though I don't know exactly how she is deep down in her mind. xP She has only dated guys.

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

WiiMan21

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] Then invite the girl over for a threesome
Problem solvedShadowsDemon

So OT here I am, making a stupid relationship/help girl thread with me thinking I would never have to make one, but I am kind of in a fix.

I have been dating this girl for almost two months now. She came out today telling me that earlier in the day, she was drinking with some friends and playing games (Apparently she wasn't drunk), and was dared to kiss another girl. Now there are several factors which are making feel uneasy about this, also several reasons as to why I don't just break up with her right now. One of the reasons being that she clearly didn't put my feelings into play, considering she saw nothing wrong about it, and also she brought up drinking was involed (kind of as an excuse) as a factor. Reasons as to why Im having troubles deciding are because she was being honest and actually told me (though I felt she was trying more to brag about it considering how she told me, also saying stuff like the kiss was actually good, ect ect). So OT what do you think? I'm willing to provide more details (not that kind) in the situation if needed, but I'd really need the help here.

WiiMan21

did she enjoy it.

Kiss another guy for revenge =PFMAB_GTO

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"]I don't see the difference of if she kissed a guy.GreekGameManiac

Maybe she shouldn't have,since you are in a monogamous relationship.

But wanna know what i think?

I wouldn't mind if 5 guys f*cked her hard,and came on her.

Yeah,abit too much,but it's just i've changed alot.

I used to be like you,monogamous.

Till i was 21,i saw the light,i realised that monogamy is pointless.

You have to separate emotion from sex,for one.

And....remember what i said a few comments above?

"Why love one person when you can love many?"

Think about it.....

Just quoting myself.

Kiss another guy for revenge =PFMAB_GTO

Looking for legit advice here guys, nothing of "Go for a threesome or GTFO".

Maybe the average guy enjoys that kind of stuff but I've had enough stuff happen to me in relationships that I just don't find that enjoyable at all.:?

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Kiss another guy for revenge =PPostmortem123

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"]

So OT here I am, making a stupid relationship/help girl thread with me thinking I would never have to make one, but I am kind of in a fix.

I have been dating this girl for almost two months now. She came out today telling me that earlier in the day, she was drinking with some friends and playing games (Apparently she wasn't drunk), and was dared to kiss another girl. Now there are several factors which are making feel uneasy about this, also several reasons as to why I don't just break up with her right now. One of the reasons being that she clearly didn't put my feelings into play, considering she saw nothing wrong about it, and also she brought up drinking was involed (kind of as an excuse) as a factor. Reasons as to why Im having troubles deciding are because she was being honest and actually told me (though I felt she was trying more to brag about it considering how she told me, also saying stuff like the kiss was actually good, ect ect). So OT what do you think? I'm willing to provide more details (not that kind) in the situation if needed, but I'd really need the help here.

sukraj

did she enjoy it.

Would she do it again if given the chance? horgen123

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="WiiMan21"] I'm gonna have to pass, but thanks for the sincere advice.junglist101

Obviously a threesome is the only viable option at this point but TC wants us to say that everything is cool and that it's no big deal his girlfriend kissed another girl and enjoyed it. He's in denial.

[QUOTE="horgen123"]Would she do it again if given the chance? WiiMan21

If she sounds honest I don' t see why you shouldn' t trust her. Unless she has showed similar behavior in the past.

[QUOTE="horgen123"]Would she do it again if given the chance? WiiMan21

I have the same message on my opinions regarding your relationship, and GreekGameManiac.

Get out.

Maybe just write this one off. Girls do that at parties when grog is involved.

But be weary if you're already having problems 2 months in!

Time for a new girl, me thinks.

biggest_loser

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"][QUOTE="horgen123"]Would she do it again if given the chance? muller39

i wouldn't be cool with my girl kissing another girl, its yo call TC

[QUOTE="WiiMan21"]

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]Has she dated girls in the past?chaoscougar1

Edit: Sorry if that question had to do with the title, I suppose it could have been just kissed a girl instead of another girl but I thought it would provoke some silly replies regarding a certain song from Katy Perry.

how I feel. or tell her next time you wanna watch, honestly would like to be in your position right about now TC