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[QUOTE="LordQuorthon"]The drinking thing, however, can be dangerous, depending on what that "... quite a bit" part means.worlock77Can be, but isn't necessarily. Nor does drinking alot, in and of itself, mean that someone is an alcoholic. I think it is determined by how often you drink a lot
Tell her that you don't feel comfortable with it and you see it as cheating and ask her not to do it again.HybridPhoenixOr this. We're all different, and have different boundaries we won't cross. Some people think kissing is nothing, others seem to deem it a serious breach of trust. Personally, I think there's a huge difference between kissing another girl over a DARE and kissing another man because she can't keep it in her pants.
well, honestly i think she wouldn't have told you if she cared that much about how you'd feel about it. i don't see why would she have to tell you about an experience that didn't mean anything by itself ( considering that she'd been dared to do so) unless she wanted to use it as a trigger.
And they've been dating for two months. Calling it now, TC's in eleventh grade.well, honestly i think she wouldn't have told you if she cared that much about you'd feel about it. i don't see why would she have to tell you about an experience that didn't mean anything by itself ( considering that she'd been dared to do so) unless she wanted to use it as a trigger.
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[QUOTE="Socialist696"]Your gf sounds like she sucks. Just break up with her and get it over with while you still have some pride left. What kind of message does it send when all your peers know you are a cuckold?InEMplease
Yeah, don't even risk that threesome! You have more pride than that!
Lol
That's awesome! I would encourage that kind of behavior, sets the ground work for certain.... Oppertunities. ;)
[QUOTE="worlock77"][QUOTE="LordQuorthon"]The drinking thing, however, can be dangerous, depending on what that "... quite a bit" part means.TrainerCelesteCan be, but isn't necessarily. Nor does drinking alot, in and of itself, mean that someone is an alcoholic. I think it is determined by how often you drink a lot No, it isn't. It's not a question of quantity or frequency, it's a question of dependancy. A person can drink every day and still not be addicted to alcohol, sill be able to function just fine without it, not feel like they need that drink. Conversly an addict can go for years without a drop and still be addicted to it. That's why there's no such thing as an ex-alcoholic. Even if they've gone 25 years without. That first drink can, and usually will, send them sliding back into dependancy.
I wish i had a bisexual girlfriend :(Chicken453All of my ex's are bisexual. :P Well, except 1. but we was really young... im talking about like, kindergarden young. :lol:
[QUOTE="HybridPhoenix"]Tell her that you don't feel comfortable with it and you see it as cheating and ask her not to do it again.chrisrooROr this. We're all different, and have different boundaries we won't cross. Some people think kissing is nothing, others seem to deem it a serious breach of trust. Personally, I think there's a huge difference between kissing another girl over a DARE and kissing another man because she can't keep it in her pants. I consider it cheat if I cant have sex with the girl she kissed, or if the girl is ugly by my standards.
[QUOTE="Chicken453"]I wish i had a bisexual girlfriend :(codymcclain14All of my ex's are bisexual. :P Well, except 1. but we was really young... im talking about like, kindergarden young. :lol: Got kissed in the fingerpainting line myself. Scarred for life.
How come you're not down with lesbians? Ask her to watch, or even better, join in. Pvssy.
something someone on ot probably said
[QUOTE="chrisrooR"][QUOTE="HybridPhoenix"]Tell her that you don't feel comfortable with it and you see it as cheating and ask her not to do it again.FightingfanOr this. We're all different, and have different boundaries we won't cross. Some people think kissing is nothing, others seem to deem it a serious breach of trust. Personally, I think there's a huge difference between kissing another girl over a DARE and kissing another man because she can't keep it in her pants. I consider it cheat if I cant have sex with the girl she kissed, or if the girl is ugly by my standards. Like you have standards
[QUOTE="Chicken453"]I wish i had a bisexual girlfriend :(ShadowsDemonSo you can do "new" things? :P My ex said she was in love with her friend (female) in highschool.......
The fvck is on that girls head?TC stop being weird and have her bring her friend over. See not so bad is it ??
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[QUOTE="no-scope-AK47"]The fvck is on that girls head? I am a hair weave killer I would show you the rest of the pics but they XXX ratedTC stop being weird and have her bring her friend over. See not so bad is it ??
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The fvck is on that girls head? I am a hair weave killer I would show you the rest of the pics but they XXX rated Please Keep them all to yourself[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="no-scope-AK47"]
TC stop being weird and have her bring her friend over. See not so bad is it ??
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In my opinion, the action isn't bad. Although, it depends on the circumstances of the kiss. If she is somewhat into girls, then I would be a little frustrated. If it was a random one time thing, I would just shrug it off, although talk to her about it and let her know you don't like it. If she is into girls, well then I guess you'll have to make up your mind from there on out. I think I did read that she has only dated guys though, so maybe it was a random one time thing. I would try to figure out all of what happened before I tripped about it. Although if you only been dating for two months and she is kind of trippin you out already, maybe you should just end it and move on. There are girls out there that will act without thinking of you, think about you before every act, and a number of other types ha. Just find the one that suits you.ChrispyChrisyou guy is funny! a lot of red though! :)
[QUOTE="no-scope-AK47"]I am a hair weave killer I would show you the rest of the pics but they XXX rated Please Keep them all to yourselfHere bro you need some dip[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] The fvck is on that girls head?chaoscougar1
Please Keep them all to yourselfHere bro you need some dip Cheers[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="no-scope-AK47"] I am a hair weave killer I would show you the rest of the pics but they XXX rated
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She kissed a girl, did she liked it? This is the real QUESTION OT SHOULD BE ASKING. :PBloodseeker23You actually went there...
You actually went there...He should just invite the woman over and see what happens with some drinks of course. Not many things better in life than two women and one pole ya dig[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]She kissed a girl, did she liked it? This is the real QUESTION OT SHOULD BE ASKING. :Pchilly-chill
You actually went there...He should just invite the woman over and see what happens with some drinks of course. Not many things better in life than two women and one pole ya dig Of course I went there, y'all too serious in this thread. I was looking for lulz man :([QUOTE="chilly-chill"]
[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]She kissed a girl, did she liked it? This is the real QUESTION OT SHOULD BE ASKING. :Pno-scope-AK47
[QUOTE="no-scope-AK47"]He should just invite the woman over and see what happens with some drinks of course. Not many things better in life than two women and one pole ya dig Of course I went there, y'all too serious in this thread. I was looking for lulz man :( These guys act like the world is going to end if a woman leaves them. Now unless it is your wife then you should not worry about it too much.[QUOTE="chilly-chill"] You actually went there...
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Ehhh, I feel you, TC. I wouldn't be OK with that either. Just let her know you don't like it. There's nothing else you can do.
Sometimes people just feel the need to experience something, rather than give up on it.
Maybe she has wanted to see what it's like, and finally had the chance?
A two month relationship is hardly long enough for her to give up on something she's wanted to try...
BUT, you two seem rather mismatched.
>One of the reasons being that she clearly didn't put my feelings into play
>she was being honest and actually told me (though I felt she was trying more to brag about it considering how she told me, also saying stuff like the kiss was actually good, ect ect)
She's playing with you. I doubt she means any harm in it -beyond getting you a little riled up- but you don't seem to be taking it that way. I would suggest you either loosen up & relax more around this person, so you can see this whole thing for what it is: a fun little experiment/game.
Or break up with them.
It doesn't sound like you can handle her, if you get so worked up over something like this.
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