So one of my friend canceled on me earlier today, I'm dissapointed

What happened was my friend (a girl) and I was suppose to goto the city and have dinner. It'd pretty much be our first date, we talked for about a month. I'm from new york city Queens by the way. I was looking forward to taking her out and having a good time. Her excuse for canceling according to her was that it was going to rain heavily around 9pm in which it didn't. The forecast said it was like a 60% chance of rain. I was excited ever since we planned to hang out, like for about a week. I ended up just staying home today miserable on my bed. Has something like this ever happened to you?

cool story bro.

Blames it on the rain? :roll: She didn't want to go out.

Blames it on the rain? :roll: She didn't want to go out.

Rekunta

she said like she didn't want me to get hurt, like i'd get into an accident or whatever in the rain. That might have been a lie, maybe it was something else like the rain would ruin her hair or whatever. Just sucks when someone makes a plan with you and cancels

Well, she sticked with the maths and the probability of rain ruining your first date... it's not her fault the forecast was not accurate. At least that's what I would want to believe...

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Blames it on the rain? :roll: She didn't want to go out.

LegitGamer3212

she said like she didn't want me to get hurt, like i'd get into an accident or whatever in the rain. That might have been a lie, maybe it was something else like the rain would ruin her hair or whatever. Just sucks when someone makes a plan with you and cancels

Yea it sucks. Sorry to hear about it, but using rain as an excuse when it's not even raining means she's looking for a reason not to go. Sucks to hear I know, but I'm fairly sure she just didn't want to hang out. Maybe it's not you, maybe she had a bad day or something and didn't feel like being honest, who knows. Try to reschedule, if she does it again it's a sure sign she's not interested.

Maybe she had another more embarrassing reason or she doesn't want to date you. Your choice.

when you make an important plan with someone your suppose to do it no matter what unless an emergency occurs.

I've been cancelled on many a time, usually when I'm there already. I just get lunch, buy a CD or game and leave.

I've been cancelled on many a time, usually when I'm there already. I just get lunch, buy a CD or game and leave.

StripTheSoul

and your not mad? if someone made a plan with me like meet me in the city, i go there, and he/she is not there i'd be mad maybe not talking to them for awhile

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I've been cancelled on many a time, usually when I'm there already. I just get lunch, buy a CD or game and leave.

LegitGamer3212

and your not mad? if someone made a plan with me like meet me in the city, i go there, and he/she is not there i'd be mad maybe not talking to them for awhile

Yeah, try to ask her out again. She might have just gotten cold feet, or had some embarassing reason she couldn't go. It's okay to give her the benefit of the doubt once, but if she gives you any trouble about the second date, I'd say forget about her - ideally, by sleeping with her friends. :twisted:

Yeah, try to ask her out again. She might have just gotten cold feet, or had some embarassing reason she couldn't go. It's okay to give her the benefit of the doubt once, but if she gives you any trouble about the second date, I'd say forget about her - ideally, by sleeping with her friends. :twisted:

JN_Fenrir

Never been canceled on before, But I was with one of my friends when he did, And I felt bad for him. It was such a lame excuse. She didnt feel good, I didnt belive it but, oh well.

I have had people cancel at the last minute, but it's no biggie. I always keep a book in the car and carry my iPhone. If it happens at the last minute I either see what my other mates are doing or just drive into a quiet street I know about a minute from my place and either read, listen to music or surf the net on my iPhone for a few hours. It's really relaxing.

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[QUOTE="StripTheSoul"]

I've been cancelled on many a time, usually when I'm there already. I just get lunch, buy a CD or game and leave.

Homiegesus

and your not mad? if someone made a plan with me like meet me in the city, i go there, and he/she is not there i'd be mad maybe not talking to them for awhile

Indeed. Sometimes, women are just bats*** crazy. Nothing you can do about it.

I once had a girl cancel on me while I was sitting in this expensive restaurant waiting for her. She claimed that all the trains and whatnot from where she lived were cancelled. That was a lie. I found out later, when I asked her out again and pressed her on it, that her real reason was one of her friends had not returned the shoes she was planning to wear, and so "her outfit was ruined", and she had some sort of freakout over it. I kid you not.

The moral of the story is just chill, ask her out again, and if she comes up with some other excuse then she's just not that into you. In which case she's not worth the hassle.