Not currently, but if my last gf got impregnated, I'd do nothing. She is pro-choice and would get an abortion. Future gf? Well, depends on if we're still in college or not, and how much I like her (close enough to love).
To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.Genetic_Code
If a man has no say at all in weather or not she has the baby, then it should be her sole responsibility to provide for it...
To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.Genetic_Code
if that is the case then it is our right to decide if we want to pay child support or not. if you keep it after i tol you to get an abortion, then its your fault, cause i would have payed for an abortion.
[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.Def_Jef88
If a man has no say at all in weather or not she has the baby, then it should be her sole responsibility to provide for it...
I've always felt that whenever I get a girlfriend, she'll be someone I'll want to be with forever anyway. Maybe that's naive or stupid but whatever. >_>
I hate all u "get an abortion" people....ADOPTION.....Never should a woman get an abortion.....When I was born, my mom was in high skool and the Dr.'s kept telling her to have me aborted....and time after time, she said NO and I was adopted......NEVER GET AN ABORTION
[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.DaBlackGuy
if that is the case then it is our right to decide if we want to pay child support or not. if you keep it after i tol you to get an abortion, then its your fault, cause i would have payed for an abortion.
It'd be the man's fault for getting her pregnant in the first place.
I would recommend an abortion and if she had one I would pay for it, if she decided to stick with the kid then I would stay with her and work and sell lots of my stuff, and stay with her and marry her.
[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.SolidSnake35
if that is the case then it is our right to decide if we want to pay child support or not. if you keep it after i tol you to get an abortion, then its your fault, cause i would have payed for an abortion.
It'd be the man's fault for getting her pregnant in the first place.Its the woman's fault for letting herself get pregnant...
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Its the woman's fault for letting herself get pregnant.. Def_Jef88
It's far easier for a man to prevent it from happening. Its easier for a man to not have sex? really? How hard is it to use a condom? I assume the effort is minimal. O_o
[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Its the woman's fault for letting herself get pregnant.. SolidSnake35
It's far easier for a man to prevent it from happening. Its easier for a man to not have sex? really? How hard is it to use a condom? I assume the effort is minimal. O_o How hard is it to use the pill? I assume the effort is minimal. O_o
i'd be pretty happy if i got my fiance pregnant. i've been trying to convince her to have a kid for the past 4 months. she refuses and i'm just hoping to slip one passed the goalie. maybe i'll replace her birth control with tic tacs.
Live up to my responsibilities. Finish my last weeks of High School, attend College Classes online, and kiss some butt to get a decent-paying job to take good care of my future wife and child.
[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]How hard is it to use the pill? I assume the effort is minimal. O_oSolidSnake35
I still think the man has the responsibility to ensure he doesn't get the woman pregnant. ^_^ No, they BOTH made the decision to have un-protected, consensual sex. It was BOTH of their faults. Its BOTH of theirs baby. And they BOTH should have a say. Telling a man he has no say in his child but is still responsible for it is like telling a person they have to pay taxes but they cant vote. And the American colonist weren't very happy about that.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Its the woman's fault for letting herself get pregnant.. kittykatz5k
It's far easier for a man to prevent it from happening.
Are we talking about rape here or sex? You sound like the pregnancy you're talking about is forced.
I'm assuming the pregnancy is accidental and then saying that it's the fault of the man for letting it happen. Where does rape factor in? Would I really be trying to say that men who rape need more responsibility? I think they have other issues to sort out first. O_O
If I was so stupid and irresponsible as to do something like that without planning for it, I would surpass my own idiocy and raise the child.
Or, if I was simply incapable of doing so in any circumstance, I would put it up for adoption, even if I had to put it in a picnic basket on someone's front stoop.
I would not consider abortion for a second, unless my girlfriend would be killed by the birth, in which case I would just have to live with the regret for the rest of my life.
If I was so stupid and irresponsible as to do something like that, I would surpass my own idiocy and raise the child.
Or, if I was simply incapable of doing so in any circumstance, I would put it up for adoption, even if I had to put it in a picnic basket on someone's front stoop.
Dracargen
Hope its not my doorstep. Id feed it to the coyotes... ;)
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Its the woman's fault for letting herself get pregnant.. SolidSnake35
It's far easier for a man to prevent it from happening.
Are we talking about rape here or sex? You sound like the pregnancy you're talking about is forced.
I'm assuming the pregnancy is accidental and then saying that it's the fault of the man for letting it happen. Where does rape factor in? Would I really be trying to say that men who rape need more responsibility? I think they have other issues to sort out first. O_O
Both the man and the women have equal opritunities to protect themselves. To say it's one or the others fault makes no sense unless we're talking about rape or something. Dodging blame like that is why I hate poeple being a pain about womens rights! They have their damn rights now they better act as the equals they are.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]How hard is it to use the pill? I assume the effort is minimal. O_oDef_Jef88
I still think the man has the responsibility to ensure he doesn't get the woman pregnant. ^_^ No, they BOTH made the decision to have un-protected, consensual sex. It was BOTH of their faults. Its BOTH of theirs baby. And they BOTH should have a say. Telling a man he has no say in his child but is still responsible for it is like telling a person they have to pay taxes but they cant vote. And the American colonist weren't very happy about that. If I made such a stupid decision, I'd feel I had no right to a say in anything. Maybe she shouldn't either but she's the one with the baby... so tough.
[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]How hard is it to use the pill? I assume the effort is minimal. O_oSolidSnake35
I still think the man has the responsibility to ensure he doesn't get the woman pregnant. ^_^ No, they BOTH made the decision to have un-protected, consensual sex. It was BOTH of their faults. Its BOTH of theirs baby. And they BOTH should have a say. Telling a man he has no say in his child but is still responsible for it is like telling a person they have to pay taxes but they cant vote. And the American colonist weren't very happy about that. If I made such a stupid decision, I'd feel I had no right to a say in anything. Maybe she shouldn't either but she's the one with the baby... so tough.Yeah, lets start dodging the point. Or perhaps you finally realized that you aren't making any logical sense. Its just as much her fault, fact. I really don't care what you think...
Both the man and the women have equal opritunities to protect themselves. To say it's one or the others fault makes no sense unless we're talking about rape or something. Dodging blame like that is why I hate poeple being a pain about womens rights! They have their damn rights now they better act as the equals they are.kittykatz5k
You're trying to shift the blame from the man to woman. If you make such a stupid mistake, you get no say in anything. You're a moron and I have no sympathy for you. You accept that she's pregnant and it's her decision. She has the child; not you.
[QUOTE="kittykatz5k"]Both the man and the women have equal opritunities to protect themselves. To say it's one or the others fault makes no sense unless we're talking about rape or something. Dodging blame like that is why I hate poeple being a pain about womens rights! They have their damn rights now they better act as the equals they are.SolidSnake35
You're trying to shift the blame from the man to woman. If you make such a stupid mistake, you get no say in anything. You're a moron and I have no sympathy for you. You accept that she's pregnant and it's her decision. She has the child; not you.He's not shifting the blame, he's blaming both the man and the woman. It takes two to have unprotected sex.
[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]To all the people that are saying that they would tell their girlfriend to get an abortion, please consider that that right belongs to them and is ultimately their decision whether or not to have a baby regardless of whether you like it or not.SolidSnake35
if that is the case then it is our right to decide if we want to pay child support or not. if you keep it after i tol you to get an abortion, then its your fault, cause i would have payed for an abortion.
It'd be the man's fault for getting her pregnant in the first place.
By saying it's the man's fault for getting her pregnant then you are saying it is the man's 'choice' that she got pregnant. if it's the man's choice/fault for getting her pregnant then he should also get a say in whether or not the woman gets an abortion, the baby get's put up for adoption, or kept. It's not fair to say it's the man's fault but the woman's decision.
Yeah, lets start dodging the point. Or perhaps you finally realized that you aren't making any logical sense. Its just as much her fault, fact. I really don't care what you think... Def_Jef88
Like I'm not making sense. My points are pretty obvious. She has the baby; you gave her it. O_O
[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Yeah, lets start dodging the point. Or perhaps you finally realized that you aren't making any logical sense. Its just as much her fault, fact. I really don't care what you think... SolidSnake35
Like I'm not making sense. My points are pretty obvious. She has the baby; you gave her it. O_O You arent making any sense, at all. You refuse the man any say in what happens to the baby, but its still his responsibility. Even more stupid, you practically said its the guys fault for making the baby. Last I checked bro, It takes two people to make a baby. If you wanna use any sort of logic, Id start trying now...
My girlfriend and I actually once thought she was pregnant. We always said before then that we would get her an abortion if that happened. However, when we thought she really was pregnant we pulled a 180 and we were both ready to accept responsibility.
She got her period the day we were gonna tell her parents :lol:
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Def_Jef88"]Yeah, lets start dodging the point. Or perhaps you finally realized that you aren't making any logical sense. Its just as much her fault, fact. I really don't care what you think... Def_Jef88
Like I'm not making sense. My points are pretty obvious. She has the baby; you gave her it. O_O You arent making any sense, at all. You refuse the man any say in what happens to the baby, but its still his responsibility. Even more stupid, you practically said its the guys fault for making the baby. Last I checked bro, It takes two people to make a baby. If you wanna use any sort of logic, Id start trying now... If I'm making such little sense then you're doing a pretty crap job of arguing for the other side. Fact is, the woman has the baby and it's her decision of she wants to give birth to it or not. If she wants to keep it, what kind of person would feel they had the right kill something inside of her, after he just made such a stupid mistake? It doesn't matter if she made a mistake too, because she's the one with the child.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="marcus4hire"]It's not fair to say it's the man's fault but the woman's decision.Def_Jef88
The woman is carrying the child. It's her choice if both are as stupid as each other. Okay, but shes carrying it, so its not the mans problem... Once she's decided on keeping it, both are then responsible for their mistakes.
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