lol at people trying to question my "manhood". Seriously, throwing insults over the internet, you're really owning me aren't you? I just think it's odd the way you make it seem like women are just something for you to show off.
I think that this trend in media is sickening. I would not let my daughter dress like that at all, at any age. She would be my little baby, no matter how old she got, and little girls shouldn't dress like harlots.
[QUOTE="Shalashaska77"][QUOTE="freeze893"]The US and Britain are those two drunk friends in the bar that are constantly failing at getting laid.freeze893
[QUOTE="Shalashaska77"][QUOTE="freeze893"]The US and Britain are those two drunk friends in the bar that are constantly failing at getting laid.freeze893
what? Don't question me. I didnt quite understand what u were trying to say
It's funny. There are girls in sixth grade who already dress too provocative for their own good. They even talk about phone sex. :| Black lacy underwear? For nine-year-olds? 'Tis sad... Before you know it, they'll be making thongs for eight-year-olds. My, what a wonderful world ours have developed (sarcasm).ayanami_rei
Ive got 2 girls. Now they are both not old enough to know whats what yet, but my oldest sure is picking things up fast...she says a few cuss words (THANKS TO HER DADDY *growls*) and says them at times that they usually would be used. Now, IF she picks up things from that fashion 'trend' and wants to wear such ...er...revealing outfits or skanky clothes...that is where it is my JOB, as a PARENT to step in and say NO. ....Its not like shes going out buying the clothes herself, yanno? It'd be my credit card, and that is just NOT going to happen. I'm not saying she cant wear clothes she likes...they just have to cover her up. Thats what clothes are for...especially at that age. And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week. o_o that would be one week of PURE HELL for her -even if before hand she lovvied her nana and thought nana would do anything for her :D. And...if...god forbid...nana isnt around to do that....I have my own tricks up my sleeve.
Ive got 2 girls. Now they are both not old enough to know whats what yet, but my oldest sure is picking things up fast...she says a few cuss words (THANKS TO HER DADDY *growls*) and says them at times that they usually would be used. Now, IF she picks up things from that fashion 'trend' and wants to wear such ...er...revealing outfits or skanky clothes...that is where it is my JOB, as a PARENT to step in and say NO. ....Its not like shes going out buying the clothes herself, yanno? It'd be my credit card, and that is just NOT going to happen. I'm not saying she cant wear clothes she likes...they just have to cover her up. Thats what clothes are for...especially at that age. And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week. o_o that would be one week of PURE HELL for her -even if before hand she lovvied her nana and thought nana would do anything for her :D. And...if...god forbid...nana isnt around to do that....I have my own tricks up my sleeve.xhellcatx
Using CAPITAL words always helps to convey a sense of EMOTION.... :D
And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.xhellcatx
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.-Karayan-
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :? completely disgusting. My best friends little sister was talking about it like two years ago and she was just 14. I was like :o NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Her sister and I (I am considered a part of their family :oops: ) sat down with her and had a 'grown up' chat about how big of a mistake it is....(come to find out she did do it and she was a bit scared she was pregnant....so we brought 'mom into the discussion - but kim and i kept mom in check so we could REALLY work things out...and kim and i took her for testing and everything. Thankfully she wasnt pregnant, nor did she contract any stds *wipes forehead*)
HOWEVERS....not all of these mind sets are brought on by the media....unfortunatly, if the child gets molested or sexually abused..or heck any kind of abuse can spurr the concept of sex as a show of positive emotion and reinforcement for them. They look to it as a way to be shown what 'real love' is....or at least so they have been brainwashed into believing. Its very sad but thats truely the case sometimes.
[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]Ive got 2 girls. Now they are both not old enough to know whats what yet, but my oldest sure is picking things up fast...she says a few cuss words (THANKS TO HER DADDY *growls*) and says them at times that they usually would be used. Now, IF she picks up things from that fashion 'trend' and wants to wear such ...er...revealing outfits or skanky clothes...that is where it is my JOB, as a PARENT to step in and say NO. ....Its not like shes going out buying the clothes herself, yanno? It'd be my credit card, and that is just NOT going to happen. I'm not saying she cant wear clothes she likes...they just have to cover her up. Thats what clothes are for...especially at that age. And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week. o_o that would be one week of PURE HELL for her -even if before hand she lovvied her nana and thought nana would do anything for her :D. And...if...god forbid...nana isnt around to do that....I have my own tricks up my sleeve.Shalashaska77
Using CAPITAL words always helps to convey a sense of EMOTION.... :D :p i LIKE my capital words. Got a problem with that? :p
[QUOTE="Shalashaska77"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]Ive got 2 girls. Now they are both not old enough to know whats what yet, but my oldest sure is picking things up fast...she says a few cuss words (THANKS TO HER DADDY *growls*) and says them at times that they usually would be used. Now, IF she picks up things from that fashion 'trend' and wants to wear such ...er...revealing outfits or skanky clothes...that is where it is my JOB, as a PARENT to step in and say NO. ....Its not like shes going out buying the clothes herself, yanno? It'd be my credit card, and that is just NOT going to happen. I'm not saying she cant wear clothes she likes...they just have to cover her up. Thats what clothes are for...especially at that age. And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week. o_o that would be one week of PURE HELL for her -even if before hand she lovvied her nana and thought nana would do anything for her :D. And...if...god forbid...nana isnt around to do that....I have my own tricks up my sleeve.xhellcatx
Using CAPITAL words always helps to convey a sense of EMOTION.... :D :p i LIKE my capital words. Got a problem with that? :p NO, I like using CAPITAL words also. THEY are so FUN.
[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.-Karayan-
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.xhellcatx
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :? completely disgusting. My best friends little sister was talking about it like two years ago and she was just 14. I was like :o NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Her sister and I (I am considered a part of their family :oops: ) sat down with her and had a 'grown up' chat about how big of a mistake it is....(come to find out she did do it and she was a bit scared she was pregnant....so we brought 'mom into the discussion - but kim and i kept mom in check so we could REALLY work things out...and kim and i took her for testing and everything. Thankfully she wasnt pregnant, nor did she contract any stds *wipes forehead*)
HOWEVERS....not all of these mind sets are brought on by the media....unfortunatly, if the child gets molested or sexually abused..or heck any kind of abuse can spurr the concept of sex as a show of positive emotion and reinforcement for them. They look to it as a way to be shown what 'real love' is....or at least so they have been brainwashed into believing. Its very sad but thats truely the case sometimes.
My brother had a thirteen year old pregnant classmate years ago, it makes you really think that society has become ****ed up, your acquaintance came off (no pun intended) lucky then, it's so easy to get pregnant if you don't want to (and sometimes so hard if you do). It's not just media, but also the living environment, it's seen as normal for such young kids to be thinking about sex, that's what has to change. Of course there are always the unlucky ones, but they don't make an actual impact on society overall, (apart from the friends and families of the ones involved). Maybe there should be such a thing as "love ed", that sounds like a Christian moral thing, but even as an atheist I'm easily disgusted by the way people think about sex these days.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.MrGeezer
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.-Karayan-
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.MrGeezer
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently. We're preserving ourselves outside of the laws of nature. Or would you go take off your clothes and live in the middle of a jungle with no material possessions? Truth is, we are animals, but we're also humans, we have evolved psychologically and society wise.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.-Karayan-
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently. We're preserving ourselves outside of the laws of nature. Or would you go take off your clothes and live in the middle of a jungle with no material possessions? Truth is, we are animals, but we're also humans, we have evolved psychologically and society wise.
If I were to visit one of the many currently existing societies where it is customary to live naked in the jungle with no material possessions, you bet I would.
The thing is that societal evolution takes many different paths. Some paths lead towards shame in one's sexuality. In other societies, they are accepting of sexuality. Some societies make religion into law, some societies legalize the use of drugs, and some societies abolish capital punishment.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.MrGeezer
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently. We're preserving ourselves outside of the laws of nature. Or would you go take off your clothes and live in the middle of a jungle with no material possessions? Truth is, we are animals, but we're also humans, we have evolved psychologically and society wise.
If I were to visit one of the many currently existing societies where it is customary to live naked in the jungle with no material possessions, you bet I would.
The thing is that societal evolution takes many different paths. Some paths lead towards shame in one's sexuality. In other societies, they are accepting of sexuality. Some societies make religion into law, some societies legalize the use of drugs, and some societies abolish capital punishment. So? I don't think people can enjoy sex as deeply if they just go around ****ing each other. And at a young enough age it'll damage them mentally, not to mention the fact that young children easily suffer peer pressure, especially by those of the same age.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.-Karayan-
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently. We're preserving ourselves outside of the laws of nature. Or would you go take off your clothes and live in the middle of a jungle with no material possessions? Truth is, we are animals, but we're also humans, we have evolved psychologically and society wise.
If I were to visit one of the many currently existing societies where it is customary to live naked in the jungle with no material possessions, you bet I would.
The thing is that societal evolution takes many different paths. Some paths lead towards shame in one's sexuality. In other societies, they are accepting of sexuality. Some societies make religion into law, some societies legalize the use of drugs, and some societies abolish capital punishment. So? I don't think people can enjoy sex as deeply if they just go around ****ing each other. And at a young enough age it'll damage them mentally, not to mention the fact that young children are highly influential, especially by those of the same age.
Is that because there's something inherently wrong with having sex at such a young age, or is it because our society doesn't place a priority on making kids' emotional development keep up to pace with their physical development?
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.MrGeezer
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently. We're preserving ourselves outside of the laws of nature. Or would you go take off your clothes and live in the middle of a jungle with no material possessions? Truth is, we are animals, but we're also humans, we have evolved psychologically and society wise.
If I were to visit one of the many currently existing societies where it is customary to live naked in the jungle with no material possessions, you bet I would.
The thing is that societal evolution takes many different paths. Some paths lead towards shame in one's sexuality. In other societies, they are accepting of sexuality. Some societies make religion into law, some societies legalize the use of drugs, and some societies abolish capital punishment. So? I don't think people can enjoy sex as deeply if they just go around ****ing each other. And at a young enough age it'll damage them mentally, not to mention the fact that young children are highly influential, especially by those of the same age.
Is that because there's something inherently wrong with having sex at such a young age, or is it because our society doesn't place a priority on making kids' emotional development keep up to pace with their physical development?
The latter, though it's not our societies fault, it has just naturally become so. And may I remind you that in the wild apes do not have sex in pubescent years? Mainly because there will be one alpha male getting all the sex, and the younger ones may challenge him but will never overthrow them until they are fully grown. However we don't have that restriction anymore.
[QUOTE="-911-"][QUOTE="Mercury88"]Britain is going through a tough time at the moment....this is just another thing to add to a long list of proplems.Mercury88
looks like the U.S. isn't the only one with many problems with it, no wonder were friends. seems that way doesn't it.
[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.MrGeezer
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently.
Maybe for males, females may be able to get pregnant, but they shouldn't. In some places in Africa it is the majority to marry 12 year old girls and make them have their babies. Most of the babies are stillborn and the poor girl has problems for the rest of her life, and the middle-aged man leaves her because her bladder is leaking.
Are you still going to say kids can have sex without problems?
Real psychological damage comes from family, not society, and it's absolutely terrible when it does. The only girl that I'm certain is truly mentally disturbed, it's all her family basically.
Real psychological damage comes from family, not society, and it's absolutely terrible when it does. The only girl that I'm certain is truly mentally disturbed, it's all her family basically.quiglythegreat
[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]Real psychological damage comes from family, not society, and it's absolutely terrible when it does. The only girl that I'm certain is truly mentally disturbed, it's all her family basically.sexy-hippo
I agree completely... Could you explain it to me? If you have a whole family telling you you're fat and worth nothing, then you'll eventually believe it.
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]Real psychological damage comes from family, not society, and it's absolutely terrible when it does. The only girl that I'm certain is truly mentally disturbed, it's all her family basically.quiglythegreat
I agree completely... Could you explain it to me? If you have a whole family telling you you're fat and worth nothing, then you'll eventually believe it.
[QUOTE="teh_forbidden"]I know exactly what the article is talking about. I was walking and I saw a girl who looked no older than 10 with a shirt that said, "I faked it" or something along those lines.SymphonicWaves
[QUOTE="SymphonicWaves"][QUOTE="teh_forbidden"]I know exactly what the article is talking about. I was walking and I saw a girl who looked no older than 10 with a shirt that said, "I faked it" or something along those lines.Kikouken
Pedotastic. Oh wow dude that's gross. Pedo'd out. (Not you) I wonder if she smells like berries?
 Well, what do you expect? All of their role models are slutty whores. According to television and  if she's not a sexy hot slut with a huge can and jugs she's a loser.
 It's kind of the same for guys. According to the media and television men must be millionaires with a huge house, a fancy car and a crew of lackys or he is a complete loser.
 That's what television and the tabloids are all about. Selling fantasy, image and merchandise. They tell people what's cool and what they need,through brainwashing. Of course television is all about making money. Why else is their commercials every seven minutes? All radio time slots, television time slots and magazines are sponsored through commercials.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]And if I find out my daughter is even THINKING of sex at 11 or 12 shes going to go visit her grandmother for a week.sexy-hippo
It's disgusting the young age at which people have sex, it completely negates any sense of love that is involved in the act. The other day some 15 year old girl said she'd give me a blow job if I bought here booze... :?
You know, for more than 99% of the time we've been around, humans have pretty much been having sex as soon as they reach puberty. For a long time people have had masters over them, have been born into submittance or other bad things. Tradition doesn't equal good.
There's also a difference between tradition and human biology.
Current tradition says that 12 is too young to have sex. NATURE says differently.
Maybe for males, females may be able to get pregnant, but they shouldn't. In some places in Africa it is the majority to marry 12 year old girls and make them have their babies. Most of the babies are stillborn and the poor girl has problems for the rest of her life, and the middle-aged man leaves her because her bladder is leaking.
Are you still going to say kids can have sex without problems?
1) Considering that sex does not equate to pregnancy, yes.
2) Considering that our society expects females to abstain from sex for as long as is reasonably possible, absolutely not.
[QUOTE="daniel52587"]I know this already. And I will never let my young daughter wear some of the stuff I have seen parents let their children wear. It baffles me. What in the hell are they thinking.SymphonicWaves
Your daughter will be wearing a thong before you know it.
at the rate things are going kids probably going to be born with a thong:|
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