Tips for how to procede with this girl I know?

So I knew this girl for awhile (we are juniors in high school now) but last year we started to talk a lot in class and got to know each other really well, and though I had some desire to actually start a romantic relationship, she seemed to show no mutual interest, and so I was content to just remain friends. It surprised me then, when a few months later, she asked me on a date. It went well enough, and we were still talking the next week, but one day I sat at a table with her and some of her friends during class, and was basicaly ignored. I took this as a hint, and so I gave up on any relationship we might have, but it became really awkward after that and we havnt talked since. (It was me who really screwed up here, because I didnt know what to do and so I just cut all ties like a idiot). Its been well over six months now, and I miss her as a friend, but I dont see how I can re-establish contact. I still like her, but I realize that that probably wont go anywhere now. Should I just talk to her upfront and work out our past issues, or slowly try to start over again?robertstory1

[QUOTE="robertstory1"]So I knew this girl for awhile (we are juniors in high school now) but last year we started to talk a lot in class and got to know each other really well, and though I had some desire to actually start a romantic relationship, she seemed to show no mutual interest, and so I was content to just remain friends. It surprised me then, when a few months later, she asked me on a date. It went well enough, and we were still talking the next week, but one day I sat at a table with her and some of her friends during class, and was basicaly ignored. I took this as a hint, and so I gave up on any relationship we might have, but it became really awkward after that and we havnt talked since. (It was me who really screwed up here, because I didnt know what to do and so I just cut all ties like a idiot). Its been well over six months now, and I miss her as a friend, but I dont see how I can re-establish contact. I still like her, but I realize that that probably wont go anywhere now. Should I just talk to her upfront and work out our past issues, or slowly try to start over again?Wolfetan

[QUOTE="Wolfetan"][QUOTE="robertstory1"]So I knew this girl for awhile (we are juniors in high school now) but last year we started to talk a lot in class and got to know each other really well, and though I had some desire to actually start a romantic relationship, she seemed to show no mutual interest, and so I was content to just remain friends. It surprised me then, when a few months later, she asked me on a date. It went well enough, and we were still talking the next week, but one day I sat at a table with her and some of her friends during class, and was basicaly ignored. I took this as a hint, and so I gave up on any relationship we might have, but it became really awkward after that and we havnt talked since. (It was me who really screwed up here, because I didnt know what to do and so I just cut all ties like a idiot). Its been well over six months now, and I miss her as a friend, but I dont see how I can re-establish contact. I still like her, but I realize that that probably wont go anywhere now. Should I just talk to her upfront and work out our past issues, or slowly try to start over again?SolidSnake35

[QUOTE="Wolfetan"][QUOTE="robertstory1"]So I knew this girl for awhile (we are juniors in high school now) but last year we started to talk a lot in class and got to know each other really well, and though I had some desire to actually start a romantic relationship, she seemed to show no mutual interest, and so I was content to just remain friends. It surprised me then, when a few months later, she asked me on a date. It went well enough, and we were still talking the next week, but one day I sat at a table with her and some of her friends during class, and was basicaly ignored. I took this as a hint, and so I gave up on any relationship we might have, but it became really awkward after that and we havnt talked since. (It was me who really screwed up here, because I didnt know what to do and so I just cut all ties like a idiot). Its been well over six months now, and I miss her as a friend, but I dont see how I can re-establish contact. I still like her, but I realize that that probably wont go anywhere now. Should I just talk to her upfront and work out our past issues, or slowly try to start over again?SolidSnake35

Wow guys way to be a**holes.

anyway, I dunno man. It sounds like you just have a confidence issue. Would have been a hell of a lot easier if you had been the one to ask her out, imo, so at this point you should recitfy your situation by being the assertive one this time around. Good luck.

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Wolfetan"] Just ask her on a date.. She can say yes, or reject you, thats the worst thats going to happen.robertstory1

give her your half-eaten Big Mac.

bitches love half-eaten Big Macs

considering that your first post was making this thread; I dunno why I should take this seriously.
Why come here for girl advice?

oh, that might be why.

Call her or send her a text. If that doesn't work, it's obvi she wants nothing to do with you.

Just ask her on a date.. She can say yes, or reject you, thats the worst thats going to happen.Wolfetan

Don't ask, that's weak. Get her to laugh a few times, grab her hand and say "Let's go get a bite to eat" and start walking.

Thought you guys were friends? Thought you guys knew each other? What's the problem? Just talk to her like you would a friend. The only difference is that you hint here and there that you are interested--because you are. Depending on how she reacts to your flirts, you'll know. If you don't, then pretty much like the other guy said, just be upfront--at least this way you'll know what you want to know and gain a learning experience on what her reactions were to your flirts, whether it was good or bad. We all start somewhere.

Why did you both let 6 months pass like that?

Anyway if you really like her just approach her next time and initiate conversation. Like "hey we got lost lately" or sth.

So I knew this girl for awhile (we are juniors in high school now) but last year we started to talk a lot in class and got to know each other really well, and though I had some desire to actually start a romantic relationship, she seemed to show no mutual interest, and so I was content to just remain friends. It surprised me then, when a few months later, she asked me on a date. It went well enough, and we were still talking the next week, but one day I sat at a table with her and some of her friends during class, and was basicaly ignored.I took this as a hint, and so I gave up on any relationship we might have, but it became really awkward after that and we havnt talked since. (It was me who really screwed up here, because I didnt know what to do and so I just cut all ties like a idiot). Its been well over six months now, and I miss her as a friend, but I dont see how I can re-establish contact. I still like her, but I realize that that probably wont go anywhere now. Should I just talk to her upfront and work out our past issues, or slowly try to start over again?robertstory1

i've been through this. When they ignore you when your with them its becuz they have no idea how they feel about you and they are affraid of what you have as expectations.

Good. You did the right thing.

Thats were you messed up. You backed off and let it be awkward. Im not saying you should off continue to get her to be your girldfriend, but you shouldnt have taken it as if it was all over and you had to leave. Never let things become awkward with a person (specially girls) even when it is awkward. Simply Talk to her, take her to a nice place you can sit and talk, calmly and with cool talk things out. You got to have a calmness and relax feel to you so she can feel relax enough to talk to you aswell. If she doesnt say much/opens up, well ok, you cant force her, but make sure you are honest to her and dont make feel bad. Making her feel like she messed up or did something wrong, will makie her not want to talk to you. Dont attack her, dont ask her too many questions. Always keep open converstations with her.

And never give up/walk away from your friends for silly reasons like this one. Never be the one to give up or walk away, let them be the ones to do it. Unless they specifically tell you to get way then that is the time you leave. But never let a friendship die. Dont cahse after them either but never close the door and at the very least keep things casually, cuz there might be a time when they need you, or over time they might feel more comfortable with you. Like that girl, she liked you cuz she asked you on a date but probably didnt feel comfortable yet.

There could have been a lot of reasons why she ignored you, maybe she just didn't want her friends to know there was something going on. The best thing to do is just be upfront and talk to her. It could go wrong but that won't really make a difference if you've not had contact with her for months anyway.EJ902

Buy her a PS2 game. Get her Ratchet and Clank. B*tches love Ratchet and Clank.

InEMplease

Actually that's false. B*tches love Daxter.

And his sidekick is pretty good looking too. :P

I'd ask her out on a date. It's very likely that you will be turned down, but the risk is worth the reward

[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]Just ask her on a date.. She can say yes, or reject you, thats the worst thats going to happen.br0kenrabbit

Don't ask, that's weak. Get her to laugh a few times, grab her hand and say "Let's go get a bite to eat" and start walking.

Put a condom on your right index finger and touch her shoulder. Always practice safe sex. -Tish-