ugh..girl advice

That isn't a good sign. From my experiance, that means she has lost interest. I would try to remedy that as quickly as possible(don't wait, just ask her out). right now I'm going through something similiar with a friend, she texted me everyday, she told me she didn't have a crush on me, I told her like a month before that I had a crush on her.

But after a month I got tired of feeling like I was the only one that felt something and told her I didn't have a crush on her anymore, now it's been a week and she hardly ever talks to me anymore(only when I text her). My advice is to ask her before she drifts further away. If you ask she might remember why she liked you and say yes.

ElectronicMagic

A hundred different reasons that is not related to love can crop out about her not texting.

Tell you what, just get straight to the point and ask her out.

try not asking her out directly just go to the movies with a bunch of friends and sit next to her, thats always a good first step. just take it from therelukie_pie

True - you don't want to put pressure on her. Keep it casual and cool. It seems like she digs you anyway :) I went through a similar situation, however, the girl in my situation who was cool and fun at the start got very weird...and has ignored about 4 of my texts over the past 3 months (she said she liked me, but apparently is with another guy).

Yes..I've gotten over her :P

You just need to hang out with her ASAP. Waiting isnt good with most females. Youll mess around and end up in the friend zone which seriously sucks.MellowMight

that it does, that it does......................

You know, with the way you're driving yoursefl crazy trying to interpret her feelings though texts, I really hope you don't wuss out on the last day and end up not asking her out. When you do ask her, come back to this thread and let us know how it turned out. Even if you didn't, let us know anyways, so we can flame you for failing at your mission. :)elblanquito_81

tommorows the day, i will ask her no matter what and report back to this thread

btw the next time you see her just touch her shoulder. thatll seal the deal for yablackacidevil96

lol been a while since i heard that one round these parts.

But yes i will be asking her out tommorow on the last day of school half day and will come back to this topic. I expected mostly jokes but didnt get too many, you guys rock.

so here's what went down.

I asked her today in study hall and she was like sayin all this stuff about how it was summer and we wouldnt be able to see eachother every day and stuff along those lines and said she really doesnt know if shes ready for a boyfriend now because of several reasons. She was real nice about it though which means darn i may be stuck in the friend zone but it may not be permanent like sometimes people can start to like each other given time, rmemeber, I've only known this girl a month or so.

She asked me if i was okay and i was all joking around with her haha even though i was sad i was like "no, i need you to take me to the guiadance office" haha just to mess with her but i grinned and she realized i was joking and she texted me this:

"Hey I'm really sorry, its not you but i don't think I'm up to having a boyfriend now because we are really good friends and the last boyfriend i had was the sam way and then we broke up and now he completely ignores me and we dont ever talk and i dont want that to happen to you and me where we act like complete strangersin like a month Id rather stay really good friends instead so are you okay?"

A few things i got out of that.

1- her last boyfriend is one of my best friends, however, as much as i like him, he treats girl terribly and dumps them for no reaosn when he wants to and apparently that was a bad experience for her.

2 - she said its not me, but she could be lying, I'd rather like to believe not.

3 -FRIEND ZONE, god damnit.

4 - but to look on the bright side, she texted me several times after i asked her and didnt go all jerkish and pretend i didnt exist anymore or something. And my one friend whos a girl told me that maybe she just need more time cause we have only known eachother a short time.

hey if some one texted me every day id be pissed off and not text them back, seriously man what is the big ****ing deal about not getting a message from a friend... unless her phone is ****ed which is a pretty odvious choice

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"]You know, with the way you're driving yoursefl crazy trying to interpret her feelings though texts, I really hope you don't wuss out on the last day and end up not asking her out. When you do ask her, come back to this thread and let us know how it turned out. Even if you didn't, let us know anyways, so we can flame you for failing at your mission. :)

Bauers-Twin