Was I wrong???

Why even ask? Sounds like you already made up your mind. :|

[QUOTE="Gregoroth"]

BiancaDK said it best. Tbf, it sounds as if you want attention yourself, hence this thread. Any intelligent/mature person would have been "man" enough to just be done with it all, for everyone's sake. Stringing her along too is not the thing to do. Honestly... :roll:

bigblunt537

well I just wanted opinions based on if what I did was right or wrong? and what is the best way to handle the situation. Instead I got 20 posts on my English and my maturity and 10 post saying "Break up /thread". That's not very much helpful. I would rather speak to a real friend then Gs, but everyone I know is sleeping and in my past experience forums can be a great way to get something off your chest.

You were WRONG to point the BB gun at her. Yes? To answer your other question about ending the relationship -> Just tell her. I wouldn't bend over backwards trying to let her down slowly. Obviously, you need to use common sense and be civil about it. I'm not going to go in depth about people with supposed suicidal tendancies but I was once with a girl like that. All I'll say is - she was pathetic. People like that have no idea what life is about, what they take for granted and no doubt, how easy they've got it.

Good luck.

[QUOTE="Taylor_B"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

1. You don't know anything about my intellectual level.

2. I've been trying to communicate with her for so long. I tried teaching her basic english words a high school student should know and that failed miserably. I have been with this girl for close to 2 years now. Are you telling me if you realized you were with the wrong person you would be able to take all the annoying ****?

For example the other day she called at 9am and I just woke up and said "Hi"(tired voice) she goes "Omg wtf is wrong with you lately why are you mad at me now" So I hung up. You seriously get to the point where you don't give a ****. I love her, but I'm 100% def not in love with her.

Teenaged

I have seen people talk like goofs in casual moments but their intellectuality is not evident there.

And besides I dont see how the TC's post shows he is unintelligent whatsoever.

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]Well, in all honesty, one is not obligated to always write eloquently or project some sort of quality of his/hers to prove to someone that they are smart/intelligent.

I have seen people talk like goofs in casual moments but their intellectuality is not evident there.

And besides I dont see how the TC's post shows he is unintelligent whatsoever.

BiancaDK

its not a question of grammar or general phrasing, or how one formulates ideas.

Look at his reasoning. That trancends language.

Shoot her, then she will leave.

CBR600-RR

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]Well, in all honesty, one is not obligated to always write eloquently or project some sort of quality of his/hers to prove to someone that they are smart/intelligent.

I have seen people talk like goofs in casual moments but their intellectuality is not evident there.

And besides I dont see how the TC's post shows he is unintelligent whatsoever.

HereticGamer911

its not a question of grammar or general phrasing, or how one formulates ideas.

Look at his reasoning. That trancends language.

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]Well she went to a GED practice center which prepares you for your GED and they told her she was at the level of a 7th grader. She's 18 by the way and she had many cardiac problems as a child and even required surgery twice and had to stay out of school for 2 years which after she went back to school her mother forced the school to throw her into special ed and after she graduated she was thrown into a regular high school which doesn't care about their students at all. She hass failed most of her classes from her first year of HS to now(third year) and she stills gets pushed to the next grade. Are you happy you have the full background on her now? I wasn't being immature at all. She is an amazing person and she's the most loving and caring person I ever met, BUT she lacks the things I need a girl with me to have in life. If that's immature to you then i think your the immature one and you need to grow up.Taylor_B

[QUOTE="Taylor_B"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]Well she went to a GED practice center which prepares you for your GED and they told her she was at the level of a 7th grader. She's 18 by the way and she had many cardiac problems as a child and even required surgery twice and had to stay out of school for 2 years which after she went back to school her mother forced the school to throw her into special ed and after she graduated she was thrown into a regular high school which doesn't care about their students at all. She hass failed most of her classes from her first year of HS to now(third year) and she stills gets pushed to the next grade. Are you happy you have the full background on her now? I wasn't being immature at all. She is an amazing person and she's the most loving and caring person I ever met, BUT she lacks the things I need a girl with me to have in life. If that's immature to you then i think your the immature one and you need to grow up.HereticGamer911

Heh, my brother did something similar when he had a fight with his girlfriend.

Only that she thought that the airsoft handgun was real, since he stucked it in his pants, and it was one those hard, heavy like models which gives it some realism...

Other than that I think you dont deserve a girlfriend. Ever. That was a bit messed up.

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

bigblunt537

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

bigblunt537

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

bigblunt537

[QUOTE="Taylor_B"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

1. You don't know anything about my intellectual level.

2. I've been trying to communicate with her for so long. I tried teaching her basic english words a high school student should know and that failed miserably. I have been with this girl for close to 2 years now. Are you telling me if you realized you were with the wrong person you would be able to take all the annoying ****?

For example the other day she called at 9am and I just woke up and said "Hi"(tired voice) she goes "Omg wtf is wrong with you lately why are you mad at me now" So I hung up. You seriously get to the point where you don't give a ****. I love her, but I'm 100% def not in love with her.

bigblunt537

Really? Please tell me how my post indicate where my intellectual levels fall? I believe I used correct grammar(OT is an English forum of course) and conveyed my message a very legible manner. So to claim hypocrisy is rather dumb on your part. By the way I'd love to see what you have to say about my intellectual levels.

Just ignore those girls. It's obvious that they're having a failed attempt to troll/flame. Just break up with her, theres no easy way to do it.

99% chance I will get flamed for this post

*flame shield up*

Just ignore those girls. It's obvious that they're having a failed attempt to troll/flame. Just break up withmher, theres no easy way to do it.knight0151

[QUOTE="knight0151"]Just ignore those girls. It's obvious that they're having a failed attempt to troll/flame. Just break up withmher, theres no easy way to do it.BiancaDK

Hmm, okay

(come on knight, don't argue with the trolls, or they win)

Okay, I don't know how you guys are judging his intellect by his posts, he does write them with near PERFECT spelling and grammar.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="knight0151"]Just ignore those girls. It's obvious that they're having a failed attempt to troll/flame. Just break up withmher, theres no easy way to do it.knight0151

Hmm, okay

(come on knight, don't argue with the trolls, or they win)

Okay, I don't know how you guys are judging his intellect by his posts, he does write them with near PERFECT spelling and grammar.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="knight0151"]Just ignore those girls. It's obvious that they're having a failed attempt to troll/flame. Just break up withmher, theres no easy way to do it.knight0151

Hmm, okay

(come on knight, don't argue with the trolls, or they win)

Okay, I don't know how you guys are judging his intellect by his posts, he does write them with near PERFECT spelling and grammar.

Dude, prepare to get flamed for like an hour.HereticGamer911

You obviously don´t know what it means to be "flamed".

Regardless, i´m done with this thread.

From the "Girls 101" thread.... [QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

Taylor_B

haha you're a very funny guy. You quote me on one post in that topic. Why not post my next 3 post which clearly stated I was just joking and I say that to my female friends because I love their reactions. you my friend are a troll. You are doing no different than when someone in system wars when they show a quote from a company and make the company look a lot worst then they actually are.

[QUOTE="Taylor_B"]From the "Girls 101" thread.... [QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

BiancaDK

I think he forgot to mention common sense, and the lack of it in girls.

Airsoft guns don't even hurt... at all though.

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]Well she went to a GED practice center which prepares you for your GED and they told her she was at the level of a 7th grader. She's 18 by the way and she had many cardiac problems as a child and even required surgery twice and had to stay out of school for 2 years which after she went back to school her mother forced the school to throw her into special ed and after she graduated she was thrown into a regular high school which doesn't care about their students at all. She hass failed most of her classes from her first year of HS to now(third year) and she stills gets pushed to the next grade. Are you happy you have the full background on her now? I wasn't being immature at all. She is an amazing person and she's the most loving and caring person I ever met, BUT she lacks the things I need a girl with me to have in life. If that's immature to you then i think your the immature one and you need to grow up.Taylor_B

So let me get this straight...

She was tickling you and you unloaded a bb and an airsoft gun on her? You have some serious issues. :|

So let me get this straight...

She was tickling you and you unloaded a bb and an airsoft gun on her? You have some serious issues. :|

ramboturd72

So let me get this straight...

She was tickling you and you unloaded a bb and an airsoft gun on her? You have some serious issues. :|

So let me get this straight...

She was tickling you and you unloaded a bb and an airsoft gun on her? You have some serious issues. :|

[QUOTE="ramboturd72"][QUOTE="HereticGamer911"] No, he POINTED an UNLOADED bb gun at her.HereticGamer911

Why couldn't he just dump her though? I know that would be extremely hard for that girl to handle (given the description of her), but if the relationship was that bad, he should of jumped ship right when he got annoyed instead of putting up with it for so long.

Stop saying that you're much smarter than her, she tickled you and you threatened her with a toy. She called you, wanted to know why you are angry, and you hung up on her.

Stop saying that you're much smarter than her, she tickled you and you threatened her with a toy. She called you, wanted to know why you are angry, and you hung up on her.

TSNAKE617

LOL I love the baseless assumptions. I never said I aimed an airsoft gun at her because I was angry. I aimed it at her because I told her to stop touching me for hours and she didn't listen so I aimed the toys at her and she hid under the blanket and cried lol No where did I say I went into rage and "threatened" her. I was merely trying to get her to understand no is no. Also when she called I said "hi" I wasn't angry. I just woke up and she started yelling at me like crazy. I had just woke up. I hung up on her and called her later. Big deal you would have done the same.

I'm done with this thread mod please lock... I honestly thank those that made useful contributions to my thread. I honestly don't understand the reason of coming to OT anymore. More then half of you are spelling robots and/or take every other word out of context. Again thanks to useful contributors.

[QUOTE="TSNAKE617"]

Stop saying that you're much smarter than her, she tickled you and you threatened her with a toy. She called you, wanted to know why you are angry, and you hung up on her.

bigblunt537

No where did I say I went into rage and "threatened" her.

Pointing a gun at someone is considered a threat regardless if its unloaded or not.

If she's not what you want in a girlfriend then break up with her. She sounds a little on the crazy side.

You'll never find the "perfect woman" who does everything that you think is ideal. Just like a woman will never find the "perfect guy" who would rather wash the Chihuahua than watch a foot ball game.

Fact is all relationships will probably have problems some where along the line no matter who you find. Maybe you should try talking to her on an intellectual level once in a while even if she doesn't reply back in the way you see fit, just make the effort.

Though with that being said, if you really don't love her and just find her "annoying" than that is not fair to her, she should be with someone who would have mutual feelings of love towards her.

Just dump her. You should find a girl that DOES like airsoft.

[QUOTE="Taylor_B"]From the "Girls 101" thread.... [QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Finding intelligent girls is like finding a pot of gold underneath your house. It almost impossible. Okay terrible analogy, but you know what? Almost every attractive girl I find is either dumb as hell and taken(85%) or smart as hell and taken(15%). When I do find an attractive girl that's single there's like a 98% chance shes as dumb as a rock. Also 99.9999% of girls lack common sense. They may be astraunauts or scientist some of them, but they all have one thing in common and thats their lack of common sense. Incase you guys didn't know, recent studies suggest that's the main difference between males and females is females lack of common sense. Females lack common sense while men maintained their common sense through evolution, which made us the more dominant sex in the species. If you didn't know this... well you should feel a bit smarter now. BTW no females get offended. I beleive in womens rights.;)

bigblunt537

haha you're a very funny guy. You quote me on one post in that topic. Why not post my next 3 post which clearly stated I was just joking and I say that to my female friends because I love their reactions. you my friend are a troll. You are doing no different than when someone in system wars when they show a quote from a company and make the company look a lot worst then they actually are.

I have a hard time understanging why this person loves you...

your wrong.

rule 1 of being in a relatinship:

the female is always right, even when she is wrong she is right that's just how it is.

EDIT: I am so sorry that the idea I could possibly be being sarcastic slipped....so I will point it out SARCASM, ok.

yes you were wrong. Be a man and take the groping.

your wrong.

rule 1 of being in a relatinship:

the female is always right, even when she is wrong she is right that's just how it is.

[QUOTE="observer77"]

your wrong.

rule 1 of being in a relatinship:

the female is always right, even when she is wrong she is right that's just how it is.

enterawesome

Wow a lot of people have friend problems..

Wow a lot of people have friend problems..

-FlyLo-