Were you bullied in your adolescence but now you have a girlfriend or wife?

I was bullied from 5th grade through high school, and I've never had a girlfriend, nor do I ever want one.

[QUOTE="ThaneKrios28"]bullying is never going to go away and im pretty sure everyone has at some point wich is whyy back in the day i stood up for myself...... i won some fights hell i even lost some fights but in the end standing up for yourself regardless is better than doing nothingCecilChups

You don't have to be bulky to "have the power". I was a f*cking rail in my school years, but apart from that one time no one ever attempted to bully me because I had established myself as not being a pushover.

Lol, I wish someone would have tried to bully me when I was in school 

[QUOTE="ThaneKrios28"]bullying is never going to go away and im pretty sure everyone has at some point wich is whyy back in the day i stood up for myself...... i won some fights hell i even lost some fights but in the end standing up for yourself regardless is better than doing nothingCecilChups

[QUOTE="Gaming-Planet"][QUOTE="Iceozo"]

The only person who ever really bullied me died last week so yeah, I guess I win in that regard.

Iceozo

Was bullied all throughout school but now I have been with my GF for over a year and a half!

I wouldn't say bullied, but teased a lot. And yes, I'm married with a young son.

Just wondering who out there was ever bullied in school, but is not out of school and probably has a beautiful girlfriend or wife that you love very much?

Also, would you care if your former bullies believed if you had a great woman or not?

CecilChups

Just on my freshman year of HS. Not anymore from sophomore to senior. Some dickheads tried to bully me early in the school year. Their bullying didn't last very long. 

So basically, you're being bullied now, and your coping mechanism is fantasizing of a future where karma rewards you with an attractive wife and the bully gets jealous?

So basically, you're being bullied now, and your coping mechanism is fantasizing of a future where karma rewards you with an attractive wife and the bully gets jealous?

Oleg_Huzwog

I've seen that commercial.

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

So basically, you're being bullied now, and your coping mechanism is fantasizing of a future where karma rewards you with an attractive wife and the bully gets jealous?

jimkabrhel

I've seen that commercial.

yeah i was but it never lasted long.

i was big into punching people in the face when they picked a fight with me.

no yappity yapping, no shoving match.  dude is in your face, bam, punch in the nose.

bullying problem over before it ever got started.

i never picked one single fight the entire time i was in school but i was in at least 3 or 4 fights a year  from the time i was in 3rd grade on up and not one guy ever landed a punch on me because of that stratagy.

what always boggled my mind was why they kept it up year after year?

it was never the same guy twice but they they were people who ran around with each other and were friends or whatever.

it was weird to me that they just kept coming back for more.

Im so confused,what the hell does bullying have to do with getting a girl when you're older?Bucked20

I was bullied at school so then i had to change schools.

sukraj

My bully apparently went into porn.

Iszdope

I was never really picked on I learned at a young age if people give you crap make sure you give it back or else your whole life is gonna suck. I do know a couple guys who were tho and they're getting married, Im pretty sure the two aren't interconnected. Hell Ive been single for almost a year now, and don't plan on getting married anytime soon.

Here's one of my old bullies right here. http://mdocweb.state.mi.us/OTIS2/otis2profile.aspx?mdocNumber=653254Murderstyle75

wow, also that dude has some dumbass tattoos

Closest to bullied was being teased a lot, a lot by friends growing up. I grew out of it just fine and now have an awesome girlfriend.

I did have self-esteem problems though before getting more confident in myself and my body.

[QUOTE="Iceozo"]

[QUOTE="Gaming-Planet"] Cause of death? Gaming-Planet

I was the bully. 

Never been bullied, although I was abused at home if that means anything. I don't have a GF or a wife, I'm too cynical and I don't give anyone a chance to enter into my life.

Gaming-Planet

Sounds like a challenge

I was bullied in junior high, but to be honest it never bothered me that much.  I just tended to keep more to myself and had a very small group of friends.  High school was fine.  And yes, I've had girlfriends and am currently involved.  People grow up.  Well... most of them, anyways.

So basically, you're being bullied now, and your coping mechanism is fantasizing of a future where karma rewards you with an attractive wife and the bully gets jealous?

Oleg_Huzwog

You could say that, although nobody could really mess with me since chances are I would have sat on them. Yes, I do have a girlfriend

Was bullied all through school..Its made me the person i am today really..Im kind of stone cold now an give two shits about what some one has to say..People try an do stuff still but i just laugh an say hey is that the best you can do..Than i go on to say some things that ive heard through the years..Normally i wind up making that person say wow this kids messed up in the head..Most of the time i get em laughing..Than i say next time come up with some thing original..Ill top what ever he has to say..So even now i normally just stop the bull before it happens..Btw im married to a beautiful red head..We just had our 10 year anniversary )..Also im a armed guard..So get to carry a gun around an not many people can say that for there job lol..Its been a interesting life..Im stronger person for it though..Even when people cyber bully my spelling..Ill normally tell em off..lol..

i have a boyfriend. but then again im bisexual. and i was bullied alot back in the day

Was bullied all through school..Its made me the person i am today really..Im kind of stone cold now an give two shits about what some one has to say..People try an do stuff still but i just laugh an say hey is that the best you can do..Than i go on to say some things that ive heard through the years..Normally i wind up making that person say wow this kids messed up in the head..Most of the time i get em laughing..Than i say next time come up with some thing original..Ill top what ever he has to say..So even now i normally just stop the bull before it happens..Btw im married to a beautiful red head..We just had our 10 year anniversary )..Also im a armed guard..So get to carry a gun around an not many people can say that for there job lol..Its been a interesting life..Im stronger person for it though..Even when people cyber bully my spelling..Ill normally tell em off..lol..

Gladestone1