what are some ways to get over rejection

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#1 mastercleft
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well i guarentee we have all been rejected at least once by a girl and i have to say i've always been pretty bad at getting over it, Well yesterday i got rejected and well it really hit me hard actually really really ahrd and i don't know an good ways to get over it. I guarentee some people are just going to say suck it up and what not but in all honesty what are some good ways to get over it.
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#2 Cheese_Wow
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talk to a close friend about it.

watch TV or keep your mind busy....do anything than just sit there thinking about it

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#3 pete_merlin
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sounds like you had a crush for a long time before owning up to your feelings. thats why the rejection hurts so much. try meeting someone new and making a relationship before a the friend zone swollows you alive
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#4 Hinata237
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It's not the end of the world, just move on. There's obviously another girl out there.
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#5 uncledeath2005
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You don't "get over it" just like that....just give it time..it is what I did.
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#6 wizard90
Member since 2007 • 1464 Posts
Been there mate, got rejected over 2 months ago and im not over it, its really not easy and talking about it only makes it worse lol :(
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#7 duxup
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It takes time, but finding things to distract yourself, and finding someone else can be good.
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#8 Blood-Scribe
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Go and hang out with your buddies, don't sit here sulking and posting on Gamespot.
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#9 SunofVich
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Get totally wasted.
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#10 fmacraze
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... uhh... talk too someone about it...
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#11 mastercleft
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Get totally wasted.SunofVich

already done don't plan on doing it again anytime soon

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#12 SilentFireX
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Try becoming an hero. Works 100% of the time.
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#13 lycrof
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Suicide?
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#14 frankyfitz
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I'm guessing you're quite sad, but was she really the person you thought she was?
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#15 makaveli2344
Member since 2007 • 3106 Posts

Cut.


Any living thing will do.

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#16 mastercleft
Member since 2005 • 1812 Posts

I'm guessing you're quite sad, but was she really the person you thought she was?frankyfitz

yes she was amazing she was nice funny good looking and we got along well

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#17 foxhound_fox
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Don't dwell on the past and look towards the future. Find someone else. There will always be someone else.
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#18 Video_Game_King
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Try to find more pathetic stories. Hard in my case, considering the rejection was....unique, and reminiscent of this, for the game-savvy.
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#19 DivineSword  Moderator
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Just find something to keep your mind off this depression, or talk to a close person like a friends.
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#20 British_Azimio
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Be a man and get over it.
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#21 AtomicBaconBits
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Play videogames with your friends...it 99% of the time works for me.
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#22 RHCP87
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Try not to think about it too much.
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#23 mastercleft
Member since 2005 • 1812 Posts
bump
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#24 ethanraiden
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soory for english, why rejected?
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#25 blooddemon666
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Go and hang out with your buddies, don't sit here sulking and posting on Gamespot.Blood-Scribe

stole the text from right underneath my fingers

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#26 SpaceMoose
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Let her suck you into a never-ending parade of mind games until she has wasted so much of you goddamn time and violated your trust on so many levels that you don't even really care anymore.

Okay, that might not be the most efficient method...

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#27 south411
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find someone else..thats what i did and ive never looked back.im glad i got rejected cause then i would have never met the girl im with now
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#28 dooly420
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go find some random broad to have fun.
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#29 kazuya246
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not to sound boastful but I have never been rejected by a girl. I usally go for one girlfriend a year(girls that i really really like) so that eliminates chances of rejection. My advice is go hit on another girl.
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#30 zombiefruit
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[QUOTE="SunofVich"]Get totally wasted.mastercleft

already done don't plan on doing it again anytime soon

Here ya go man. Rejection song.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=E_4ztTGjWK4

I really mean it dude. You're beautiful to me. But seriously, don't lose any sleep over a girl. Always view your life with an optimistic eye and everything will seem awesome. I know it hurts now but just stick up your head and walk on. And slap that **** for me.

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#31 mastercleft
Member since 2005 • 1812 Posts

but we have had this feeling of rejection when we had to abandon our companion cube..now that was a terrible feeling lol

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#32 Video_Game_King
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find someone else..thats what i did and ive never looked back.im glad i got rejected cause then i would have never met the girl im with nowsouth411

I'm pretty sure that could lead to a cycle of becoming relation-dependent.

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#33 GettingTired
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Well I don't know. Just listen to Arnold's advice, "Stop whining!"
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#34 waitaseck
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Think like this: Too bad for her, she's missing out on ME. It made me STRONGER
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#35 Adoboy327
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The only advice I could give you is run. Go on long ass runs in the moutains or forests, somwhere you can appreciate nature. Just run until your too damn sore and tired to think. Itll help you deal with it piece by piece over time, not to mention get you in shape.
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#36 Video_Game_King
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Think like this: Too bad for her, she's missing out on ME. It made me STRONGERwaitaseck

Or maybe girls don't like ME in general. I can't maintain a relationship for my LIFE. It made me WEAKER.

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#37 blooddemon666
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but we have had this feeling of rejection when we had to abandon our companion cube..now that was a terrible feeling lol

mastercleft
I dread it every day... I can never love another as much as her
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#38 xtn702
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distract yourself, try not to think about it
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#39 zombiefruit
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Think like this: Too bad for her, she's missing out on ME. It made me STRONGERwaitaseck

Better and faster too.

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#40 salty5674
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Run the track-> If you dont like running then eat lots of junk food and watch movies with friends-> If you dont have Junk food or friends then go hiking-> If you dont like nature then play guitar-> If you dont have a guitar then go get wasted-> If drugs arn't your thing then-> suck it up:)