Just kiss her on her neck.PoeticTheory
This. It works.
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Actually, I have recently had to do some turning down of said type of ladies. In other words, they have had no luck with me.[QUOTE="mindstorm"]
[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] No luck with the ladies, mindstorm?
keech
What is saddening to me is that guys would think so disrespectfully of women.
The occasional vulgar comments from the teen crowd aside. What exactly is disrespectful about wanting to lose ones viriginity? I personally never understood the concept of virginity. To me it's nothing more than a word. An idea created by people, a concept with no inherient value. I never put any importance in mine. When I lost it, it wasn't some profound experience.
But the desire to have sex, that's different. We are hardwired to want sex, for very good reason. It's a biological imparative. We have sex, we breed, we grow in number and spread out. It's instinct.
So many people in the world are incapable of accepting that, and they are repressed to all hell because of it. That sex is still viewed as something dirty and wrong in many places this day and age just baffles me.
To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.mindstorm
Hmm
[QUOTE="keech"][QUOTE="mindstorm"] Actually, I have recently had to do some turning down of said type of ladies. In other words, they have had no luck with me.
What is saddening to me is that guys would think so disrespectfully of women.
mindstorm
The occasional vulgar comments from the teen crowd aside. What exactly is disrespectful about wanting to lose ones viriginity? I personally never understood the concept of virginity. To me it's nothing more than a word. An idea created by people, a concept with no inherient value. I never put any importance in mine. When I lost it, it wasn't some profound experience.
But the desire to have sex, that's different. We are hardwired to want sex, for very good reason. It's a biological imparative. We have sex, we breed, we grow in number and spread out. It's instinct.
So many people in the world are incapable of accepting that, and they are repressed to all hell because of it. That sex is still viewed as something dirty and wrong in many places this day and age just baffles me.
To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.^ ThisIs not at all what I think.
Marriage is a man made concept just like love, hate and basically everything. And why wouldnt it be fine to worship something other then God? Does your religion not teach acceptance of others? So you don't accept other religious because they believe in, what you consider, a false deity(in many cases they believe in many Gods)? And if you do accept other people for believing in a different religion then YOU are also cheating on your God as your God says he is the only God and people who believe in other false Gods will burn.
I agree that a person shouldnt cheat on their spouse and TC shouldnt be trying to take advantage of a girl(get her REAL drunk TC, makes it easier;))
[QUOTE="keech"][QUOTE="mindstorm"] Actually, I have recently had to do some turning down of said type of ladies. In other words, they have had no luck with me.
What is saddening to me is that guys would think so disrespectfully of women.
mindstorm
The occasional vulgar comments from the teen crowd aside. What exactly is disrespectful about wanting to lose ones viriginity? I personally never understood the concept of virginity. To me it's nothing more than a word. An idea created by people, a concept with no inherient value. I never put any importance in mine. When I lost it, it wasn't some profound experience.
But the desire to have sex, that's different. We are hardwired to want sex, for very good reason. It's a biological imparative. We have sex, we breed, we grow in number and spread out. It's instinct.
So many people in the world are incapable of accepting that, and they are repressed to all hell because of it. That sex is still viewed as something dirty and wrong in many places this day and age just baffles me.
To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.This makes me LOLOLOL
You got trolled by church
To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="keech"]
The occasional vulgar comments from the teen crowd aside. What exactly is disrespectful about wanting to lose ones viriginity? I personally never understood the concept of virginity. To me it's nothing more than a word. An idea created by people, a concept with no inherient value. I never put any importance in mine. When I lost it, it wasn't some profound experience.
But the desire to have sex, that's different. We are hardwired to want sex, for very good reason. It's a biological imparative. We have sex, we breed, we grow in number and spread out. It's instinct.
So many people in the world are incapable of accepting that, and they are repressed to all hell because of it. That sex is still viewed as something dirty and wrong in many places this day and age just baffles me.
GummiRaccoon
This makes me LOLOLOL
You got trolled by church
Quiet, heathen!^ ThisI do no wish to completely sidetrack this topic so I'll keep it short. Why would you want to worship anything within the creation as opposed to the one who created everything? Isn't he the one of greater worth? I cannot see how anything is worthy of worship in comparison to the infinite.Is not at all what I think.
Marriage is a man made concept just like love, hate and basically everything. And why wouldnt it be fine to worship something other then God? Does your religion not teach acceptance of others? So you don't accept other religious because they believe in, what you consider, a false deity(in many cases they believe in many Gods)? And if you do accept other people for believing in a different religion then YOU are also cheating on your God as your God says he is the only God and people who believe in other false Gods will burn.
I agree that a person shouldnt cheat on their spouse and TC shouldnt be trying to take advantage of a girl(get her REAL drunk TC, makes it easier;))
F1ame_Shie1d
This makes me LOLOLOLMy church actually didn't teach me these things, I came to the belief within my own personal studies.You got trolled by church
GummiRaccoon
I do no wish to completely sidetrack this topic so I'll keep it short. Why would you want to worship anything within the creation as opposed to the one who created everything? Isn't he the one of greater worth? I cannot see how anything is worthy of worship in comparison to the infinite.[QUOTE="F1ame_Shie1d"]^ This
Is not at all what I think.
Marriage is a man made concept just like love, hate and basically everything. And why wouldnt it be fine to worship something other then God? Does your religion not teach acceptance of others? So you don't accept other religious because they believe in, what you consider, a false deity(in many cases they believe in many Gods)? And if you do accept other people for believing in a different religion then YOU are also cheating on your God as your God says he is the only God and people who believe in other false Gods will burn.
I agree that a person shouldnt cheat on their spouse and TC shouldnt be trying to take advantage of a girl(get her REAL drunk TC, makes it easier;))
mindstorm
This makes me LOLOLOLMy church actually didn't teach me these things, I came to the belief within my own personal studies.You got trolled by church
GummiRaccoon
If the creator only created the cosmos, that'd be worship worthy.
However humanity is pretty stupid.
If anyone made us this way on purpose they need to be pimp slapped with the strong hand.
[QUOTE="keech"][QUOTE="mindstorm"] Actually, I have recently had to do some turning down of said type of ladies. In other words, they have had no luck with me.
What is saddening to me is that guys would think so disrespectfully of women.
mindstorm
The occasional vulgar comments from the teen crowd aside. What exactly is disrespectful about wanting to lose ones viriginity? I personally never understood the concept of virginity. To me it's nothing more than a word. An idea created by people, a concept with no inherient value. I never put any importance in mine. When I lost it, it wasn't some profound experience.
But the desire to have sex, that's different. We are hardwired to want sex, for very good reason. It's a biological imparative. We have sex, we breed, we grow in number and spread out. It's instinct.
So many people in the world are incapable of accepting that, and they are repressed to all hell because of it. That sex is still viewed as something dirty and wrong in many places this day and age just baffles me.
To put it simply, I'm one of those crazy religious types that believes it to be a moral evil outside of the context of marriage. Essentially, I believe marriage is designed by God to give us an earthly illustration of how Jesus deals with his church. Jesus died for his church and the husband should be willing to sacrifice his own life for his wife. To put the comparison further, when the church commits idolatry against God it is very much the same as a wife committing adultery against her husband. In the same likeness, if we are to say that it is fine to have sex with someone outside of our spouse we essentially say that it is fine to worship something other than God.Ah morality. It always comes back to morality. Another human concept I put little to no value in. Their are and can never be such as thing as a moral absolute. Good and evil are horribly subjective, and I don't much care for either one. It's not about right or wrong, it's about what you can and cannot live with afterward.
Objectivism is and will always be my retort to moral absolutes. Mix in a little bit of Darwins concept of Survival of the Fittest transposed to modern society, and you may start to have an idea of where I'm coming from.
TL;DR: If a girl is dumb enough to be taken advantage of in this particular context. Don't blame the guy.
[QUOTE="dracula_16"]
I can usually tell based on a girl's personality. If she's open minded and not religious, she'll probably have sex before marriage.
musalala
LOL the religious ones are the freakiest of them all.
I can attest to this.If you solely intend to use the relationship for the purpose of losing your virginity, then I've really no understanding of your rationale in shunning the idea of a one-night stand. One-night stands seem pretty ideal for that purpose.
Also, the girl may not be waiting for marriage at all; some people just have no plans for future matrimony.
[QUOTE="musalala"]
[QUOTE="dracula_16"]
I can usually tell based on a girl's personality. If she's open minded and not religious, she'll probably have sex before marriage.
cybrcatter
LOL the religious ones are the freakiest of them all.
I can attest to this.Too true. Goes back to my whole repressed point. So concerned with being "good", in this case remaining "pure" in the context of their faith. That when they finally do let loose they tend to lose their marbles. Compound that with that they have spent their whole life doing what's "right" they have no first hand knowledge of how to deal with the consequences of bad decisions and you have a time bomb.
I can attest to this.[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]
[QUOTE="musalala"]
LOL the religious ones are the freakiest of them all.
keech
Too true. Goes back to my whole repressed point. So concerned with being "good", in this case remaining "pure" in the context of their faith. That when they finally do let loose they tend to lose their marbles. Compound that with that they have spent their whole life doing what's "right" they have no first hand knowledge of how to deal with the consequences of bad decisions and you have a time bomb.
Sex is like food; it's only a problem for individuals who obsess about it - those with anorexia/bulimia, and those who overindulge.[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]Go to college, TC, and live in the dorms if you can. Heed my advice. Shottayouth13-My university has a HIV ratio of 1:3. F***ing sucks man. :(
I don't know anywhere that has an HIV problem outside of souteast asia or africa.
Where do you go to school?
[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]
I can attest to this.
< 3 Catholic women.binpink
Hey now! :evil:
(That's it, nothing to add. Just wanted to object... sort of. :P)
Don't be jealous of the catholic lasses.[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]
I can attest to this.
< 3 Catholic women.binpink
Hey now! :evil:
(That's it, nothing to add. Just wanted to object... sort of. :P)
freak detected
Don't be jealous of the catholic lasses.
Every women has something different to offer, in my humble opinion.
Not being repressed has its advantages too.cybrcatter
...I am Catholic. Don't know if I technically qualify these days but eh.
Repressed is a good word to describe what can happen.
[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]
freak detected
binpink
No comment, as I don't want to derail this thread any more.
Do you let men touch your shoulder?
purity rings are some girls way of "playing hard to get"
theres no such thing as waiting till marriage
[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]
freak detected
binpink
No comment, as I don't want to derail this thread any more.
Derailments aren't necessarily a bad thing. [spoiler]My university has a HIV ratio of 1:3. F***ing sucks man. :([QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="cybrcatter"]Go to college, TC, and live in the dorms if you can. Heed my advice. GummiRaccoon
I don't know anywhere that has an HIV problem outside of souteast asia or africa.
Where do you go to school?
Jamaica. It's just that one university though that that ratio is limited to.[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]
freak detected
binpink
No comment, as I don't want to derail this thread any more.
Don't be shy. Everyone's derailed a thread in their lives. You can't help it. It begs for derailment. It begs for that special post to take it in a new turn. Do it. Do what it asks. Let the temptation consume you and fill every need you have to want to derail. It's alright. It feels good once you do it. /creepymessageiscreepy[QUOTE="binpink"][QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]
freak detected
ayanami_rei
No comment, as I don't want to derail this thread any more.
Don't be shy. Everyone's derailed a thread in their lives. You can't help it. It begs for derailment. It begs for that special post to take it in a new turn. Do it. Do what it asks. Let the temptation consume you and fill every need you have to want to derail. It's alright. It feels good once you do it.[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]Do it. Do what it asks. Let the temptation consume you and fill every need you have to want to derail. It's alright. It feels good once you do it. binpink
If that didn't derail a few people mentally, nothing will. :P
mmmmm
Oh ****ing hell no. He better not or I'll kick his ass personally. This is MY account, damn it.I think KMX hacked ayanami_rei's account.
cybrcatter
[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]Oh ****ing hell no. He better not or I'll kick his ass personally. This is MY account, damn it.I think KMX hacked ayanami_rei's account.
ayanami_rei
edit// i don't remember the evil face looking so mad... :?
Oh ****ing hell no. He better not or I'll kick his ass personally. This is MY account, damn it.[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="cybrcatter"]
I think KMX hacked ayanami_rei's account.
RPG-er
edit// i don't remember the evil face looking so mad... :?
You mean : twisted : ? :twisted:[QUOTE="RPG-er"]
[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"] Oh ****ing hell no. He better not or I'll kick his ass personally. This is MY account, damn it.ayanami_rei
edit// i don't remember the evil face looking so mad... :?
You mean : twisted : ? :twisted: lol. yup, that's the one i wanted. need to get back into the gs emoticon keystrokes.[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]Oh ****ing hell no. He better not or I'll kick his ass personally. This is MY account, damn it. /nick OT_DetctiveI think KMX hacked ayanami_rei's account.
ayanami_rei
:3 Your detective skills need sharpening. I'd say more, but I need to keep my track record clean. I haven't had a moderation in three years. ;( I can't quit now./nick OT_Detctive
Sounds like something a hacked account would say.cybrcatter
:3 Your detective skills need sharpening. I'd say more, but I need to keep my track record clean. I haven't had a moderation in three years. ;( I can't quit now. Well s***, now I'm intrigued.[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]
/nick OT_Detctive
Sounds like something a hacked account would say.ayanami_rei
Pretty much this (in most cases).girls wanna bang just as much as you do, when u ask u will get a weird face cuz she doesnt wanna look like a slu, but then she will conform
revolution2k6
[QUOTE="action1234"]So you want to use her yep that's what he said, but in my opinion that's a majority of relationships and marriages anyways..... I'm 19 and I wanna lose my virginity.
Darthkaiser
the real challenge is getting post-marital sex.
hahahahaha i hear that all the time from my married friends. lol95% of girls have pre marital sex. i lost my virginity at the end of freshman year in highschool.krayzieE99
Which means... 95 percent of guys have pre marital sex... Which means...
YESSSS, I AM DIFFERENT! WOOHOO! Then again, it is more for lack of opportunity, which in that case... Awwwww, but that is changing soon :)
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