What attracts you to a person????

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I want a hot, powerful, funny nerd boy. Bloodaxe726

You can probably get funny nerd, but there's no way in hell that all of those traits are in one being.

You'd be surprised.

If they're hot and powerful, chances are they're not a nerd. Nerds usually aren't socially accepted (IE popular), and those are two traits you find in popular people.

I know one person that fits into 3 of those categories, he however, is possibly the funniest looking human being I have ever seen.

Funny in looks, not in personality (as far as I've been told from you).

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I want a hot, powerful, funny nerd boy. Video_Game_King

You can probably get funny nerd, but there's no way in hell that all of those traits are in one being.

You'd be surprised.

If they're hot and powerful, chances are they're not a nerd. Nerds usually aren't socially accepted (IE popular), and those are two traits you find in popular people.

You need to meet more people then. They are out there.

[QUOTE="Bloodaxe726"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I want a hot, powerful, funny nerd boy. Video_Game_King

You can probably get funny nerd, but there's no way in hell that all of those traits are in one being.

You'd be surprised.

If they're hot and powerful, chances are they're not a nerd. Nerds usually aren't socially accepted (IE popular), and those are two traits you find in popular people.

I know one person that fits into 3 of those categories, he however, is possibly the funniest looking human being I have ever seen.

Funny in looks, not in personality (as far as I've been told from you).

Nah, the stuff he says is hilarious, he just happens to also be funny looking.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I want a hot, powerful, funny nerd boy. Sajedene

You can probably get funny nerd, but there's no way in hell that all of those traits are in one being.

You'd be surprised.

If they're hot and powerful, chances are they're not a nerd. Nerds usually aren't socially accepted (IE popular), and those are two traits you find in popular people.

You need to meet more people then. They are out there.

I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.

What attracts you to a person???? Is it he/she personality their looks what???MrLions

It's what type of animal they ride.

I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.Video_Game_King

Why do you assume power to be imposing and dominating?

True power is when a person is able to command a room and get his/her way where the subjects involved do their actions willingly - not out of fear.

And yes I have seen it and had it - it is very attractive.

As for yourself - it is something that you can learn to achieve if you let yourself. Then you can be a powerful funny cute nerd too.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I want a hot, powerful, funny nerd boy. Video_Game_King

You can probably get funny nerd, but there's no way in hell that all of those traits are in one being.

You'd be surprised.

If they're hot and powerful, chances are they're not a nerd. Nerds usually aren't socially accepted (IE popular), and those are two traits you find in popular people.

You need to meet more people then. They are out there.

I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.Sajedene

Why do you assume power to be imposing and dominating?

True power is when a person is able to command a room and get his/her way where the subjects involved do their actions willingly - not out of fear.

And yes I have seen it and had it - it is very attractive.

As for yourself - it is something that you can learn to achieve if you let yourself. Then you can be a powerful funny cute nerd too.

How else do people lead? Sure, they may do so willingly, but they do so out of some type of fear. All leadership is achieved through some type of fear. Give me an example wherein leadership is required, and I can show you how the fear comes into play. In order to get across this message of fear, you need domination and an imposing look. And girls do not find me cute, they find me awkward, nerdy, and sometimes condescending and pretentious.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.Video_Game_King

Why do you assume power to be imposing and dominating?

True power is when a person is able to command a room and get his/her way where the subjects involved do their actions willingly - not out of fear.

And yes I have seen it and had it - it is very attractive.

As for yourself - it is something that you can learn to achieve if you let yourself. Then you can be a powerful funny cute nerd too.

How else do people lead? Sure, they may do so willingly, but they do so out of some type of fear. All leadership is achieved through some type of fear. Give me an example wherein leadership is required, and I can show you how the fear comes into play. In order to get across this message of fear, you need domination and an imposing look. And girls do not find me cute, they find me awkward, nerdy, and sometimes condescending and pretentious.

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]I have yet to meet them. I am a funny (look at my blog) nerd (look at my blog), but I am fairly atrocious and weak. I have never been imposing or dominating, nor have girls ever been attracted to me. I've seen a combination of these traits in other people, but never were they all in the same person.Sajedene

Why do you assume power to be imposing and dominating?

True power is when a person is able to command a room and get his/her way where the subjects involved do their actions willingly - not out of fear.

And yes I have seen it and had it - it is very attractive.

As for yourself - it is something that you can learn to achieve if you let yourself. Then you can be a powerful funny cute nerd too.

How else do people lead? Sure, they may do so willingly, but they do so out of some type of fear. All leadership is achieved through some type of fear. Give me an example wherein leadership is required, and I can show you how the fear comes into play. In order to get across this message of fear, you need domination and an imposing look. And girls do not find me cute, they find me awkward, nerdy, and sometimes condescending and pretentious.

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

Sajedene

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

You hang out with the devil? :o X360PS3AMD05

How would you know it wasnt god? He fits my desrciption too.

/opens up religious debate and regrets it.

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]You hang out with the devil? :o Sajedene

How would you know it wasnt god? He fits my desrciption too.

/opens up religious debate and regrets it.

God leads through fear. "Do what I say, or I shall send you to eternal suffering, even if it is a minor breaking of the rules. I'll send you to eternal damnation, where you will feel pain and torment for all time!"

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

Video_Game_King

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

Ah... Manipulation.. The best skill that anyone can develop.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

Video_Game_King

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

I know misery loves company and all but I dont let every negative thing in life affect what I think of other people in the world and have me looking with cracked glasses or rose colored lenses. I take whatever comes as is and move on from there. I dont live in the past, I learn from it. I look forward to the future and have fun in the present.

You yourself are trying to manipulate me in your way of thinking. Whatever argument you have, you are exactly what you are hating on but in a different way. That is what I have learned. We are humans, we are not perfect - deal with it and make the most out of it. If you keep shutting people out and making everything into some negative debate or about a pity party about your life - then thats we're you'll stay - in the crapper.

[QUOTE="blackacidevil96"]im a sucker for girls with glasses.Deity_Slapper

Me too. And I don't even know why.

ugh. I have perfect eyes and I want my kids to have the same, so I am a little wary of girls with glasses lol. Plus if their eyesight is bad enough thats thousands of dollars in contacts and a least a couple hundred spent on glasses.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]You hang out with the devil? :o Video_Game_King

How would you know it wasnt god? He fits my desrciption too.

/opens up religious debate and regrets it.

God leads through fear. "Do what I say, or I shall send you to eternal suffering, even if it is a minor breaking of the rules. I'll send you to eternal damnation, where you will feel pain and torment for all time!"

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

Sajedene

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

I know misery loves company and all but I dont let every negative thing in life affect what I think of other people in the world and have me looking with cracked glasses or rose colored lenses. I take whatever comes as is and move on from there. I dont live in the past, I learn from it. I look forward to the future and have fun in the present.

You yourself are trying to manipulate me in your way of thinking. Whatever argument you have, you are exactly what you are hating on but in a different way. That is what I have learned. We are humans, we are not perfect - deal with it and make the most out of it. If you keep shutting people out and making everything into some negative debate or about a pity party about your life - then thats we're you'll stay - in the crapper.

Exactly.

Its what I call the "Screw'em (not literally) and Move On" practice.

Girlfriend cheat on you? Do some damage then move on and forget them.

Life treating you crappy? Go listen to some good music or watch your favorite movie and move on.

I truly believe that, in most situations, you are only as depressed or angry as you make yourself. Your happiness really is entirely in your control.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

mrbojangles25

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

I know misery loves company and all but I dont let every negative thing in life affect what I think of other people in the world and have me looking with cracked glasses or rose colored lenses. I take whatever comes as is and move on from there. I dont live in the past, I learn from it. I look forward to the future and have fun in the present.

You yourself are trying to manipulate me in your way of thinking. Whatever argument you have, you are exactly what you are hating on but in a different way. That is what I have learned. We are humans, we are not perfect - deal with it and make the most out of it. If you keep shutting people out and making everything into some negative debate or about a pity party about your life - then thats we're you'll stay - in the crapper.

Exactly.

Its what I call the "Screw'em (not literally) and Move On" practice.

Girlfriend cheat on you? Do some damage then move on and forget them.

Life treating you crappy? Go listen to some good music or watch your favorite movie and move on.

I truly believe that, in most situations, you are only as depressed or angry as you make yourself. Your happiness really is entirely in your control.

Their hearts.C-Himura

that's funny, I usually go for the ovaries.

and to Video_Game_King... dude, get out more and improve yourself. having that kind of attitude gives you none of the traits Sajedene or any girl for that matter looks for. it is definitely possible to be funny, nerdy, powerful (in leadership) and good looking. (looks at self)

don't be such a ***** about it and grow up

[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Great. You're implying the whole "fear of not pleasing the leader" or "fear of disappointment" kind of thing I bet. Dont twist my words into a debate and just take it for what it is. You're too negative and overthink and overanalyze a lot of things. That is why you are unhappy all the time.

The people who I have come across who carry this type of power - if they do instill these fears in me - I do not think about them. I am just happy to do what it takes to please them to get somewhere in life. Maybe thats what makes them powerful - they make you feel good when you should be afraid.

X360PS3AMD05

No, I'm unhappy because I've been screwed over a lot in life and there's a good chance that it'll happen again. And what if the fears they attempt to instill in you become reality? What then? And are you powerful? Do you actually influence people? Do people take you seriously? Most powerful people play off the fear of others. People who make others feel good when afraid are usually doing good, and they're usually treated horribly by others or eventually end up being doormats who can't criticize people and will do anything others tell them.

I know misery loves company and all but I dont let every negative thing in life affect what I think of other people in the world and have me looking with cracked glasses or rose colored lenses. I take whatever comes as is and move on from there. I dont live in the past, I learn from it. I look forward to the future and have fun in the present.

You yourself are trying to manipulate me in your way of thinking. Whatever argument you have, you are exactly what you are hating on but in a different way. That is what I have learned. We are humans, we are not perfect - deal with it and make the most out of it. If you keep shutting people out and making everything into some negative debate or about a pity party about your life - then thats we're you'll stay - in the crapper.

Exactly.

Its what I call the "Screw'em (not literally) and Move On" practice.

Girlfriend cheat on you? Do some damage then move on and forget them.

Life treating you crappy? Go listen to some good music or watch your favorite movie and move on.

I truly believe that, in most situations, you are only as depressed or angry as you make yourself. Your happiness really is entirely in your control.

Happiness is whatever makes you feel happy.

End of discussion lol. No philospherizing needed, hyuk

[QUOTE="C-Himura"]Their hearts.pridetwo

that's funny, I usually go for the ovaries.

and to Video_Game_King... dude, get out more and improve yourself. having that kind of attitude gives you none of the traits Sajedene or any girl for that matter looks for. it is definitely possible to be funny, nerdy, powerful (in leadership) and good looking. (looks at self)

don't be such a ***** about it and grow up

At first? Usually their face then body and if I get to know 'em personality becomes wayyy more important.

BTW I dislike most girls that are considered "smart" and smart does not mean intelligent. Most "smart" girls are really annoying and are not very fun to be around. I prefer a bubbly personality. The reason I put smart in quotations is because I mean smart by today's standards.

I also like girls who have power over men and don't let guys take advantage of them

I may be too picky:|

At first? Usually their face then body and if I get to know 'em personality becomes wayyy more important.

BTW I dislike most girls that are considered "smart" and smart does not mean intelligent. Most "smart" girls are really annoying and are not very fun to be around. I prefer a bubbly personality. The reason I put smart in quotations is because I mean smart by today's standards.

the1stfandb

[QUOTE="pridetwo"]

[QUOTE="C-Himura"]Their hearts.X360PS3AMD05

that's funny, I usually go for the ovaries.

and to Video_Game_King... dude, get out more and improve yourself. having that kind of attitude gives you none of the traits Sajedene or any girl for that matter looks for. it is definitely possible to be funny, nerdy, powerful (in leadership) and good looking. (looks at self)

don't be such a ***** about it and grow up

your logic, is, undeniable? what?

your logic, is, undeniable? what?pridetwo

and good looking. (looks at self) pridetwo

Generally both. Since the looks are the first thing I notice about a person, and it's sort of like a first impression to me. Then I get to know them and hope they have a good personality. If not, to hell with them.

I actually have a thing for somewhat tomboy-ish chicks, probably because I can relate to them on a deeper level, talk to them about more stuff, and do more things with them than normal chicks. :P

Their natural scent.gobo212

[QUOTE="gobo212"]Their natural scent.Djhomer3553

Actually that's true. You're attracted chemically to certain people. All this other stuff people are saying is just filler.

At first? Usually their face then body and if I get to know 'em personality becomes wayyy more important.

BTW I dislike most girls that are considered "smart" and smart does not mean intelligent. Most "smart" girls are really annoying and are not very fun to be around. I prefer a bubbly personality. The reason I put smart in quotations is because I mean smart by today's standards.

I also like girls who have power over men and don't let guys take advantage of them

I may be too picky:|

the1stfandb

lol I know exactly what you mean by "smart" girls. They think theyre your equivelent, and theyre right about that, but thats not enough...because theyre female they think they have to remind everyone of that fact.

I know misery loves company and all but I dont let every negative thing in life affect what I think of other people in the world and have me looking with cracked glasses or rose colored lenses. I take whatever comes as is and move on from there. I dont live in the past, I learn from it. I look forward to the future and have fun in the present.

You yourself are trying to manipulate me in your way of thinking. Whatever argument you have, you are exactly what you are hating on but in a different way. That is what I have learned. We are humans, we are not perfect - deal with it and make the most out of it. If you keep shutting people out and making everything into some negative debate or about a pity party about your life - then thats we're you'll stay - in the crapper.

Sajedene

I learn from the past as well. Specifically, this: don't trust people. At all. They will bring you suffering. And what am I hating on? Can you explain to me? Hating on the weak? I've known that I'm weak for quite some time, not a news flash! And my manipulation stems from normal human nature. Everybody attempts to convert. Nobody has ever not done so! And if I try to actually make something positive of my life and care for other people, that toliet's gonna flush, and I'm gonna be sent to the part of the toliet where all the waste is. At least in the toliet I can avoid all the other stuff by swimming in toliet water.