What DO girls look for in a guy?

[QUOTE="thequietguy"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

There aer some smart guys here, you know. Like Theokhoth, LJS, foxhound_fox, pianist, and some others I'm too lazy to name.

Video_Game_King

Wait, joking about what? And no, you're not one of the smart guys. You haven't proven that yet.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="thequietguy"]What the f? Are you serious? I thought you were joking around. Why are you naming all the smart guys here? Am I one of them?thequietguy

Wait, joking about what? And no, you're not one of the smart guys. You haven't proven that yet.

Oh, that. I was joking as well. And look at the title of the thread, then the actual post.

in short: girls look for guys that act like themselves, with a personality/etc that suits them.

girls arent a code you have to crack, and then you suddenly are the pimp of ages. getting so tired of hearing guys having this view. all girls are people, with different interrests, goals, standards, etc. theres no single way to get a girl. just act natural towards the girl youre attracted to, and if she likes who you are, then youve might have a match.

in short: girls look for guys that act like themselves, with a personality/etc that suits them.

biBLioTek

No, that's a bunch of crap. Besides, all that you said there can be said for guys, yet most guys have something in common with their taste in women.

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"]girls arent a code you have to crack, and then you suddenly are the pimp of ages. getting so tired of hearing guys having this view. all girls are people, with different interrests, goals, standards, etc. theres no single way to get a girl. just act natural towards the girl youre attracted to, and if she likes who you are, then youve might have a match.

in short: girls look for guys that act like themselves, with a personality/etc that suits them.

Video_Game_King

No, that's a bunch of crap. Besides, all that you said there can be said for guys, yet most guys have something in common with their taste in women.

and what would this common thing be? that they got bewbs? *shrugs*

from my experiences, girls have no common trait they look for in a guy, except the fact that he is a guy :D

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="biBLioTek"]girls arent a code you have to crack, and then you suddenly are the pimp of ages. getting so tired of hearing guys having this view. all girls are people, with different interrests, goals, standards, etc. theres no single way to get a girl. just act natural towards the girl youre attracted to, and if she likes who you are, then youve might have a match.

in short: girls look for guys that act like themselves, with a personality/etc that suits them.

biBLioTek

No, that's a bunch of crap. Besides, all that you said there can be said for guys, yet most guys have something in common with their taste in women.

and what would this common thing be? that they got bewbs? *shrugs*

from my experiences, girls have no common trait they look for in a guy, except the fact that he is a guy :D

That they're good looking, and mammary glands can be a part of that. And there has to be SOME common trait girls look for in a guy. You know, other than a Y chromosome.

Video_Game_King dating? :o Hell just froze over!

I'm kidding :P

Well, girls mainly look for confidence in a guy so be sure to have a lot of confidence. Also a girl would like to talk about her interests. If you have the same interest as your date, then you can talk about it to make you and your date feel comfortable.

Video_Game_King dating? :o Hell just froze over!

I'm kidding :P

Well, girls mainly look for confidence in a guy so be sure to have a lot of confidence. Also a girl would like to talk about her interests. If you have the same interest as your date, then you can talk about it to make you and your date feel comfortable.

FireEmblem_Man

Hell froze over? I think that has more to do with their king, the dark lord Satan Claus, having been killed. You see, I'm not dating, and neither is Writey Guy. (For those of you who are scratching their heads, this is all stuff from my blog.)

First: Intelligence. Second: Personality...and Third: Looks or Money.

My boyfriend is a smart guy, not very good looking though. He's a very special person in my life :) We have 5 years together now.

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

No, that's a bunch of crap. Besides, all that you said there can be said for guys, yet most guys have something in common with their taste in women.

Video_Game_King

and what would this common thing be? that they got bewbs? *shrugs*

from my experiences, girls have no common trait they look for in a guy, except the fact that he is a guy :D

That they're good looking, and mammary glands can be a part of that. And there has to be SOME common trait girls look for in a guy. You know, other than a Y chromosome.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="biBLioTek"] oh really? im talking about long term relationships here, not some random person you pick up for a festive night.

and what would this common thing be? that they got bewbs? *shrugs*

from my experiences, girls have no common trait they look for in a guy, except the fact that he is a guy :D

biBLioTek

That they're good looking, and mammary glands can be a part of that. And there has to be SOME common trait girls look for in a guy. You know, other than a Y chromosome.

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

That they're good looking, and mammary glands can be a part of that. And there has to be SOME common trait girls look for in a guy. You know, other than a Y chromosome.

Video_Game_King

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

That they're good looking, and mammary glands can be a part of that. And there has to be SOME common trait girls look for in a guy. You know, other than a Y chromosome.

Video_Game_King

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

Above average physical apperance. Every girl likes a good looking man, but that doesent necessarily mean its highest in their list of priorities, its just there. (keep in mind, there is a myriad of different likes and dislikes within the frame that is "good looking", so its still not universal.)

Naturally there are some girls that are not into good looking guys. They are usually accompanied by a blindstick.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="biBLioTek"] only thing (again, from my experiences) is the fact that youre male. nothing else. you dont even have to look male, just the fact that you are. all other things are just factors that the induvidual girl either prefer or dislike.biBLioTek

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

Because there's the common, non-gender element that guys look for, and girls aren't from an entirely different species.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="biBLioTek"]

only thing (again, from my experiences) is the fact that youre male. nothing else. you dont even have to look male, just the fact that you are. all other things are just factors that the induvidual girl either prefer or dislike.BiancaDK

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

Above average physical apperance. Every girl likes a good looking man, but that doesent necessarily mean its highest in their list of priorities, its just there. (keep in mind, there is a myriad of different likes and dislikes within the frame that is "good looking", so its still not universal.)

Naturally there are some girls that are not into good looking guys. They are usually accompanied by a blindstick.

u think all of them look at looks, and money at least the hot ones :( i know a girl in my math class in high school decent look..... she was asking about me if i had money. i don't i didn't drive a car somebody was asking about that. In the end she found a guy who had money.... just kind of pissed me off she was looking for a guy who had money.iam2green

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

biBLioTek

Above average physical apperance. Every girl likes a good looking man, but that doesent necessarily mean its highest in their list of priorities, its just there. (keep in mind, there is a myriad of different likes and dislikes within the frame that is "good looking", so its still not universal.)

Naturally there are some girls that are not into good looking guys. They are usually accompanied by a blindstick.

"(keep in mind, there is a myriad of different likes and dislikes within the frame that is "good looking", so its still not universal.)"

I absolutely agree with you.

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

Again, there has to be SOME common element that girls like. And no, not a guy.

Video_Game_King

Because there's the common, non-gender element that guys look for, and girls aren't from an entirely different species.

I hate girls that go for the money. In my opinion,thats just shallow and ignorant and also that there is a chance that she is unfaithfulMudcake_Mad

[QUOTE="darksword1123"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

That doesn't make sense. If they did that, they'd never find a guy that'd date them.

Video_Game_King

Doesn't make sense to me. If she finds that in a guy, the guy's probably not gonna date her.

You know, it really depends on the girl.

Some girls are really shallow and want a toned athletic guy with a lot of money and a nice car, some girls like "bad boys," some girls like Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome...but there are plenty of girls out there who aren't shallow or picky. Some girls don't even have a "type" -- they just fall for guys at random.

As for me...I'm not picky, but I like smart guys a lot, and I also value a good sense of humor...and of course he has to be nice and have some things in common with me. Physically, I'm not shallow. I mean, yeah, I like short guys and redheads, but I'm not picky or shallow in that sense at all.

My friends always give me crap saying that I tend to go for the "nerdy" guys with no social skills, and I guess I can't argue with that, so I suppose that's my type: "nerd."

t3hrubikscube

so, where ya from? :oops:

You don't want to know what my girlfriend said.Jandurin

Some girls are really shallow and want a toned athletic guy with a lot of money and a nice car, some girls like "bad boys," t3hrubikscube

Sense of humour is likely #1. I've yet to meet someone who doesn't like to laugh.dracula_16

Really? You haven't met me? That's odd...

In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcSajedene

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

To be honest, I have no definite answer. Everybody is unique in their own way, and what a woman finds attractive in another individual differs amongst another. Not every woman favors brawns over brains, but there are women who couldn't give a crap how smart a man is; heck, there are some women who are turned off by a man being smart, too muscular, etc.

For the longest part of my life, I have been single. I only had my first two girlfriends at the age of 14, but neither of them lasted long. However, I finally found a special someone who loves me for who I am, and she's very much different from any other woman I know. She's taller than I am, intelligent, very beautiful and is (surprising to me) a feminist, yet she somehow managed to fall in love with me and vice-versa. :) We've been together for three years now, and I don't anticipate us departing anytime soon.

[QUOTE="dracula_16"]Sense of humour is likely #1. I've yet to meet someone who doesn't like to laugh.Video_Game_King

Really? You haven't met me? That's odd...

I'm not buying it. You're trying too hard to prove me wrong.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcVideo_Game_King

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

There's a big difference between being a passive partner and being a dominitrix partner.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcVideo_Game_King

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcSajedene

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcVideo_Game_King

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcSajedene

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

Something about you saying that sounds weird. Like you're Butthead or something.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcVideo_Game_King

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="dracula_16"]Sense of humour is likely #1. I've yet to meet someone who doesn't like to laugh.dracula_16

Really? You haven't met me? That's odd...

I'm not buying it. You're trying too hard to prove me wrong.

No, I really don't like to laugh. That's something I suppress. To laugh is to show joy, and showing joy is showing weakness.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

remmbermytitans

so, where ya from? :oops:darkspineslayer

[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]In no particular order... Good to look at, funny, financially stable, intellectually and sexually compatible with me, tough but caring, likes animals, is okay with my quirks, has quirks of his own that I can live with, confident, knows how to take care of himself, knows how to take care of me. Etc etc etcGTA_dude

Sexually? Is that really a big enough reason that it needs to be written? I think the standard package we have (no pun intended) is enough to get the job done.

[QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Just because you all have the tools doesn't mean you know how to use it to "get the job done".Sajedene