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That explains some stuff...[QUOTE="fmacraze"][QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"] Pros: Funny ---IM NOT FUNNY. Intelligent ---IM A DUMBASS Loyal ---MEBBE? Reasonably good looking --- No. Has a good job that pays well ---NEED TO GET A FRIGGIN JOB Stable --- In what way? Meh, I'm probably not Shares her interests --- I TRY. AND FAIL. Cons: Flirts a lot ---NO. I suck with teh ladeez Bit of a smart ass --- I don't think so Doesn't always leave the room before farting ---I DONT DO THAT =) Desulated
Hey, all the above matches me also.
Hooray for epic fail.
Heh. The general point of my earlier post is that females look for ALL SORTS OF THINGS. It isn't one thing that, if you have it, you're golden. They want a combination of virtues that outweigh your flaws, and, in general, different girls place the weighting of the various categories differently. So let's say that Bianca (as the female spending the most time responding in this thread, I'm gonna use her as an example) places a premium on the guy liking Ocarina of Time. It doesn't mean that alone will do it for her. She may require that plus a few other virtues and the more flaws you have, the more virtues that you must have to balance it out. Looks are often listed as the only thing girls/women care about since it is the most easily noticeable, but that really isn't the case. They're just the first thing a girl or women gets to discover. Granted, being ugly will count against you, but conceivably that could be counterbalanced if you score highly enough in whatever other areas Bianca considers important. The categories I threw out were just random, off-the-top-of-my-head thoughts. Other categories that may, or may not, be a part of a female's judging criteria can include things as common as "self-confidence" to as odd as "must like pistachios." It also isn't like all of the categories are set in stone. If you work at something you're weak in, then you can get better at it.Women like guys who are smart, witty, fast thinkers, creative, confident(but are kind and thoughtful), put their woman first, respects the, never point out flaws and improvements but praises them for who they are. roleplayer2004I like this list - agreed :) I wouldn't say put their woman first as other things in life are important and I encourage my boyfriend not to plan his future career around me as that isn't fair. And I do ask for improvements and discuss my flaws with him, but like I said - that's only when I ask, I don't like them being pointed out in everyday conversation!
>_> I actually am according to this thread what women look in a guy, its just I dont know any, so it does not matter. I am going to cry to myself now....
[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"] We've learned that "reading comprehension" and "listening" are among Bianca's judgment criteria. :PBiancaDKAm i really asking too much now, or should i lower my expectations of the opposite sex? ^_^
You are definitely asking for WAY too much:P
[QUOTE="clayron"]:oops: You actually made me blush. Thank you. well i'm pretty weird too which is why people avoid talking to me :([QUOTE="twilightpanda"] well i think your even cuter the way u are :oops:twilightpanda
Well, I like your weirdness.
And Bianca....I can do everything, but the car and home, and I will not begin my career until next spring when I graduate. Keep an eye out for me.
[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="clayron"] :oops: You actually made me blush. Thank you.
well i'm pretty weird too which is why people avoid talking to me :(Well, I like your weirdness.
And Bianca....I can do everything, but the car and home, and I will not begin my career until next spring when I graduate. Keep an eye out for me.
what are u majoring in?Relax. Not everyone hits their stride/finds their mojo in this area at the same point in their lives. Keep your head up and keep working to improve yourself and things will eventually turn around.Let's just say girls see me as a slapping bag.
Desulated
[QUOTE="Jandurin"] he says he owns an aston martin but that your requirements make you sound too entitled to bother pursuing over the internetsBiancaDKThose are not my requirements, he should learn to scroll and click next page.
Yeah, I didn't bother reading rest of your posts. But anyway....are you asking too much? Yes, and I am going to do the same thing.
You are definitely asking for WAY too much:PLostProphetFLCL
Well, with three billion or so men on the planet your odds are good of at least a couple of hundred or so having those qualities. nocoolnamejim
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
[QUOTE="twilightpanda"]what are u majoring in?clayron
Business Administration, with an emphasis in Corporate Finance.
A feild not doing too well right now, but hey it will turn around....:( I hope.
and why is that?[QUOTE="roleplayer2004"]Women like guys who are smart, witty, fast thinkers, creative, confident(but are kind and thoughtful), put their woman first, respects the, never point out flaws and improvements but praises them for who they are. tofu-lion91I like this list - agreed :) I wouldn't say put their woman first as other things in life are important and I encourage my boyfriend not to plan his future career around me as that isn't fair. And I do ask for improvements and discuss my flaws with him, but like I said - that's only when I ask, I don't like them being pointed out in everyday conversation!
You think so? I don't think your man putting his career before you would be a wise choice. From what I learned from my parents is that their relationship was at its strongest when she was putting her family and her husband(my father) first. But when she became career orienated and started working what is supposively normal a 40+ hour week their relationship deteriorated and now they hardly talk, love each other or even show affection. Love always comes first because at the end of the day the only thing that matters is happiness and you won't find that with work or money. Just make sure your boyfriend doesn't become too career orienated and thinks just about the money or he's going to have a pretty miserable life. It's more important concerntrating on your love or emtional life than just being career minded so you can live in upper class neighborhood and have plush cars or things will start to deteriorate very quickly!
I like this list - agreed :) I wouldn't say put their woman first as other things in life are important and I encourage my boyfriend not to plan his future career around me as that isn't fair. And I do ask for improvements and discuss my flaws with him, but like I said - that's only when I ask, I don't like them being pointed out in everyday conversation![QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="roleplayer2004"]Women like guys who are smart, witty, fast thinkers, creative, confident(but are kind and thoughtful), put their woman first, respects the, never point out flaws and improvements but praises them for who they are. roleplayer2004
You think so? I don't think your man putting his career before you would be a wise choice. From what I learned from my parents is that their relationship was at its strongest when she was putting her family and her husband(my father) first. But when she became career orienated and started working what is supposively normal a 40+ hour week their relationship deteriorated and now they hardly talk, love each other or even show affection. Love always comes first because at the end of the day the only thing that matters is happiness and you won't find that with work or money. Just make sure your boyfriend doesn't become too career orienated and thinks just about the money or he's going to have a pretty miserable life. It's more important concerntrating on your love or emtional life than just being career minded so you can live in upper class neighborhood and have plush cars or things will start to deteriorate very quickly!
I disagree. It's not working 40 hours a week that makes you distant, it's working 40 hours a week then having to come home to snot nosed kids! :o Nah, I'll have kids some day. But, without is pretty nice, right now.lol finding a guy must be hard for u huh? :P[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"]wait nooo... Thats not my standards at all. i will take any hobo off the streets and invite him home for supper, as long as he digs ocarina of time.BiancaDK
I don´t want a guy where i can´t sit on the couch and wonder if ill get stabbed or just plain mugged. It keeps me on my toes, like a cat.
I've always wondered why my current girlfriend likes me... now I know, and knowing is half the battle.now I know, and knowing is half the battle. Baconbits2004it's so weird that movie is coming out soon I'm sure they ****ed it up.
Rich like donald trump, looks like jared leto, nice car, big home, well endowed, funny like dave chapelle, carreer orientated, intelligence like hawkings, athletic like phelps, preferrably all in one package.BiancaDKThose are some high expectations of us.
[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]now I know, and knowing is half the battle. Jandurinit's so weird that movie is coming out soon I'm sure they ****ed it up. I had completely forgotten about the movie... I'm sure I'll watch it. o.0
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Rich like donald trump, looks like jared leto, nice car, big home, well endowed, funny like dave chapelle, carreer orientated, intelligence like hawkings, athletic like phelps, preferrably all in one package.Angry_MushroomThose are some high expectations of us.
I can do those.
But, I need time for the other stuff.
Those are some high expectations of us.[QUOTE="Angry_Mushroom"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"]Rich like donald trump, looks like jared leto, nice car, big home, well endowed, funny like dave chapelle, carreer orientated, intelligence like hawkings, athletic like phelps, preferrably all in one package.clayron
I can do those.
But, I need time for the other stuff.
Again, i was not being serious! haha I dont expect that from any guy, not at all. Sweet, funny and fairly intelligent, thats all i want.[QUOTE="twilightpanda"]and why is that?clayron
America's financial sector is **** No one is hiring. So, I may have to move into a different field.
A business degree is so general, I could work anywhere.
u can always come here :PThis question isn't really important to me. I am a love camel. If girls don't want me, I don't care I am just as happy alone. I TOO weight the pros and cons silently in my mind.
Pros: Is willing to have sex with me
Is willing to go away after she has sex with me.
Cons: Isn't willing to have sex with me
wants to snuggle AFTER sex.
Oh well of course there's a natural balance between the two :) It's just we're both at an age where college has ended and we're both looking for careers - I'm looking into the police so I can live and move anywhere but his interest in quality assurance (games testing) is in specific places. I've told him to find a job first and then we'll sort out how we're gonna see each other, not the other way round :)You think so? I don't think your man putting his career before you would be a wise choice. From what I learned from my parents is that their relationship was at its strongest when she was putting her family and her husband(my father) first. But when she became career orienated and started working what is supposively normal a 40+ hour week their relationship deteriorated and now they hardly talk, love each other or even show affection. Love always comes first because at the end of the day the only thing that matters is happiness and you won't find that with work or money. Just make sure your boyfriend doesn't become too career orienated and thinks just about the money or he's going to have a pretty miserable life. It's more important concerntrating on your love or emtional life than just being career minded so you can live in upper class neighborhood and have plush cars or things will start to deteriorate very quickly!
roleplayer2004
lol! Well aren't you quite the charmer. :PThis question isn't really important to me. I am a love camel. If girls don't want me, I don't care I am just as happy alone. I TOO weight the pros and cons silently in my mind.
Pros: Is willing to have sex with me
Is willing to go away after she has sex with me.
Cons: Isn't willing to have sex with me
wants to snuggle AFTER sex.
Thunderlung
[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]You are definitely asking for WAY too much:PBiancaDK
Well, with three billion or so men on the planet your odds are good of at least a couple of hundred or so having those qualities. nocoolnamejim
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
Yeah being stuck single is annoying, but I still think that you should never lower your standards in order to stop being single. (And yes I know you were joking about the standards)
Yes the majority of girls I meet are lame and don't interest me so it makes it harder for me to get a relationship, but so what? I would rather be single than with some idiot who I can't stand being around...
Again, i was not being serious! haha I dont expect that from any guy, not at all. Sweet, funny and fairly intelligent, thats all i want.BiancaDK
Why? I love a woman with high expectations...as long as she is nice about it.
Anyway, those three. I got covered.
Hi, my name is Clayron. Wanna hang out? :P
Its hard to answer that question as its all down to the individual, certainly ive seem some good looking women hook up with dog ugly guys who dont even have a personality to make up for their shortcomings and youre left wondering "What the **** would he possibly have that i dont??" then you see rough and ugly women hooking up with hunk type guys, its a mad mad world i tells you.
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]
[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"] [QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Well, with three billion or so men on the planet your odds are good of at least a couple of hundred or so having those qualities. LostProphetFLCL
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
Yeah being stuck single is annoying, but I still think that you should never lower your standards in order to stop being single. (And yes I know you were joking about the standards)
Yes the majority of girls I meet are lame and don't interest me so it makes it harder for me to get a relationship, but so what? I would rather be single than with some idiot who I can't stand being around...
I agree. What's the point being with someone that you aren't happy with?
All the girls at my school love the music nerds or the stuck up, oh I'm so pro (in reality they fail) showoffs so that explains it.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmms, well he has to be reasonably looking :P . . . from there i look for intelligence, a sense of humour, have some things in common :D and he has to be very sweet :P
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]
[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"] [QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Well, with three billion or so men on the planet your odds are good of at least a couple of hundred or so having those qualities. LostProphetFLCL
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
Yeah being stuck single is annoying, but I still think that you should never lower your standards in order to stop being single. (And yes I know you were joking about the standards)
Yes the majority of girls I meet are lame and don't interest me so it makes it harder for me to get a relationship, but so what? I would rather be single than with some idiot who I can't stand being around...
yeh i know what u mean..ive had gf like that, i didnt rly like her attitude, but had like an obligation feeling to date her, that sucks, i was dating her for 3 months till i couldnt stand it anymore and just told her that i dont want be together anymore, she said im a jerk -_-
[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] lebanon :Pclayron
You're Lebanese. Awesome. I would have never guessed...unless I am wrong.
yes i am and why do u think it's awesome?[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="twilightpanda"] u can always come here :Ptwilightpanda
Where is here?
lebanon :Pyour lebanese :o :o :o !!! my friend hamza is lebanese you'd never think it though heh !
[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
XBryanFuryX
Yeah being stuck single is annoying, but I still think that you should never lower your standards in order to stop being single. (And yes I know you were joking about the standards)
Yes the majority of girls I meet are lame and don't interest me so it makes it harder for me to get a relationship, but so what? I would rather be single than with some idiot who I can't stand being around...
yeh i know what u mean..ive had gf like that, i didnt rly like her attitude, but had like an obligation feeling to date her, that sucks, i was dating her for 3 months till i couldnt stand it anymore and just told her that i dont want be together anymore, she said im a jerk -_-
Eh I pretty shut myself out after someone cheated on me. To destroy her for payback, I called her a ***** after school. Oh, sweet revenge.
[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]
This explains the perpetual nature of my single life. =|
*lowers bar to beating pulse and animal lover*
XBryanFuryX
Yeah being stuck single is annoying, but I still think that you should never lower your standards in order to stop being single. (And yes I know you were joking about the standards)
Yes the majority of girls I meet are lame and don't interest me so it makes it harder for me to get a relationship, but so what? I would rather be single than with some idiot who I can't stand being around...
yeh i know what u mean..ive had gf like that, i didnt rly like her attitude, but had like an obligation feeling to date her, that sucks, i was dating her for 3 months till i couldnt stand it anymore and just told her that i dont want be together anymore, she said im a jerk -_-
pffft 3 months how about adding another 8 too that xP yes epic failure
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