What do you consider Cheating?

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Then thats not his problem but the girl and her insecurities. He did his part and if she still cant handle that then she needs the fixing - not him.

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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]Im really confused. Everyone is on this guys case for not telling his g/f about the situation (and i agree that he should have told her) yet no one seems even remotely bothered by the posters who believe making out with another girl is ok :|Scarebaby

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and mine is that it's competely okay to kiss someone else while you're in a relationship. Monogamy in itself doesn't seem like my cup o' tea at all, I think I'd prefer an open relationship.

So you're sure you feel that way? If you were completely in love with a guy and he gets with another girl. And all the girls are talking about him and saying they wanna get with him and you'd agreed that that was ok...

It just seems awful to me. If I'm in a relationship I expect the guy to stick with me. I'd never be in an open relationship because although it seems like a nice idea to be able to get with as many guys as I want (which kinda defeats the purpose of a relationship) it wouldn't be nice to think of my guy off with other girls. And that's double standards really.

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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]Im really confused. Everyone is on this guys case for not telling his g/f about the situation (and i agree that he should have told her) yet no one seems even remotely bothered by the posters who believe making out with another girl is ok :|tofu-lion91

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and mine is that it's competely okay to kiss someone else while you're in a relationship. Monogamy in itself doesn't seem like my cup o' tea at all, I think I'd prefer an open relationship.

So you're sure you feel that way? If you were completely in love with a guy and he gets with another girl. And all the girls are talking about him and saying they wanna get with him and you'd agreed that that was ok...

It just seems awful to me. If I'm in a relationship I expect the guy to stick with me. I'd never be in an open relationship because although it seems like a nice idea to be able to get with as many guys as I want (which kinda defeats the purpose of a relationship) it wouldn't be nice to think of my guy off with other girls. And that's double standards really.

I'm lesbian so erase the guy part! :P But yes, I'm sure I feel that way, but my attitude towards monogamy spawns from my issues with sex and love (I have erotophobia) so I might change my mind over time. I don't believe in "the one" and I don't believe it's healthy (for me, note that) to be 'locked up' with someone like that.

No thats not cheating. Some women just like making a big deal out of nothing. xSIZEMATTER

Agreed....

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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]Im really confused. Everyone is on this guys case for not telling his g/f about the situation (and i agree that he should have told her) yet no one seems even remotely bothered by the posters who believe making out with another girl is ok :|Scarebaby

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and mine is that it's competely okay to kiss someone else while you're in a relationship. Monogamy in itself doesn't seem like my cup o' tea at all, I think I'd prefer an open relationship.

So you're sure you feel that way? If you were completely in love with a guy and he gets with another girl. And all the girls are talking about him and saying they wanna get with him and you'd agreed that that was ok...

It just seems awful to me. If I'm in a relationship I expect the guy to stick with me. I'd never be in an open relationship because although it seems like a nice idea to be able to get with as many guys as I want (which kinda defeats the purpose of a relationship) it wouldn't be nice to think of my guy off with other girls. And that's double standards really.

I'm lesbian so erase the guy part! :P But yes, I'm sure I feel that way, but my attitude towards monogamy spawns from my issues with sex and love (I have erotophobia) so I might change my mind over time. I don't believe in "the one" and I don't believe it's healthy (for me, note that) to be 'locked up' with someone like that.

Fair dos :) It's always interesting to hear someone's views on that sort of thing to kinda work out why they'd choose to live like that

Mental cheating is even worse than physical cheating.leeveeu

:lol: No it's not. Everyone Mental cheats and you all know it.

Ok say if you have a girlfriend. But in the night time, you hook up with this other girl, and all you do is just smoke and drink with this girl, and teach her how to drive, but its not like ur touching her or anything. But you don't tell your girlfriend where u go. Do you consider that cheating?laidback_16

...you taught this girl to drive while drinking?

Ok say if you have a girlfriend. But in the night time, you hook up with this other girl, and all you do is just smoke and drink with this girl, and teach her how to drive, but its not like ur touching her or anything. But you don't tell your girlfriend where u go. Do you consider that cheating?laidback_16

Why is this guy so afraid of his girlfriend that he feels he needs to hide something? If nothing is going on then he has nothing to hide and nothing to fear unless his girlfriend is a drama queen. If it was me I would answer all my girlfriends questions about this situation without being fearful or defensive, because if I didn't do anthing wrong then I don't need to feel uncomfortable as if I did something wrong. If I can't do that, then I shouldn't have been doing what was done.

Ok say if you have a girlfriend. But in the night time, you hook up with this other girl, and all you do is just smoke and drink with this girl, and teach her how to drive, but its not like ur touching her or anything. But you don't tell your girlfriend where u go. Do you consider that cheating?laidback_16

what did you do now???

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