What is the longest you have gone without a girlfriend/boyfriend?

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#1 Stowik
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I'm soon to be 29. It's been 10...TEN...years since I've had a girlfriend. Can anyone compete with that? (It's a contest I don't want to win but I'm afraid I will). Just curious...
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#2 aaaaarrrrggggg
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I never have, but i know there are older people who also haven't.
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#3 darksword1123
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#4 MattUD1
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18 years.
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#5 evil_dutchman90
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The last 2 years, but I've had a couple friends with benefits during that, which is better than a girlfriend.

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#6 sinistergoggles
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I've never had one.
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#7 HybridPhoenix
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A little over a year...By choice, the one before that ended badly and I held onto her for a long time after it was over
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#8 deactivated-583e5f64e0a7e
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It'll be 3 years in August.
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#9 kodex1717
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Hmm, it's been 16 years.
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#10 eo12601
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LOL at having a gf at 10. I've been w/o a gf since mid 10th grade. In other words, around 2 years. She gave me the Bruce Lee xbox game for my b-day. Nuff said. LOL. And I don't really miss it. Too much drama, too little pay off, everyone with half a brain knows they're not going to end up together in the end, I hate dances etc, and all you do is end up wasting a bunch of money on one another.

I'm waiting for college. Hopefully it'll be somewhat different there.

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#11 dirtyd100
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9 months
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#12 Rattlesnake_8
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I don't know.. i was with my previous g.f for 16 months, been with my current g/f for just over 3 years.. Before that i've had others.. as i get older the relationships seem to last longer and longer.. dont think i've been without a g/f for too long.
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#13 hittin
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I would have to travel the whole world 3 times, marry a tortoise, be the hero of WWIII just to compete with that record.

Get you there man, 29 isn't a bad age.

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#14 killalln00bs
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3 years.

Three horrible years... But then the best thing ever happened to me. Too bad she broke up with me. :(

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#15 Stowik
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I'm waiting for college. Hopefully it'll be somewhat different there.

eo12601

I went to college, did really well, was really social, dated, had fun...but didn't stick to one girl. My advice to you is to make an effort in college to at least try to find a nice girl...it gets more difficult in "the real world" to date as much. fyi

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#16 Erasorn
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16 years, but if you count since last relation ship; 1 year 3 months, 2 weeks aaand 1 day..

:lol: All aboard the Relation Ship! ;D
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#17 RPG-er
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14 or 15 years. i didn't have a girlfriend until middle school.
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#18 Stowik
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I would have to travel the whole world 3 times, marry a tortoise, be the hero of WWIII just to compete with that record.

Get you there man, 29 isn't a bad age.

hittin

haha...I guess I'm still relatively young so that's a positive

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#19 eo12601
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[QUOTE="eo12601"]

I'm waiting for college. Hopefully it'll be somewhat different there.

Stowik

I went to college, did really well, was really social, dated, had fun...but didn't stick to one girl. My advice to you is to make an effort in college to at least try to find a nice girl...it gets more difficult in "the real world" to date as much. fyi

Yea, I heard that as well. My parents were very interested in the male to female ratio of all the schools I applied to...LOL... But yea, I'll try to find the special someone... Even though I don't think I really believe in the whole, one true love thing.

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#20 SlashDementia3
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17 years.. But I'm 17.
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#21 Kritical_Strike
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11 years, from my date of birth to my first girlfriend.
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#22 ViVaLaMaTT
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maybe a year and a half?
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#23 Big_Bad_Sad
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I had my first proper girlfirend when I was 17, so 17 years. Does that count. If not Ive been single for nearly 3 years now.
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#24 donny666
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23 years I win!

oh crap

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#25 Stowik
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23 years I win!

oh crap

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#26 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

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#27 haggard_korn
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2 years
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#28 megagene
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If we're talking serious girlfriend, then six years I think...
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#29 Stowik
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15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

DeathScape666

Well, you actually win--if you live to be really old. The idea was to see how long people have gone without, the winner being the longest stretch. Since you've never had one, however, I will need to check the rules to see if that counts...

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#30 SuperVegeta518
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Over 16 years and 7 months.
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#31 eo12601
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15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

DeathScape666

aren't you just a bright little ray of sunshine!

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#32 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

Stowik

Well, you actually win--if you live to be really old. The idea was to see how long people have gone without, the winner being the longest stretch. Since you've never had one, however, I will need to check the rules to see if that counts...

No, it counts. Trust me; I know.

Yeah, I'm the winner! :P Someone post a "You're Winner" picture for me. :)

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#33 Funkyhamster
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I'm guessing most people have been single for 12+ years, considering most people don't start dating until they're in their teens... ?
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#34 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

eo12601

aren't you just a bright little ray of sunshine!

I'm not being pessimistic; I'm just being realistic.

Also, I don't believe in love, so it's not like I would want to have a girlfriend, anyway.

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#35 Lord_Daemon
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I broke up with my last girlfriend 11 years ago and I've yet to snag a steady girlfriend since. Just lucky I s'pose.
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#36 Stowik
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I'm guessing most people have been single for 12+ years, considering most people don't start dating until they're in their teens... ?Funkyhamster

Yea, really good point. That dawned on me after I read some posts from people who were in their teens who never had girlfriends/boyfriends.

Ok, rule amendment: The official "no girlfriend/boyfriend" clock starts at Age 15. Therefore, if you are 20, and never had a girlfriend/boyfriend, then you have gone 5 years.

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#37 eo12601
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[QUOTE="eo12601"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

DeathScape666

aren't you just a bright little ray of sunshine!

I'm not being pessimistic; I'm just being realistic.

Also, I don't believe in love, so it's not like I would want to have a girlfriend, anyway.

Don't be naive. Relationships aren't about love. They are about primal attraction, and sex. And continuing the species. :P

Seriously though, there's no such thing as the "perfect guy" any more than there is a "perfect girl." If you want to find someone, you probably will. There are plenty of people who I don't think are attractive in the least that are happily married. Don't make a self-fullfilling prophecy. The way you think affects the way you lead your life, and the way you lead your life shapes your future.

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#38 Stowik
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I'm not being pessimistic; I'm just being realistic.

Also, I don't believe in love, so it's not like I would want to have a girlfriend, anyway.

Hehe...mark my words...some day, you will experience love, whether you believe in it or not.

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#39 deactivated-5967f36c08c33
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16 years; Basically,my entire life.>_>
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#40 ds360fn
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3 and a half years.
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#41 -Sniper99-
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well, my first girlfriend was when I was 14, and I've only had 2. The longest I've gone since I started dating was about 1 year and 4 months
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#42 saintzombie
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I went without a g/f for 6 months once,but that was after a year and a half relationship with my 1st girlfriend(i was 14)ended.
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#43 Tiefster
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The last serious girlfriend I had dumped me in July 05. I really messed up on that :lol:
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#44 greenleaflink
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25 Years.

btw I am 25.

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#45 lzorro
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19 Years >_> from birth up till my first one....
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#46 jim_shorts
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Well, I'm pushing 15 years, but it's none of my concern.
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#47 friutpunch
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ive had 7 gf's, the longest ive been without a gf is like 8 months but im talking only like once in between a relationship. im only 15 so i dont go nuts about it, but the gf i have know, i feel teh love :D
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#48 Tolwan
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I havent had a girlfriend yet, and since i turned 20 last year, that means i've gone 20 years. I win.
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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"][QUOTE="eo12601"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

15 years. That's how old I am, by the way.

Also, I'll go without havinga girlfriend for however long I live. So basically, I'll never have a girlfriend. I guess that means I lose, huh?

eo12601

aren't you just a bright little ray of sunshine!

I'm not being pessimistic; I'm just being realistic.

Also, I don't believe in love, so it's not like I would want to have a girlfriend, anyway.

Don't be naive. Relationships aren't about love. They are about primal attraction, and sex. And continuing the species. :P

Seriously though, there's no such thing as the "perfect guy" any more than there is a "perfect girl." If you want to find someone, you probably will. There are plenty of people who I don't think are attractive in the least that are happily married. Don't make a self-fullfilling prophecy. The way you think affects the way you lead your life, and the way you lead your life shapes your future.

Thank you very much for the advice. I appreciate it. ;)

You make a good point. However, I don't think I'll ever ask a girl out because I'll be too scared of rejection. So instead of actually knowing the answer, I'll just be wondering, "Would she ever go out with me?" Some things really are better left unsaid. The major reason, though, is that I wouldn't want them to go out with mejust because they are too afraid to sayno.I would just wonder if the girl really likes me, or ifshe just couldn't break my poorlittle heart. :P

Maybe I'll go out of my own weird way of thinking when I get older and find myself a girlfriend, but for now, I don't think I'll have a girlfriend any time soon.

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[QUOTE="Funkyhamster"]I'm guessing most people have been single for 12+ years, considering most people don't start dating until they're in their teens... ?Stowik

Yea, really good point. That dawned on me after I read some posts from people who were in their teens who never had girlfriends/boyfriends.

Ok, rule amendment: The official "no girlfriend/boyfriend" clock starts at Age 15. Therefore, if you are 20, and never had a girlfriend/boyfriend, then you have gone 5 years.

Crap, I guess I'm not the winner anymore. :(

Well, I was beaten by a few people, anyway.