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#51 cpo335
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I don't think this girl thinks that she is your girlfriend. Anymore, that is. PS: Get your blade sharpened.FragStains
Yeah... I mean, I know a couple girls who hug me when they see me and, you know, are affectionate, but they are in no way my gf. That's just the way girls are dude. Boys are tough, rough, and unemotional while girls are the opposite. Don't be so hard on yourself. And buy a punchingbag.
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#52 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Maybe ur right. But I seriously LOVE this girl. I mean really. Unlike any other girlfriend ive ever had, or anybody Ive known. And shes not even that pretty. I fell into a huge goddamn ring of fire and I cant get out.THE_BRUTALIZER
Dude...you said you only knew her for a week.

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#53 MrGeezer
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He's obviously the one trying to screw me up. He tried to do this to another girlfriend I had. However, I eventually broke up with her. This guy has something against me, I just dont know what or why. Im really nice in real life, until today when I almost stabbed him......THE_BRUTALIZER

I don't know, man...not everything's about you, you know. I sort of doubt that there's some guy who is always stealing your girlfriends just to piss you off.

And even if such a guy does exist, he wouldn't get anywhere in his plans if the women weren't willing to go along with it. It's not like he stole your boombox or something. Your "girlfriend" is a PERSON, who is capable of dating whoever she wants to.

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#54 foxhound_fox
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But I seriously LOVE this girl. THE_BRUTALIZER

No, you don't love her. You started talking to her less than a week ago... that isn't even enough time to start gaining affection for a person, let alone love. Love is a strong feeling of attachment, passion and compassion for another person that builds over long periods of time... what you are experiencing is obsessive infatuation. Everyone at your age experiences it.

What you "need" to do, is to stop thinking you "love" this girl and get some professional help for your depression. If you never agreed with this girl that you were in a committed relationship, she isn't at fault for going around and being affection/intimate with other guys. If you did agree, leave her to her own whims and find someone else worth investing time and emotions in, someone who actually cares about you and your emotional health. Because if you stay with this girl and she doesn't respect something you expect from a relationship, she's only going to continue to hurt you. Feel glad you found this out early before you actually fell in love and she actually broke your heart.

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#55 Dr_Brocoli
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Girls ALWAYS do that unfortunately :-\, just pick up as many girls as you can and use them. They dont deserve anymore better treatment. and yes ALL girls are bad like that.
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#56 Wilfred_Owen
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Dude...you said you only knew her for a week.LJS9502_basic
You've never met me but I can tell the sparks are flying from your heartdar right now. Its ok TC, in other news I got great news today, so yea......
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#57 Kamekazi_69
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Wow bro thats deep. I can relate to it, and it even makes me feel woozy reading it. I don't understand girls either. They'll love you, spend years finding that one guy that'll treat her with respect just to throw it away over some jerk. You spoil them with love and presents and out of no where they want to be friends after they rip your guts out. I suggest you dont BS the situation. Confront her, even drive her somewhere where you two can talk in person so she doesn't try to avoid the situation. Don't do it by phone, and confront that guy too. Does he know that you two are together?

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#58 Razor-Lazor
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If I were you, I wouldn't get too worked up about some slut.
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#59 krazy-blazer
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[QUOTE="krazy-blazer"][QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

So Im a senior in highschool.

Just like saturday, I started talking to this other senior girl who isnt in a single class that I have. She just came up and started talking. We talked on average for like 4 hours a day, she hugged me everyday, told me she loves me....we had very similar interests, we loved each other, I stopped being depressed, I started working out a lot more, and I was just a much happier person after I fell in love with her.

That was last saturday.

This morning, I wait for her to walk in, greet her, being nice and friendly and stuff, then I try to hug her. She does a quick hug, then says hang on and diappears. Our school is crowded, I didnt see where she went. Then my friend told me that some kid was hugging my girlfriend. I dismiss it as a friendship that I didnt know about. Or something like that.

Today at dismissal, I am waiting at the front in our normal spot for her to come. I waited five minutes, then I peek inside, and see a junior hugging her. Picking her up. Kissing her. I noticed the dude.

I pulled out my pocketknife slowly. This was the same kid that destroyed my previous relationship. By doing the same thing that he was doing now. My friend punched my hand and thankfully knocked the knife out of my hand. I explained everything to him, how this guy had made my life ****, and how much anger I held back. I was gonna kill him, Im not even kidding. Instead, my great friend helped me out the door. Im so stupid, I know.

But why does this happen to me so much?

Thats the third time in a row, my friends. The first time, I was 15, my best friend stole my girlfriend. We had our confrontations and I ditched him and her.

I just dont understand girls. Love you to death one second, making out with another dude the next. And this girl was actually DECENT. she was smart, straight a's, and I loved her for that.

I cant be more.....frustrated right now. I wanna do bad things now.....

What should I do?

Im not gonna kill the guy. But Im gonna talk to him.

Should I ask my girlfriend? Shes texting me normally right now, but I just dont know.....

What should I do?

I really really badly want the Cheaters camera crew. Just so I could beat his butt on national television.

Thanks for your help :(

THE_BRUTALIZER
Not that i have any experience, But Since you found out and she didn't tell you, Break up with her, why would you want a lying Bleep? ..

Maybe ur right. But I seriously LOVE this girl. I mean really. Unlike any other girlfriend ive ever had, or anybody Ive known. And shes not even that pretty. I fell into a huge goddamn ring of fire and I cant get out.

I'm sorry to tell you, but that's not love, that's obsession
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#60 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Wow bro thats deep. I can relate to it, and it even makes me feel woozy reading it. I don't understand girls either. They'll love you, spend years finding that one guy that'll treat her with respect just to throw it away over some jerk. You spoil them with love and presents and out of no where they want to be friends after they rip your guts out. I suggest you dont BS the situation. Confront her, even drive her somewhere where you two can talk in person so she doesn't try to avoid the situation. Don't do it by phone, and confront that guy too. Does he know that you two are together?

Kamekazi_69
Does she know they are together is more the question....
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#61 cpo335
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What is the difference between love and obsession? I mean, when soemone new is introduced into your life and you can't stop thinking about them, would that be obsession?
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#62 killerkool07
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you carry a ***** pocket knife in school is that normal?! dude chilled not all girls are like that

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#63 Kamekazi_69
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[QUOTE="Kamekazi_69"]

Wow bro thats deep. I can relate to it, and it even makes me feel woozy reading it. I don't understand girls either. They'll love you, spend years finding that one guy that'll treat her with respect just to throw it away over some jerk. You spoil them with love and presents and out of no where they want to be friends after they rip your guts out. I suggest you dont BS the situation. Confront her, even drive her somewhere where you two can talk in person so she doesn't try to avoid the situation. Don't do it by phone, and confront that guy too. Does he know that you two are together?

LJS9502_basic

Does she know they are together is more the question....

lets seee. She kissing him, hugging him, all up on him. Thats self explanatory. Honestly, shes trash, and hes doing himself harm tolerating it.

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#64 joao_22990
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First, don't carry a damn pocket knife. Come on, man, no good will come from it. Second, talk to her. Just listen. It could just be a misunderstanding. And don't start any kind of fight. That'd be as low as you could go.
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#65 LJS9502_basic  Online
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Kamekazi_69"]

Wow bro thats deep. I can relate to it, and it even makes me feel woozy reading it. I don't understand girls either. They'll love you, spend years finding that one guy that'll treat her with respect just to throw it away over some jerk. You spoil them with love and presents and out of no where they want to be friends after they rip your guts out. I suggest you dont BS the situation. Confront her, even drive her somewhere where you two can talk in person so she doesn't try to avoid the situation. Don't do it by phone, and confront that guy too. Does he know that you two are together?

Kamekazi_69

Does she know they are together is more the question....

lets seee. She kissing him, hugging him, all up on him. Thats self explanatory. Honestly, shes trash, and hes doing himself harm tolerating it.

Well let's see...they met a week ago and talked and she hugged him. Sounds like friend to me....

You only have a relationship when you both agree to one.;)

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#66 muller39
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No offence but I cant believe you were thinking of harming another human being especially over something as trivial as this.

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#67 Smallville417
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I'm going to go with the general consensus and say that you are obsessed with this girl. Like another poster stated, does your "girlfriend" even know that's what she is? It sounds like you are making assumptions. Have you both actually discussed your relationship? If not, it's something you need to do. And no girl is worth stabbing someone over. Than the only relationship in your future is your cellmate in prison.
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#68 Mercenary848
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Wow you really are foolish enough to kill over a whore. In highschool for that matter. buddy just let it go, just keep working out and having a good time. You still learned to hae a good time. i can't believe you were so quick to throw it away.

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#69 FrenchDynasty
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Esse, high school dating is like a bunch of bad soap opera's man, thats the way i think of it. of course it usually never lasts. but don't get sooooooo P!ssed cause 1 thing didn't work thats life man. the knife thing is kinda disturbing though...

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#70 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Why does everyone assume negative characteristics about the girl? We only have his impression of the relationship.:?
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#71 dont-read-this
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Yeah, you lover her and she loves you and you met her saturday. :roll: God, kids these days.
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#72 dave123321
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You should think about talking to your parents and disscuss getting help.
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#73 muller39
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Why does everyone assume negative characteristics about the girl? We only have his impression of the relationship.:?LJS9502_basic
I have not judged her yet.....
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#74 MgamerBD
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*plays degrassi intro music*
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#75 drufeous
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You don't fall in love in a week and you sure as hell don't attempt to stab a kid over a week long failed relationship. Good God!!

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#76 BanjoMumbo
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I'm slowly going to exit this thread now, so how's the weather in North America? :?

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#77 MetallicSoap
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You sound like someone whos really clingy, it's annoying. Maybe thats why she'd rather screw a kid younger than you instead of your clingy ass.:lol:

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#78 Mercenary848
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Sorry to get personal, but why is it that you carry a nife to school. That seems to be the last thing you need to carry.

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#79 nimatoad2000
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stop listening to heavy metal music, its turning you into a mass murderer.
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#80 Jaks_Secret
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Well obviously you need to kill her so he can't have her. Then kill him.
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#81 Solid_Tango
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She is a psyco dude just forget her, i know its not easy believe i ve been there. But JUST LET IT GO
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#82 AirGuitarist87
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Well; you're quick to anger, a reaction stemming from the belief you are wronged in a situation where you hold the moral high ground, and the action taken was far beyond what was called for, showing clear signs of frustration. You say that she stopped you being "depressed", so you were placing far too much reliance of your own happiness on her. Her being with another guy was more than just a fling that got away, he was almost violating a part of you because of the emphasis you placed on her. If the first thing you thought when you saw this girl being happy with someone who wasn't you was to kill the opposition I would seek counselling. There's no two-ways around it: stabbing someone over someone you've known barely a month isn't a healthy sign. The utter dependency you placed in such a short amount of time leads me to think that you need others around to validate you as a person, which you don't. There are plenty of fish in the sea and there is plenty of time to fish. High school isn't forever, no matter what Luke Perry thinks.
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#83 Ultrabeatdown55
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I have a girl friend in school and we hug and kiss regularly. We even say "I love you" sometimes but we are not in a relationship. I don't know why not because I want to go out with her, but she doesn't want to :x But the hugging and kissing makes up for it I guess :lol:

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#84 RJay123
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YOU HAVE TO SAY

"Do you want to be in a relationship with me?"

You have to ask her that. Directly. In person. Staring into her eyes.

And you have to accept whatever answer she gives you.

If it's anything short of yes, she's not worth your time

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#85 CalibreS
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Easy come easy go I guess
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#86 Grodus5
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Sneak up behind the guy and "chin pick" him, that is, grab him by the chin and lean him back. Where the head goes, the body will follow. If he doesn't suspect it, you can floor the guy before the fight even starts. Or you could move on and try to forget about it. The latter is probably perferrable.

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#87 sammyjenkis898
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This thread made my day.
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#88 Norg
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Well umm go find another girl there are like 9 Billion people on this planet :P

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#89 RedruM_I
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Well umm go find another girl there are like 9 Billion people on this planet :P

Norg
That's a good advice but it's hard, specially when you are young. The younger you are your emotions are harder to control. That's not your fault TC, that's how humans are. An full adult human is supposed to be able to control emotions rationally although for some it's still a difficult task. I know this sounds easier than it is but try and control what you feel. If you notice that the relationship didn't work, move along with your life.
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#90 MarkyyR
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Your dumb =/
Gilrs say I love you al the time when then not going out with people its kinda like joking in a way im sure she liked you as a friend but unless you asked her or if SHE asked you out than you where never going out in the first place.

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#91 II_Seraphim_II
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Maybe it's because she saw you were crazy and willing to kill people over a high school relationship. JML897
for real man. That's f'ed up :? And TC, DONT TALK TO THE GUY! Ever notice how in every murder trail the accused always says "I just went over to talk and it got out of hand"? yeah take that as a sign :|
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#93 l4dak47
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you carry a ***** pocket knife in school is that normal?! dude chilled not all girls are like that

killerkool07

i carry a pocket knife too, and i'm probably one of the people that has the most self-control i only carry it around for emergencies

EDIT: i made a mistake i don't carry the pocketknife in school, stores whenever i go out yes... but not school my bad