What will you do if you can't get married?

Live by myself and try to convince myself I am living the life by not having to worry about anyone else or spending money on anyone else and having my own place, while on the inside really feeling lonely and bitter. :(

Live by myself and try to convince myself I am living the life by not having to worry about anyone else or spending money on anyone else, while on the inside really feeling lonely and bitter. :(

DJ-Lafleur

I'd try to live alone and keep a younger man on the side, just for fun.

What's the male equivalent of a crazy cat lady?

I'd try to live alone and keep a younger man on the side, just for fun.

binpink

[QUOTE="Treesmash"][QUOTE="Animatronic64"]

A solitary lifestyle isn't so bad.

Animatronic64

Live with friendsbobbetybob

[QUOTE="Animatronic64"][QUOTE="Treesmash"] lol, yeah. Think of all the old guys you know that never got married or had kids. Yikes, creep central right there.Treesmash

[QUOTE="Animatronic64"][QUOTE="Treesmash"] lol, yeah. Think of all the old guys you know that never got married or had kids. Yikes, creep central right there.Treesmash

Uhh I've been in a long term relationship for awhile now and sometimes I go to the movies and other places by myself. I see nothing weird about it sometimes you just want to spend time alone. :|

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Pixel-Pirate

i truly feel bad for people who live their entire lives alone.

I'm married so... I don't know

Where is the option in the poll to buy Russian wife? :D

IWKYB

[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

rawsavon

Was he the same guy awhile back who made a thread about marriage that basically demonized all who didn't want to get married as anti-marriage?

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Pixel-Pirate

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Pixel-Pirate

Was he the same guy awhile back who made a thread about marriage that basically demonized all who didn't want to get married as anti-marriage?

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Pixel-Pirate

Was he the same guy awhile back who made a thread about marriage that basically demonized all who didn't want to get married as anti-marriage?

[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] every thread he makes confirms your assertionrawsavon

Was he the same guy awhile back who made a thread about marriage that basically demonized all who didn't want to get married as anti-marriage?

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Was he the same guy awhile back who made a thread about marriage that basically demonized all who didn't want to get married as anti-marriage?

Treesmash

[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Treesmash

Several. There are millions of doctors and lawyers in the world compared to less than 50 presidents in over 200 years. It's probably mathematically impossible for every single lawyer and doctor in history to of been married. I also know plenty of doctors in their 20's who arn't married.

As for presidents: Image is very important in politics. And a single man doesn't attract as many votes as a normal christian family man does.

[QUOTE="Treesmash"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Pixel-Pirate

Several. There are millions of doctors and lawyers in the world compared to less than 50 presidents in over 200 years. It's probably mathematically impossible for every single lawyer and doctor in history to of been married. I also know plenty of doctors in their 20's who arn't married.

As for presidents: Image is very important in politics. And a single man doesn't attract as many votes as a normal christian family man does.

[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

Treesmash

what the hell are you talking about? who cares if all the presidents were married? lol, i'm sure there are plenty of doctors and lawyers who aren't married.

[QUOTE="Treesmash"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is it just me or does the OP come off as if not getting married is some terrible thing that solidifies you in loneliness/failure?

lazerface216

what the hell are you talking about? who cares if all the presidents were married? lol, i'm sure there are plenty of doctors and lawyers who aren't married.

[QUOTE="lazerface216"]

[QUOTE="Treesmash"] Well, I mean... umm... I don't know how to break it to you but name one American president that wasn't married. How many doctors and lawyers do you know that aren't married? It's not that you have to be married to do those things but a life that you lead that would make a person of the other sex want to be with you usually means you're successful. Treesmash

what the hell are you talking about? who cares if all the presidents were married? lol, i'm sure there are plenty of doctors and lawyers who aren't married.

[QUOTE="lazerface216"]

[QUOTE="Treesmash"] Well, I mean... umm... I don't know how to break it to you but name one American president that wasn't married. How many doctors and lawyers do you know that aren't married? It's not that you have to be married to do those things but a life that you lead that would make a person of the other sex want to be with you usually means you're successful. Treesmash

what the hell are you talking about? who cares if all the presidents were married? lol, i'm sure there are plenty of doctors and lawyers who aren't married.

Of course they will, because people are naturally attracted to money and power and success tends to come with that. However, being successful does not mean you are married or that you will want to be married. It means people may want to marry you but it's a two way street. If someone wants to marry me I do not have to marry them.

I would just get a girlfriend. Or maybe just buy a Dog.

id probably live alone or maybe with some friends if possible.

I actually kinda have a plan for this. I have a deal with one of my friends that if neither of us is married by the time we are 35 and it is convenient for us we will cohabitate and have kids.

Where is the "party hard" option?

Just be a bachelor...

[QUOTE="binpink"]

I'd try to live alone and keep a younger man on the side, just for fun.

rawsavon

"Like I'm the only person who's ever mixed a margarita in a sailor's mouth??" :P

Well, I mean... umm... I don't know how to break it to you but name one American president that wasn't married. How many doctors and lawyers do you know that aren't married? It's not that you have to be married to do those things but a life that you lead that would make a person of the other sex want to be with you usually means you're successful. Treesmash

Doctors and lawyers?? Yea, good example. There's a difference between being married and being happily married. Neither one makes you a success of a person.

"Like I'm the only person who's ever mixed a margarita in a sailor's mouth??" :P

binpink

I would like to get married one day, and I am even considering that my girlfriend might be the person I want to spend my life with, but right now I'm taking it slow with her. But if I didn't get married I would still enjoy my life and live it happily sorrunded by family and friends that I care about

[QUOTE="binpink"]

"Like I'm the only person who's ever mixed a margarita in a sailor's mouth??" :P

rawsavon

8) Let those rapscallions wonder! I like our old-age weirdness. :D

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="binpink"]

"Like I'm the only person who's ever mixed a margarita in a sailor's mouth??" :P

binpink

8) Let those rapscallions wonder! I like our old-age weirdness. :D

if i don't get married, i would probably still date. so yea.

You're missing adopt a daughter.

[QUOTE="IWKYB"]

Where is the option in the poll to buy Russian wife? :D

Treesmash