What would you do if you were not allowed to marry the person you love

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#1 Serraph105
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I don't mean they don't love you back you both love each other. Honestly I don't know what I would do.

Just a question I saw and I thought would be good for this forum.

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#2 megagene
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I guess I wouldn't marry them and just be their boyfriend/partner for the rest of my life. Marriage is overrated.
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#3 weezyfb
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then i wouldnt marry them.. you can still live/sleep with them
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#4 appletsauce
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Marry anyway, of course. Once you're married, all you need is each other.

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#5 Communist_Soul
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Get a civil union.

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#6 shoot-first
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Just act like we were. :P

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#7 D_Battery
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I'll answer this assuming you meant, couldn't be with the person you love (marriage doesn't really matter any more). I'd probably try to get over her then; if there is no possibility of us being together, continuing to love her would only cause me further grief. Best to move on.

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#8 jimmyjammer69
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Have no plan on marrying her so I guess it would be life as usual.
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#9 foxhound_fox
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What is getting in our way? Parents? Money? Government? I need a more specific question before I can answer, because if I love someone enough to marry them, I'm going to do what it takes to do it.

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#10 The_AI
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Live with them anyways. If I can't marry the person I'm truly in love with, then who needs marriage?

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#11 smc91352
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Love is something you can't prove.

And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

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#12 broken_bass_bin
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Is it that I'm just not allowed? Or is it that I can't?

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#13 deactivated-5e376fa88bd45
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It depends on what the restrictions are. Should it be parents, then one should just go ahead and do it anyways. I don't think my father approved of my now sister in law, yet there at the point where they are about to get a baby(and i'm about to be an uncle). If its a legal issue then well..... you don't have that many options unless you want to jump to another state where your marriage will be legal.

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#14 Teenaged
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Get a civil union.

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Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

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#15 smc91352
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The legal purpose of marriage is for Taxes, children, etc.

I say that we shouldn't have so much stuff integrated together.

I say we should not include whether you're couple or not as a taxable factor.

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#16 12345678ew
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Love is something you can't prove.

And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

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lololololololololololol morman much? although i admit having a change in uhmmmmm diet in the evenings would be nice.
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#17 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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Just live together unmarried forever.
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#18 Vandalvideo
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Either not get married ever or just go find another chick, depending on my motive.
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The legal purpose of marriage is for Taxes, children, etc.

I say that we shouldn't have so much stuff integrated together.

I say we should not include whether you're couple or not as a taxable factor.

smc91352
I agree with that. It's not like the US is pushing the population increase factor or anything nowadays.
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#20 smc91352
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[QUOTE="smc91352"]

Love is something you can't prove.

And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

12345678ew

lololololololololololol morman much? although i admit having a change in uhmmmmm diet in the evenings would be nice.

No; I am a skeptical yet open-minded atheist who HATES Catholicism. You give me proof in a god, I'll listen

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#21 ChowsSN
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Then I'd be happy to know that half my property isn't at stake.
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#22 foxhound_fox
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And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

smc91352


Why is that? Marriage is a social system that changes over time based on the benefits it carries for the community. Just because our ancestors were polygamous, doesn't mean monogamy doesn't carry its benefits and social influences.

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#23 Mr_Manikin52
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I would move to Australia with my girl SI model Jessica Gomes.

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#24 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="smc91352"]And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

foxhound_fox


Why is that? Marriage is a social system that changes over time based on the benefits it carries for the community. Just because our ancestors were polygamous, doesn't mean monogamy doesn't carry its benefits and social influences.

Or just because its hard doesnt mean that we are not suited for it.

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#25 Puscifer_No1
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I don't mean they don't love you back you both love each other. Honestly I don't know what I would do.

Just a question I saw and I thought would be good for this forum.

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Spend the rest of our days together as a couple who share their love with each other.
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#26 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Live with them....better than getting married anyway. Easier to end....
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#27 Communist_Soul
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[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

Get a civil union.

Teenaged

Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

Thank you :P I wonder what is stopping me? If its the govenment I would wonder why, if it's my parents too bad for them, and if its her parents try to talk to them. If all else fails get her pregnant.

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#28 xionvalkyrie
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Civil Union, but say we're married anyways to piss people off.

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#29 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

Get a civil union.

Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

actually it wasnt about that
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#30 LJS9502_basic  Online
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

Get a civil union.

Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

actually it wasnt about that

:lol: Sorry but that made me laugh....
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#31 HipYoungster42
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I have an arranged marriage, so...

yeah...

:P

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#32 LJS9502_basic  Online
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I have an arranged marriage, so...

yeah...

:P

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[QUOTE="12345678ew"][QUOTE="smc91352"]

Love is something you can't prove.

And humen aren't meant for monogamy.

smc91352

lololololololololololol morman much? although i admit having a change in uhmmmmm diet in the evenings would be nice.

No; I am a skeptical yet open-minded atheist who HATES Catholicism. You give me proof in a god, I'll listen

If you want to be taken seriously as an atheist, you might want to steer clear of design language, such as what humans are "meant" for :)
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#34 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

LJS9502_basic

actually it wasnt about that

:lol: Sorry but that made me laugh....

when I think about it the original place I saw this in it was probably about gay marriage but I didn't really think it through when I made this thread. :?

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#35 samuraiguns
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We would be as we were before...

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#36 Head_of_games
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[QUOTE="HipYoungster42"]

I have an arranged marriage, so...

yeah...

:P

LJS9502_basic
Where do you live if you don't mind my asking?

The US. He's a unificationist, I believe.
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#37 BumFluff122
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Elope.

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#38 smc91352
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[QUOTE="smc91352"]

[QUOTE="12345678ew"] lololololololololololol morman much? although i admit having a change in uhmmmmm diet in the evenings would be nice.xaos

No; I am a skeptical yet open-minded atheist who HATES Catholicism. You give me proof in a god, I'll listen

If you want to be taken seriously as an atheist, you might want to steer clear of design language, such as what humans are "meant" for :)

While I can see your point that meant may be used as a typical nominal argument; in this case its not...And its a fact that people aren't built for marrige.

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#39 LJS9502_basic  Online
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="HipYoungster42"]

I have an arranged marriage, so...

yeah...

:P

Head_of_games
Where do you live if you don't mind my asking?

The US. He's a unificationist, I believe.

I'm not familiar with that group.....*google time*
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#40 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

Get a civil union.

Serraph105

Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

actually it wasnt about that

I know.

Hence the " :P " smiley.

I guess in GS whether you use smileys or not you are bound to be misunderstood.

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#41 fail_baby
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If I can't have her... No one can... :|

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#42 rmerri52
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Then i would have them be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.
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#43 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Oh you!

You understood the intention of the thread right away! ;)

:P

LJS9502_basic

actually it wasnt about that

:lol: Sorry but that made me laugh....

:lol:

Yeah its funny how he didnt understand I was joking. :P

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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="smc91352"]No; I am a skeptical yet open-minded atheist who HATES Catholicism. You give me proof in a god, I'll listen

smc91352

If you want to be taken seriously as an atheist, you might want to steer clear of design language, such as what humans are "meant" for :)

While I can see your point that meant may be used as a typical nominal argument; in this case its not...And its a fact that people aren't built for marrige.

Please elaborate
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Uhm im not even sure...probably the same thing when i couldnt have any of the girls i've fallen for over the years

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[QUOTE="smc91352"]

[QUOTE="xaos"] If you want to be taken seriously as an atheist, you might want to steer clear of design language, such as what humans are "meant" for :)xaos

While I can see your point that meant may be used as a typical nominal argument; in this case its not...And its a fact that people aren't built for marrige.

Please elaborate

To introduce something into reality you need to prove your option is better. So its really not up to me to prove marriage is not for humen; its up to you to prove it is and for skeptics to answer with either open acceptance or with counter-arguments that destroy your logic.

There are some really good books out against pro-marriage arguments; I'm not that hard-core that I'd extinct it, I just wanna take it out of legislature 'cause its basically a religion that other religions like to integrate 'cause they need an answer as to what to tell "believers" to believe sexuality should be like.

Wow; that was a run-on sentence.

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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="smc91352"]While I can see your point that meant may be used as a typical nominal argument; in this case its not...And its a fact that people aren't built for marrige.

smc91352

Please elaborate

To introduce something into reality you need to prove your option is better. So its really not up to me to prove marriage is not for humen; its up to you to prove it is and for skeptics to answer with either open acceptance or with counter-arguments that destroy your logic.

There are some really good books out against pro-marriage arguments; I'm not that hard-core that I'd extinct it, I just wanna take it out of legislature 'cause its basically a religion that other religions like to integrate 'cause they need an answer as to what to tell "believers" to believe sexuality should be like.

Wow; that was a run-on sentence.

OK, here is my proof; the institution of marriage has arisen spontaneously in practically every human culture in recorded history. What facts do you have aside from naked assertion?
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OK, here is my proof; the institution of marriage has arisen spontaneously in practically every human culture in recorded history. What facts do you have aside from naked assertion?xaos
So is the idea of some sort of heaven; just because its popular, its not true. And I'm really the guy you should be arguing with; I'd suggest you just read one of those books.

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[QUOTE="xaos"]OK, here is my proof; the institution of marriage has arisen spontaneously in practically every human culture in recorded history. What facts do you have aside from naked assertion?smc91352

So is the idea of some sort of heaven; just because its popular, its not true. And I'm really the guy you should be arguing with; I'd suggest you just read one of those books.

I think we can all agree marriage exists....:|
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[QUOTE="xaos"]OK, here is my proof; the institution of marriage has arisen spontaneously in practically every human culture in recorded history. What facts do you have aside from naked assertion?smc91352

So is the idea of some sort of heaven; just because its popular, its not true. And I'm really the guy you should be arguing with; I'd suggest you just read one of those books.

I don't particularly care about marriage; my partner and I elected not to get married during the brief window where we could have here in CA, but I find argument by assertion, then responding by expecting me to provide facts (which you haven't done) to be inconsistent, to put it mildly.