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[QUOTE="wrfade82"]
I'm 20 and personally I would only go +/- 2 years.
The younger girls that crave a "mature" (older) guy are incapable of being as mature. Likewise, I wouldn't push my luck on a 25 year old woman and use her as some kind of maturity crutch. Most guys I know in there 20s dating someone in there teens have maturity issues.
I can't imagine why someone would want someone at a different maturity level / stage in life. I'd rather enjoy, explore and discover the wonders of life at the same time as my partner.
How boring would it be for those 25 year old women with 40 year old boyfriends? The man has been there and done that and would probably discourage the woman from trying something in life that he believes isn't worth it.
wrfade82
You seem to describe those age differing desires as problematic. We all have those complexes (some dont when it comes to intimate relationships) but to think that its abnormal is ignorant."Age differing desires"? That's why we have mothers, aunts, and grandmothers to give us that comfort of love and life experience.
Oh, and if you mean sexual desires for different age groups, then do whatever you want. Check out your little sister's friend at the pool and tell yourself your normal. Apparently a lot of people today are into age differences. I'm not going to tell you to not be sexually attracted to Hannah Montana when people are out there having sex with horses. Fulfilling sexual desires is a free for all for people today. Some desires are legal and mutual, some aren't.
The points in my original post are focused on everything other than the sexual facets of the relationship - the most important and enduring ones. In respect to this, "age differing desires" tend to be rooted to being a pedophile or a gold digger.
You seem to love to extrapolate. >_>I never mentioned justifying or calling it normal to have a desire on someone who is not of legal age. I was referring to what you called "maturity issues". Now tell me what is so repulsive to you if a 20 year old woman likes to date 40 year old men? Or the opposite?
And also something more difficult... try to to establish it with something different than: "yikes its disgusting dude!!!".
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