What's the largest age gap that you'll date?

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#101 wrfade82
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

Closed-minded. You're the sick one by posting these disturbing pictures.

DragonRebel0908

Why would you have a problem with a child molester?
You want to date a 14 year old = you want to be a child molester.

I just figured this guy was a friend of yours...that yall hung out in your van together handingout candy

van

You're ignorant.

The only people that play the "you're ignorant" card are child molesters and Michael Jackson.

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#102 needled24-7
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Well I'm 18, and dating a 16-year-old would be kind of a stretch for me (my mom actually think that's too young for me but I don't); I'd rather date someone my own age.

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#103 DragonRebel0908
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Why should I be expected to brilliantly defend myself when no one should be starting anything with me in the first place? This guy is bugging me with insults and disturbing images.

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#104 rawsavon
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Why should I be expected to brilliantly defend myself when no one should be starting anything with me in the first place? This guy is bugging me with insults and disturbing images.

DragonRebel0908
What's the matter MERV? No witty comeback to defend/justify loving little girls Remember what goes around comes around...and I hope it comes around a lot for you in prison
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#105 Stesilaus
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I think about 5 years would as far as I'm comfortable.

p00zer

Five? :shock:

Dear god. Even I wouldn't go below eight! :P

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#106 DragonRebel0908
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

Why should I be expected to brilliantly defend myself when no one should be starting anything with me in the first place? This guy is bugging me with insults and disturbing images.

rawsavon

What's the matter MERV? No witty comeback to defend/justify loving little girls Remember what goes around comes around...and I hope it comes around a lot for you in prison

I don't have to defend or justify myself. You started on me.

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#107 D_Battery
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I'd go down to 15 and up to 30. I'm 18 by the way.

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#108 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

Why should I be expected to brilliantly defend myself when no one should be starting anything with me in the first place? This guy is bugging me with insults and disturbing images.

DragonRebel0908

What's the matter MERV? No witty comeback to defend/justify loving little girls Remember what goes around comes around...and I hope it comes around a lot for you in prison

I don't have to defend or justify myself. You started on me.

I will end our discussion this way

gun

All those 14 year old girls you want to "date"...have dads

And I hope that for all our sakes this pic will represent your last agrument about how great it is to date little girls

-dads tend to use guns more than words on Creepers

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#109 wrfade82
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[QUOTE="wrfade82"]

I'm 20 and personally I would only go +/- 2 years.

The younger girls that crave a "mature" (older) guy are incapable of being as mature. Likewise, I wouldn't push my luck on a 25 year old woman and use her as some kind of maturity crutch. Most guys I know in there 20s dating someone in there teens have maturity issues.

I can't imagine why someone would want someone at a different maturity level / stage in life. I'd rather enjoy, explore and discover the wonders of life at the same time as my partner.

How boring would it be for those 25 year old women with 40 year old boyfriends? The man has been there and done that and would probably discourage the woman from trying something in life that he believes isn't worth it.

Teenaged

You seem to describe those age differing desires as problematic. We all have those complexes (some dont when it comes to intimate relationships) but to think that its abnormal is ignorant.

"Age differing desires"? That's why we have mothers, aunts, and grandmothers to give us that comfort of love and life experience.

Oh, and if you mean sexual desires for different age groups, then do whatever you want. Check out your little sister's friend at the pool and tell yourself your normal. Apparently a lot of people today are into age differences. I'm not going to tell you to not be sexually attracted to Hannah Montana when people are out there having sex with horses. Fulfilling sexual desires is a free for all for people today. Some desires are legal and mutual, some aren't.

The points in my original post are focused on everything other than the sexual facets of the relationship - the most important and enduring ones. In respect to this, "age differing desires" tend to be rooted to being a pedophile or a gold digger.

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#110 DragonRebel0908
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Nobody would kill me and if they did, they'd go to prison.

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#111 michael_1234576
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older chicks are hawt
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#112 rawsavon
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Nobody would kill me and if they did, they'd go to prison.

DragonRebel0908
For many dads, it would be well worth it
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#113 DragonRebel0908
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

Nobody would kill me and if they did, they'd go to prison.

rawsavon

For many dads, it would be well worth it

Then they'd be evil.

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#114 DragonRebel0908
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So quit bothering me.

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#115 -Chimera-
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Now would be a good time for Funky_Llama to chime in and proclaim this thread to be the worst thread on the internet.
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#116 rawsavon
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So quit bothering me.

DragonRebel0908
A part of me actually feels bad for you JESTER...a very small part mind you But sick people usually don't even know they are sick BTW: does Jesus tell you to find little girls or maybe you are more of a devil guy...ya you are defin. into little devils
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#117 fize4ever
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never will date :D

my choice and i must go for it

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#118 DragonRebel0908
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I know I'm a good, loving, kind person.

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#119 horgen  Moderator
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Nothing higher than 20, nothing lower than 18... If you're close to 18 I'll let it go though :P
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#120 Stesilaus
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All those 14 year old girls you want to "date"...have dads

rawsavon

Why the fuss about 14 year olds?

Take a look here and you will see that there are many countries (including many developed countries) where the age of consent is 14 or lower.

For that matter, three US states have an age of consent of just 14 (albeit with some age-gap qualifications):

  • Arkansas
  • Indiana
  • Iowa

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#121 rawsavon
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I know I'm a good, loving, kind person.

DragonRebel0908
Yes, Yes I bet you chant that over and over as you dig graves in your backyard
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#122 DragonRebel0908
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I know I'm a good, loving, kind person.

rawsavon

Yes, Yes I bet you chant that over and over as you dig graves in your backyard

You are saying some of the dumbest and most off-the-wall pieces of nonsense that a person could say. Maybe you need help in saying something that makes sense.

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#123 Trmpt
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Generally, the rule of thumb is that [your age] divided by 2 + 7 = the minimum age th3warr1or

lol, if that formula was ever made into a law Hugh Hefner would have broke that law a loooooooooong time ago.

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#124 stepnkev
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Well, I'm 42 and my wife is 34. When I met my wife, I was 33 and she was 25. I would have to say that was the youngest I would have dated. We're 8 years apart.

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#125 -Fromage-
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Well being 22 I wont date anyone under 18. As for how high I'd go, I'd probably stop at 30.
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#126 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I know I'm a good, loving, kind person.

DragonRebel0908

Yes, Yes I bet you chant that over and over as you dig graves in your backyard

You are saying some of the dumbest and most off-the-wall pieces of nonsense that a person could say. Maybe you need help in saying something that makes sense.

Wow MERV...I am surprised you didn't come back with "your mom" or "your face"

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#127 Stesilaus
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] Yes, Yes I bet you chant that over and over as you dig graves in your backyardrawsavon

You are saying some of the dumbest and most off-the-wall pieces of nonsense that a person could say. Maybe you need help in saying something that makes sense.

Wow MERV...I am surprised you didn't come back with "your mom" or "your face"

Leave the guy alone, man. You just keep on and on and on ...

People may start to wonder what you're hiding beneath all that self-righteousness.

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#128 DragonRebel0908
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See...this crap makes me so nerve-wrecked and upset...I can't freaking help that I like young teenage girls. I don't want to do anything to hurt anyone. I care about people and love them and I don't deserve being nagged at and bothered like this. It really tears my nerves up.

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#129 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

You are saying some of the dumbest and most off-the-wall pieces of nonsense that a person could say. Maybe you need help in saying something that makes sense.

Wow MERV...I am surprised you didn't come back with "your mom" or "your face"

Leave the guy alone, man. You just keep on and on and on ...

People may start to wonder what you're hiding beneath all that self-righteousness.

Please tell me that you are not supporting a 20 year old dating a 14 year old ...16 and 14, heck even 17 and 14 I can understand But not 20 and 14 That is just wrong
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#130 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

You are saying some of the dumbest and most off-the-wall pieces of nonsense that a person could say. Maybe you need help in saying something that makes sense.

Wow MERV...I am surprised you didn't come back with "your mom" or "your face"

Leave the guy alone, man. You just keep on and on and on ...

People may start to wonder what you're hiding beneath all that self-righteousness.

And now he is just acting stupid on purpose so i was finding funny pics to make fun of his "creeper status"
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#132 pianist
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I don't care about age. If the person is on the same level of maturity as I am (i.e. that of an adult), I'll date her. So realistically, no younger than 22 or 23, and that'd be pushing it. Most people change a lot in their late teens and early 20s, and I'm not interested in dating people who have no idea about what they really want from life and relationships.

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#133 bobaban
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that formula is stupid. i date who i find hot and is of the legal ageweezyfb
Same. 16 is legal in Canada lol
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#134 Stesilaus
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Please tell me that you are not supporting a 20 year old dating a 14 year old ...16 and 14, heck even 17 and 14 I can understand But not 20 and 14 That is just wrong

rawsavon

I wouldn't support any relationship that involved exploitation or coercion. But I wonder why you're so certain that a 20-year-old would be any more exploitative than a 17-year-old?

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#135 awssk8er716
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I'm going to be a Junior in high school, and I would date someone one year under me, or one above me.

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#136 Stesilaus
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And now he is just acting stupid on purpose so i was finding funny pics to make fun of his "creeper status"

rawsavon

OK, sorry. I didn't realize it was just a tongue-in-cheek thing. My apologies for overreacting. :oops:

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#137 rawsavon
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dragonRebel0908...aka Merv the Perv...aka Jester the Molester

I have two more pics than I am done

creeper

I hope all the 14 year oldgirls you are trying to pick upget the memo about you

creep

and no matter what you do, Creepachu will always be watching you

This has been fun, but I have to get some work done...I really hope you were just trolling

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#138 DragonRebel0908
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I can like younger girls if I want to.

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#139 yagr_zero
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As long as the gap doesn't reach over 10, then I'm okay with it.
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#141 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Please tell me that you are not supporting a 20 year old dating a 14 year old ...16 and 14, heck even 17 and 14 I can understand But not 20 and 14 That is just wrong

I wouldn't support any relationship that involved exploitation or coercion. But I wonder why you're so certain that a 20-year-old would be any more exploitative than a 17-year-old?

His original post disturbed me because I think there is a huge difference between 14 and 20 -it is the equivalent of an 8th grader dating a college sophmore -there are girls that have not even gone through puberty at that point -I set 17 and 14 as the limit because 1. it is still legal and 2. they could possibly be in HS together I pointed out that this was kind of sick He started acting stupid...at least I hope he was acting...so I started posting "creeper" pics about him
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#142 DragonRebel0908
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You started giving me crap about it. I should have to be forced to defend myself. I have my own preferences just like everyone else. No one is the same. If I like teenage girls, then that's just what I like. I like older girls, too.

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#143 ff-leader
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Date i'm20 so youngest 16, oldest 27.

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#144 Chiddaling
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Age seriously doesn't matter. My dad is almost 10 years older then my mom.
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#145 Rikardur
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[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Please tell me that you are not supporting a 20 year old dating a 14 year old ...16 and 14, heck even 17 and 14 I can understand But not 20 and 14 That is just wrong

rawsavon

I wouldn't support any relationship that involved exploitation or coercion. But I wonder why you're so certain that a 20-year-old would be any more exploitative than a 17-year-old?

His original post disturbed me because I think there is a huge difference between 14 and 20 -it is the equivalent of an 8th grader dating a college sophmore -there are girls that have not even gone through puberty at that point -I set 17 and 14 as the limit because 1. it is still legal and 2. they could possibly be in HS together I pointed out that this was kind of sick He started acting stupid...at least I hope he was acting...so I started posting "creeper" pics about him

Leave the guy alone, you have harassed him enough. If he wants to try and seduce a 14 year old, let him. He is responsible for what will become of himself in the end.

You personally cannot change his viewpoint over the internet. It will be like an Atheist trying to prove to a Christian that God doesn't exist.

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#146 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="wrfade82"]

I'm 20 and personally I would only go +/- 2 years.

The younger girls that crave a "mature" (older) guy are incapable of being as mature. Likewise, I wouldn't push my luck on a 25 year old woman and use her as some kind of maturity crutch. Most guys I know in there 20s dating someone in there teens have maturity issues.

I can't imagine why someone would want someone at a different maturity level / stage in life. I'd rather enjoy, explore and discover the wonders of life at the same time as my partner.

How boring would it be for those 25 year old women with 40 year old boyfriends? The man has been there and done that and would probably discourage the woman from trying something in life that he believes isn't worth it.

wrfade82

You seem to describe those age differing desires as problematic. We all have those complexes (some dont when it comes to intimate relationships) but to think that its abnormal is ignorant.

"Age differing desires"? That's why we have mothers, aunts, and grandmothers to give us that comfort of love and life experience.

Oh, and if you mean sexual desires for different age groups, then do whatever you want. Check out your little sister's friend at the pool and tell yourself your normal. Apparently a lot of people today are into age differences. I'm not going to tell you to not be sexually attracted to Hannah Montana when people are out there having sex with horses. Fulfilling sexual desires is a free for all for people today. Some desires are legal and mutual, some aren't.

The points in my original post are focused on everything other than the sexual facets of the relationship - the most important and enduring ones. In respect to this, "age differing desires" tend to be rooted to being a pedophile or a gold digger.

You seem to love to extrapolate. >_>

I never mentioned justifying or calling it normal to have a desire on someone who is not of legal age. I was referring to what you called "maturity issues". Now tell me what is so repulsive to you if a 20 year old woman likes to date 40 year old men? Or the opposite?

And also something more difficult... try to to establish it with something different than: "yikes its disgusting dude!!!".

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#147 swoosh18
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15-18 im 16
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#148 pierst179
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I am 18 so I guess between 15-22 is good. But I don't think I would be able to date most 15 year-old girls, I would probably kill myself during the first date. :P

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#149 2mrw
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i am 20, i am ok wz dating till 18 or 17, i dun wanna date older girls, that sucks.

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