The point of this thread is to share tips on picking up girls, something a lot of guys find daunting, but also a crucial life skill, not just for meeting a girl, but building character. If you can pick up with confidence, it usually means your social skills will improve across the board.
I'd like to steer clear of complex methods you find on the web and keep it simple and natural. If you want complex methods, Uncle Google can provide plenty. I've read about a lot of famous methods, but unfortunately they're not for me.
This is something I've been working on for a while, and I realise most guys have different approaches.
I simply approach and begin talking as normal. It's mostly a genuine conversation, with no real 'pick up' line used. Usually it's just a simple "Hi, how are you?" or perhaps I'll comment on something around us or ask for a lighter. I believe it's not just what you say, but how you say it. This is my current style, and in a few months it might be something completely different.
A friend of mine prefers the dance floor where there's less talk, more movement. This isn't for me. I rely on my talking to communicate. Hence I don't do well with non-English speaking girls where talking has to be watered down to suit their level of English. I can't express myself on this level.
Remember, we're all nervous on the inside, the trick is to hide it. 
Anyway, there's more to say, but I'll keep it there for now.
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