When a Girl Says No

Let's say you're making a move on a girl (sexual wise). She initially says no, but her body language is saying the complete opposite.

What do you do?

Do you persist?

Or do you just give up?

[spoiler] DISCLAIMER: I'm not talking about going so far as to actually rape her. I don't support that. [/spoiler]

clicky

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU

A "no" means "yes" but they're in denial so persist anways.

A "yes" means "definitely yes."

That depends, do you want to end up getting charged for rape? XilePrincess

clicky

konvikt_17

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU

Aljosa23

That slut really wants you no matter how much she denies it. All women are whores.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]That depends, do you want to end up getting charged for rape? Shottayouth13-

Perfect example of persistence: Richard Nixon going after Pat Ryan (future Lady Nixon). Who knew tricky dick had a romantic side to him? Story

You can try and ask her as to what's wrong and such, but if she is adamant about saying no, then it means no. Going anything beyond that could lead to what XilePrincess mentioned earlier.the_ChEeSe_mAn2

It is her conscious battling her animals emotions. The reasonable part of her knows she shouldn't do it, but it is sometimes hard to control emotions. The question you should ask is: Should I take advantage of her weakness? The logical and reasonable side of us is the humans side and giving into our emotions is nothing more than animalism. Should we behave like animals or should we behave like humans? That is the decision one must make.

Persistence is a thing of beauty when dealing with women.

Remember, it's only rape if they are alive.

Mhm.

Iszdope

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU

Aljosa23

God damnit I wanted to post that.

I've never asked someone if they wanted sex.

Gotta be persistent.

i start undoing her bra while telling her that i'll leave her alone if she doesn't want me there.

Give her some money.......Guaranteed to open those legs up real nice...........

I burst into tears, saying it's because I'm so fat.SolidSnake35

Give up.

Depends on how caught up in the moment you two are, like if she keeps looking at your eyes and you two find it hard not to keep kissing etc... but when she says no with conviction I don't persist. Women like it when you respect them, and they will return the favor later.

Just my personal experience.

stop when g.f says no, later she'll come back urging you to make it a yes.

Women like it when you respect them, and they will return the favor later.

Just my personal experience.

ShadowMoses900

Tottally.

patience pays :P

Women are liars. They say men are the liars. Of course they do. That's what a liar would say. What are bras? Makeup? High heels? Lies. When a woman says no. It means yes. LOXO7

give up, she isn't the only female in the world

You say Yes, and force it down her throat.

I've never asked someone if they wanted sex.

GummiRaccoon

^THIS

If you verbally have to ask someone to have sex, you're already losing.

I'd say 99% of the time, sex just happens. Literally, JUST happens.

You don't have to ask for it or suggest it. You just read body language and if things heat up, they will happen on their own. If not, then you simply move on as if it doesn't bother you, even if it does inside. You just accept that it wasn't meant to be.

When you start asking and suggesting about it - you're most likely not going to get it.

And if you keep dwelling on it and she doesn't seem interested at all, then you need to just move on. The more you persist, the least likely it'll happen.

The whole pressure/pestering stuff is akin to harrasment IMO.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]That depends, do you want to end up getting charged for rape? Shottayouth13-

Play it by ear. There are times when a girl has said no to me, and meant it, and times that they haven't meant it. Usually it's pretty easy to tell, unless the girl is just bat-sh*t crazy.

If she says no, she means no. Ask her again if you think she's just playing coy. If she says no again, get the heck out.

date rape, alive and well because you are too stupid to comprehend consequences and possible outcomes.

a girl will turn on you in a second and even if she wanted it she can get out of trouble with her family and/or the law by saying she said no.

you would have to be an idiot to proceed at the first hint of a no.