[QUOTE="Espada12"]Some do, some don't. That's just a typical teenage girl reaction, to overthink everything and assume her life is going to take as many twists and turns as some cheesy chick flick. They also like to apply the methods commonly used in said movies to determine the level of interest and sincerity of a guy they want to date. Stupid, but it's all too common. & WheresKinggiAt, the girls here generally give good advice. I, however, gave no advice on how to get girls or otherwise, I just assessed the situation by placing myself in the mindset of a typical overanalyzing teenage girl. I have seen dozens and dozens of girls say the exact things I mentioned, which is why I mentioned them, because they repeatedly came up. Been there, done that, seen it all. I don't believe I misread the post, he asked wtf was up with how she was acting, and I told him what could very well be the situation. And for the record, I have never dated an a-hole, let alone complained that he was one and that I wanted somebody else. I don't bother wasting my energy on people like that, I go straight for the nice ones. Nice >>> "hot" but a jerk. Since I haven't misread anything, I assume that by default places me in the unable to give advice category. May I ask why my advice/insight isn't up to your standards?In your original post you really misread the situation. This girl is not thinking this guy is about to use her to get back at her friend or use her as a rebound. First of all there is no relationship to rebound from. Secondly how is OP going to use her when he got tooled out for a full year by her friend? He lacks the courage or experience to do such a thing.Women think about all of this? That's pretty crazy. It's either I like you or not, I don't really care for the circumstances. Then again I have a policy about going out with my friend's ex. Maybe she does as well D:
XilePrincess
It is patently obvious OP is in the friend zone. If he has any chance of getting out he needs to scale back their relationship and recreate himself. Hanging around and being the gay boyfriend isn't going to help OP he is just going to be miserable. The girl already knows OP likes her so the relationship will also have a weird dynamic if he is constantly hanging around her.
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