Why Do All The Girls That Like Me Refuse to Date Me?

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#51 th3warr1or
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Warrior, I forgot to mention something that could help.....I saw this advice in a thread the other day and was quite impressed. This may be your only chance for busting out of the zone:

[QUOTE="RushKing"]Your in the friend zone, stop talking to her for like 5 weeks and act busy. Get some new clothes and when you talk to her again you won't look like a friend anymore and will be interesting.

Elephant_Couple

Yeah thanks. I don't know if I can do that to her though. I mean I like her, a lot. Too much, in fact to kick her out of my life 5 weeks(no i'm not so obsessed with her), because I know that I'm pretty much the only one she can talk to whenever she has problems.
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I'm not a jerk or a douche and we've been friends for like some time, and they've made it obvious that they think I'm good looking. We flirt a lot, but when I actually ask her to date me, she hesitates. I'm not really seeing 'signs' that aren't there. They've made it clear in no uncertain terms that they like my personality and like how I look, so why the hesitation?

Oh, and it's not because they've heard some stories about how I sleep around or anything. I'm a virgin. It's not possible. th3warr1or

I noticed something funny about many women when I am sweet they try to get over on me but when I dick they love and won't leave me alone. Also a virgin bro your pipe game is weak get a dirty old lady to show you the ropes before you embarass yourself. A woman will talk to a sweet guy and sleep with a ahole that handles his biz in the sheets if you follow me.

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#53 th3warr1or
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A woman will talk to a sweet guy and sleep with a ahole that handles his biz in the sheets if you follow me.ChiChiMonKilla
That's just not me though, I'm not a womanizer.
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#54 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

Warrior, I forgot to mention something that could help.....I saw this advice in a thread the other day and was quite impressed. This may be your only chance for busting out of the zone:

[QUOTE="RushKing"]Your in the friend zone, stop talking to her for like 5 weeks and act busy. Get some new clothes and when you talk to her again you won't look like a friend anymore and will be interesting.

BiancaDK

Seems solid enough, except for the notion she might be so offended by you freezing her out for 5 weeks straight with no apparent reasonable reasons behind it, chances are you're setting yourself further back in the race than where you were to begin with. I know i'd be helluva pissed if one of my good friends freezed me out like that.

Yes, I know. It's aimed more at people who are newly in the friend zone and don't have the "best friend" or "i love you as a friend" sort of status yet, but it's a last ditch effort for him. And even so, who cares if that would piss you off? You wouldn't completely stop being his friend. Hell, if it gave him the chance to rebuild the friendship from the ground up, he could start over in a certain sense and maybe make a move at the right moment the second time around.

Also, if it does alienate her, all guys who have been in the friend zone for an extended length of time know one thing: it's easier to never talk to her again than it is to hang out with her knowing you can't have her, watching her date other guys, and hearing her complain about problems that wouldn't exist if she were dating you. I think this is the best option; it's more than worth a shot.

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#55 ChiChiMonKilla
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[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]A woman will talk to a sweet guy and sleep with a ahole that handles his biz in the sheets if you follow me.th3warr1or
That's just not me though, I'm not a womanizer.

You gotta challenge then keep then guessing from time to time or you will be in the friend zone. I started off like you not as late as you but I was bought up to be a gentleman but I soon learned that nice guys finish last. As for the sex thing that is something that will be needed if you intend not to lose the woman after you get her.

If your not sleeping with her imo your just friends end of story. Your not a kid and you don't sound dumb you can take my advice or leave it. I will say this many woman complain about their boyfriends in bed and I know it's only a matter of time before he messes up and boom I got them. If you don't handle your woman your woman will handle you someone has to dominate you or her personally I like to be the king.

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#56 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

Warrior, I forgot to mention something that could help.....I saw this advice in a thread the other day and was quite impressed. This may be your only chance for busting out of the zone:

[QUOTE="RushKing"]Your in the friend zone, stop talking to her for like 5 weeks and act busy. Get some new clothes and when you talk to her again you won't look like a friend anymore and will be interesting.

th3warr1or

Yeah thanks. I don't know if I can do that to her though. I mean I like her, a lot. Too much, in fact to kick her out of my life 5 weeks(no i'm not so obsessed with her), because I know that I'm pretty much the only one she can talk to whenever she has problems.

See my above response to Bianca. I think it's the best chance you have. Just don't be a jerk about it if you decide to do it.

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im sorry my friend

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#58 th3warr1or
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I'll try it out and see how it goes.
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#59 TaylrGang_basic
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[QUOTE="McJugga"]They don't like you.th3warr1or
Then what's with the "god I love you so much" *cuddle*...

thats what girls do... sorry to tell you but it doesn't mean anything
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#60 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]A woman will talk to a sweet guy and sleep with a ahole that handles his biz in the sheets if you follow me.ChiChiMonKilla

That's just not me though, I'm not a womanizer.

You gotta challenge then keep then guessing from time to time or you will be in the friend zone. I started off like you not as late as you but I was bought up to be a gentleman but I soon learned that nice guys finish last. As for the sex thing that is something that will be needed if you intend not to lose the woman after you get her.

If your not sleeping with her imo your just friends end of story. Your not a kid and you don't sound dumb you can take my advice or leave it. I will say this many woman complain about their boyfriends in bed and I know it's only a matter of time before he messes up and boom I got them. If you don't handle your woman your woman will handle you someone has to dominate you or her personally I like to be the king.

Don't listen to him ^. There are plenty of couples who don't have sex, at least not immediately. You don't have to be good in bed to keep most girls; you have to contribute enough to the relationship and reach the point where they honestly want to be with you because it's you; if you can get there, they don't care what you're like in bed, but reaching that point takes work- a lot of it.

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#61 McJugga
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I'll try it out and see how it goes. th3warr1or
Wait, you're actually going to do that? :lol:
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#62 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]I'll try it out and see how it goes. McJugga
Wait, you're actually going to do that? :lol:

:twisted:

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#63 Assassin1349
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="McJugga"]They don't like you.fear9204

Then what's with the "god I love you so much" *cuddle*...

in a friendly way probably?

What you need to do is push them off and tell them to get away from you. Then they will think you're hot and will want to marry you.
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#64 ChiChiMonKilla
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[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"] That's just not me though, I'm not a womanizer. Elephant_Couple

You gotta challenge then keep then guessing from time to time or you will be in the friend zone. I started off like you not as late as you but I was bought up to be a gentleman but I soon learned that nice guys finish last. As for the sex thing that is something that will be needed if you intend not to lose the woman after you get her.

If your not sleeping with her imo your just friends end of story. Your not a kid and you don't sound dumb you can take my advice or leave it. I will say this many woman complain about their boyfriends in bed and I know it's only a matter of time before he messes up and boom I got them. If you don't handle your woman your woman will handle you someone has to dominate you or her personally I like to be the king.

Don't listen to him ^. There are plenty of couples who don't have sex, at least not immediately. You don't have to be good in bed to keep most girls; you have to contribute enough to the relationship and reach the point where they honestly want to be with you because it's you; if you can get there, they don't care what you're like in bed, but reaching that point takes work- a lot of it.

Your clueless your woman will have cheated on you months before you find out then you will try to kill yourself cause you will be so depressed. Sex is a natural and important part of a healthy relationship. You want to have a good relationship but be crap in the sack or cuddle lmao. It's easy to attract women and after you get then your gonna talk them to death and withhold sex yeah that will work BADLY !!

He's already talking and getting no where so he might as well bring his A Game.

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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]I'm not a jerk or a douche and we've been friends for like some time, and they've made it obvious that they think I'm good looking. We flirt a lot, but when I actually ask her to date me, she hesitates. I'm not really seeing 'signs' that aren't there. They've made it clear in no uncertain terms that they like my personality and like how I look, so why the hesitation?

Oh, and it's not because they've heard some stories about how I sleep around or anything. I'm a virgin. It's not possible. ChiChiMonKilla

I noticed something funny about many women when I am sweet they try to get over on me but when I dick they love and won't leave me alone. Also a virgin bro your pipe game is weak get a dirty old lady to show you the ropes before you embarass yourself. A woman will talk to a sweet guy and sleep with a ahole that handles his biz in the sheets if you follow me.

OT what movie is that from in your sig?

On topic: Friend zone is a ***** my friend, if your a friends first type of person, make your move earlier in the relationship before they associate you with non-sexual feelings.

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My friends,you think too much
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#67 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]

You gotta challenge then keep then guessing from time to time or you will be in the friend zone. I started off like you not as late as you but I was bought up to be a gentleman but I soon learned that nice guys finish last. As for the sex thing that is something that will be needed if you intend not to lose the woman after you get her.

If your not sleeping with her imo your just friends end of story. Your not a kid and you don't sound dumb you can take my advice or leave it. I will say this many woman complain about their boyfriends in bed and I know it's only a matter of time before he messes up and boom I got them. If you don't handle your woman your woman will handle you someone has to dominate you or her personally I like to be the king.

ChiChiMonKilla

Don't listen to him ^. There are plenty of couples who don't have sex, at least not immediately. You don't have to be good in bed to keep most girls; you have to contribute enough to the relationship and reach the point where they honestly want to be with you because it's you; if you can get there, they don't care what you're like in bed, but reaching that point takes work- a lot of it.

Your clueless your woman will have cheated on you months before you find out then you will try to kill yourself cause you will be so depressed. Sex is a natural and important part of a healthy relationship. You want to have a good relationship but be crap in the sack or cuddle lmao. It's easy to attract women and after you get then your gonna talk them to death and withhold sex yeah that will work BADLY !!

He's already talking and getting no where so he might as well bring his A Game.

It seems to have worked, since I'm married, and she was the one who initially asked me out on a date. Sex might be natural, but it's also not the only part of a relationship, which is something you seem unable to grasp, along with sentence structure and punctuation. Being good in bed is not how you get a girl to date you, especially considering she won't even know what you're like in bed when you start dating. It's a plus, but any girl you're referring to wouldn't be worth dating long-term anyways if she's that shallow. I'm not saying my wife and I didn't have sex when we first started dating (we did), I'm saying it wasn't the only pillar of the relationship, and that's how it is with any relationship worth prolonging.

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#68 F1_2004
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Friend-zoned.
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#69 II_Seraphim_II
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Wow...I stopped reading at "We've been friends for like some time." If guys don't know the dangers of the "Friend Zone" they deserve to be miserable in their love lives :P
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#70 th3warr1or
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]I'll try it out and see how it goes. McJugga
Wait, you're actually going to do that? :lol:

No lol. Read my Page 3 reply.
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#71 II_Seraphim_II
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Friend. Zone'd.

I feel your pain.

InEMplease
People take the friend zone too lightly I think. People think "Well, yeah, they say the friend zone is bad, but she likes me as a friend already...so it shouldn't be hard to get her to want to go out with me right? Right?" WRONG!!! I go out of my way to avoid the friend zone. One time, I saw me and this girl i liked were becoming too friendly and I became a jerk. Yeah it sounds bad, but you know what? I can recover from her hating me, but I can't recover from the friend zone. I'll take hate over friendship any day of the week...atleast you have a chance there. Sure some people have made it out of the friend zone, it's possible, in the same manner that winning the lottery is. :?
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#72 F1_2004
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Wow...I stopped reading at "We've been friends for like some time." If guys don't know the dangers of the "Friend Zone" they deserve to be miserable in their love lives :PII_Seraphim_II
It's definitely possible to start out as friends with a girl but become interested in her later. What's important is that as soon as you become interested in the girl, you make your intentions obvious. Don't be a ***** and become friends with her for the sole purpose of being close to her.
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#73 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]Wow...I stopped reading at "We've been friends for like some time." If guys don't know the dangers of the "Friend Zone" they deserve to be miserable in their love lives :PF1_2004
It's definitely possible to start out as friends with a girl but become interested in her later. What's important is that as soon as you become interested in the girl, you make your intentions obvious. Don't be a ***** and become friends with her for the sole purpose of being close to her.

Of course it's possible. It's also possible to win the lottery and a music producer to see you playing in the streets and give you a record deal, but I wouldn't hold my breath :P

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#75 II_Seraphim_II
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blah blah blah blah....ChiChiMonKilla
Dude, wtf is your sig from? lol
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I feel your pain, I say retreat. If you're in the friend zone, but you want more, the relationship is going to be unhealthy and only cause you pain. It happened to me in senior high... 3 full years of following the woman I loved, while getting heart broken every time she mentioned another guy or started a flirt. It just isn't worth it and chances are your relationship will never be more than just friends... I learned my lesson, the quick conquest is preferable.

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#77 ChiChiMonKilla
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[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]

[QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

Don't listen to him ^. There are plenty of couples who don't have sex, at least not immediately. You don't have to be good in bed to keep most girls; you have to contribute enough to the relationship and reach the point where they honestly want to be with you because it's you; if you can get there, they don't care what you're like in bed, but reaching that point takes work- a lot of it.

Elephant_Couple

Your clueless your woman will have cheated on you months before you find out then you will try to kill yourself cause you will be so depressed. Sex is a natural and important part of a healthy relationship. You want to have a good relationship but be crap in the sack or cuddle lmao. It's easy to attract women and after you get then your gonna talk them to death and withhold sex yeah that will work BADLY !!

He's already talking and getting no where so he might as well bring his A Game.

It seems to have worked, since I'm married, and she was the one who initially asked me out on a date. Sex might be natural, but it's also not the only part of a relationship, which is something you seem unable to grasp, along with sentence structure and punctuation. Being good in bed is not how you get a girl to date you, especially considering she won't even know what you're like in bed when you start dating. It's a plus, but any girl you're referring to wouldn't be worth dating long-term anyways if she's that shallow. I'm not saying my wife and I didn't have sex when we first started dating (we did), I'm saying it wasn't the only pillar of the relationship, and that's how it is with any relationship worth prolonging.

Where did I say sex is the only part of the relationship try reading first before talking. As for being shallow why be with somebody long term if they don't satisfy you sexually are you that desperate ??

Your gonna be with your partner and end up resenting them and cheating on them when you knew they had issues to begin with. I have no idea how old you are but in my parents generation sex before the ring was a no no but that done changed. The tc seems like a cool guy but he is one dimensional he needs to expand his game to make himself more interesting. As for the married part good for you married women can cheat too and they usually don't get caught either till way later.

Anyway usually I find out what the woman wants in a relationship (they will tell u if u are interested), can you do it, do you want to compromise ?

Be interesting for diffrent women that means diffrent things again you should be able to find that out pretty fast. Somebody has to be in control if there are no rules anything can happen and usually does in a free style relationship. Make sure you know your role and she knows hers .

Be a man of your word if you say it you must do it. Once in a while if thing are to smooth rock the boat a little to shake off the rust. In bed handle your biz if she has to she will go else where given the chance with a man or women.

This is last but very important to women you have a special ritual that she will always remember that will bind you together no matter who she is with. Trust me it sounds corny but even years later when you have both moved on she will say i remember we used to do this and you will be able to find your way back if you want 95% of the time.

These simple rules have been found out by me over many years of dating and they work. You have mind body and sould covered in these basic rules also being good looking helps. I also advise you to workout ladies love a man that's in shape and will be interested from that alone trust me. Also be clean and smelling good again I get alot of comments what is that your wearing. Clothes can make the man don't be a slob be presentable no matter where you go.

These are my basic tips they have served me well and I hope they work for you.

off topic the movie is tall in the sadle the duke is king

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maybe you are misreading them? Or m,aybe they are just flirtatious by nature.

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It's not really rocket science, they're just not attracted to you in that way.

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#80 Bourbons3
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Friend. Zone'd.

InEMplease
That's probably it. They want to stay friends, and either don't like you in a relationship-type way, or don't want to risk ruining the friendship with an unsuccessful relationship.
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#81 rawsavon
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Just b/c they think you are attractive and you guys flirt does not mean that they want to date you -there are lots of girls (the vast majority in fact) that I find attractive but would not date -while flirting is common and usually meaningless, dating someone requires that special 'something' -if you have been around each other for extended periods of time, they have probably realized it is not there...sorry
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[QUOTE="McJugga"]They don't like you.th3warr1or
Then what's with the "god I love you so much" *cuddle*...

They love you like a brother.
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#83 Sajo7
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You waited too long.
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#84 Arctic_Grillz
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Maybe you got no game.
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There is a big difference between attraction and a willingness to date and/or willingness of commitment.

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#86 MagikarpSplash
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"I'm not a jerk or a douche." Theres' your problem.
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#87 ChiChiMonKilla
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Maybe you got no game.Arctic_Grillz

yeah sitting there listening to her talk about another man lol he should have shut that down. she must think he is a buddy or gay

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#88 deactivated-58188738395f3
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Women are much less shallow in regards to looks than men are. Men are much more selective when it comes to looks. So it's probably not your looks, it's something about your personality maybe?

The good news that if you are not so good-looking, there is not much you can do about it unless you have a lot of money. Personality, on the other hand, is much easier to modify.

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#89 ChiChiMonKilla
Member since 2007 • 2339 Posts

Women are much less shallow in regards to looks than men are. Men are much more selective when it comes to looks. So it's probably not your looks, it's something about your personality maybe?

The good news that if you are not so good-looking, there is not much you can do about it unless you have a lot of money. Personality, on the other hand, is much easier to modify.

X4D

You can upgrade your looks by working out, dressing good and smelling good.

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#90 ArmoredAshes
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

If they say the love you, they 100% percent mean it as a friend unless otherwise instructed by her.

InEMplease

Why are women so funny lol. :(

I don't think they realize exactly what it means when a guy hears those words...

Nope...and then depending on your reaction you're a psycho....hahaha One of my female friends were trying to tell me the other night girls aren't complex in the slightest bit. I laughed at her and said thats pretty funny.

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#91 hiphopballer
Member since 2009 • 4059 Posts

i think ur in the friend zone still. the real question is why is there so many dating advice on gamespot. even if its off topic

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#92 superclocked
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Either they don't like you, they only want sex, or your breath stinks.
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#93 AFBrat77
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maybe you have bad breath

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#94 AFBrat77
Member since 2004 • 26848 Posts

Either they don't like you, they only want sex, or your breath stinks.superclocked

lol, you beat me to it

lay off the sugar

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#95 McJugga
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Probably your bad breath.
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#96 MuddVader
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I'm not a jerk or a douche and we've been friends for like some time, and they've made it obvious that they think I'm good looking. We flirt a lot, but when I actually ask her to date me, she hesitates. I'm not really seeing 'signs' that aren't there. They've made it clear in no uncertain terms that they like my personality and like how I look, so why the hesitation?
Oh, and it's not because they've heard some stories about how I sleep around or anything. I'm a virgin. It's not possible. th3warr1or
That sounds like me and my friend, just the only difference is that we havent met in person yet, but nothing will change when I finally see her, so in the end I will be in your exact situation.

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#97 cowplayinghalo
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"] Oh, and it's not because they've heard some stories about how I sleep around or anything. I'm a virgin. It's not possible.

There's your problem. /thread
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#98 shutdown_202
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Its probably because you're ugly.

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#99 fatcat13sep
Member since 2007 • 1129 Posts

hes friend zoned but they wouldn't of said yes beacause trust me just cause they think your cute doesnt matter if they want to go out with you like ive known girls up that i met in a week that have told me im cute and hot and all that but there like i dont like you its weird trust me

but i dont really believe to much in the friend zone becasue i think its decided very early if your a friend or not, its not something you get into after time

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#100 chrisrooR
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[QUOTE="metallica_fan42"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Friend. Zone'd.

I feel your pain.

Yep, that's unfortunate.

GAH! I hate the zone!