Why do girls have a "I'm pissed but you're never gonna know why" attit

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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"] The thing is it's okay if you keep stuff that isn't related to us a secret.. But what irritates me is when a girl(friends or otherwise) make it clear that they are annoyed with me, but refuse to disclose the reasons and expect me to work it out. th3warr1or

If I'm annoyerd about someone, i'll let them know if they want :P

I agree, it really doesnt help the problem, thats why i dont do that lol

My best friend has the best way to deal with this. As he is about to enter a relationship he says to his prospective girlfriend, "If you are mad at me, you must tell me. I am a guy and I do not know what I have done. If you don't tell me what I did then I won't know to fix it and if I ask you what's wrong and you say nothing then I will believe you." He usually ends it with, "I don't care if you're mad at me and I won't get defensive if you tell me I did something wrong but I can't fix it if I don't know what you're mad about."

I just bug the crap out of my girl until she tells me. Then I tell her to shuddup. HA!

AustXilo

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="spazzx625"]In my experience it's because we're supposed to know what we did wrong. :?spazzx625

lol, I usually picture that omaha beach scene in saving private ryan and I think about how much I would rather do that in real life than listen to my woman **** and moan about some completely insignificant thing i did or said

That's because when guys make girls angry, we're not supposed to tell you why you ****ed up. If you don't know what you did wrong then you obviously don't deserve to know.

That's because when guys make girls angry, we're not supposed to tell you why you ****ed up. If you don't know what you did wrong then you obviously don't deserve to know.

Raikoh_

In my experience it's because we're supposed to know what we did wrong. :?spazzx625

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That's because when guys make girls angry, we're not supposed to tell you why you ****ed up. If you don't know what you did wrong then you obviously don't deserve to know.

harashawn

Not very hard at all. Yet, if you're not going to pay attention to the situation it's not gonna make us feel good. So instead we let it fester until the opprotune moment and spring our trap when it's least expected.

They either want to know if we are aware of the "mistake" we made or they simply want us to show that we care for them and ask "What did I do wrong?".

Not very hard at all. Yet, if you're not going to pay attention to the situation it's not gonna make us feel good. So instead we let it fester until the opprotune moment and spring our trap when it's least expected.

Raikoh_

They either want to know if we are aware of the "mistake" we made or they simply want us to show that we care for them and ask "What did I do wrong?".

Pierst179

He's got it down.

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They either want to know if we are aware of the "mistake" we made or they simply want us to show that we care for them and ask "What did I do wrong?".

Raikoh_

He's got it down.

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They either want to know if we are aware of the "mistake" we made or they simply want us to show that we care for them and ask "What did I do wrong?".

harashawn

He's got it down.

Because you should already know. Atleast if you ask it at least makes us feel a little better that you're aware.

I find most of the time it's just them playing games with atypical passive aggressive overtones. As long as you don't suspect it's something very personal and serious I found it's best to not play along and just go about your business as if nothing iswrong. Eventually they will get tired of you not falling for their game and they will have to get over it themselves or they will have to attempt to discuss it like a normal human being. Either way they will most likely feel silly for holding out the info.

Of course this only works if YOU DON'T ALWAYS ACT AND SAY FOOLISH AND HURTFUL THINGS!

Because you should already know. Atleast if you ask it at least makes us feel a little better that you're aware.

Raikoh_

It's just a big trap. No matter what men do, we're always wrong.

harashawn

That's not true. You're not always wrong. I'll gladly admit I'm wrong, there are just a lot of girls that don't like being wrong.

That's not true. You're not always wrong. I'll gladly admit I'm wrong, there are just a lot of girls that don't like being wrong.

Raikoh_

[QUOTE="Raikoh_"]That's not true. You're not always wrong. I'll gladly admit I'm wrong, there are just a lot of girls that don't like being wrong.

harashawn

[QUOTE="Raikoh_"]That's not true. You're not always wrong. I'll gladly admit I'm wrong, there are just a lot of girls that don't like being wrong.

harashawn

I find it far more infuriating when they DONT tell you that they're pissed at you, but make it ridiculously obvious that they are, whilst maintaining that they aren't every time you ask if everything is ok.Ninja-Hippo

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My best friend has the best way to deal with this. As he is about to enter a relationship he says to his prospective girlfriend, "If you are mad at me, you must tell me. I am a guy and I do not know what I have done. If you don't tell me what I did then I won't know to fix it and if I ask you what's wrong and you say nothing then I will believe you." He usually ends it with, "I don't care if you're mad at me and I won't get defensive if you tell me I did something wrong but I can't fix it if I don't know what you're mad about."

I just bug the crap out of my girl until she tells me. Then I tell her to shuddup. HA!

th3warr1or

You allow girls that you aren't in a relationship with to have sway over your life and your decisions? I don't let anyone sway what I want to do except for my girlfriend, because that's what being a boyfriend/girlfriend is about. If a friend gets mad at me we just don't talk or change the subject until we're cooled down but to let someone I'm not in a relationship with get that mad at me or to allow them to be that influential over me... that's absurd. I hope this makes sense. I guess you have to have been there.

To everyone who quoted me, please remember to read this part, "As he is about to enter a relationship he says to his prospective girlfriend, ..." If a "counter attack" is triggered, as someone said or if any single part of that is not agreed to, my friend shuts them down. It's a dealbreaker for him. In essence, he's saying this, "You accept these terms or we don't date. I'm not tying myself to someone who isn't going to be logical."

It's worked for him so far. Grow a back bone and stand up for yourself.

Girls aregirls most of them are like tha:!:t you have to put up with it...

In my experience it's because we're supposed to know what we did wrong. :?spazzx625

Here's another incident;

He was holding her soft hand as they walked along the moonlit beach. What a wonderful day they'd spent today. Suddenly- WHACK!- she slaps his face and says "That's for what you did on December 12, 1992 at 7 PM!"

three letters, P, M, and Slonewolf604

Personally, if I do that, I'm probably embarrassed, or it's hard to explain the reason that I'm upset. But yeah, it's always easier if people will tell you outright what is wrong, and I try to do that if I can.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="spazzx625"]In my experience it's because we're supposed to know what we did wrong. :?spazzx625

Their hormones piss them off.

Girl: "I'm pissed but you're never going to know why!" :x

My response: "Ummmm, okie dokie then"...*goes to play Super smash Bros Brawl*

I don't think I'll do to well in a relationship. :P

Girl: "I'm pissed but you're never going to know why!" :x

My response: "Ummmm, okie dokie then"...*goes to play Super smash Bros Brawl*

I don't think I'll do to well in a relationship. :P

DJ-Lafleur

We just got to ride out the storm from time to time.

Hate it when girls are like that and my ex was like that! I knew she was pissed at me but whenever I talked to her she would say "Oh I've got nothing against you, I'm perfectly fine" but then she would treat me like crap and show me she's obviously pissed and when I ask her friends they would say "She told me the other day that you pissed her off, what did you do?". Pfff, it's annoying and it seems really stupid but guys will have to put up with it. How you deal with it? I'm not too sure.

Like it or not the man is the punching bag in a relationship.clembo1990

Some are more immature than others. :] Thats pretty much it.BiancaDK

AGREED

I can't speak for everyone, but I usually am singing the Meow Mix song in my head when my girlfriend is yelling at me.spazzx625

and hey, not to be a hypocrite but the banana phone song works well too!
as well as the sped-up version for use in more extreme situations.

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