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#51 MgamerBD
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Sh!t happens. The penis is a strong thing...
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#52 Zeviander
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Cowardice, comfortable, "forbidden fruit", etc.
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#53 AussieePet
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Hornyness only thing i can think of right now
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#54 noscope-ak47
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Hornyness only thing i can think of right now AussieePet
So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:

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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]Hornyness only thing i can think of right now noscope-ak47

So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:

lol what the bloody hell does that mean?
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#56 Fightingfan
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.hartsickdiscipl

It's a form of adultery. When you masturbate you don't masturbate to the air.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery

*Go to the Sex and lawCategory.

.ThisIsTwoFace
Doesn't apply to me, I see nothing wrong with adultery.

**Varies by Jurisdiction/Cultural norm.

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#57 The_Gaming_Baby
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[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]

[QUOTE="AussieePet"]Hornyness only thing i can think of right now AussieePet

So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:

lol what the bloody hell does that mean?

haha
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#58 FPSfan1985
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Why do people casually cheat on their partner? I don't mean a full blown affair, but when someone simply kisses another person or maybe even sleeps with someone else.

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Our instinct to have sex is stronger than our instinct to protect a relationship. Monogamy just isn't natural, our biology shows us this clear as day.
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#59 sethman410
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The statsitics are 70% of women cheat on their spouse and 80% of men cheat on their spouse. And THAT is exactly the reason why I have been single for the past 7 years. Yeah, I been cheated on and I was the world to her... go figure.
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#60 FPSfan1985
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The statsitics are 70% of women cheat on their spouse and 80% of men cheat on their spouse. And THAT is exactly the reason why I have been single for the past 7 years. Yeah, I been cheated on and I was the world to her... go figure.sethman410
No reason to be single, just have an open relationship. Don't let sex ruin a good thing.
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#61 Zeviander
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Monogamy just isn't natural [...]FPSfan1985
Which is why geese, eagles, swans, foxes, ducks and wolves have been recorded as perennially monogamous animals? Or wait, what do you define as "natural" exactly? Because wouldn't any human behavior be considered "natural" because we are all part of nature?
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#62 Inotian
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Men obviously cheat due to various reasons, like being drunk, attractiveness level, or for the women being easy. These factors are the main reasons why men cheat most of the time.

Women cheat if their man is not satisfying all of their needs, like money attractiveness , or a life of entertainment.

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#63 FPSfan1985
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Of course I meant in humans. All animals are different. And naturally humans don't acquire and stay with only one mate. Thats a learned behavior.
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#64 Ilovegames1992
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Men obviously cheat due to various reasons, like being drunk, attractiveness level, or for the women being easy. These factors are the main reasons why men cheat most of the time.

Women cheat if their man is not satisfying all of their needs, like money or a life of entertainment.

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#65 unrealtron
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Because they are cruel, perhaps?
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#66 Zeviander
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Of course I meant in humans. All animals are different. And naturally humans don't acquire and stay with only one mate. Thats a learned behavior.FPSfan1985
Learned behavior from what, geese? Humans are naturally, well, everything. Trying to shoehorn human relationships into a single mould isn't going to end well. It would be like limiting defining of gender to male and female, and basing it off of physical sex that one is born with (ignoring hermaphroditism and other birth defects or genetic disorders). Are you trying to say that humans are naturally polyamorous so that you can say "it wasn't my fault, it was my genes!" when your girlfriend catches you cheating on her? Have you actually been in a relationship? I tend to find inky those who haven't purport your position.
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#67 FPSfan1985
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[QUOTE="FPSfan1985"]Of course I meant in humans. All animals are different. And naturally humans don't acquire and stay with only one mate. Thats a learned behavior.Zeviander
Learned behavior from what, geese? Humans are naturally, well, everything. Trying to shoehorn human relationships into a single mould isn't going to end well. It would be like limiting defining of gender to male and female, and basing it off of physical sex that one is born with (ignoring hermaphroditism and other birth defects or genetic disorders). Are you trying to say that humans are naturally polyamorous so that you can say "it wasn't my fault, it was my genes!" when your girlfriend catches you cheating on her? Have you actually been in a relationship? I tend to find inky those who haven't purport your position.

Of course I've been in a relationship. I'm upfront at all times about what I expect from a relationship. Monogamy is never one of these things. Does more harm then good. Learned from society. It's even the only legal form of marriage in the majority of US states. Without pointing to the hundreds of studies on the subject, just based on my own life experience monogamy almost never works out as planned.
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[QUOTE="Zeviander"] Which is why geese, eagles, swans, foxes, ducks and wolves have been recorded as perennially monogamous animals? Or wait, what do you define as "natural" exactly? Because wouldn't any human behavior be considered "natural" because we are all part of nature?

Socially monogamous or both socially and sexually monogamous?
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"].Fightingfan

It's a form of adultery. When you masturbate you don't masturbate to the air.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery

*Go to the Sex and lawCategory.

.ThisIsTwoFace
Doesn't apply to me, I see nothing wrong with adultery.

**Varies by Jurisdiction/Cultural norm.

What if the person masturbates to imagery and/or thoughts of their partner? That can't be adultery.

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#70 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="The_Gaming_Baby"]

Why do people casually cheat on their partner? I don't mean a full blown affair, but when someone simply kisses another person or maybe even sleeps with someone else.

FPSfan1985

Our instinct to have sex is stronger than our instinct to protect a relationship. Monogamy just isn't natural, our biology shows us this clear as day.

This just means that most people have very little self-control and/or respect for their partner and relationship. The fact that 20-30% of people don't do it proves that it's entirely possible to be faithful and happy.

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[QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:The_Gaming_Baby
lol what the bloody hell does that mean?

haha

hey stop laughing before i arrest you
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#72 noscope-ak47
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[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]

[QUOTE="AussieePet"]Hornyness only thing i can think of right now AussieePet

So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:

lol what the bloody hell does that mean?

Rub the lotion on the skin slowly AussiePet yeah just like that:twisted:

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#73 PernicioEnigma
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Banging the same chick gets boring after awhile.
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#74 Lovely637
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Maybe love just ain't enough. It could be that they are no longer happy with their partner for some possible reasons.

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#75 michael_1234576
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cheating is just low, if you want to be with someone else then break it off
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#76 Lovely637
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cheating is just low, if you want to be with someone else then break it off michael_1234576

Yeah.. that's better than making the person assume for some things.

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#77 noscope-ak47
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Maybe love just ain't enough. It could be that they are no longer happy with their partner for some possible reasons.

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You can still love them it is just you no longer lust for them. Case in point my friends girl is so comfortable she even farts around him.

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#78 tenaka2
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Because we are animals and only about 3% of animals are monogamous.

Humans are not one of the 3%

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#79 junglist101
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If it's sex or kissing it could be the person is just horny and can't control it. Sex and love are not synonymous.

Emotional affairs on the other hand can happen for a multitude of reasons.

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#80 Omni-Slash
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It's tough to say..everyone's relationship is different...I stopped judging people in regards to relationships long ago..what looks perfect to some can be absolutely miserable on the inside....
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#81 ad1x2
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Most people I knew who cheated did it because they were away from their spouse from an extended period of time. This was in both in Korea and Iraq when their spouse was back in the US. Their excuse? "I love my wife, but I have needs and I can't get them over the phone." All I could say was to each their own.

I didn't agree with it and if they were caught they could be charged with a crime (adultery is illegal for servicemembers). But they thought it was worth it. The bad thing was the wives at home were more likely to cheat on their deployed husband than vice versa.

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#82 TonyDanzaFan
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Because they are cowards who are too afraid to just end the relationship. Have some empathy and break it off instead of going behind their back. Scumbags.

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#83 AussieePet
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]So rub one out then AussieePet:twisted:

noscope-ak47

lol what the bloody hell does that mean?

Rub the lotion on the skin slowly AussiePet yeah just like that:twisted:

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lol what if i don't have lotion? Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

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#84 FMAB_GTO
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Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

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I would've done the same if i was you,stay away darling DX
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#85 AussieePet
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

FMAB_GTO

I would've done the same if i was you,stay away darling DX

Ohh you better be careful he will go after you next :P lol

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#86 Netherscourge
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IMO, it's not a relationship if you cheat.

It's a "layover" until the next flight arrives.

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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"]

Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

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I would've done the same if i was you,stay away darling DX

Ohh you better be careful he will go after you next :P lol

don't worry,i know how to use a gun :3
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[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]

[QUOTE="AussieePet"] lol what the bloody hell does that mean?AussieePet

Rub the lotion on the skin slowly AussiePet yeah just like that:twisted:

Pope-can-see-you-masterbating.jpg

lol what if i don't have lotion? Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

Lol it was a joke no sense of humor here your not an aussie they got jokes.

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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] I would've done the same if i was you,stay away darling DXFMAB_GTO

Ohh you better be careful he will go after you next :P lol

don't worry,i know how to use a gun :3

Ohh yays!! protect me 2 plzz!! :) plus nice flowers you got on your table! D:
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"] Ohh you better be careful he will go after you next :P lolAussieePet
don't worry,i know how to use a gun :3

Ohh yays!! protect me 2 plzz!! :) plus nice flowers you got on your table! D:

i will :3 They are flowers for someone special < 3
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]Rub the lotion on the skin slowly AussiePet yeah just like that:twisted:

Pope-can-see-you-masterbating.jpg

noscope-ak47

lol what if i don't have lotion? Plus you seem evil so no thanks :)

Lol it was a joke no sense of humor here your not an aussie they got jokes.

ohhh i know it was a joke i never take anything seriously :D
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] don't worry,i know how to use a gun :3

Ohh yays!! protect me 2 plzz!! :) plus nice flowers you got on your table! D:

i will :3 They are flowers for someone special < 3

Aww you shouldn't have !! how did you know they were my fav :$ <3
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"] Ohh yays!! protect me 2 plzz!! :) plus nice flowers you got on your table! D:

i will :3 They are flowers for someone special < 3

hahaha =D ok then you can have them :3 Aww you shouldn't have !! how did you know they were my fav :$ <3

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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] i will :3 They are flowers for someone special < 3

hahaha =D ok then you can have them :3 Aww you shouldn't have !! how did you know they were my fav :$ <3

aww yays you are too kind hana ! :D
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"] aww yays you are too kind hana ! :D

Aww Anytime darling!
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"] aww yays you are too kind hana ! :D FMAB_GTO
Aww Anytime darling!

anime-flowers.jpg For you :D

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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"] aww yays you are too kind hana ! :D AussieePet

Aww Anytime darling!

anime-flowers.jpg For you :D

THANKS! < 3 Never knew you were into anime :o
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#98 AussieePet
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] Aww Anytime darling!FMAB_GTO

anime-flowers.jpg For you :D

THANKS! < 3 Never knew you were into anime :o

hah welcome :D plus im not really its all confusing idk what channel or what series to watch cause theres like millions of different anime shows :P lol
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#99 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="AussieePet"]

anime-flowers.jpg For you :D

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THANKS! < 3 Never knew you were into anime :o

hah welcome :D plus im not really its all confusing idk what channel or what series to watch cause theres like millions of different anime shows :P lol

that's a fan art of a game named Harvest moon. Played a lot of Harvest moon games,they're awesome! < 3
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#100 MissLibrarian
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I guess because for whatever reason they forget what they're supposed to be doing momentarily.