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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="CyleM"]
well first off it was planned, and I'm not being ignorant she is just complaining about life... we both wanted another child so she shouldn't take her crap out on me all the time... I am stressed all the time too but I don't complain nearly as much as her... it is like 98% her and 2% me when it comes to b*tchingCyleM
LOL. You really have not researched anything about pregnancy, have you? You bleed after the birth, C-section or not. all the crap stored in the uterus to keep the baby going needs to come out sometime. She'll also have staples in her or stitches after the c-section, which causes massive pain. especially if one comes out. If she's a high-risk pregnancy then she really should be on bedrest, but if she has to work, then honestly you should be kissing her feet. She's taking a risk at losing that child to make sure your family doesn't go into debt with her medical. and fyi, a lot of women find pumping very painful. Put a vaccuum on your nipple every 20 minutes for half an hour at a time. and again, she's growing the baby, you're the one whining for no reason.
[QUOTE="CyleM"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]
Yeah, if it was planned and you cannot handle pregnant women, maybe you shouldn't have tried for another child. But since YOU also wanted another child, all I can say is suck it up. She has to go through pain, nausea, cramping, fatigue, birth of the child, bleeding for like a month afterwards and likely breastfeeding. Which hurts. You do not have a baby growing in you. She has every right to complain, you have none.XilePrincess
LOL. You really have not researched anything about pregnancy, have you? You bleed after the birth, C-section or not. all the crap stored in the uterus to keep the baby going needs to come out sometime. She'll also have staples in her or stitches after the c-section, which causes massive pain. especially if one comes out. If she's a high-risk pregnancy then she really should be on bedrest, but if she has to work, then honestly you should be kissing her feet. She's taking a risk at losing that child to make sure your family doesn't go into debt with her medical. and fyi, a lot of women find pumping very painful. Put a vaccuum on your nipple every 20 minutes for half an hour at a time. and again, she's growing the baby, you're the one whining for no reason.
Look this is my second child and she DIDN'T bleed after the first one AT ALL... she didn't mind the staples since they don't stay in for a long time and yes she will be in pain afterwards but she understands this... we have gone through this... and she isn't on bedrest cause she is only 3 MONTHS pregnant like I stated early and I also stated that she would probably quit the job anyways in 2 months if you read before you would have saw that... and since this is our SECOND child she doesn't mind pumping especially since she dried up very quickly so we just bought formula... yes she is growing the baby but that is the way God made it, if I could change that I would but I'm not a woman... look I love her to death but I shouldn't get jumped all over and kicked out of my house just because she had a bad day... sometimes she just needs to deal with it...Well there's a person growing inside her... just tell her she looks pretty when she's mad. :P it might work... or not.
I don't know, I could get pregnant and find out but that leads to children and I don't like kids o_Otofu-lion91
Hey you should try it out anyway. How bad can it be? :lol:
Here is what you do.
Avoid her unless she confronts you.
Take care of the house. Like cleaning the dishes, washing the laundry, ect.
Show her you're there for her.
Find ways to help calm her when she gets off work.
When I do get married and have a kid and my wife is going crazy, I plan to do that so.. :P
Ahhh...women.
When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.
I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.
If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.
Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.
How exactly is it your house? Your married its both your house. If you think the word "mine" still exists when your married then the problem is with you. IF you really love someone then you honestly would not care if they touched "your" stuff. When i get married, what is mine is hers, and what is hers is mine. She does not need to ask me to drive our car or use our computer. Married is a uniion of two people, not just two people living together. Its impossible to have something that is yours and not hers if you truly are united.Ahhh...women.
When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.
I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.
If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.
Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.
br0kenrabbit
[QUOTE="dracula_16"]nope not that at all, I'm lucky if it is even once every two weeks... wow you let her do that? Sorry but if my wife did that I would seriously feel undesired and unloved and I would let her know how it makes me feel. Obviously i can't speak for you though.Maybe she just needs some "special attention" if you catch my drift. Pregnant women have needs too. :wink:
CyleM
How exactly is it your house? Your married its both your house. If you think the word "mine" still exists when your married then the problem is with you. IF you really love someone then you honestly would not care if they touched "your" stuff. When i get married, what is mine is hers, and what is hers is mine. She does not need to ask me to drive our car or use our computer. Married is a uniion of two people, not just two people living together. Its impossible to have something that is yours and not hers if you truly are united.[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]
Ahhh...women.
When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.
I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.
If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.
Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.
STAR_Admiral
I bought the house before we married, therefore it was not considered a 'matrimonial asset'.
I think I look like a whale normally, but it's normal for women to feel insecure whilst pregnant. I'm not pregnant now but when I see a pregnant women I think she looks beautiful. ^_^sassycakewow you sound just like her... lol, but yeah pregnant woman are beautiful...
I think it has something to do with hormones. I remember reading somewhere that pregnancy gives out some sort hormone pattern that is somewhat similar to PMS.
Think of pregnancy as a 9-month PMS.
Though my sister is 5 months pregnancy and the only think she complains about is her boobs hurting a lot.
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