Why do pregnant woman always act crazy?

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#52 solidgamer
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I think i would act just as crazy if i had a human growing inside of me.
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#53 XilePrincess
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="CyleM"]

well first off it was planned, and I'm not being ignorant she is just complaining about life... we both wanted another child so she shouldn't take her crap out on me all the time... I am stressed all the time too but I don't complain nearly as much as her... it is like 98% her and 2% me when it comes to b*tchingCyleM


Yeah, if it was planned and you cannot handle pregnant women, maybe you shouldn't have tried for another child. But since YOU also wanted another child, all I can say is suck it up. She has to go through pain, nausea, cramping, fatigue, birth of the child, bleeding for like a month afterwards and likely breastfeeding. Which hurts. You do not have a baby growing in you. She has every right to complain, you have none.



ok well she has no pain right now, no cramping, and no nausea... just fatigue and the birth and she doesn't bleed cause its a c section... and all she does is bump not breast feed... so she doesn't have everything to complain about like you said.. she just works 4 hours a day and hates her job... and since she is a high risk pregnancy she needs to work cause we can't afford the medical bills with my job... and yes I've tried to tell her I'd work another job or whatever but she would rather me stay home with her and the family...

LOL. You really have not researched anything about pregnancy, have you? You bleed after the birth, C-section or not. all the crap stored in the uterus to keep the baby going needs to come out sometime. She'll also have staples in her or stitches after the c-section, which causes massive pain. especially if one comes out. If she's a high-risk pregnancy then she really should be on bedrest, but if she has to work, then honestly you should be kissing her feet. She's taking a risk at losing that child to make sure your family doesn't go into debt with her medical. and fyi, a lot of women find pumping very painful. Put a vaccuum on your nipple every 20 minutes for half an hour at a time. and again, she's growing the baby, you're the one whining for no reason.

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#54 Bloodseeker23
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Women+ Hormones=...
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puberty
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#56 CyleM
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[QUOTE="CyleM"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]

Yeah, if it was planned and you cannot handle pregnant women, maybe you shouldn't have tried for another child. But since YOU also wanted another child, all I can say is suck it up. She has to go through pain, nausea, cramping, fatigue, birth of the child, bleeding for like a month afterwards and likely breastfeeding. Which hurts. You do not have a baby growing in you. She has every right to complain, you have none.XilePrincess



ok well she has no pain right now, no cramping, and no nausea... just fatigue and the birth and she doesn't bleed cause its a c section... and all she does is bump not breast feed... so she doesn't have everything to complain about like you said.. she just works 4 hours a day and hates her job... and since she is a high risk pregnancy she needs to work cause we can't afford the medical bills with my job... and yes I've tried to tell her I'd work another job or whatever but she would rather me stay home with her and the family...

LOL. You really have not researched anything about pregnancy, have you? You bleed after the birth, C-section or not. all the crap stored in the uterus to keep the baby going needs to come out sometime. She'll also have staples in her or stitches after the c-section, which causes massive pain. especially if one comes out. If she's a high-risk pregnancy then she really should be on bedrest, but if she has to work, then honestly you should be kissing her feet. She's taking a risk at losing that child to make sure your family doesn't go into debt with her medical. and fyi, a lot of women find pumping very painful. Put a vaccuum on your nipple every 20 minutes for half an hour at a time. and again, she's growing the baby, you're the one whining for no reason.

Look this is my second child and she DIDN'T bleed after the first one AT ALL... she didn't mind the staples since they don't stay in for a long time and yes she will be in pain afterwards but she understands this... we have gone through this... and she isn't on bedrest cause she is only 3 MONTHS pregnant like I stated early and I also stated that she would probably quit the job anyways in 2 months if you read before you would have saw that... and since this is our SECOND child she doesn't mind pumping especially since she dried up very quickly so we just bought formula... yes she is growing the baby but that is the way God made it, if I could change that I would but I'm not a woman... look I love her to death but I shouldn't get jumped all over and kicked out of my house just because she had a bad day... sometimes she just needs to deal with it...

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#57 OrianaDorta
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Well there's a person growing inside her... just tell her she looks pretty when she's mad. :P it might work... or not.

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#58 binpink
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The baby's like 3 in. long at 3 months... and all those hormone issues already? There are reasons I never want kids and I'm adding crazy hormones to the list.

Good luck man. If you're concerned about medical bills and her needing to work it can't be easy.

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#59 MgamerBD
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All women are crazy...all of them.....
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#60 cowplayinghalo
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I don't know, I could get pregnant and find out but that leads to children and I don't like kids o_Otofu-lion91

Hey you should try it out anyway. How bad can it be? :lol:

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#61 Montaya
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Well something always triggers the moody behavior. Maybe if you just really read up on what they go through, the psychological aspect and try to adjust to it and you might luck better.

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#62 Sajedene
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Sorry you're going through that. I get that pregnancy is tough and all but if you're not doing anything to provoke her then she really shouldn't take it out on you - regardless of how hormonal she is. Once she's calmed down, you need to let her know that you don't appreciate being treated that way. Say something like, "I love you, and I am here for you to make this as easy for you as possible (re pregnancy) but I need you to talk to me and not take things out on me and belittle me like I am not going through this pregnancy with you. How can you expect me to help you and take care of you and give you what you need and what the baby needs if you keep pushing me away? I just want to be here for you, baby." Something like that. And you really should be trying to make things easier for her - but not to the point that you give in to her hormone tantrums.
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#63 schu
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Sorry you're going through that. I get that pregnancy is tough and all but if you're not doing anything to provoke her then she really shouldn't take it out on you - regardless of how hormonal she is. Once she's calmed down, you need to let her know that you don't appreciate being treated that way. Say something like, "I love you, and I am here for you to make this as easy for you as possible (re pregnancy) but I need you to talk to me and not take things out on me and belittle me like I am not going through this pregnancy with you. How can you expect me to help you and take care of you and give you what you need and what the baby needs if you keep pushing me away? I just want to be here for you, baby." Something like that. And you really should be trying to make things easier for her - but not to the point that you give in to her hormone tantrums.

::hearty laugh:: you have much to learn about life
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#64 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="schu"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]Sorry you're going through that. I get that pregnancy is tough and all but if you're not doing anything to provoke her then she really shouldn't take it out on you - regardless of how hormonal she is. Once she's calmed down, you need to let her know that you don't appreciate being treated that way. Say something like, "I love you, and I am here for you to make this as easy for you as possible (re pregnancy) but I need you to talk to me and not take things out on me and belittle me like I am not going through this pregnancy with you. How can you expect me to help you and take care of you and give you what you need and what the baby needs if you keep pushing me away? I just want to be here for you, baby." Something like that. And you really should be trying to make things easier for her - but not to the point that you give in to her hormone tantrums.

::hearty laugh:: you have much to learn about life

Oh really, sir. What makes you say that?
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#65 sonic__323
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Because of hormones.

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#66 Crazyguy105
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Here is what you do.

Avoid her unless she confronts you.

Take care of the house. Like cleaning the dishes, washing the laundry, ect.

Show her you're there for her.

Find ways to help calm her when she gets off work.

When I do get married and have a kid and my wife is going crazy, I plan to do that so.. :P

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#67 br0kenrabbit
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Ahhh...women.

When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.

I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.

If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.

Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Sorry you're going through that. I get that pregnancy is tough and all but if you're not doing anything to provoke her then she really shouldn't take it out on you - regardless of how hormonal she is. Once she's calmed down, you need to let her know that you don't appreciate being treated that way. Say something like, "I love you, and I am here for you to make this as easy for you as possible (re pregnancy) but I need you to talk to me and not take things out on me and belittle me like I am not going through this pregnancy with you. How can you expect me to help you and take care of you and give you what you need and what the baby needs if you keep pushing me away? I just want to be here for you, baby." Something like that. And you really should be trying to make things easier for her - but not to the point that you give in to her hormone tantrums.

^This is about the quickest way to get kicked out of the house.
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#69 kingdre
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It's those damn hormones. :evil:

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Ahhh...women.

When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.

I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.

If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.

Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.

br0kenrabbit

How exactly is it your house? Your married its both your house. If you think the word "mine" still exists when your married then the problem is with you. IF you really love someone then you honestly would not care if they touched "your" stuff. When i get married, what is mine is hers, and what is hers is mine. She does not need to ask me to drive our car or use our computer. Married is a uniion of two people, not just two people living together. Its impossible to have something that is yours and not hers if you truly are united.

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#71 STAR_Admiral
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[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

Maybe she just needs some "special attention" if you catch my drift. Pregnant women have needs too. :wink:

CyleM

nope not that at all, I'm lucky if it is even once every two weeks...

wow you let her do that? Sorry but if my wife did that I would seriously feel undesired and unloved and I would let her know how it makes me feel. Obviously i can't speak for you though.

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#72 CyleM
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Well she finally calmed down, I just avoided her until she felt better after getting a pedicure so I guess she felt better after that... she finally apologized to me for throwing such a fit and everything worked out... for now that is... I hope she just doesn't go crazy that much anymore cause sleeping in a car is not fun and I never did anything wrong in the first place...
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#73 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="DDRMom"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]Sorry you're going through that. I get that pregnancy is tough and all but if you're not doing anything to provoke her then she really shouldn't take it out on you - regardless of how hormonal she is. Once she's calmed down, you need to let her know that you don't appreciate being treated that way. Say something like, "I love you, and I am here for you to make this as easy for you as possible (re pregnancy) but I need you to talk to me and not take things out on me and belittle me like I am not going through this pregnancy with you. How can you expect me to help you and take care of you and give you what you need and what the baby needs if you keep pushing me away? I just want to be here for you, baby." Something like that. And you really should be trying to make things easier for her - but not to the point that you give in to her hormone tantrums.

^This is about the quickest way to get kicked out of the house.

Lol really? Maybe its just me then. All I know is that if my husband talked to me like an adult and asked me to not treat him irrationally because I am hormonal, I will accept it and apologize. If I get hormonal doesn't also mean I throw any sort of intelligence and rationality out the window. I also don't buy that whole PMS stuff too - its just excuses by some women to throw tantrums, which is what the OPs wife did. And last I checked, no one involved was five years old.
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[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]

Ahhh...women.

When I was married, my wife tried to kick me out of the house a few times. MY house, mind you. I just laughed, and she went to her moms.

I've seriously come to the conclusions it's not worth it. Relationships require too much sacrifice for too much BS.

If you hear a woman answer a questions with "whatever" or "nothing", get far, far away.

Luckily, I never had to put up with a pregnant woman. The tamponathon was bad enough.

STAR_Admiral

How exactly is it your house? Your married its both your house. If you think the word "mine" still exists when your married then the problem is with you. IF you really love someone then you honestly would not care if they touched "your" stuff. When i get married, what is mine is hers, and what is hers is mine. She does not need to ask me to drive our car or use our computer. Married is a uniion of two people, not just two people living together. Its impossible to have something that is yours and not hers if you truly are united.

I bought the house before we married, therefore it was not considered a 'matrimonial asset'.

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#75 Yonkid123
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Hormones!

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#76 darkchrisify
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women are not from this world

dont let her push you around you need to take control

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#77 AcronymnsFTW
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They're called hormones.
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#78 foodme123
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as a doctor i understand what the problem is andit is only partlyhormones as they onlykick inat about 5 or 6 months and is mostlycaused by stress from high risk birth and maybe domestic problems.

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#79 sassycake
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Hormones! I've been pregnant 4 times, I'm crazy normally anyway but even more so in pregnancy. ^_^ Enjoy it though, women look beautiful when they're pregnant, it's an amazing thing. Feel lucky you don't have to carry a baby around inside you for 9 months. -.-"
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#80 CyleM
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[QUOTE="sassycake"]Hormones! I've been pregnant 4 times, I'm crazy normally anyway but even more so in pregnancy. ^_^ Enjoy it though, women look beautiful when they're pregnant, it's an amazing thing. Feel lucky you don't have to carry a baby around inside you for 9 months. -.-"

funny thing is, is that she is kinda crazy normally too... lol and yes she looks beautiful but she hates the way she looks and says she looks like a fat whale... but I always tell her she is beautiful cause she is...
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#81 sassycake
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I think I look like a whale normally, but it's normal for women to feel insecure whilst pregnant. I'm not pregnant now but when I see a pregnant women I think she looks beautiful. ^_^
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#82 CyleM
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I think I look like a whale normally, but it's normal for women to feel insecure whilst pregnant. I'm not pregnant now but when I see a pregnant women I think she looks beautiful. ^_^sassycake
wow you sound just like her... lol, but yeah pregnant woman are beautiful...
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#83 sassycake
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Heh, it must be a 'woman thing'. Lol. Now, a pregnant man wouldn't look so nice, haha.
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#84 Wolls
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Well its the constantly raging hormones going through there system, best just to do what they say cos you dont want a slap :P

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#85 CyleM
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[QUOTE="sassycake"]Heh, it must be a 'woman thing'. Lol. Now, a pregnant man wouldn't look so nice, haha.

yeah that would be gross, especially to see how the baby was born...
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#86 Yoweeh
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I think it has something to do with hormones. I remember reading somewhere that pregnancy gives out some sort hormone pattern that is somewhat similar to PMS.

Think of pregnancy as a 9-month PMS.

Though my sister is 5 months pregnancy and the only think she complains about is her boobs hurting a lot.