Why do some guys think it is 'g@y' to say that another guy is good looking?

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#1 HardcoreGamer84
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It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

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#3 IxDRAILxI
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most of my school went threw that phase of trying to make fun of kids by calling them ugly. i think its kinda weird to judge the same gender weither your calling them ugly or good looking

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#4 super_mario_128
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This, and because some people are peer pressured into thinking the same thing as their friends'.

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#5 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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That's just the way things are. There's no sense in fighting it. It's a law of the universe, like gravity, momentum, and boy bands being awful.
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#6 Alley-Cat
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It's pretty juvenile to do that, there's nothing wrong with noticing something like that.
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#7 SaintLeonidas
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Christian Bale is good looking

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#8 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="iWorkForDiddy"]insecuresuper_mario_128

This, and because some people are peer pressured into thinking the same thing as their friends'.

This.

But even if you don't think it's g@y, it could also be jealousy like the TC said, as in "damn, I wish I looked like that m%$ f"#$%"

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#9 socked_feet
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Christian Bale is good looking

SaintLeonidas

Damn right he is. I don't know why some guys are like that. Insecure, I guess? I have no problem saying other girls are pretty.

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#10 nVidiaGaMer
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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Christian Bale is good looking

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Damn right he is. I don't know why some guys are like that. Insecure, I guess? I have no problem saying other girls are pretty.

I wouldn't say a guy is good looking ... its not right.

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#11 IxDRAILxI
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well, now i kno who to stay away from on ot
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#12 SquirtoMaximo
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It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

HardcoreGamer84

Guys don't like to comment on other guy's looks for fear they would be labeled as gay and also their ego usually can't take it.

If I see a really good looking guy (rarely), I will likely stare and try to take mental notes on why he is so good looking for future reference.

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#13 SaintLeonidas
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[QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Christian Bale is good looking

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Damn right he is. I don't know why some guys are like that. Insecure, I guess? I have no problem saying other girls are pretty.

I wouldn't say a guy is good looking ... its not right.

hey, i never said I was attracted to him or in love with him, but the Todd appreciates hot, regardless of gender

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Homophobes. Just because I know which guys are attractive doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to them...?
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#15 double_decker
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Simple, if a guy is better looking than me then he is *** and saying he is good looking, thus calling him ***, would be rude, so you see... I don't comment because I am polite :) (Which means yes, I am one of those "ugly" guys :lol: )
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I'm not afraid to admit I'm good looking.
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#17 alwayspureblood
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I never understood that. A lot of girls that I see always comment on other girls, whether they say "oh she looks pretty in that dress" or "Oh she looks hideous with that makeup", I don't see why it can't be the same for males. Is it so wrong to say "you look pretty nice in that hat" or something along those lines to a guy?
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#18 nVidiaGaMer
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[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Christian Bale is good looking

SaintLeonidas

Damn right he is. I don't know why some guys are like that. Insecure, I guess? I have no problem saying other girls are pretty.

I wouldn't say a guy is good looking ... its not right.

hey, i never said I was attracted to him or in love with him, but the Todd appreciates hot, regardless of gender

Doesn't matter still not right to do that IMO and in many others opinions.

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#19 SaintLeonidas
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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"][QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Christian Bale is good looking

nVidiaGaMer

Damn right he is. I don't know why some guys are like that. Insecure, I guess? I have no problem saying other girls are pretty.

I wouldn't say a guy is good looking ... its not right.

hey, i never said I was attracted to him or in love with him, but the Todd appreciates hot, regardless of gender

Doesn't matter still not right to do that IMO and in many others opinions.

someones insecure ;) , why is it wrong? Explain that to me in words other then IMO

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#20 UssjTrunks
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I compare myself to other guys, and I'm straight. It's just insecurity with most people.
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If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

No, thats completely wrong. I'm straight, and I can tell between ugly and non-ugly guys...

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#23 UssjTrunks
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If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer


Not really. If you learn what girls like in a guy you get better at noticing it. I'm usually bad at telling which guys are actually hot (to girls) and which aren't, but I do guess right sometimes. It's the same with girls. Most times when a girl thinks another girl is pretty, I'll usually think she's not that great.
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I think it's incredibly homophobe. I mean, I can think to myself which guys I think are good looking or not, but I'm not gay for the simple fact that thinking about those dudes doesn't turn me on in any way)
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#25 SaintLeonidas
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If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

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#26 HardcoreGamer84
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If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

I can't tell if you are being serious or not. Regardless, saying that another guy OR girl is good looking doesn't always mean you are sexually attracted to them.

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so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

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The guy on the left is the better looking one... right?
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[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.SaintLeonidas

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

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[QUOTE="crazy-player"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

No, thats completely wrong. I'm straight, and I can tell between ugly and non-ugly guys...

What ever you say maybe because you look too much in the reflection.

Huh?

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#31 nVidiaGaMer
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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

double_decker

The guy on the left is the better looking one... right?

Thats my guess too ...

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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

They're both not ugly, simple.

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If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

So because I'm straight it's impossible for me to tell the difference between Johnny Depp (first actor that came to mind) and some random ugly dude? That doesn't make sense at all...

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#34 SaintLeonidas
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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

Brad Pitt, I think girls only like Depp because he has the "cool" factor going, I personally dont see why some many girls love him...oh yeah, and Im straight.

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#35 nVidiaGaMer
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[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.crazy-player

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

They're both not ugly, simple.

Not ugly to you at least but I bet theres girls who don't think there attractive its all an opinion or better yet a personal taste.

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I am strait and have no problem admitting it, anybody who can't really is either immature or insecure or both. Like the guy from burn notice, he is good looking and he has sweet suits.
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#37 SaintLeonidas
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[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

They're both not ugly, simple.

Not ugly to you at least but I bet theres girls who don't think there attractive its all an opinion or better yet a personal taste.

yeah, and there are some girl who I find not attractive who others find hot, like Alba, I dont think she is to great looking

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The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.
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Its like boy using the urinal next to each other it just isn't right.
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[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]If your a guy its impossible to tell if the other guy is good looking unless you are attracted to them. Thats the truth. You can say there cool but not good looking.nVidiaGaMer

so you cant tell who is better looking without being attracted? nope, i think your logic fails.

How about Brad Pitt vs. Johnny Depp try that and tell me your straight.

They're both not ugly, simple.

Not ugly to you at least but I bet theres girls who don't think there attractive its all an opinion or better yet a personal taste.

Yeah, an opinion, you can still tell them apart, so in this case, your logic fails. Sorry dude.

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That's just the way things are. There's no sense in fighting it. It's a law of the universe, like gravity, momentum, and boy bands being awful.sonicare

hahahaha yeah...idk it all depends on the person..some arent secure and some are just following other people

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#43 SaintLeonidas
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The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.nVidiaGaMer

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

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It's alright to say it..doesn't mean you're gay
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[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.SaintLeonidas

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

LOL:lol:

nvidiagamer is clearly just insecure. 'Nuff said.

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[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.SaintLeonidas

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

You're my hero :)

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[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.HardcoreGamer84

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

LOL:lol:

nvidiagamer is clearly just insecure. 'Nuff said.

Oh course I'm insecure around people who talk like there g@y.

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[QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.nVidiaGaMer

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

LOL:lol:

nvidiagamer is clearly just insecure. 'Nuff said.

Oh course I'm insecure around people who talk like there g@y.

why, afraid you might catch something?

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This is like me and my friend If you ask him to judge another guy he refuses. I don't really care though
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[QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.nVidiaGaMer

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

LOL:lol:

nvidiagamer is clearly just insecure. 'Nuff said.

Oh course I'm insecure around people who talk like there g@y.

Unfortunately, it appears he's not just insecure, but a homophobe too...

What's wrong nvidia, afraid all of us queer folks might take all your manly manliness away? :roll: