Why do some guys think it is 'g@y' to say that another guy is good looking?

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

[QUOTE="nVidiaGaMer"]The truth is good looking is only an opinion and does not apply to everyone because different people have different tastes/thoughts/thinking.black_cat19

so you think every guy in the world is not good looking? thanks a lot buddy for the insult...;)

LOL:lol:

nvidiagamer is clearly just insecure. 'Nuff said.

Oh course I'm insecure around people who talk like there g@y.

Unfortunately, it appears he's not just insecure, but a homophobe too...

What's wrong nvidia, afraid all of us queer folks might take all your manly manliness away? :roll:

I think he's just joking around. He's just seeking for attention.

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

HardcoreGamer84

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

I compare myself to other guys, and I'm straight. It's just insecurity with most people.UssjTrunks

[QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

JurockDaRock

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

[QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

HardcoreGamer84

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

But its in my mental domain so nobody would kno im judging. this is what this thread is all about, people actually saying something out loud about a person. Everybody judges people in their mind and they cant control that, but they can control speaking out loud.

That's just the way things are. There's no sense in fighting it. It's a law of the universe, like gravity, momentum, and boy bands being awful.sonicare

heey what is that about ? i love boybands especially backstreet boys.

as for the ot, i do judge guys sometimes and give them credit for looking good. that doesn't mean i'm gay though i'm simply admiring the fact that he looks good.

the whole word gay is thrown around far to much by boys who have yet to have gone through puberty and not yet learned to talk like an adult.

but yeah the whole thing is silly, i have no problem identifiying a dude as good looking...its not as if i'm saying i would hit it...but socity would have it seem that way

[QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

JurockDaRock

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

But its in my mental domain so nobody would kno im judging. this is what this thread is all about, people actually saying something out loud about a person. Everybody judges people in their mind and they cant control that, but they can control speaking out loud.

Why should they have to control "speaking out loud"?

[QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

alwayspureblood

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

But its in my mental domain so nobody would kno im judging. this is what this thread is all about, people actually saying something out loud about a person. Everybody judges people in their mind and they cant control that, but they can control speaking out loud.

Why should they have to control "speaking out loud"?

Because whats on everybodys mine is not always decent to say out loud.

That's just the way things are. There's no sense in fighting it. It's a law of the universe, like gravity, momentum, and boy bands being awful.sonicare

[QUOTE="alwayspureblood"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

JurockDaRock

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

But its in my mental domain so nobody would kno im judging. this is what this thread is all about, people actually saying something out loud about a person. Everybody judges people in their mind and they cant control that, but they can control speaking out loud.

Why should they have to control "speaking out loud"?

Because whats on everybodys mine is not always decent to say out loud.

I can agree with that, however not in this case though.

Who are you to say that because a male compliments or insults another male based on their appearance it is indecent? Yet, when other girls compliment other girls, most people have no problem with that.

[QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="alwayspureblood"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"][QUOTE="JurockDaRock"][QUOTE="HardcoreGamer84"]

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

alwayspureblood

I dont know whats goin on in your circle, cuz me and my pals dont even judge the next man. Even if he may be ugly as fudge. Haha ur irratated because of it...

LOL but wouldn't labeling other people "ugly" be considered judging? HAHA

But its in my mental domain so nobody would kno im judging. this is what this thread is all about, people actually saying something out loud about a person. Everybody judges people in their mind and they cant control that, but they can control speaking out loud.

Why should they have to control "speaking out loud"?

Because whats on everybodys mine is not always decent to say out loud.

I can agree with that, however not in this case though.

Who are you to say that because a male compliments or insults another male based on their appearance it is indecent? Yet, when other girls compliment other girls, most people have no problem with that.

I didnt say anything about that though. I never said it was indecent.

Because admitting that you think someone is attractive means that you are also sexually attracted to them. It's a simple fact of life.foxhound_fox

Wrong answer Bill.

If girls felt that way that would make them all lesbians.

Jealousy runs in straight guys too, at least the ones who aren't so egotistical or homophobic to deny it.

Wrong answer Bill.

If girls felt that way that would make them all lesbians.

Jealousy runs in straight guys too, at least the ones who aren't so egotistical or homophobic to deny it.

SquirtoMaximo

[QUOTE="SquirtoMaximo"]Wrong answer Bill.

If girls felt that way that would make them all lesbians.

Jealousy runs in straight guys too, at least the ones who aren't so egotistical or homophobic to deny it.

foxhound_fox

Those things havent advanced enough to detect through the internet...Joe.

I didnt say anything about that though. I never said it was indecent.

JurockDaRock

You incinuated it somewhat though.

Anyway, I suppose that if you're going to insult someone, I guess its best to not say it out loud, but if its a compliment towards someone of the same or opposite sex, why should it not be said?

[QUOTE="JurockDaRock"]

I didnt say anything about that though. I never said it was indecent.

alwayspureblood

You incinuated it somewhat though.

Anyway, I agree that if you're going to insult someone, it best not be said out loud, but if its a compliment towards someone of the same or opposite sex, why should it not be said?

It really depends on the situation. CUz sometimes it can be embarrassing and awkward.

It really depends on the situation. CUz sometimes it can be embarrassing and awkward.

JurockDaRock

I guess. But thats somewhat the point of this thread, to show others that theres nothing embarrassing or awkward about accepting that someone of the same sex is "good looking" , or whatever some people want to call it.

Uhhh...let me think for a minute...ummm...maybe because guys that find other guys attractive are g@y by definition? just a thought...orcmonkey3000

Good-looking =/= attractive.

I said something about some really, really ugly guy in some movie or something being ugly and some guy kept calling me gay for judging a guy... :|

Seriously, I feel like im still in elementary school sometimes...

Because admitting that you think someone is attractive means that you are also sexually attracted to them. It's a simple fact of life.foxhound_fox

I agree. Hell, there have been gorgeous women that I have seen that I'm not sexually attracted to.

It kinda irritates me when straight males refuse to remark whether a guy is good looking or not. Some guys just look better than others. Some guys have awesome bodies that you wish you had.

It's crap because ALL guys know when a dude is ugly and they'll comment on it. But then they get all squirmy when they are asked to judge if a guy is good looking or not.

HardcoreGamer84

when i see a guy that is buff on the street or somewhere else, i just think to myself "man, i gotta start working out" it just makes me wanna make myself stronger, kinda like how a lot of girls look at models because they wanna look like them.

Brandon Flowers is hot.

Brandon Flowers is hot.

Shmiity

well i wouldn't use that word to describe another guy, i would just use good looking or something, but i wouldn't use hot...:?

What is strange to me is that the exact opposite is perfectly fine. Or when a man comments on another man's physique.

If a man calls another man ugly that is perfectly fine. But in order to call someone ugly a man must have an idea of what an attractive male is.....just my two cents.

Also, I am secure enough with myself to be able to say when another gentleman is a generally good looking guy.

I have no idea why people do it. Saying something is gay or a person is gay in a derogatory manner doesn't make you look funny or cool, it just makes you look like a tool, and it pisses me off. It's like people can't come up with something funnier, so they just go with gay instead. I find some guys that I know to be attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I want to come on to them or anything, but people think it's still funny to call someone gay for thinking another guy is good looking. I don't really get it, but I guess not being funny is supposed to be funny somehow.Blood-Scribe

Thank god for you posting on the forums, seriously, you speak more sense than most of the other members combined.

I told this one guy that I liked his shirt. I didnt even say he looked good in it or anything like that. He makes some *** joke and all the sudden im the one getting clowned.

I guess thats what I get for giving someone a compliment...

I don't think it's gay or anything, I actually somewhat wish I could, but I refrain myself from judging males' looks because I'm just unable... anytime I've discussed a guy's looks with a female friend, she'd have the opposite opinion from mine... some good looking guys I find ugly, some ugly ones I would think look good, etc.

That's probably why girls are hitting on me and I still think I'm not that good looking

[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]I have no idea why people do it. Saying something is gay or a person is gay in a derogatory manner doesn't make you look funny or cool, it just makes you look like a tool, and it pisses me off. It's like people can't come up with something funnier, so they just go with gay instead. I find some guys that I know to be attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I want to come on to them or anything, but people think it's still funny to call someone gay for thinking another guy is good looking. I don't really get it, but I guess not being funny is supposed to be funny somehow.JJ4545

Thank god for you posting on the forums, seriously, you speak more sense than most of the other members combined.

I was under the impression that most people here would tend to assume the opposite.

Brandon Flowers is hot.

Shmiity

He's not a bad looking dude and he's got the voice of an angel.