Why don't you have a girlfriend ir boyfriend?

It makes me happy to remind that I have a amazing beautiful girlfriend who I can trust completly. I was once a die hard single man, and I spent far too much time desiring a girlfriend. Although I had plenty of sex experience, flings etc, A real stable relatinship took far too long to happen, but now everything is perfect.

For the TC, relax and let time shape your experience for this situation. You will eventually overcome this situation, most probably that is. Unless you are some kind of overprotective spoiled kid who is afraid of getting a rejection and dealing with almost negative emotions

By the way, that is the true way to deal with low self steam. You got learn how to deal with the fact you might be rejected, you will have to deal with a broken heart or two, but never, ever give up or let yourself down. We got learn how to deal with the harsh times

Too young

The person I like is 4 years older than me.

I'm moving next year.

Don't have the courage to confess.

Right now? Because I haven't put much effort into finding one. My priorities are elsewhere right now, and I can say from experience that if you want to develop a commited relationship, it requires time - quite a lot of it, in fact. So unless my priorities change, or unless I happen to meet someone fantastic through a chance encounter, it is unlikely that I will have another relationship in the foreseeable future.

One never knows, though. I haven't had a relationship yet that was achieved through active pursuit. They just develop naturally if you spend time with the right people.

I never had a girlfreind in my life, ok I had one for 2 days in 9th grade but that doesn't count. In my entire lifetime about 5 or 6 girls have asked me out and I said No to all 5/6. Idk what's wrong with me, I just get full of anxeity when a girl wants to be more than friends with me. What do u think is wrong? Will I ever grow outta this? Most of the girls were ugly anyway, but my teen hormones are raging right now and I pretty much am bout to explode from my urges, Srsly, what's wrong with me. And why haven't u gotten a gf yet?Raged_Soulja

I had one, she turned lesbian, now I don't have many female friends...

Unappealing, low self confidence, and being shy. Im afraid to speak to anyone who im not friends because of what they might think. Abit stupid when you think about it.ferron321

Im like this guy too so that makes it worse, dude we gotta grow out of it.

[QUOTE="ferron321"]Unappealing, low self confidence, and being shy. Im afraid to speak to anyone who im not friends because of what they might think. Abit stupid when you think about it.-KinGz-

Im like this guy too so that makes it worse, dude we gotta grow out of it.

I know :(

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

The girl i was in love with turned into the moon :(.nintendoman562

"That's rough buddie."

The girl i was in love with turned into the moon :(.nintendoman562

Turned into the moon? WTF?

I dont because the girl I love doesnt feel the same about me, and she moved away recently and I just found out that she is really depressed living where she is now and i feel really sad for her and want to talk to her but she doesnt reply to emails or come on msn atm (one of her female friends said that she isnt getting replies either) :( :cry: :(

I never had a girlfreind in my life, ok I had one for 2 days in 9th grade but that doesn't count. In my entire lifetime about 5 or 6 girls have asked me out and I said No to all 5/6. Idk what's wrong with me, I just get full of anxeity when a girl wants to be more than friends with me. What do u think is wrong? Will I ever grow outta this? Most of the girls were ugly anyway, but my teen hormones are raging right now and I pretty much am bout to explode from my urges, Srsly, what's wrong with me. And why haven't u gotten a gf yet?Raged_Soulja

I know how you feel, I just think I haven't got the luck for it:( It just never came around

I lack conversation skills, most people don't understand what I say because I use ''complicated'' words alot. And I'm not good continuing with conversations, I mostly just state my opinion or answer a question and no more words come out of my mouth.Tuky06

same for me

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

-TheSecondSign-

Good luck out there, dude.

Its too close to Christmas. If I started dating someone now Id have to buy them a present

Its too close to Christmas. If I started dating someone now Id have to buy them a present

Big_Bad_Sad

You could always try dating a Jehovah's Witness...

Its too close to Christmas. If I started dating someone now Id have to buy them a present

Big_Bad_Sad

Probably because I have self-confidence issues, want more from a relationship than just a physical release and haven't found the right person yet.foxhound_fox

exactly the same reason...and i'm still in highschool so it is almost impossible :(

*sigh*

I never had a girlfreind in my life, ok I had one for 2 days in 9th grade but that doesn't count. In my entire lifetime about 5 or 6 girls have asked me out and I said No to all 5/6. Idk what's wrong with me, I just get full of anxeity when a girl wants to be more than friends with me. What do u think is wrong? Will I ever grow outta this? Most of the girls were ugly anyway, but my teen hormones are raging right now and I pretty much am bout to explode from my urges, Srsly, what's wrong with me. And why haven't u gotten a gf yet?Raged_Soulja

you got a computer and the internet.... so that should calm your urges for now......... and to anwser you question i have one already

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

strieeyes

Good luck out there, dude.

Thanks. It's a Navy program where they attach you to an Army or Marine unit and you assist them in their duties.

I am one of those very strange people who actually wants to be deployed.

[QUOTE="nintendoman562"]The girl i was in love with turned into the moon :(.rb2610

Turned into the moon? WTF?

I dont because the girl I love doesnt feel the same about me, and she moved away recently and I just found out that she is really depressed living where she is now and i feel really sad for her and want to talk to her but she doesnt reply to emails or come on msn atm (one of her female friends said that she isnt getting replies either) :( :cry: :(

It's an Avatar: The Last Airbender reference.

When Sokka talks about women, and then he says his first girlfriend becomes the moon(Which happened in season 1).

Zuko looks up at the sky and then goes "That's rough buddy."

I am one of those very strange people who actually wants to be deployed.

-TheSecondSign-

[QUOTE="strieeyes"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

-TheSecondSign-

Good luck out there, dude.

Thanks. It's a Navy program where they attach you to an Army or Marine unit and you assist them in their duties.

I am one of those very strange people who actually wants to be deployed.

Not strange, my cousin wanted to be deployed too. It was what he signed up for.

I just joined the Soilder's Angels program. :)

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"][QUOTE="strieeyes"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

strieeyes

Good luck out there, dude.

Thanks. It's a Navy program where they attach you to an Army or Marine unit and you assist them in their duties.

I am one of those very strange people who actually wants to be deployed.

Not strange, my cousin wanted to be deployed too. It was what he signed up for.

I just joined the Soilder's Angels program. :)

I haven't learned about that yet.

[QUOTE="strieeyes"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"][QUOTE="strieeyes"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

I'm leaving for BT in a few months, and after that there's pretty much a 99% chance of me getting deployed to Iraq right after Aschool and IA training, so I'll be in Iraq by the end of 2009.

Does it really seem like I will have the time or patientance for a girlfriend?

I'll be in the desert in probably a year and a half, maybe two.

-TheSecondSign-

Good luck out there, dude.

Thanks. It's a Navy program where they attach you to an Army or Marine unit and you assist them in their duties.

I am one of those very strange people who actually wants to be deployed.

Not strange, my cousin wanted to be deployed too. It was what he signed up for.

I just joined the Soilder's Angels program. :)

I haven't learned about that yet.

Basically I "adopt" a soilder, promise to send him (or her) letters once a week, and a care package once a month. :)