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#51 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="viewtiful26"][QUOTE="_IronManDude_"] In all seriousness, I agree with this guy. Many marriages break up in North America every year because the wife continuously pummels the man, and the man cannot do anything about it._IronManDude_
From my understanding most cases of domestic abuse are from the mother, as they are around more often to hit the kids and stuff.

Really? I would have figured it was the father?

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to kill their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to inflict damage that sends his spouse to the hospital.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are more likely to use weapons on their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to instigate the attacks upon their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to verbally abuse their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are far more likely to report to the police.

There are studies often brought up that cite men are the cause of 73 or so percent of domestic abuse, but those are derived from police records, and considering it's incredibly rare that men report abuse(or that their report is taken seriously), it's already a tarnished study. Many scientific studies(you know, those surveys doing random people and whatnot) from numerous countries have shown similar results that it's closer to a 50-50 split with women being the aggressor more often at around 54%(although as i said above, more women are severely injured and killed than their male counterparts).

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#52 DJ-Lafleur
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boys shouldn't hit girls, girls shouldn't be hitting boys. Simple as that.
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#53 Gaming-Planet
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because they make babies
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#54 DJ_Novakain
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because they make babiesGaming-Planet
The world is over-populated. We need less baby makers.
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#55 Marka1700
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Hitting anyone is wrong. If you must, then defend youself from attack but learn the difference between defense and excessive force.
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#56 DJ-Lafleur
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because they make babiesGaming-Planet

So? Without guys, the women wouldn't be able to make babies in the first place. :|

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#57 realistic44
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For some reason i thought this thread was about their "pimp game" lol. :P
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#58 observer77
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[QUOTE="_IronManDude_"][QUOTE="observer77"]I believe if a girl hits you you have the right to hit them back ofcourse take into thought how hard you do it if she hits you and it hurts then hit back so it hurts reality women aren't all sweet and gentle anymore and if some crazy **** comes up trying to fight you then your have every right to fight back. but keep in mind that if you hit a girl without her attacking first then your proble going to be in alot of trouble. Most people see it as self defense if it is under and eye for an eye rule.Lockedge
In all seriousness, I agree with this guy. Many marriages break up in North America every year because the wife continuously pummels the man, and the man cannot do anything about it.

The men can't do anything about it because of two things: -Their own mentality and the patriarchal society(it may be fizzling out but the foundation is still rooted in most men these days) keeps them from doing anything violent to women, causing them to bottle up all that pain and self-loathing, and whatnot. It's why there's an immensely high percentage of un-reported domestic assaults that deal with wives/girlfriends attacking husbands/boyfriends. -VAWA. As much as the Violence Against Women Act was a decent step forward, it's also a huge obstacle for men. See, in domestic abuse cases, men are presumed to be the guilty party and are taken to jail. There was one case that stood out to me, where a beaten father called 911 because his wife had attacked him and the children, and he was arrested while the mother got to remain with the kids. The VAWA has discrimination written into it, and it basically forbids men to even apply self-defense in many cases.

Well I'ma chick and this is my belief if I hit some guy I feel that he has the right ot defend himself reality the law system is flawed beyond belief but that doesn't change what should be women have become extremely violent over the years and it is only getting worse with the next generation. women are getting meaner and the law should catch up so men aren't being stuck withthe short straw in bad situations.

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#59 MrGeezer
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Your parents did not teach you this when you were younger?

Really, you need to ask why it is wrong to hit a girl?

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I was raised with good moral values, so I was taught not to hit ANYONE (man or woman) unless I have to. The second that you're at a bar and you beat up a skinny little dude because he made a move on your girlfriend, then you have failed. Rhinos and hippos and crocodiles and insects do not use diplomacy. HUMANS do use diplomacy. The second that you stop using your brain to resolve situations and instead start beating people up to resolve situations is the exact same second that you give up your humanity. Because being a human takes too much thinking. Fighting is the realm of the stupid and the weak. MOST people have NEVER been in a fight. And even when you're learning martial arts that turn your fists into lethal weapons, the one most prominent rule is that you don't use those techniques unless you NEED to. Being able to kick ass is EXACTLY like owning a gun. It's for when you HAVE to use it, NOT for when you just get pissed off at a dude and want to beat the **** out of him.

Frankly, anyone who has ever kicked someone's ass should be talking about that with at least a bit of shame. Because sure you won by kicking his ass, but you lost by having to try to kick his ass in the first place. ANIMALS fight about stupid ****. Meanwhile, HUMANS actually TALK about **** and resolve their differences through diplomacy. That's one of the major things that makes us better than the animals. And the second that you try to punch someone's face INSTEAD of being diplomatic, then you've failed at being human.

Also, let me state that this applies in MOST cases. But not all. For example, if you're in prison and some dude decides to make you his *****, diplomacy is PROBABLY not going to save your ass. You'll probably just have to beat the **** out of him. But again, that fits in the category of fighting out of NECESSITY. NOT fighting just because some dude sort of made you mad.

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#60 II_Seraphim_II
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I have to wonder why people ask this? TC, do you really want to beat up on girls? Personally I would never hit a girl. Why? Because I'm generally a nice guy and I never piss people off to the point they want to hit me. If it's a girl, chances are that im bigger than she is so I would never hit her, just restrain her. And if she happens to be bigger than me, I would just make sure as to not piss her off. If she happens to be bigger me and just randomly hates me for whatever reason, I would just block/try to restrain her till she gets tired and gives up. If she is bigger than me, has greater stamina, is stronger, faster and has a knife and wants to kill me, then yes, I may hit her, but seriously, what are the chances of the above requirements being met?
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#61 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"][QUOTE="_IronManDude_"] In all seriousness, I agree with this guy. Many marriages break up in North America every year because the wife continuously pummels the man, and the man cannot do anything about it.observer77

The men can't do anything about it because of two things: -Their own mentality and the patriarchal society(it may be fizzling out but the foundation is still rooted in most men these days) keeps them from doing anything violent to women, causing them to bottle up all that pain and self-loathing, and whatnot. It's why there's an immensely high percentage of un-reported domestic assaults that deal with wives/girlfriends attacking husbands/boyfriends. -VAWA. As much as the Violence Against Women Act was a decent step forward, it's also a huge obstacle for men. See, in domestic abuse cases, men are presumed to be the guilty party and are taken to jail. There was one case that stood out to me, where a beaten father called 911 because his wife had attacked him and the children, and he was arrested while the mother got to remain with the kids. The VAWA has discrimination written into it, and it basically forbids men to even apply self-defense in many cases.

Well I'ma chick and this is my belief if I hit some guy I feel that he has the right ot defend himself reality the law system is flawed beyond belief but that doesn't change what should be women have become extremely violent over the years and it is only getting worse with the next generation. women are getting meaner and the law should catch up so men aren't being stuck withthe short straw in bad situations.

That makes two of us :D I agree wholeheartedly. I think society is in flux between the patriarchal social value system, and the modern feminist bred value system. Men are sticking with the patriarchal system while the rest of the modern world moves on. Some key extreme feminist organizations have taken advantage of this fact to pursue certain laws to further their cause, but they tend not to care about men's rights(or equal rights for that matter) and figure men can have their own rights movement in 60 years when they won't be as ridiculed were they to make an attempt today. I'm a feminist sticking to the old ideals. Equal rights for both sexes, wherever it can be achieved.
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#62 observer77
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[QUOTE="observer77"]

[QUOTE="Lockedge"] The men can't do anything about it because of two things: -Their own mentality and the patriarchal society(it may be fizzling out but the foundation is still rooted in most men these days) keeps them from doing anything violent to women, causing them to bottle up all that pain and self-loathing, and whatnot. It's why there's an immensely high percentage of un-reported domestic assaults that deal with wives/girlfriends attacking husbands/boyfriends. -VAWA. As much as the Violence Against Women Act was a decent step forward, it's also a huge obstacle for men. See, in domestic abuse cases, men are presumed to be the guilty party and are taken to jail. There was one case that stood out to me, where a beaten father called 911 because his wife had attacked him and the children, and he was arrested while the mother got to remain with the kids. The VAWA has discrimination written into it, and it basically forbids men to even apply self-defense in many cases.Lockedge

Well I'ma chick and this is my belief if I hit some guy I feel that he has the right ot defend himself reality the law system is flawed beyond belief but that doesn't change what should be women have become extremely violent over the years and it is only getting worse with the next generation. women are getting meaner and the law should catch up so men aren't being stuck withthe short straw in bad situations.

That makes two of us :D I agree wholeheartedly. I think society is in flux between the patriarchal social value system, and the modern feminist bred value system. Men are sticking with the patriarchal system while the rest of the modern world moves on. Some key extreme feminist organizations have taken advantage of this fact to pursue certain laws to further their cause, but they tend not to care about men's rights(or equal rights for that matter) and figure men can have their own rights movement in 60 years when they won't be as ridiculed were they to make an attempt today. I'm a feminist sticking to the old ideals. Equal rights for both sexes, wherever it can be achieved.

Yeah somethings just don't make sense...why do we fight so hard for slanted "equal" rights men should stop taking societies direction on how they are "supposed" to act and make up their own minds on how they know they are and what they care about and stop being so..."MANLY!"

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#63 falconclan
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Main reason would be that it is a mirror of domestic abuse and the like, which is very frowned upon in most parts of the world. Another reason is like most stated, the difference between men and women, men are naturally more muscular then your average girl.
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#64 Bloodbath_87
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Because it's not as fun if they can't fight back.
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#65 Deihjan
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just touch her shoulder instead of hitting her...
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#66 manicfoot
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I'm a very/weak guy (can't even hold a bowling ball with one hand) so if a girl hits me I'll hit them back. Feminists won. I don't descriminate against women at all :P
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#67 Bourbons3
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Men are typically stronger than women. Men who hit women are usually horrible people.
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#68 markop2003
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Guys are usually stronger and due to guys generally being more violant towards other guys they've toughened up over the years and so can take a few hits from a girl and if a girl hits you you proberbly deserve it.
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#69 Choga
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Because guys are generally stronger than girls.
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#70 tzar3
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I see no wrong in it honesty. Hell I've hit a girl before way back then...
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#71 hamstergeddon
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At first I thought the topic title was "Why is boys hitting on girls wrong" and I'm like, "oh there's nothing wrong with that" But then I read it correctly and now I'm like "WTF IZ RONG WITH U TC!??!??!?!"
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#72 TheHolyDevil16
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well hitting a girl just shows how weak u are....well i never had probs like that in my life and if a girl just gave me a slap i just smiled back cuz i knew that she got

her reason why hitting me xD

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#73 PSP107
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I have to wonder why people ask this? TC, do you really want to beat up on girls? Personally I would never hit a girl. Why? Because I'm generally a nice guy and I never piss people off to the point they want to hit me. If it's a girl, chances are that im bigger than she is so I would never hit her, just restrain her. And if she happens to be bigger than me, I would just make sure as to not piss her off. If she happens to be bigger me and just randomly hates me for whatever reason, I would just block/try to restrain her till she gets tired and gives up. If she is bigger than me, has greater stamina, is stronger, faster and has a knife and wants to kill me, then yes, I may hit her, but seriously, what are the chances of the above requirements being met?II_Seraphim_II
i was just wondering. Anyway like observer said, today's girls are vicious. Atleast the color girls. U ppl dont just dont know what these girls are capable of.
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#74 Deihjan
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Men are typically stronger than women. Men who hit women are usually horrible people.Bourbons3
well, when I was younger my brother and I fought a lot... he once hit a babytooth of mine so it dangled x.x We had fun tho, and I love my brother very very much :D
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#75 Rigga911
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i believe its perfectly fine to beat the **** out of a girl........but only when they get out of line..............like dont doing the dishes, or not giving us pleasures
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the only time i think its ok to hit a girl is if she cheated on you for no good reson (if you cheat on her then its ok for her to do it). Maybe only if you walk in on her cheating on you because thats harsh.
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#77 Funky_Llama
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It's no worse for a boy to hit a girl than for a boy to hit a boy.
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#78 nattydreadlocks
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Depends purely on the context, If a girl full on started try to hurt me I would just restrain her, its just built in, I don't think I could hit a women. Women don't tend to go up and punch people for the way they are lookign at them, so I don't see this situation ever occuring for me anyway.
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#79 AnObscureName
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I don't know. I have it sort of inbedded in my own personal morality that you don't hit women.
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[QUOTE="_IronManDude_"][QUOTE="viewtiful26"] From my understanding most cases of domestic abuse are from the mother, as they are around more often to hit the kids and stuff.Lockedge

Really? I would have figured it was the father?

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to kill their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to inflict damage that sends his spouse to the hospital.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are more likely to use weapons on their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to instigate the attacks upon their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to verbally abuse their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are far more likely to report to the police.

There are studies often brought up that cite men are the cause of 73 or so percent of domestic abuse, but those are derived from police records, and considering it's incredibly rare that men report abuse(or that their report is taken seriously), it's already a tarnished study. Many scientific studies(you know, those surveys doing random people and whatnot) from numerous countries have shown similar results that it's closer to a 50-50 split with women being the aggressor more often at around 54%(although as i said above, more women are severely injured and killed than their male counterparts).

One of my high school teachers mentioned that a woman got a fireplace poker and used it on her husband, but the dude was the one that got arrested. Probably not the best example since she apparently was using drugs, but Phil Hartmann (you may remember from such characters as Troy Mclure and Lionel Hutz on the Simpsons) was shot and killed by his wife after a dispute with her.
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#81 krazykillaz
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Hitting anyone is wrong. It's just taboo because women are still widely considered weaker than men.
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#82 Mormaso
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Because girls are *usually* smaller and more delicate. Generally it is the man's job to protect her, so hitting her is just screwed up. That's my guess, in any case I wouldn't hit anyone anyway, especially girls.
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#83 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="socked_feet"]Men are stronger than women, even my skinniest guy friends are stronger than me. But, hitting anyone is wrong.

i beg to differ on the hitting anyone is wrong. but anyways, everybody has already answered it. we're usually stronger than girls.
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#84 howlrunner13
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Cause they are the weaker of the species. *flexes muscles*
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[QUOTE="T_P_O"]

If one comes at you with knife or PMS, you may have to defend yourself. Aim for the breast of the subject.

These "Girls" are highly dangerous creatures and I advise the whole male populace of GS not to go near any.

But what if I need to go get something out of the refrigerator.
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#86 Thagypsy
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I think you should be able to hit a girl if you're being attacked but other than that it's not good.
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Women are weak mentally and physically.
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#88 munu9
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Well, a true feminist would state that is just a sexist saying that implies women are weaker and defenseless. So hitting a women is like hitting someone weak and defenseless and that's why it's suppose to be wrong. Though most feminists would either stay quiet or state that hitting in general is violence and it's wrong.
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#89 PSP107
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[QUOTE="viewtiful26"][QUOTE="Lockedge"]

Really? I would have figured it was the father?_IronManDude_

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to kill their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, men are more likely to inflict damage that sends his spouse to the hospital.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are more likely to use weapons on their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to instigate the attacks upon their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are likely to verbally abuse their spouse.

In cases of domestic abuse/assault, women are far more likely to report to the police.

There are studies often brought up that cite men are the cause of 73 or so percent of domestic abuse, but those are derived from police records, and considering it's incredibly rare that men report abuse(or that their report is taken seriously), it's already a tarnished study. Many scientific studies(you know, those surveys doing random people and whatnot) from numerous countries have shown similar results that it's closer to a 50-50 split with women being the aggressor more often at around 54%(although as i said above, more women are severely injured and killed than their male counterparts).

One of my high school teachers mentioned that a woman got a fireplace poker and used it on her husband, but the dude was the one that got arrested. Probably not the best example since she apparently was using drugs, but Phil Hartmann (you may remember from such characters as Troy Mclure and Lionel Hutz on the Simpsons) was shot and killed by his wife after a dispute with her.

That btch, That was a great line " Hi Im I Troy Mclure, You May Remember me in Movies as
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#90 Mr_Leonis
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Hitting a girl is low. However if a female hits me, they will be kicked out of my house(not literally) with a posible restraining order as a going away present. ;)