why is promiscuity frowned upon?

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#101 Nicolas101
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]It's frowned upon for both sexes. tofu-lion91
I disagree. Men tend to get hi5's from their mates for sleeping around and women get called whores o_O

But what do the women think when they find out a man has been sleeping around? Pretty sure they don't go up and hi5 him.

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#102 BeepBoop16
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[QUOTE="BeepBoop16"]

[QUOTE="hiphops_savior"]You can only lose your virginity once, Genetic_Code

BS

Actually, by definition, that's true.

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#103 AirGuitarist87
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Unless you're you using protection, promiscuous leads to STIs. Even then, protection isn't 100% fool proof. Additionally, humans have healthier relationships if they're in a committed relationship with one person than when they are in relationship with many people.Genetic_Code
What do you mean by "healthier relationships"? Do you mean general social skills, or do you mean intimate relationships?
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As someone who want to just find that one special someone, you can see how a promiscuous attitude could very well keep who seams to be the perfect girl from being interested in me. I also think that sleeping around with anyone will eventually make the main thing you become turned on by is the person being "new." Then once you try to settle down you find it hard to just be with one person and are tempted to sleep around with others. To me it's just as bad as harsher pornography ("harsher" meaning something disrespectful or physically impossible to the other party.) it makes you crave something one person can't give and can eventually hurt or break a relationship. So that's why I kind of frown upon it, I'm not going to cuss someone out for it but I find it uncomfortable if someone flaunts that kind of attitude around like nothing. If you have a problem with that.... well then I have a problem with you having a problem with me having a problem with you sleeping around.
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#105 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]It's frowned upon for both sexes. Nicolas101

I disagree. Men tend to get hi5's from their mates for sleeping around and women get called whores o_O

But what do the women think when they find out a man has been sleeping around? Pretty sure they don't go up and hi5 him.

He may not get a high-five, but the situation will certainly be handled differently than if it was the girl who had slept around.
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#106 BeepBoop16
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[QUOTE="Nicolas101"]

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] I disagree. Men tend to get hi5's from their mates for sleeping around and women get called whores o_OAirGuitarist87

But what do the women think when they find out a man has been sleeping around? Pretty sure they don't go up and hi5 him.

He may not get a high-five, but the situation will certainly be handled differently than if it was the girl who had slept around.

You see, the male genitalia is empowered by promisuity whilst the female genitalia is tarnished. Thus, men are Bro's and women are Ho's.

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#107 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="VacantPsalm"]As someone who want to just find that one special someone, you can see how a promiscuous attitude could very well keep who seams to be the perfect girl from being interested in me. I also think that sleeping around with anyone will eventually make the main thing you become turned on by is the person being "new." Then once you try to settle down you find it hard to just be with one person and are tempted to sleep around with others. To me it's just as bad as harsher pornography ("harsher" meaning something disrespectful or physically impossible to the other party.) it makes you crave something one person can't give and can eventually hurt or break a relationship. So that's why I kind of frown upon it, I'm not going to cuss someone out for it but I find it uncomfortable if someone flaunts that kind of attitude around like nothing. If you have a problem with that.... well then I have a problem with you having a problem with me having a problem with you sleeping around.

I dunno, I find that a bit unfair. I know plenty of people who've had many sexual partners, but are more faithful than many who aren't. For example, I have had quite a number of girlfriends but I pick and choose whom I fancy very specifically, but my friend who has yet to have a girlfriend can flick his focus from one girl to another on a daily basis. The success rate of acquiring a sexual partner is in no relation to how faithful you are. If that didn't make sense, that's because I'm incredibly tired. It makes sense to me. :P
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#109 AirGuitarist87
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You see, the male genitalia is empowered by promisuity whilst the female genitalia is tarnished. Thus, men are Bro's and women are Ho's.

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Empowered? Like a duracell battery or something? :?
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#110 BeepBoop16
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[QUOTE="BeepBoop16"]

You see, the male genitalia is empowered by promisuity whilst the female genitalia is tarnished. Thus, men are Bro's and women are Ho's.

AirGuitarist87

Empowered? Like a duracell battery or something? :?

More like sharpening a sword.

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#111 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="BeepBoop16"]

You see, the male genitalia is empowered by promisuity whilst the female genitalia is tarnished. Thus, men are Bro's and women are Ho's.

BeepBoop16

Empowered? Like a duracell battery or something? :?

More like sharpening a sword.

How Freudian. Fnar fnar.
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Wow.
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#113 BeepBoop16
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[QUOTE="BeepBoop16"]

[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] Empowered? Like a duracell battery or something? :?AirGuitarist87

More like sharpening a sword.

How Freudian. Fnar fnar.

Who's Freudian, he been readin' mah notes? Oh and i'd get yourself checked out man, your spouting off nonsense.

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#114 TBoogy
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i don't really understand why, especially for women, society frowns upon or demonizes promiscuity. but then, for men it isn't seen as a bad thing?

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Its bad for both, but when you are a woman on The Maury Show trying to DNA test your 5th man and STILL don't know who your "baby's daddy" is, thats a problem.

So I feel women having multiple partners is worse. Men can't get pregnant.

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#115 AirGuitarist87
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Men can't get pregnant.

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Wow Nohabs is taken a lot of heat....what's the deal here looks like the newer users are trying to take on the veterans....I'm sensing a war here...
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#117 BeepBoop16
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Men can't get pregnant.

TBoogy

DIDN'T YOU SEE THAT EPISODE OF MYTH BUSTERS!?

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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="VacantPsalm"]As someone who want to just find that one special someone, you can see how a promiscuous attitude could very well keep who seams to be the perfect girl from being interested in me. I also think that sleeping around with anyone will eventually make the main thing you become turned on by is the person being "new." Then once you try to settle down you find it hard to just be with one person and are tempted to sleep around with others. To me it's just as bad as harsher pornography ("harsher" meaning something disrespectful or physically impossible to the other party.) it makes you crave something one person can't give and can eventually hurt or break a relationship. So that's why I kind of frown upon it, I'm not going to cuss someone out for it but I find it uncomfortable if someone flaunts that kind of attitude around like nothing. If you have a problem with that.... well then I have a problem with you having a problem with me having a problem with you sleeping around.

I dunno, I find that a bit unfair. I know plenty of people who've had many sexual partners, but are more faithful than many who aren't. For example, I have had quite a number of girlfriends but I pick and choose whom I fancy very specifically, but my friend who has yet to have a girlfriend can flick his focus from one girl to another on a daily basis. The success rate of acquiring a sexual partner is in no relation to how faithful you are. If that didn't make sense, that's because I'm incredibly tired. It makes sense to me. :P

I never said it would definitely happen, *looks back at post* although I also forgot the few words that said I didn't mean it would happen definitely, so I guess it was kind of my fault.:P I meant that like what someone means when they say "smoking causes cancer." It's not an absolute, but it's still a risk. Plus when I say promiscuous I mean people who go to a party or some place like once a week and hook up with random people, not people who go from gf to gf.
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#119 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="VacantPsalm"]I never said it would definitely happen, *looks back at post* although I also forgot the few words that said I didn't mean it would happen definitely, so I guess it was kind of my fault.:P I meant that like what someone means when they say "smoking causes cancer." It's not an absolute, but it's still a risk. Plus when I say promiscuous I mean people who go to a party or some place like once a week and hook up with random people, not people who go from gf to gf.

Haha, no-one's fault sir. :P Yeah, I can see the connection between the two, but I still think that they aren't in direct correlation. Certainly someone who has sex more is more likely to cheat than someone who doesn't have sex, but only due to exposure and chance.
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn."

It all boils down to women being jealous creatures. If you are a woman who sleeps around, you are more of a threat to other women. (looking for a man) Therefore, women will do what it takes to discourage such activity. (through a mental berating)

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#121 BeepBoop16
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn."

It all boils down to women being jealous creatures. If you are a woman who sleeps around, you are more of a threat to other women. (looking for a man) Therefore, women will do what it takes to discourage such activity. (through a mental berating)

dchan01

I like to think it's repressed feelings of homosexuality that causes said jelousy. They don't want all those beautiful women sleeping with men, they want them for themselves (sub-conciously). Which is why they try and get as many men as possible, to ensure their beautiful female peers have less of a chance of having someone else.

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#122 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="dchan01"]

"Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn."

It all boils down to women being jealous creatures. If you are a woman who sleeps around, you are more of a threat to other women. (looking for a man) Therefore, women will do what it takes to discourage such activity. (through a mental berating)

BeepBoop16

I like to think it's repressed feelings of homosexuality that causes said jelousy. They don't want all those beautiful women sleeping with men, they want them for themselves (sub-conciously). Which is why they try and get as many men as possible, to ensure their beautiful female peers have less of a chance of having someone else.

Lesbians sleep with men...so there's more women to go around? :?