why must we guys go through this

Girls usually have higher expectations for guys than guys do for girls.

Guys are confusing to girls too. So quit whining.socked_feet

[QUOTE="socked_feet"]Guys are confusing to girls too. So quit whining.2Late4Tears

why are women so complicated?

2Late4Tears

Ladies have a ph of -1 where as most guys have a ph of 15.FrostyPhantasm

Guys are confusing to girls too. So quit whining.socked_feet

[QUOTE="travsbbygrl"][QUOTE="MagikarpSplash"] We do, but you don't make sense.MagikarpSplash

[QUOTE="2Late4Tears"][QUOTE="socked_feet"]Guys are confusing to girls too. So quit whining.socked_feet

[QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="2Late4Tears"] lol not one girl in this thread said that about a guy.... enterawesome

cuz we need to eat braaiiiiiinnnssss.... :V

[QUOTE="enterawesome"][QUOTE="socked_feet"] Hm, well I'm a girl. And I find them confusing. Perhaps I'm the only one to admit it instead of yapping about how boys never listen. Because I will admit that some girls are annoyingly cryptic when they want to tell their boyfriend something.socked_feet

[QUOTE="enterawesome"][QUOTE="socked_feet"] Hm, well I'm a girl. And I find them confusing. Perhaps I'm the only one to admit it instead of yapping about how boys never listen. Because I will admit that some girls are annoyingly cryptic when they want to tell their boyfriend something.socked_feet

I do not find women even remotely complicated. I have no tolerance for mind games or "guess how i feel" tantrums. Either come out with it or im walking away and doing something that isnt a waste of my time.

Cull their ability to manipulate and farm for attention and your battle is pretty much won. After this, she is either happy and stays or isnt and leaves. Either way you win.

[QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="enterawesome"]What is it you find confusing? I'll be happy to explain everything to you.Wolls

[QUOTE="2Late4Tears"]

why are women so complicated?

jeremiah06

A. Actually listen.
-only when they have something interesting to say :P

B. Start out friends
-yeah...about that...
I have never gone from friends to BF/GF...but I have done the opposite

C. Take it slow.
-less likely than answer B

D. Get to know their friends and family
-I don't like/don't spend time with my own family...sure as hell not doing it with hers
-I have my own friends...you have yours, I have mine...we both need time away from each other with our own friends

E. Always bare you true feelings last.(as in let her speak first)
Most people know exactly how I feel about them...it is no secret (purposefully)
I am honest with people and expect the same in return
-though that is quite easy to do when you do not likevast majorityof the population

F. Stay honest.
Could not agree more

G. DON'T ALWAYS UNDERSTAND(so many guys mess up by trying/pretending to understand everything she is going threw. The truth is you won't always understand and that's OK if you are supportive(but not too supportive))
I am usually (99% of the time) able to understand/sympathise/empathize with what other people are going through/their POV
-just b/c I do not agree with you/how you react to a given situation does not mean I do not understand

But I do realize that I am unlike the majority of people I know
-I may not like people, but I do understand them/their motivations/rationalizations/etc

why are women so complicated?

2Late4Tears

More intelligent than Men?

Well, I've never encountered this complication that you guys speak of. Maybe its you?

I really dont know some of them seem crazy to me but anyway I guess you just have to find the right one since not all of them are bonkers

One word...starts with a "V". Come on...you know it!

[QUOTE="socked_feet"][QUOTE="enterawesome"]What is it you find confusing? I'll be happy to explain everything to you.Wolls

[QUOTE="enterawesome"][QUOTE="socked_feet"] Hm, well I'm a girl. And I find them confusing. Perhaps I'm the only one to admit it instead of yapping about how boys never listen. Because I will admit that some girls are annoyingly cryptic when they want to tell their boyfriend something.socked_feet

because you guys can't read between the lines O__Omoonlightcharm6

because you guys can't read between the lines O__Omoonlightcharm6

First of all, we shouldn't have to. It's really not that difficult to say what you mean, believe it or not. Secondly, we can understand it if what she's saying "between the lines" makes sense in the given context, but the fact is that many women just aren't as intelligent, articulate, or eloquent as they think they are, so the gibberish that comes out of the woman's mouth can only possibly make sense to her and no one else.

Because life's a *****.scorch-62

If women were so unbearably complicated, how did so many find anyone to date/marry/have families with them? At some point you get over it or work things out or find a woman who's less complicated. Or one who doesn't call you on your crap and express herself when you're being an idiot. I fully admit that I get complicated and emotional but 9 times out of 10 it's not over something I started.

We're not complicated; you just don't listen.

travsbbygrl

One of the many mysteries that we'll most likely never have an accurate answer to lol, what i especially dislike is how theyusually wait for you to make the first move

Because we are the weaker sex?

entropyecho

One of the many mysteries that we'll most likely never have an accurate answer to lol, what i especially dislike is how theyusually wait for you to make the first move

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