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QUOTE] I agree but there are other things that can make a women be percieved as ugly other then a poor lifestyle, such as bone structure, skin proplems beyond their control (stretch marks, bad skin tones, celulite, scars etc), flat chest, out of proportion body etc. etc. So should these women not be allowed to feel comfortable with themselves based on a bad combination of genes? Or should they undergo a multitude of painful, time consuming and expensive artifical alterations and enhancment before they should be comfortable with themselves?Solid_Snake325You're right, yes, they should feel comfortable with themselves if they can't do anything about it, but I think most of those small things do not make them considerably ugly and also are pretty rare to have (celulite?). The things I've stated aren't really that rare, women have just become good at hiding them which is why a lot of women do not feel comfortable baring all, because they can no longer hide their imperfections. Also cellulite is a sort of dimpling of the skin around fatty areas common in women, not even fat women as I have faint traces of it and am rather skinny, admittedly unless you have a bad case of it it's not really noticeable.
pfft... all I am saying is a lot of guys are comfortable prancing around with no shirt on or walking around showing off whatever it is they want to show off (muscles, bulge, legs, etc) but if a girl walks around wearing something sexy they get called a slut or a whore. I said it before and I will say it again... if you got it flaunt it.Sajedene
thats because women let it get to them. If you call a guy a **** machine he'd say "why thank you". It loses all meaning if it doesn't negativly affect the person.
How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right. You're right there, though i have been cat called by some other guys, it was a bit weird but i just laughed it off stuff like that dosn't tend to bother me.[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="I_pWnzz_YoU"] So would you call a guy a slut if he walked around with nos shirt on? :lol:Solid_Snake325How in the world did you come up with that from what I wrote? LoL. Of course I wouldn't. My point was that no one says anything if a guy does it but if a girl shows a bit of leg or cleavage its like OMG slutface! Sorry but if a girl is looking slutty (tight, skimpy clothes, short skirt, cleavage) then guys will think they're slutty, and they'll just want to bang them, not start a relationship with them. Girls are just asking for disrespect when they dress like that. And please don't try to question why men and women don't think alike. They're just too different in too many ways (biological, mental) Then that is the guy with the issue not the girl. Chauvinism and sexism and assumptions... so glad not all men think like you.
1. Too many people put way too much emphasis on physical appearance.
2. Sex complicates things. Why? Most people are not emotionally or mentally ready for sex when they have it. Lust is very different from love.
3. Do double standards exist in society? Yes. Does it make it right? No.
4. We are a product of our family and cultural values. Some people are more comfortable with sex/nudity than others. I urge you to live your values - it's the only way you will find peace in your life.
My 0.02.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]You're probably right, I didn't even bother to read the article.Men and women are too funny sometimes. Throw sex in there and its entertainment. Heck, its what built Hollywood.
Sajedene
im a guy and i can easyly say when its hot out in the summer i sweat horribly so what do i do? i sleep naked sometimes. the reason why i do that is because its like a sauna in my room. as for women if they wanna walk around naked im for it. because everyone knows the hot women will get attention wile the fat chicks are just hanging out.... lol....
[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How in the world did you come up with that from what I wrote? LoL. Of course I wouldn't. My point was that no one says anything if a guy does it but if a girl shows a bit of leg or cleavage its like OMG slutface!SajedeneSorry but if a girl is looking slutty (tight, skimpy clothes, short skirt, cleavage) then guys will think they're slutty, and they'll just want to bang them, not start a relationship with them. Girls are just asking for disrespect when they dress like that. And please don't try to question why men and women don't think alike. They're just too different in too many ways (biological, mental) Then that is the guy with the issue not the girl. Chauvinism and sexism and assumptions... so glad not all men think like you. Lol ok, first of all it's not just the guy, men are designed that way: to have sexual thoughts and make judgements based on a woman's appearance..Second you're insulting "guys like me" but you're also obsessed with apperance by trying to look sexy whenever you go out. I definetely would not want to date someone like you as well. I don't want to date anyone who's that concerned with physical apperance.
[QUOTE="links136"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]pfft... all I am saying is a lot of guys are comfortable prancing around with no shirt on or walking around showing off whatever it is they want to show off (muscles, bulge, legs, etc) but if a girl walks around wearing something sexy they get called a slut or a whore. I said it before and I will say it again... if you got it flaunt it.Sajedene
thats because women let it get to them. If you call a guy a **** machine he'd say "why thank you". It loses all meaning if it doesn't negativly affect the person.
How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right. saje, just ot remind me, if i have you on my friends list, why is your profile still private? its the same with JumpingMirrior...[QUOTE="Sajedene"]I already do -- but I feel sexier in lingerie and the fact that someone wants to take it off. So what now?PlasmaBeam44
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:o x2[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How in the world did you come up with that from what I wrote? LoL. Of course I wouldn't. My point was that no one says anything if a guy does it but if a girl shows a bit of leg or cleavage its like OMG slutface!SajedeneSorry but if a girl is looking slutty (tight, skimpy clothes, short skirt, cleavage) then guys will think they're slutty, and they'll just want to bang them, not start a relationship with them. Girls are just asking for disrespect when they dress like that. And please don't try to question why men and women don't think alike. They're just too different in too many ways (biological, mental) Then that is the guy with the issue not the girl. Chauvinism and sexism and assumptions... so glad not all men think like you.I am a guy and i don't think like that :). Clothe doesn't make a person who they are, but there is exeptions like if the girl is grinding all over a guy and putting their hands on the ground and all that. Oh and i liked your art work on your page, i used to draw cartoon characters but havent done it for a while. Now i am a game programmer so it might be good to step up on the art side now, i was goin to PM you for some tips on drawing but your set to private do you think you can add me, and i can ask you some questions on drawing? Thank you.
[QUOTE="I_pWnzz_YoU"][QUOTE="yusefdoodi"]*once again agrees*yusefdoodiYou just wanna see her naked don't you? ;) I have a girlfriend bro, a girlfriend who im going to have fun with this wednesday at her place :D Why not today? And tomorrow?! NOMNOMNOM!! Don't ask where that came from, or what I'm referring to when I say it :lol:
[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How in the world did you come up with that from what I wrote? LoL. Of course I wouldn't. My point was that no one says anything if a guy does it but if a girl shows a bit of leg or cleavage its like OMG slutface!SajedeneSorry but if a girl is looking slutty (tight, skimpy clothes, short skirt, cleavage) then guys will think they're slutty, and they'll just want to bang them, not start a relationship with them. Girls are just asking for disrespect when they dress like that. And please don't try to question why men and women don't think alike. They're just too different in too many ways (biological, mental) Then that is the guy with the issue not the girl. Chauvinism and sexism and assumptions... so glad not all men think like you.shh just come over so we can get it on :)
[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"] Sorry but if a girl is looking slutty (tight, skimpy clothes, short skirt, cleavage) then guys will think they're slutty, and they'll just want to bang them, not start a relationship with them. Girls are just asking for disrespect when they dress like that. And please don't try to question why men and women don't think alike. They're just too different in too many ways (biological, mental)blazinpuertorocThen that is the guy with the issue not the girl. Chauvinism and sexism and assumptions... so glad not all men think like you.shh just come over so we can get it on :) *cough*Cyber*cough* Sorry, I have a bad cough, I'm working on it though.
[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="links136"]How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right. saje, just ot remind me, if i have you on my friends list, why is your profile still private? its the same with JumpingMirrior...thats because women let it get to them. If you call a guy a **** machine he'd say "why thank you". It loses all meaning if it doesn't negativly affect the person.
GTR2addict
Weird... I just clicked on track you again... let me know if that works.
Added ct1257860 too -- thank you for the compliments -- I just recently learned that if you search for my name in the users section it would allow you to pm or track me despite my profile being set to private.
And I get that not all guys are "pigs" -- I know that. But why is it so hard to grasp that just because I like to look pretty that makes me a slut? A whore? Too concerned with physical appearance? Oh please. Anyone who says they do not place any value whatsoever on physical appearance is kidding themselves. Just don't make it the be all end all... but it is still important.
[QUOTE="links136"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]pfft... all I am saying is a lot of guys are comfortable prancing around with no shirt on or walking around showing off whatever it is they want to show off (muscles, bulge, legs, etc) but if a girl walks around wearing something sexy they get called a slut or a whore. I said it before and I will say it again... if you got it flaunt it.Sajedene
thats because women let it get to them. If you call a guy a **** machine he'd say "why thank you". It loses all meaning if it doesn't negativly affect the person.
How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right.If you wear something that shows your rack and someone says nice rack why would you get angry?
Also, even though you say you don't like it if someone says nice rack we all know you do, girls love any kind of attention and so do you.
[QUOTE="GTR2addict"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right.Sajedenesaje, just ot remind me, if i have you on my friends list, why is your profile still private? its the same with JumpingMirrior...
Weird... I just clicked on track you again... let me know if that works.
Added ct1257860 too -- thank you for the compliments -- I just recently learned that if you search for my name in the users section it would allow you to pm or track me despite my profile being set to private.
And I get that not all guys are "pigs" -- I know that. But why is it so hard to grasp that just because I like to look pretty that makes me a slut? A whore? Too concerned with physical appearance? Oh please. Anyone who says they do not place any value whatsoever on physical appearance is kidding themselves. Just don't make it the be all end all... but it is still important.
Thanks :)! Ill will be ask you the questions later today :).[QUOTE="GTR2addict"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How often does someone go up to a man and give them cat calls? Have you ever experienced it? Why should I be okay if someone says nice rack or nice legs --- and I take the high road and say thank you (when they could have complimented me in a nicer, mature way) only for it to be followed by whatever it is they want to do to me right then and there. Its offensive and vulgar. Why should I be okay with that? And then suddenly it becomes my fault for wearing something that makes me feel good and sexy? Not even slutty -- good and sexy. It's not right.Sajedenesaje, just ot remind me, if i have you on my friends list, why is your profile still private? its the same with JumpingMirrior...
Weird... I just clicked on track you again... let me know if that works.
Added ct1257860 too -- thank you for the compliments -- I just recently learned that if you search for my name in the users section it would allow you to pm or track me despite my profile being set to private.
And I get that not all guys are "pigs" -- I know that. But why is it so hard to grasp that just because I like to look pretty that makes me a slut? A whore? Too concerned with physical appearance? Oh please. Anyone who says they do not place any value whatsoever on physical appearance is kidding themselves. Just don't make it the be all end all... but it is still important.
Odd...it still says private when i try to view your profile.Slut alert[QUOTE="sauses3392"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]I already do -- but I feel sexier in lingerie and the fact that someone wants to take it off. So what now?Murj
Don't be such a dickhead.
agreed, saje is in no way a slut :xAnd I get that not all guys are "pigs" -- I know that. But why is it so hard to grasp that just because I like to look pretty that makes me a slut? A whore? Too concerned with physical appearance? Oh please. Anyone who says they do not place any value whatsoever on physical appearance is kidding themselves. Just don't make it the be all end all... but it is still important.
Sajedene
A female in the OT?!?! :shock: Just kidding :P
Seriously though, besides the obvious Online Anonymity = E-Thug answer, I believe the answer to your question is fact the vast majority of posters here have never had a serious GF before. Nor have they lived with GF before. They don't seem to know that ladies just need "to feel like a woman".
You may be different, but most of my GFs and now my wife always dress-up nice when we went/go out. And they were/are comfortable wearing next-to-nothing (if not totally naked) when it's just us at the house.
pfft... all I am saying is a lot of guys are comfortable prancing around with no shirt on or walking around showing off whatever it is they want to show off (muscles, bulge, legs, etc) but if a girl walks around wearing something sexy they get called a slut or a whore. I said it before and I will say it again... if you got it flaunt it.Sajedene
There's a girl on gamespot?
pfft... all I am saying is a lot of guys are comfortable prancing around with no shirt on or walking around showing off whatever it is they want to show off (muscles, bulge, legs, etc) but if a girl walks around wearing something sexy they get called a slut or a whore. I said it before and I will say it again... if you got it flaunt it.SajedeneShould the girl flaunt it in private with her boyfriend? Or do you mean out in public?
[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="jakndaxter7223"]There are a few, surprisingly. :o we need a special emblem :x That's actually not a bad idea. Or maybe right under your usernames there should be like a star or something.There's a girl on gamespot?
Deihjan
[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]Anything in there about how guys should cover every inch of their hideous bodies? And before you flame me, let me say that I'm including myself.harashawnMy body isn't hideous. :x the hell are you to judge?
Anything in there about how guys should cover every inch of their hideous bodies? And before you flame me, let me say that I'm including myself.Video_Game_KingIsn't that for women to decide?
[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]Anything in there about how guys should cover every inch of their hideous bodies? And before you flame me, let me say that I'm including myself.harashawnMy body isn't hideous. :x
Boobs only work on women. Stop telling yourself otherwise :P.
[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]Anything in there about how guys should cover every inch of their hideous bodies? And before you flame me, let me say that I'm including myself.remmbermytitansIsn't that for women to decide? No person is good looking naked.. that's just the naked truth.. (inb4 I c whut u did thar)
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