WIll you wear a Purity ring?

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#51 black_cat19
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No way in hell. Sex is natural and awesome, and a big part of a healthy relationship. Besides, it's a recreational activity, people make it a way bigger issue than it really is.

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#52 194197844077667059316682358889
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Will it help me get laid?
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#53 michael_1234576
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if i did I'd be a liar.
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#54 Darthkaiser
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No, I don't see what's the deal of showing of everyone you're "Pure" no purity ring is gonna prove that
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#55 Engrish_Major
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No, I don't see what's the deal of showing of everyone you're "Pure" no purity ring is gonna prove thatDarthkaiser
but what if it comes with a certificate of authenticity?
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#56 spazzx625
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Is there a loophole in the pledge where, even though I'm married, could be have multiple wives and always be a virgin?
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#57 194197844077667059316682358889
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no purity ring is gonna prove thatDarthkaiser
I can think of one...
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#58 Kcube
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Wouldn't it die if you put a ring on there?KiIIyou
Ding Ding!! We have a winner! :P
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[QUOTE="KiIIyou"]Wouldn't it die if you put a ring on there?Kcube
Ding Ding!! We have a winner! :P

Without going into explicit, GS-inappropriate detail, no you certainly would not.
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#60 Kcube
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Is there a loophole in the pledge where, even though I'm married, could be have multiple wives and always be a virgin?spazzx625
Good qeustion. Maybe you can wear a marriage purity ring where you stay pure and not have sex with your wife..But at the same time can have sex with whomever else you want. You sir are a vsionary :P
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#61 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="Kcube"][QUOTE="KiIIyou"]Wouldn't it die if you put a ring on there?xaos
Ding Ding!! We have a winner! :P

Without going into explicit, GS-inappropriate detail, no you certainly would not.

It actually seems to thrive in that particular environment.
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#62 BuryMe
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No.

In fact, I wouldn't marry some one unless I've already had sex with them.

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#63 lancea34
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I hate rings, marriage and the concept of purity itself, so no. Besides it's too late for me anyways. :P

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#64 MissLibrarian
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I think if I ever tried to wear a purity ring lightning from the heavens would strike me down to melt it off my sacrilegious finger.

Also I would never marry a man without checking out his 'attributes' first.

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#65 NiKva
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Wtf. I'm 17 now and I still haven't scored. Not going to wear something that stops my chance of scoring.
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#66 lamprey263
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maybe I'd wear it as a joke, like we used to Sharpy a straight edge X on my hand before partying and doing every every kind of recreational activity that the straight edge culture hates
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#67 benleslie5  Moderator
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No

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#68 LJS9502_basic
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But I'm already married.....:o
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#69 Stavrogin_
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I believe, since this is the 21th century, the people who voted yes, did that as a joke. At least, that's what i want to believe...
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#70 DJ-PRIME90
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Too late, and wont consider this born again virgin crap.
Atheist and pro-choice is the way I'm going to stay...

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#71 Fightingfan
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'attributes'

MissLibrarian

You pluralized "attributes" I assume one is his "fireman" what's the other the buttocks?

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#72 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="Kcube"][QUOTE="Engrish_Major"]What? Heck no. Why would I want to vow to spend the rest of my life with someone with whom I have not yet experienced one of the defining factors of happiness?Engrish_Major
I follow the look don't touch motto. If I am going to dedicate my time to a girl and wait..she is going to have to show me whats at the end of her rainbow first. That and I don't want to accidently fall in love with a dude :P

Would you buy a car without test driving it? Or is merely looking through the windows good enough for you?

girls are not cars though.
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#73 lightleggy
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Waiting until (after) marriage is just silly. What if it turns out you and your partner aren't sexually compatible? That's going to lead to divorce real quick, be it through (hopefully) mutually realizing the issue, or because someone was not being faithful.

Salacon
what do you mean by "sexually compatible"? I pretty much doubt there is such thing. oh and how does the other person's faithfullness relates in any way to your virginity?
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#74 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="Salacon"]

Waiting until (after) marriage is just silly. What if it turns out you and your partner aren't sexually compatible? That's going to lead to divorce real quick, be it through (hopefully) mutually realizing the issue, or because someone was not being faithful.

lightleggy
what do you mean by "sexually compatible"? I pretty much doubt there is such thing. oh and how does the other person's faithfullness relates in any way to your virginity?

The fact that you doubt the existence of sexual compatibility is merely proof that you've not had much experience in that venue.
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#75 pygmahia5
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well, that ship has sailed for me. but no, if i were still a virgin, i would not wear a ring.
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#76 XileLord
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Way to late for that. I lost my virginity at 14

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#77 MissLibrarian
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[QUOTE="MissLibrarian"]

'attributes'

Fightingfan

You pluralized "attributes" I assume one is his "fireman" what's the other the buttocks?

I meant more along the lines of size, uh, 'religious (or not) features' and technical ability. But basically I would want to know as much about a person as I possibly can before agreeing to marry them.
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#78 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Salacon"]

Waiting until (after) marriage is just silly. What if it turns out you and your partner aren't sexually compatible? That's going to lead to divorce real quick, be it through (hopefully) mutually realizing the issue, or because someone was not being faithful.

Engrish_Major
what do you mean by "sexually compatible"? I pretty much doubt there is such thing. oh and how does the other person's faithfullness relates in any way to your virginity?

The fact that you doubt the existence of sexual compatibility is merely proof that you've not had much experience in that venue.

then im a person looking for enlightment...care to do explain?
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#79 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Engrish_Major"] Would you buy a car without test driving it? Or is merely looking through the windows good enough for you?

girls are not cars though.

No, they are certainly not, though most are able to understand analogy.
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#80 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"] then im a person looking for enlightment...care to do explain?

Most simply, people like different things. There's the tangible aspect (certain 'skills' matching up, and being able to satisfy the other's specific needs), and there's the intangible aspect (how that person makes you feel before and after - which is something that's tough to describe to someone who's never had sex). It's like trying to explain the color red to a color blind person (I really, really don't mean offense here, just trying to explain). And, there's the very important matter of frequency. Different people need their needs fulfilled at different rates. What if you marry someone, and you find out that you only want to have sex once per week, but your mate wants it 5 times per week? Do you then expect that person to remain faithful to you for the rest of their lives, while their desires remain unfulfilled? Faithfulness is a matter of respect and restraint, of course, but it is our core biology that is in the balance here.
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#81 MrsSolidSnake
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8 months too late, but if I went back to before that the answer would still be no.

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#82 Palantas
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No. I like having sex. In any case, I'm 27, have had sex with numerous people, and have never been married, so it's a little late for me.

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#83 Bloodseeker23
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What is 'pure' anyways?
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#84 BdogTheGamer
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No, that's really old fashioned.
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#85 kussese
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Too late.

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Yuuup.
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#86 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="Engrish_Major"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] then im a person looking for enlightment...care to do explain?

Most simply, people like different things. There's the tangible aspect (certain 'skills' matching up, and being able to satisfy the other's specific needs), and there's the intangible aspect (how that person makes you feel before and after - which is something that's tough to describe to someone who's never had sex). It's like trying to explain the color red to a color blind person (I really, really don't mean offense here, just trying to explain). And, there's the very important matter of frequency. Different people need their needs fulfilled at different rates. What if you marry someone, and you find out that you only want to have sex once per week, but your mate wants it 5 times per week? Do you then expect that person to remain faithful to you for the rest of their lives, while their desires remain unfulfilled? Faithfulness is a matter of respect and restraint, of course, but it is our core biology that is in the balance here.

I see now. ok, in that case, my opinion is: in a good relationship/marriage you will learn how to adapt to the other person's needs, I believe that saying you can find a perfect sexualily compatible person is like finding the perfect soulmate...it just doesnt seem possible, you will have to work your way to adapt and find the "config" that will best suit both of you. that being said, no I dont think that I need to "test drive" a car before I buy it, merely finding out the info about the car and asking the salesman about it. and lets be honest was there ever any car which you said "I dont like how it drives" :lol:
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#87 PS2_ROCKS
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Ring? No. Waiting until marriage? Sounds good to me. It's never exactly been a top priority.
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#88 lightleggy
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and the ring is stupid, its pretty much a way to "brag" the bible actually says something that kinds of relates... I dont know the exact translation...but that thing...when you dont eat for a few days to show devotion...I dont know the english name, well it says like "when you do that, dont make a sad face, like the tax collectors do, to let everybody know that they are doing it, instead do it in secret and dont reveal it" that pretty much tells me the ring is something to "brag" to let others know that you are not doing it...and that is not necessary
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#89 curono
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Too late and hoping to rebreak my purity primise.. hahaha
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#90 deactivated-5d25ae64ef918
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Too late for me. But I wouldn't wear the ring anyway. If I had a girlfriend that wanted to wait for Marriage to have sex, then fine.
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#92 MystikFollower
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Far too late, but even if it wasn't... You gotta test drive before you take the vehicle off roading. Especially if you've never been off roading with that model of vehicle.

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#93 Salacon
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[QUOTE="Salacon"]

Waiting until (after) marriage is just silly. What if it turns out you and your partner aren't sexually compatible? That's going to lead to divorce real quick, be it through (hopefully) mutually realizing the issue, or because someone was not being faithful.

lightleggy

what do you mean by "sexually compatible"? I pretty much doubt there is such thing. oh and how does the other person's faithfullness relates in any way to your virginity?

By sexually compatible, I mean that you are both interested in the same... acts... during your activities. The reason I mentioned the faithfulness is because if you or your partner are not completely satisfied with the sexual going-ons, then there may be some roaming around to find that satisfaction.

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#94 Iantheone
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[QUOTE="sonicare"]

Too late.

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You know they have papers and pledges that gives you "second virginity" right?

Thats retarded. Seriously. Too late for me as well. I dont see why anyone would want to wait until after marriage. Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first?
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[QUOTE="Engrish_Major"][QUOTE="Kcube"] I follow the look don't touch motto. If I am going to dedicate my time to a girl and wait..she is going to have to show me whats at the end of her rainbow first. That and I don't want to accidently fall in love with a dude :Plightleggy
Would you buy a car without test driving it? Or is merely looking through the windows good enough for you?

girls are not cars though.

A woman is a lot like a refrigerator. Six feet tall, three hundred pounds, they make ice.

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#96 mindstorm
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I used to ... then too many people began thinking I was married. I now no longer wear one. However, I am now at the point in life where having such a thing might be a bit odd. Reason one: I am a 24 year old male, not a 14 year old hormone raging teenager. Reason two: I am not a virgin. Who I am now is not who I have always been for my love of Christ has changed my wants, wishes, and desires. I made many bad decisions in my past but do not wish to repeat those mistakes. For me to wear a purity ring would be to say, "I am a fallen creation and it is the blood of Christ that makes me pure, not my own inherent moral purity." Jesus is the source of my purity, not my waiting until marriage. However, as stated, due to my love of Christ my wants, wishes, and desires have changed. As such, I have been abstinent for some years now and plan to continue to be abstinent until marriage.
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#97 MissLibrarian
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Reason two: I am not a virgin. Who I am now is not who I have always been for my love of Christ has changed my wants, wishes, and desires. I made many bad decisions in my past but do not wish to repeat those mistakes. For me to wear a purity ring would be to say, "I am a fallen creation and it is the blood of Christ that makes me pure, not my own inherent moral purity."mindstorm
Mindstorm would you mind if I ask a rather personal question regarding this part? When you look back on those particular bad decisions now, do you think you acted willingly enough, or is there a part of you that thinks that you were more coerced - or, rather, pressured - than you really realised at the time? I'm really sorry if that's inappropriate, but I can't help but wonder, you seem so strong-willed usually (in the best sense :P ).
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#98 cybrcatter
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Cyber sex doesn't count...Or do you think it does count?Kcube
What about cybr sex?

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#99 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]Reason two: I am not a virgin. Who I am now is not who I have always been for my love of Christ has changed my wants, wishes, and desires. I made many bad decisions in my past but do not wish to repeat those mistakes. For me to wear a purity ring would be to say, "I am a fallen creation and it is the blood of Christ that makes me pure, not my own inherent moral purity."MissLibrarian

Mindstorm would you mind if I ask a rather personal question regarding this part?
When you look back on those particular bad decisions now, do you think you acted willingly enough, or is there a part of you that thinks that you were more coerced - or, rather, pressured - than you really realised at the time?
I'm really sorry if that's inappropriate, but I can't help but wonder, you seem so strong-willed usually (in the best sense :P ).


In looking back, at the least with me personally I very much acknowledge that me engaging in these acts were very much willful on my part. I never intentionally sought to coerce the girl I was with to go along with me but I certainly did do nothing to stop what was occurring. I had the chance, so I gave in.

Certainly there is a degree of pressure to "do the deed" but I can do not blame anyone but myself.

However, I would like to note that I am certain that my experiences with these things are quite differently than what many females face. Many guys are quite forceful or at the very least subtly coerce the girl to do as he pleases. I truly hate that females have to deal with such self-seeking men in this day. In other words, I blame guys for not standing up for what is right, for not making explicit boundaries beforehand, and for not treating ladies as ladies rather than objects. Guys - like myself - are idiots when we do not seek what is right and proper (and I'm certain many will disagree with me on this subject as for what is right and proper).

To summarize my thoughts here: I blame myself more than anything for not treating the ladies in my life as beautiful creations of God.

Also of note, I do not mind questions such as these. :P

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#100 dracula_16
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I wouldn't wear a purity ring because it's essentially bragging. However, I do intend to stay a virgin for as long as I'm unmarried.