Your life, your choice. I'd sure hate to be 70 and alone on Christmas.
You could just take all the money you saved by not having kids and spend it on prostitutes.
This topic is locked from further discussion.
Your life, your choice. I'd sure hate to be 70 and alone on Christmas.
You could just take all the money you saved by not having kids and spend it on prostitutes.
Your life, your choice. I'd sure hate to be 70 and alone on Christmas.
You could just take all the money you saved by not having kids and spend it on prostitutes.
How old are you?
Cause believe me, when I was younger most of my girl / friends didnt want kids and now, close to their 30s, mid-30s, its their number one concern. Its just biological for a woman to want kids, not something based on society standards like most think...
there are exceptions to the norm off course, but its just what they are, exceptions
There have been studies to show parents are generally less happy than those without kids.
And there are other studies that show just the opposite. Happiness is impossible to quantify in an academic study.
@huggybear1020:
From what I gather studies have attempted to validate the idea that children bring us happiness however to little avail.
As for the second part I would disagree to a point, or at least studies can show how content a particular group feels with their life in comparison to another. It would be easier still for those who've had a significant change in their lives and measuring there contentment pre and post event e.g. mother/fatherhood
you dont want kids fine....then why worry now enjoy your life.....
http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/why-helicopter-moms-might-get-the-last-laugh-204223686.html
People who don't focus on their kids don't enjoy life as much.
Read moar:
Harvard psychology professor Daniel Gilbert's book "Stumbling on Happiness" looked at several studies and found that children give adults many things, but an "increase in daily happiness is probably not among them."
He says that psychologists have found parents are less happy interacting with their kids than doing activities such as eating, watching television or even exercising.
Source
i know that @br0kenrabbit
but the thing is she PiscesAnimeGirl do not want kids and for that she is feeling bad which shouldn't happen.....
I am a 39 year old man and I don't regret not having kids.Having children is not for every person.There is a quite a few mothers/dads that I know that would have rathered not have any kids.My best friend died years ago from suicide,the parents have mention with all the trouble they had with their son,it would have been a much better idea not to of had him.That's just one example of quite a few I know of.I also know alot of people happy as hell they have kids.Everybody's different.
It's their choice, I seriously can't blame a person for not wanting a 10kg baby to squeeze through a crack on their body.
10kg baby? What fucking species are you?
LeBron James was a grown man when he popped out.
Producing and rearing children are biological imperatives imposed upon women, as is evident in their very anatomy. Breasts are meant to sexually attract males and feed infants. Ovaries store the eggs which are implanted with male sperm. The uterus houses the unborn fetus/ baby. And the vagina welcomes the penis to impregnate the female. By not wanting to have children, you are rejecting the very reason for your existence. You must procreate. You must raise children. To do so is your destiny.
I want kids, I have two kids.. you're a woman, you gotta have kids.
What kind of nonsense statements are these? Having kids isn't exactly a necessity.
It is their choice to not want kids, I just would not ever date a woman like that. I am glad that my wife wants kids, so far we have one kid. I love being a dad.
I don't think you have to justify it by talking about negative affects or the possibility of dying during childbirth; some women just don't want kids and that's perfectly fine. Some dudes don't want kids either. Just depends on what you want for yourself and your future.
Mcdonalds is destroying more bodies than babies are. There a whole bunch of fat asses in this country who didn't even give brith. The reason why most women's bodies suffer after childbirth is that they become lazy. They think because they are a mom now it gives them an excuse to not exercise and eat right.
As a woman I honestly cannot understand why someone wouldn't have kids. I respect peoples decision not to have them. But I knew from a young age I wanted to be a mom. All I'm waiting for is the right guy to have a baby with. I'm a little jealous of friends who have kids.
Mcdonalds is destroying more bodies than babies are. There a whole bunch of fat asses in this country who didn't even give brith. The reason why most women's bodies suffer after childbirth is that they become lazy. They think because they are a mom now it gives them an excuse to not exercise and eat right.
As a woman I honestly cannot understand why someone wouldn't have kids. I respect peoples decision not to have them. But I knew from a young age I wanted to be a mom. All I'm waiting for is the right guy to have a baby with. I'm a little jealous of friends who have kids.
Maybe they were beaten as a child.
My grandpa told me never to get married and just remain single. Then again he would joke about him not being married and single. I think the OP was a right to not want children. Not everyone wants children be it a man or a women. I personality don't want children to be honest, but that could change if I ever meant the right women to come along. I just think the pressure rises as you get older and notice that everyone that you know has children and your just the only one without children. I am not sure i will regret not having children as you only get a certain time frame before it's gone. I know my brother has children and it's very stressful and not as fun as it's played out to be. I raised my nephews and it was a good experience if I ever wanted children. My nephews are still young 4/6 so they have a few more years before they are on their own. I can tolerate them at times but there just comes a time when you want peace and quiet and don't want to be bugged. I guess it's sorta a mixed bag for if i want children. I have a friends who have children but they had them when they were in their early 20's to mid 20's. I am in my late 20's but have friends who are my age and are single and good for them. Again everyone is different when it comes to having children. I wonder if I could have children? What if i couldn't have children? I think of these questions if it ever arise also what if my girlfriend couldn't have children?
Please Log In to post.
Log in to comment