Worst ever day of my life. :( :(

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up. He seems too good of a friend for you since he asked you and told you if you had a issue with it he wouldnt date her. Yet you said your fine and then secretly get ticked at him for not reading your mind.

Gotta ask you. Did you ever stand on your own two feet and tell the girl how you felt before this happened? If not, then its all your own fault. Take it in stride, learn your lesson, and move on with your life. Dont hurt other people or yourself in the NAME or other people just because you cannot be honest with people. You couldnt be honest with the person you loved and you cant be honest with your best friend.

Time to be honest with yourself, chin up, and try and be your best friend's best friend.

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Ah to be young again :P But seriously...

Welcome to 'Life 101' It's just a life lesson dude, the hurt and regret'll pass in time. Take a chill pill, there's no sense in doing something to yourself, what'll that prove? That you're insane most likely is all. Doing something to the girl, guy or anything to try and sabotage their relationship would do nothing but show that you're petty, jealous and a douche. Leave the situation alone, pull yourself together man and move on, life goes on.

[QUOTE="Dub_c6969"]OMG just go get another GF.Hitman_887

[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up.

She used me to get to my friend and now she says anything is fair in love.

Am I still being childish here?

Yes.

Cause anything is. Did your friend not ask you if you had a issue? Did you not lie to him, and not you regret it cause they are dating? So you want to hurt yourself so your best friend feels like total CRAP or hurt her so once again your best friend feels like total CRAP?

You were presented with a oppurtunity to let your friend know. You understand me? Its not that she is a good person. It is your friend.

So let me ask you. Why the hell are you on OT and not over talking to your friend?

[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"]

Yes.

Cause anything is. Did your friend not ask you if you had a issue? Did you not lie to him, and not you regret it cause they are dating? So you want to hurt yourself so your best friend feels like total CRAP or hurt her so once again your best friend feels like total CRAP?

You were presented with a oppurtunity to let your friend know. You understand me? Its not that she is a good person. It is your friend.

So let me ask you. Why the hell are you on OT and not over talking to your friend?

Hitman_887

I know this that if I ask him to stop datong here,he would agree but would always have this "disgust" that I couldnt see him enjoying.

Btw my friend has absolutely no problem with me doing anything with that girl.Despite her being his GF he has given me this right cuz it is mine as she bluffed me.I dont want to take his right away of doing whatever he wants with her.

Your friend showed you what kind of friend he is by asking you to decide for him whether or not to date a girl that hurt you.

Hes given you the same oppurtunity, to see if you WILL take her on and pretty much end their relationship.

You seem to understand what you want to do, but conflict with what anger and sadness is making you consider. Hows this. Your already a BETTER person for doing the things you have. Do not allow that girl to make you into a total bastard. No matter how much you hurt her if she gets you to act on your anger then you will feel ALOT worse than you do right now.

It is better to always protect someone you care about than to hurt someone you hate. So pick yourself up, and move on.

I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them before falling in love.

I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them before falling in love.

mrbojangles25

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

People who have no compunctions about abusing others' friendships for their own gain almost always have histories that can be exploited.

I don't want to give you advice that might inadvertently make your life more miserable, but I will tell you what I would do: I'd tell all her closest friends that she's just using them to get to their boyfriends! Whether or not the evidence existed, I'm sure I'd be able to "find" it! :twisted:

[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up.

She used me to get to my friend and now she says anything is fair in love.

Am I still being childish here?

No, you're not being childish! You're entitled to feel hurt because you were ruthlessly exploited.

I found CreasianDevaili's ill-informed remarks very offensive. Disregard them.

My motto in life... "Get over it."

Hope that helps! :)

[QUOTE="Stesilaus"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"][QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up.

She used me to get to my friend and now she says anything is fair in love.

Am I still being childish here?

No, you're not being childish! You're entitled to feel hurt because you were ruthlessly exploited.

I found CreasianDevaili's ill-informed remarks very offensive. Disregard them.

the question I have is why you still love this girl? SHe totally took a dump on you.

Time to throw up the middle finger and walk away with your spirits down but soaring upwards.

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"][QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Stesilaus

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up.

She used me to get to my friend and now she says anything is fair in love.

Am I still being childish here?

No, you're not being childish! You're entitled to feel hurt because you were ruthlessly exploited.

I found CreasianDevaili's ill-informed remarks very offensive. Disregard them.

I find your coddle of him wanting to hurt himself after he wouldnt tell his best friend that he had a issue with it and secretly is thinking of hurting himself or the girl to be childish.

[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]No, you're not being childish! You're entitled to feel hurt because you were ruthlessly exploited.

I found CreasianDevaili's ill-informed remarks very offensive. Disregard them.

Hitman_887

How can you suffer LOSS of something you never had to begin with?

Thankz.Atleast someone realises just how badly I have been treated.

Hitman_887

Something similar happened to my twin brother, and I saw how deeply it hurt him. :cry:

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

Thankz.Atleast someone realises just how badly I have been treated.

Stesilaus

Something similar happened to my twin brother, and I saw how deeply it hurt him. :cry:

:O

Identical of fraternal!?

You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.Jandurin

No Rick Roll? :(

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.Dark-Sithious

No Rick Roll? :(

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

CreasianDevaili

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up. He seems too good of a friend for you since he asked you and told you if you had a issue with it he wouldnt date her. Yet you said your fine and then secretly get ticked at him for not reading your mind.

Gotta ask you. Did you ever stand on your own two feet and tell the girl how you felt before this happened? If not, then its all your own fault. Take it in stride, learn your lesson, and move on with your life. Dont hurt other people or yourself in the NAME or other people just because you cannot be honest with people. You couldnt be honest with the person you loved and you cant be honest with your best friend.

Time to be honest with yourself, chin up, and try and be your best friend's best friend.

[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them before falling in love.

Jandurin

Yes, and humans are ofc in total control of their feelings. Also, that could mean you're ending up in pile of **** relationships, where you end up not loving ur gf. But ofc that doesn't matter aslong as you get laid? HIGH FIVE!

[QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

Thankz.Atleast someone realises just how badly I have been treated.

stevenk4k5

Something similar happened to my twin brother, and I saw how deeply it hurt him. :cry:

:O

Identical of fraternal!?

Identical.

[QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"]

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.Jandurin

No Rick Roll? :(

Yeah, first thing I saw when I opened the link was Rick, and my heart almost stopped, then I saw Springfield ;(

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them before falling in love.

Dark-Sithious

Yes, and humans are ofc in total control of their feelings. Also, that could mean you're ending up in pile of **** relationships, where you end up not loving ur gf. But ofc that doesn't matter aslong as you get laid? HIGH FIVE!

then I saw Springfield ;(Dark-Sithious

[QUOTE="stevenk4k5"][QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

Thankz.Atleast someone realises just how badly I have been treated.

Stesilaus

Something similar happened to my twin brother, and I saw how deeply it hurt him. :cry:

:O

Identical of fraternal!?

Identical.

This calls for pics.

[QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"][QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them beforefalling in love.

Jandurin

Yes, and humans are ofc in total control of their feelings. Also, that could mean you're ending up in pile of **** relationships, where you end up not loving ur gf. But ofc that doesn't matter aslong as you get laid? HIGH FIVE!

Umm, Sherlock, he wrote falling in love, not loving, as far as I know those are two different terms. At least here in Norway.

And thanks for calling me smart :)

I see where your coming from but guys aren't supposed to tell their friends that they like there girl. It would just leave everyone hurting. All the OT has to do is move on. No apologizing or w/e.gunswordfist

I actually feel bad for the guy on the girl part and being used. My tough words are more that I know a guy who killed himself over something similiar to this by ramming his truck through a bunch of trees. The 3rd tree shot him out of the cabin. His best friend was NEVER the same and ended up with no friend and no girl.

I have a issue with him saying hes gotta do something, be it to himself or to the girl. Thats why i say hes childish in that regard but still says he wants no one to pity him. So I told him what i think with no sugar coating.

Umm, Sherlock, he wrote falling in love, not loving, as far as I know those are two different terms. At least here in orway.

And thanks for calling me smart :)

Dark-Sithious

[QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"]

Umm, Sherlock, he wrote falling in love, not loving, as far as I know those are two different terms. At least here in orway.

And thanks for calling me smart :)

Jandurin

hahaha, nice Rick Roll. Damn you totally got me there, didn't expect that at all.

You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.Jandurin

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[QUOTE="Stesilaus"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"][QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

My best friend for around 10 years and my love are now dating.:(:(:(:(

After dating her once he asked me that if I really mind it then he wont.But I just dont want anybody to "pity me".He should have known that I would be destroyed since she "used me" to get to him.He is indefinitely hotter than me.

My heart is just sinking.I have no idea what to do.DAMN I'll either do sometihng to myself or **** that girl's life in every way that I can.

Hitman_887

Well.. here is the thing.

Your best friend is her love, not you. Just because you love her dosent mean she has to love you. Why be a total creep? You said you dont want anyone to pity you but your going to hurt yourself so you really hurt your best friend that you LIED to when he asked you for the god damn truth and you were too much of a coward to tell him?

I think you need to apologize to your friend more than anything else. Stop thinking of only yourself and grow up.

She used me to get to my friend and now she says anything is fair in love.

Am I still being childish here?

No, you're not being childish! You're entitled to feel hurt because you were ruthlessly exploited.

I found CreasianDevaili's ill-informed remarks very offensive. Disregard them.

[QUOTE="Stesilaus"][QUOTE="stevenk4k5"][QUOTE="Stesilaus"]

[QUOTE="Hitman_887"]

Thankz.Atleast someone realises just how badly I have been treated.

stevenk4k5

Something similar happened to my twin brother, and I saw how deeply it hurt him. :cry:

:O

Identical of fraternal!?

Identical.

This calls for pics.

:lol: We were almost impossible to distinguish when we were little. If I had pics, I'd post them, but my Mom is the only one who's sentimental enough to keep pics of us.

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.GTR2addict

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About time!

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]You aren't alone! Yeah 80s music has already covered all your problems.GTR2addict

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