[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="mrbojangles25"] I recently found out that, cocnerning women, it is better to actually get in a relationship with them before falling in love.
Dark-Sithious
Yeah, I agree.Yes, and humans are ofc in total control of their feelings. Also, that could mean you're ending up in pile of **** relationships, where you end up not loving ur gf. But ofc that doesn't matter aslong as you get laid? HIGH FIVE!
1. People can easily get in control of their emotions. Once you feel like youre getting in to deep ("oh my god, that girl is gorgeous, I think I love her!") you take a breath, and tell yourself to slow down. Emotions are good and all, but so is logic
2. And no, it doesnt mean I am in a pile of crap relationships. I can make the distinction between affection and love quite easily. The point I was trying to make is that if you really like a girl (have affection for her), ask her out, date her, get to know her over a period of time, and then decide if you love her or not.
3. No, not really. I am actually a gentleman so I dont go straight for some ass, I like to know the girl first. And guess what? If you dont love a girl, then when you breakup there is half the heartache!
In conclusion, dont be so quick to attack the "L-word" to your relationship. First off, youre young...chances are you will not marry this girl, so take it slow and dont invest yourself emotionally until you feel she can reciprocate the feelings. Furthermore, girls actually get a little freaked out when you tell t hem you love them after a short time.
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