Would you be dissapointed if you found out your son/ daughter was gay?

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#1 kingyotoX
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Personally, I would be dissapointed to find out my child was gay but I wouldn't love them any less, and I would still want them to be happy no matter what that meant.

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#2 gobo212
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Why would I be?
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#3 Tiefster
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I wouldn't care. As long as you're not having sex with plants, animals, inanimate objects (excluding sex toys), or children I don't care.

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#4 chessmaster1989
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Well, I have no son or daughter, but, assuming I did, no, I would not be disappointed.
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#5 Iced_Earth_Rulz
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I would be dissappointed too. I would still love them no matter what though.

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#6 SavageM2
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I don't plan on ever having children. :? If I was to though, no, I wouldn't be dissapointed. I would be a little sad though. Seeing as there still seems to be a lot of hate in the world for gay people. They would have to deal with that.

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#7 optiow
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I would probably be a bit confused, but I would not stop loving him, and I would not treat him any diffrent.
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#8 Bloodaxe726
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I wouldn't really care.

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#9 sammyjenkis898
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Why would I be disappointed? It's his/her sexual preference, not mine. I'll love him/her just as much.

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#10 Lto_thaG
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The least I can do,is respect it..After that,trying to beat it out of him.

[spoiler] I kid,I kid [/spoiler]

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#11 nocoolnamejim
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I wouldn't care at all. He/she would be my son/daughter and that is all that would matter.
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#12 HoldThePhone
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i'm not sure what to think here honestly.
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#13 MoonMarvel
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Care to explain why?
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#14 FalcoLX
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Yeah, I would. I wouldn't know how to react to it.

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#15 warbmxjohn
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Mildy dissappointed? Maybe, but I would never make an issue out of it. There are much more important things I want to make sure my children learn. Besides I would try my very best to unconditionally love my children.

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#16 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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The only reason I'd be disappointed is that I'd be disappointed that they'd have to deal with homophobes and intolerance. I wouldn't treat my son/daughter any differently. I am open-minded when it comes to sexuality.
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#17 dissonantblack
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i'm never going to have kids. but if i did, no i wouldn't.

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#18 Buck_Hotep
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Nope, everyone has to find their way in life and their identity. If their way and identity leads them to discovering that they're gay then as long as they're safe and happy then not much else I can ask for.

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#19 HoldThePhone
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i dont think my heart could handle my son bringing home a guy
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#20 50shot
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I have hope for next-generation, lol.
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#21 Nifty_Shark
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"I love my dead gay son"

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#22 sAndroid17
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i would be extremely dissapointed and disown them!

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#23 JigglyWiggly_
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I'd care smack some sense into them :D
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#24 Splinter720
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Yes i would, id be more disappointed if he turned out to be religious though.
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#25 sAndroid17
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Yes i would, id be more disappointed if he turned out to be religious though.Splinter720
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#26 Dariency
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No, I wouldn't. I would love him/her and respect him/her just as much. Although, I may have to draw a line if my son started wearing lipstick or my daughter started drawing mustaches.

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#27 barcx17
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I would dissapointed be in the sense that I would have wanted grandchildren (non-adoption or artificial insemination), but they're my son/daughter so I'll love them no matter what.

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#28 clayron
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By no means. If he is my son, I will love him regardless of the choices he makes in life. His boyfriend will be just as welcome in my home as anyone else, but I would hope I never hear my son getting frisky.

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#29 annya8388
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At least now, I can not accept it.
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#30 glenn2709
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i dont think my heart could handle my son bringing home a guyHoldThePhone
Same, I probably will have a heart attack.
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#31 Dub_c6969
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No i would not be disappointed. I don't think someone would choose to be gay so they could be hated all there life. I think some or all are born that way.

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#32 Dub_c6969
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By no means. If he is my son, I will love him regardless of the choices he makes in life. His boyfriend will be just as welcome in my home as anyone else, but I would hope I never hear my son getting frisky.

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#33 CleanPlayer
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I would be upset if he was treated differently especially towards other kids, but I would still love my child regardless.
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#34 stevenk4k5
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Glad to see OT hasn't changed in the slightest since my hiatus. *roll*
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#35 Guybrush_3
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No I wouldn't be disappointed. I would be surprised if I didn't guess before he/she told me.

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#36 Tauruslink
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Nah. I would love him or her just as much. As long as they are happy, I'm happy.
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#37 JangoWuzHere
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Not sure what I would think to be exact...

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#38 CJL182
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I would be a little disappointed because I want biological grandchildren, but I wouldn't love him/her any less.

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#39 Bioshockraptor
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Well yeah I guess I would be.

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#40 Silenthps
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Yes in fact I don't think I'd allow him to live. [spoiler] jk :P [/spoiler]
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#41 Jekken6
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I would feel shocked

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#42 hakanakumono
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I don't think I would have a problem with it considering I am gay :o Haha ...

But no, I don't plan to have children. ._.;

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#43 D3nnyCrane
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Disappointed? Maybe initially. But then, I'd realise that the journey people take is not always an A to B, straight-line proposition. If they kept they PDA's to themselves, and my son didn't turn into a caricature, I think I'd be OK. After a while.
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#44 BohemianAndy
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I would be dissappointed too. I would still love them no matter what though.

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#45 Toriko42
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If they are my only kid it's possible since I'll never have grandchildren but it wouldn't be because he was gay I just want to be a Grandpa :( I would still love him though and if it was one of my 'brood' I'd be open to it.
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#46 RearNakedChoke
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I'd be a bit dissapointed. Not because of their sexual preference, but because my name would dissapear. But other than that I think I would be fine with it.

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#47 yokofox33
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I think I'd be a little shocked at first, but my love for them wouldn't change. Perhaps a bit disappointed that I would not have any grandchildren, but oh wells.

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#48 AtomicBaconBits
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No.There's nothing wrong with being gay/lesbian.
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#49 Evil_Saluki
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I'd think it's great if my daughter was a lesbian. In fact i'll probably promote it :P Another girl won't mess her around so much, i'll feel she's in good hands at all times.

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#50 ElGreco88
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Well I would definitely be confused. To be honest I don't know how I would react. Of course I would still feel the same for him/her, since it would be my child. One thing I want to say is that everybody acts cool when it's only talking, but facing reality is a totally different matter. That's why I think nobody can have an absolute opinion on the subject. Because if someday this really happens to you, your reaction could be different and you could forget the beliefs you once wrote down on a forum thread.