Would you consider dating a person with different religious beliefs?

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#51 dracula_16
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If she didn't expect me to convert, sure.

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#53 PirateSatan
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I don't know if I could ever date someone that was religious. I wouldn't feel safe sleeping at night with someone like that
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#54 DJ_Lae
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Not dating with the intent of becoming serious, no. Chances are they've had their religion hammered into their head from a young age and are incredibly narrow-minded about other viewpoints. So any time something of that nature comes up, you're going to have an argument about it. And god help you if you have kids, as you won't be able to agree on how to introduce them to religion.
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#55 Rougehunter
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I'm atheist and my girlfriend is Muslim.

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#56 Overlord93
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No, I could never get along with anyone who believed in a god, not because they believe in a god, but because that kind of outlook clashes too violently with my own personality and beliefs. (subject to the strength of her religiousness)

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#57 lilasianwonder
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No but I would still hang out with them.
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#58 curono
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Date and marry someone with religious differences. I am an atheist, but I understand that such aspect is important for some. I may not share it, but I do respect it.
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#59 Human-after-all
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I am atheist and my wife is Jewish...
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#60 HoolaHoopMan
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Depends on how religious. I wouldn't care if someone was of a certain belief, as long as they kept it to themselves. Being overly religious is a HUGE turnoff for me.
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#61 Ace6301
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The chances of a girl sharing my beliefs is quite slim so I think I would be alright with it as long as they are alright with dating someone with different beliefs as well.
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#62 Paramorexx
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Uh.... No.
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#63 scorch-62
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Maybe. I'm not entirely sure.
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#64 Chickity_China
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Yes because I'm not a closed minded

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#65 Blacklight2
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As long as they don't try to convert me i'll be good. It would be quite annoying if they did.
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#66 stupid4
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Of course I would

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#67 IppoTenma
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Yes. As long as they have an open mind and are accepting I don't care what they are. I wouldn't even date her in the first place if she was close-minded, so this isn't an issue.
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#68 rockguy92
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Yes I would.
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#69 keech
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It really depends on their personal viewpoint on religion in general. I could never and will never date someone who puts their own religion on some pedistal above and beyond everyone elses personal ideals and beliefs. Someone who has a genuine interest in understanding other religions, faiths, and lifestyles. In short anyone who doesn't let their religion get in the way of intellectual persuit and understanding is fine by me.

I personally have yet to find a single person who even somewhat comes close to having my personal beliefs, and I don't go around annoucing what they are. I make it a point not to talk about them unless someone asks. As they don't pertain to any sort of religious texts or spiritual teachings.

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#70 Strider_91
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I'd consider dating a watermelon if I could get it to put out on the first date. :[grape_of_wrath
:lol: Well, certainly didn't expect to read this here..
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#71 GTbiking4life
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I have dated a woman before who had a different belief. It didn't last.

I ended up married to a wonderful woman with the same beliefs.

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#72 LightR
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Yes, letting something like that deem two people uncompatible is just nonsense.
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#73 dontshackzmii
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As long as both partys can get along . I don't see why not .

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#74 JigglyWiggly_
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Yes to both, I am not heavily religious at all.
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#75 Gaming-Planet
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Yeah, sure. I wouldn't care as long she doesn't try to change my beliefs.

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#76 TheFallenDemon
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No. Because intolerance is fun.

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#77 Grodus5
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Its kind of hard to find someone with the same beliefs as me. Not too many people are Omnitheists, especially here in the Bible Belt.

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#78 juden41
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Pretty much every girl would have different religious beliefs to me, so I wouldn't really get a choice, plus I don't care about her religion, getting along and being able to communicate is much more important in my opinion.
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#79 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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No. Because intolerance is fun.

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I think it's a lot more complex than just being 'intolerant.' Of course that can be involved, but some people's religious beliefs really define them, and if you get two people whose beliefs don't mesh (but yet are very strong in their beliefs), it's kind of hard to make a lot of serious decisions work within the relationship.
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#80 TacticalDesire
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AS long as she has no problem celebrating Christmas, I'd have no problem.

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This, she better not have a problem with mistletoe either;)

[spoiler] ok that was a lame attempt at humor [/spoiler]

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#81 jerk-o-tron2000
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I do....I'm an atheist and she's a Baptist. I thik it's funny how she tries to "Lead me to God".

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#83 Empirefrtw
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I don't think it is possible since most religions believe that there is only one way to heaven or something like it and that is through their methods and if you truly loved someone you would pretty much do whatever you could to get them to heaven so it would be a tug of war between the two sides.
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#84 SaudiFury
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dating sure to see where things would go.

and no i would not care if the girl was Jewish, Athiest, Muslim, Chrisitian, or whatever.

There's a certain level of respect to ones own personal beliefs i expect in the other, if the person is just an anti-muslim bigot, she would more then likely not be my friend even.

I am open to an inter-religious marriage, but i am leery about it. Now i know people here get all nervous when i say I'm gonna raise my kids to be Muslims as best as i can. as though i'm gonna brainwash them in the religion and they'll just end up being radicals or something. I was raised to be Muslim, but i was not denied knowledge of other religions or ideas. That's what i intend to do. I have a side, a set of morals, ethics, and behaviour that stems from my religion (Islam) and from without that i'll invariably bestow on my children.

Reason i get leery with inter-religious marriage is that the faith is very weak when i meet friends and strangers who are kids of inter-religious marriages. I don't want to have that arguement of who'se going to heaven or hell for believing this (because mom is Christian/Athiest/whatever) and dad is Muslim. or who'se family were going to visit on the holidays. stuff like that.

one plus thing at least... there are 1.5 billion Muslims in the world, at least little over half are female, and then you got the wide variance in backgrounds from around the world.

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#85 SoraX64
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Religion has never been an important part of my life at all, so I don't really care.
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#86 ObeseBanana
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Depends, be very careful with Muslim women. Never doing that again. Her parents went ape poop.

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#87 rockerbikie
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Does not bother me.

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#88 buldog300
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actually it's a sin to be in a relationship with someone of another faith in Christianity (and I believe Islam, but I'd have to double-check). Personally I wouldn't date the person, I've had several women I was interested that I had to turn down because they were either atheists or didn't share my convictions. Chances are it won't work in the long run; screaming matches aren't good for relationships and so is holding something back from your loved one, so either way you'd be in trouble.
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#90 yabbicoke
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Yes, the only problem would come from a religious person having a problem with dating an atheist (which happens a LOT). But if they don't care, I sure would not.
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I'd have to considering atheists make up a small amount of the population still. I'd never date a radical or fundamentalist, though: I dont need saving, and I dont need to be reminded im going to hell

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#92 Dark_Knight6
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I don't care what their religious beliefs are. So long as they don't care what mine are, all should be well.

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#93 Darth_Beryl
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I'm Pagan, and my husband is agnostic. Religious debates hardly ever happen between us, so it isn't really an issue. That being said, if you can't accept someone for who they are (including their religious beliefs), then you shouldn't be with them.
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#94 Zaeryn
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I don't care what they believe in as long as they're not the crazy fanatic type.

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#95 buldog300
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I don't care what they believe in as long as they're not the crazy fanatic type.

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Then you do care what they believe. That's like saying 'I don't care what hot sauce is on my burrito as long as it's not hot'
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#96 JoeJoeLaker
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Wont bug me at all.

Unless there like completely insane with there religious beliefs.

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#97 PerfectCircles
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Sure as long as they're not a radical and try to drag me to church.
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#98 testfactor888
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I don't see why religion has to play a major role in a relationship unless you force it to. I don't care what the religion of the girl I am dating is as long as she doesn't try to force it on me.
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#99 deactivated-587633796662c
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Yes... why shouldn't I?
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if shes a hottie post 100.