Would you date an unattractive female?

Obama knows all.

Probbley not.

I have to be attractive to the girl becaue just essential as everything else. Just because their not attractive dosen't mean they have a good personality and the other way way around. If the girl is not attractive staying faithful would be much harder.

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JohnnySN1P3R

Lol XD

I wouldn't date an unattractive girl. I like her to be attractive physically and have an attractive personality.

tell her ur gay problem solvedkemar7856

Two wrongs don't make a right. Besides my delay to act may cost me. I'll see what I'll do when I wake up in the morning. Scratch that, I shall call her just to check up on her. In fact, I'll try to dial someone else's number and "accidentally" dial hers and then engage in a completely unrelated discussion that shall develop into perhaps a date. I'm thinking He's Just Not That Into You, but that's too generic. Or I could wait after Valentine's Day so I don't have to give her a gift, but I think that's mean, but I think rushing it would be too much.Genetic_Code

Many of the girls I find physically attractive do not even look my way.

So yes it's far from enough that a girl is good-looking. If she doesn't love you back then she isn't worth you. I realized that you can't love someone who doesn't love you back. You can only and should only love someone who does love you back. If you tell a girl you love her but the feelings aren't returned and she doesn't love you back you will have to forget her eventually. You deserve better than her. Love can't be one-sided and eventually you need to forget about this person. One-sided love is not love, it's just pain and everyone deserves better than this.

So yes, in the end personality wins. Personality is indeed the most important thing. True love is more than just physical attraction. It's the shared mental qualities between two people and one respects and appreciates the other and is willing to do anything for the other, even dying for them. Also you can't be truly in love with someone unless you know her and you shared some quality time together.

My attraction to every girl I've been with did not start physically, but rather I was attracted to something in their personality, and that's almost all that matters to me. To be honest, I don't need to think them as hot, I just can't think of them as ugly. And for me, it's pretty much as long as they're not overweight, I probably won't find them repulsive. Then again, my last girlfriend was overweight, though that didn't stop me from becoming attracted to her.

And for your second question, no, I felt truly attracted to who this person was, so I was proud to be with the majority of my previous girlfriends. They were the kind I liked and they liked me. Why should I be ashamed of that just because they were not as top-heavy as Scarlett Johansson?

P.S. As a side-note, it was nearly a year of school with her before I even "considered" the only woman I'd say I ever loved and had the most meaningful romantic relationship I've had. I found her physically plain when I first met her and had no interest in her at all. Though that changed eventually when I really got to know her well, and I don't regret it did.

Nope how could I get attracted emotionally without physically first.MgamerBD

My attraction to every girl I've been with did not start physically, but rather I was attracted to something in their personality, and that's almost all that matters to me. To be honest, I don't need to think them as hot, I just can't think of them as ugly. And for me, it's pretty much as long as they're not overweight, I probably won't find them repulsive. Then again, my last girlfriend was overweight, though that didn't stop me from becoming attracted to her. And for your second question, no, I felt truly attracted to who this person was, so I was proud to be with the majority of my previous girlfriends. They were the kind I liked and they liked me. Why should I be ashamed of that just because they were not as top-heavy as Scarlett Johansson?homegirl2180

You are awesome.:D

Sry i forgot to add this in.

Ive had quite a few girls of average stature to slightly above. But the one or two really good looking ones that i caught thee attention of was only a physical thing. Neither had interest in more then that. But i also am jerk ass in this role. Some of the other average to above average girls i ended up "gettin busy with" and ended up sending one into a depression and such (i guess i was her first major infatuation) and the other i did end up dating but then cheated on her with her friend.

The kicker is that the one i dated was one of the best girlfriends i had. Treated me well. Didnt have any severe emotional or mental problems. We had personalities and humor that really clicked. Now she wont have anything to do with me.

If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.bean-with-bacon

If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.bean-with-bacon

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.PrincessMorte

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.bean-with-bacon

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"][QUOTE="PrincessMorte"]

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

freshgman

I disagree, while you might not find someone particularly attractive at first, once you get to know them you really do start seeing people differently. A beautiful person can become ugly, an ugly person can become beautiful and if you're really lucky a beautiful person can become even more beautiful.

A person's personality greatly impacts how they look to you, so yes you can see personality, once you get to know them of course.

When I was a kid, I had a loveydovey kind of friendship with a somewhat unnattractive girl. We were almost together, since we were loveydovey friends for like 6 years. And as I grew older, a girlfriend became a bit of a neccesity, although we lost contact so nothing did ever become of that. I'm sure it's best that we were just really good male/female friends though, the outcome of more severe relationships isn't always pleasant.

Happy Valentines Day.

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"][QUOTE="PrincessMorte"]

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

freshgman

Even better, you feel it.

By unattractive, do you mean only in the face? Or the whole body? Cause a girl can be unattractive and have a smoking body at the same time....GTA_dude

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.PrincessMorte

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

[QUOTE="PrincessMorte"]

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.bean-with-bacon

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

Oh! Hahaha oops my bad:D Yeah, I believe that too. Ugly girls are usually sweet and cherish the little attention they get, while beautiful girls can be kinda or completely b!tchy when it comes to appreciating men and their attention.

[QUOTE="PrincessMorte"]

[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]If I'm attracted to someone's personality I simply won't find them unattractive at all, a persons personality really changes how you look at someone and I can't believe how shallow some of you guys seem to be.GamerBoy53

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

I can't help it. L rules:D

[QUOTE="GamerBoy53"][QUOTE="PrincessMorte"]

Alright:) It's nice to know there are guys like you out there. I thought it was just us girls who don't keep attractiveness in mind when dating someone.

PrincessMorte

I can't help it. L rules:D

umm you cant SEE personality. you see looks first personality SECOND. freshgman

Sorry for bringing this old thread back up but I wanted to add something. Attraction is not really a choice. It really has to do with electrical impulses in our brain so we can't control it. We can't really control what turns us on but it's obvious that people are attracted to different things and to different faces.

If you've seen a girl that you find cute-looking and you immediately develop emotions for her she may reject you on the basis of superficiality. I mean she may think you're superficial. The cute girl may think: "He doesn't even know my personality so how can he really love me? I want a man that will want me more for my personality". She may think that you only want her because she looks cute and not because of her personality and that is the reason she rejects you. Many cute-looking girls think this way and reject guys because of this. I think this happened to me recently and it hurts like hell because this girl looks really cute and I still want her. And this I think is the danger of regarding personality as being more important and decisive than looks.

So this is why I think it's important that a girl will want you or at least give you a chance even if you don't yet know her personality and you only have feelings for her because of the superficial part: her face and eyes.

Sorry for bringing this old thread back up but I wanted to add something. Attraction is not really a choice. It really has to do with electrical impulses in our brain so we can't control it. We can't really control what turns us on but it's obvious that people are attracted to different things and to different faces.

If you've seen a girl that you find cute-looking and you immediately develop emotions for her she may reject you on the basis of superficiality. I mean she may think you're superficial. The cute girl may think: "He doesn't even know my personality so how can he really love me? I want a man that will want me more for my personality". She may think that you only want her because she looks cute and not because of her personality and that is the reason she rejects you. Many cute-looking girls think this way and reject guys because of this. I think this happened to me recently and it hurts like hell because this girl looks really cute and I still want her. And this I think is the danger of regarding personality as being more important and decisive than looks.

So this is why I think it's important that a girl will want you or at least give you a chance even if you don't yet know her personality and you only have feelings for her because of the superficial part: her face and eyes.

X4D

I also want to add that strong feelings for someone whether they are based just on personality or just on cute looks can be equally strong. Even if you don't know a girl's personality and character, your strong feelings for her cute looks can make your knees break. So I think a girl should appreciate a guy who loves her either way whether it's her personality or her looks or both.

Perhaps l perceive pleasent girls also as attractive.-eddy-