ya know what i've decided from reading this thread? the word attractive to me means something different than what it seems to mean to a lot of people. Like I can't become really attracted to a guy just cuz he's hott. I mean, that's all fine and dandy, but it doesn't make me WANT him. Pretty much everything else about the guy is more likely to really attract me to him than his looks. Like the guys I semi-like at school right now may not be "hott" guys, but their pretty much awesome. They're funny, intelligent(which can I just say intelligence is a huge attraction for me), sweet, and I'm looking forward to getting to knowthem more.
Whereas there are guys in my building that I think are absolutely gorgeous, but it doesn't go beyond me thinking they're gorgeous because there's nothing in who they are that attracts. In fact, some of them are pretty annoying/jerkish and no amount of good looks is enough to make me attracted to THAT.
*shrugs* Everybody's attracted to what they're attracted to. I don't think anybody is any better or any less of a person because of their attractions. I just think some people should open up their scope a bit more. Ya never know what you might find. After all, when I was younger I never thought I'd really like a skinny guy, but my first bf in high school was a skinny guy who I'd never even thought about dating until he asked me out. And he even though we're not together now, we're still friends and he's probably one of the best guys I know.
Meh ok I'm hopping off my little soapbox now :P
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