Would you make a good parent?

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#51 Theokhoth
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Nope. I'd be overprotective and a hardass. Thankfully, I have no plans to deal with screaming little bundles of joy in my lifetime.
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#52 dave123321
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I believe so.
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#53 Ratfuzz
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I don't know. I think I'd be really proud to be a father, but as of now, I really can't stand kids unless they're toddlers.
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#54 -Shooter-
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I don't think I would be a good parent right now, but maybe later and I do plan on having kids
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#55 Redgarl
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bad parents beget bad parents. that's usually how it goes.

When parents are abandoners, snobs, racists, drunks, spoilers (lol, punny), neglectful, or just plain old stupid, bad habits pass down through generations into perpetuity.

So please, if you plan to raise children and are suffering from general lack of good sense, try to end the line, yes?

kakashi552

I am for the mean, but your explanation is pure speculation.

My parents didn't finish high school and I am about to decide if I plan to do a master in electrical engineering... so please, stop that nonsense...

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#56 redmen12
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A good parent? Maybe, but I would probobly spoil my kids terribly. But I love babies so I would definetly want at the very least 3-4.

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#57 TheWizard_1
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Hate kids,it'd be too much work to take care of a family,not really a person for a relationship. Among other factors.
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#58 kakashi552
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[QUOTE="kakashi552"]

bad parents beget bad parents. that's usually how it goes.

When parents are abandoners, snobs, racists, drunks, spoilers (lol, punny), neglectful, or just plain old stupid, bad habits pass down through generations into perpetuity.

So please, if you plan to raise children and are suffering from general lack of good sense, try to end the line, yes?

Redgarl

I am for the mean, but your explanation is pure speculation.

My parents didn't finish high school and I am about to decide if I plan to do a master in electrical engineering... so please, stop that nonsense...

sorry about that "stupid" part, i just meant a general lack of good and common sense. i meant nothing about a lack of intellect or education, but more of a lack of understanding and acceptance of others.

i'm really sorry; i just get so frustrated that i begin to replace who i refer to with insults for them. and yes, it is mere speculation. i do that a lot!

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#59 btaylor2404
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Nope. I'd be overprotective and a hardass. Thankfully, I have no plans to deal with screaming little bundles of joy in my lifetime.Theokhoth
And you get on me for being a hardass. :)
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#60 jazzkrotch
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When and if you actually have a child of your own, your outlook changes dramatically.
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#61 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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Whoa, slow down there. I can only ruin one person's life at a time. I have to make the mother hate me before I have a kid.

Perhaps more importantly, I need to find the mother first.:?

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#62 KLAX42
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Nope. I've got no patience and dislike most things that come with the package of 'little kids'. :?

Not to mention I can't even drive yet. :P

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#63 jazzkrotch
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Whoa, slow down there. I can only ruin one person's life at a time. I have to make the mother hate me before I have a kid.

Perhaps more importantly, I need to find the mother first.:?

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#64 maheo30
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I would make a great Father. I just don't want to be one.
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#65 jazzkrotch
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Without fatherhood with a son, you may as well kiss your two-bit lineage goodbye.
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#66 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Nope. I'd be overprotective and a hardass. Thankfully, I have no plans to deal with screaming little bundles of joy in my lifetime.btaylor2404
And you get on me for being a hardass. :)

Hehehe, I never said it was a bad thing.:twisted: You know how I'd teach. . . .

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#67 vlin1108
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Without fatherhood with a son, you may as well kiss your two-bit lineage goodbye.jazzkrotch

Pardon?

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#68 joao_22990
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Not really. And i don't want to find out either. Ever.
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#69 jazzkrotch
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[QUOTE="jazzkrotch"]Without fatherhood with a son, you may as well kiss your two-bit lineage goodbye.vlin1108

Pardon?

It's totally bogus, but as long as females continue the archaic tradition of taking the husbands surname on marriage, the man's surname will not live on if only females are born, and they marry clowns down the road.
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#70 vlin1108
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[QUOTE="vlin1108"]

[QUOTE="jazzkrotch"]Without fatherhood with a son, you may as well kiss your two-bit lineage goodbye.jazzkrotch

Pardon?

It's totally bogus, but as long as females continue the archaic tradition of taking the husbands surname on marriage, the man's surname will not live on if only females are born, and they marry clowns down the road.

Names aren't really that important anyway.

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#71 jazzkrotch
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[QUOTE="jazzkrotch"][QUOTE="vlin1108"]

Pardon?

vlin1108

It's totally bogus, but as long as females continue the archaic tradition of taking the husbands surname on marriage, the man's surname will not live on if only females are born, and they marry clowns down the road.

Names aren't really that important anyway.

Yes, genetics are more important, but we, as humans, still feel a strong association to a name.
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#72 btaylor2404
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[QUOTE="btaylor2404"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Nope. I'd be overprotective and a hardass. Thankfully, I have no plans to deal with screaming little bundles of joy in my lifetime.Theokhoth

And you get on me for being a hardass. :)

Hehehe, I never said it was a bad thing.:twisted: You know how I'd teach. . . .

Touche my friend. We may be two of a kind.
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#73 btaylor2404
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I would make a great Father. I just don't want to be one. maheo30
You don't have to answer, but why maheo? I think you would as well and your answer surprises me.
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#74 kyleali11
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I don't think so. I wouldn't have much patiences when it comes to feeding them, cleaning them or teaching them.
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#75 kakkarott23
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[QUOTE="vlin1108"][QUOTE="jazzkrotch"] It's totally bogus, but as long as females continue the archaic tradition of taking the husbands surname on marriage, the man's surname will not live on if only females are born, and they marry clowns down the road.jazzkrotch

Names aren't really that important anyway.

Yes, genetics are more important, but we, as humans, still feel a strong association to a name.

The daughters can always go the route of the -. A new name is formed. I was blessed/cursed with the double last name. It is amazing how confused people get when you have a double last name. They treat you like your too stupid to give your name.

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#76 kemar7856
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yes but I always do experments on them like my neice whos 8 months I flip her over or cover her eyes to see an reaction
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#77 Avistann
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I am so bad with young kids. I want to punt them sometimes, I think I need help. I have gotten more tolerant recently since I have been near my girlfriend's nephew for a while now but he still can annoy me. I do hope to be a father one day.
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#78 Omega_Zero69
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yeah i would say i would be a good parent i been told i would make a good parent too
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#79 soulless4now
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Yes but kids can be pretty annoying at times, especially when they won't leave you alone. :x
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#80 mrbojangles25
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I had great parents, but they made their share if mistakes raising me.

I'd like to think I would make a great parent. The only doubt I have is whether or not the mistakes of my folks were for the better, a necessary evil, or if I can avoid them in raising my own kids.

As of right now however I do not want kids. I just dont know how to act around them lol.

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#81 Whicker89
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Maybe when I am older but I dont have the time now or the patience
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#82 ernie1989
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I'm too selfish. No.
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#83 septemberluc
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I think I am a fantastic father to both my children.
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The kid would learn how to grow up one his own... I guess that says it all.
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#85 biggest_loser
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One of my friends always says "you're going to be the best dad" - because I lookout for my friends and I am very protective of them. Though I don't know if its for me. I don't know how people aren't embarrassed by their kids in public etc. Or how they deal with the stress of their kids being picked on at school etc.
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#86 Renegade_Fury
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I'd like to think so. I love kids, and I've had plenty of experience with my brother since we're 7 years apart.
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#87 freek666
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Depends on who you ask. Some people think I might mess my kids life up, others say I will be a great dad. Personally I think I will be alright. I managed to turn out similar to my dad, so if I have a son who turns out like both of us it will be a lot easier to manage.
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#88 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="vlin1108"]

If you'd had some, would you read them pieces from the Bible every time before bed?

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More often than that. :P

Jokes aside, would you upbring them under Chrisitanity from early infancy? My parents made the decision to not get me involved in religion during my infancy, saying it's not easy for a child to completely understand it, and that I should be the one to choose which religion to follow when I was more mature. They did teach me moral values that I feel are very important for me today (help other people out, be tolerant of others' beliefs, eat your vegetables, etc). If I ever have kids I think I would do the same, as I feel it's not fair to "pitch" a religion to them only because it's what I believe in. I would be much happier as a parent if they found out by themselves what are their beliefs, even if they would not be the same as mine, granted they keep tolerancy and respect in mind.

I'm going to teach them what the Bible has to say from infancy but it's their choice as to whether or not they believe it to be true later in life. They will know what it says but only they can choose what to do with that knowledge. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family like I wish I had growing up.
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#89 septemberluc
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[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"][QUOTE="mindstorm"] More often than that. :Pmindstorm
Jokes aside, would you upbring them under Chrisitanity from early infancy? My parents made the decision to not get me involved in religion during my infancy, saying it's not easy for a child to completely understand it, and that I should be the one to choose which religion to follow when I was more mature. They did teach me moral values that I feel are very important for me today (help other people out, be tolerant of others' beliefs, eat your vegetables, etc). If I ever have kids I think I would do the same, as I feel it's not fair to "pitch" a religion to them only because it's what I believe in. I would be much happier as a parent if they found out by themselves what are their beliefs, even if they would not be the same as mine, granted they keep tolerancy and respect in mind.

I'm going to teach them what the Bible has to say from infancy but it's their choice as to whether or not they believe it to be true later in life. They will know what it says but only they can choose what to do with that knowledge. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family like I wish I had growing up.

In all honesty, that's pretty admirable.
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#90 DigitalExile
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I don;t know if I would make a good father. It depends on a number of things. Firstly, I'm selfish, but I feel I'm responsible, I'm not too sure how I'd react to someone I helped create, and I'm not very... family friendly (friendly to my family), but I'm not about to abandon a child either.

Regardless, one day I'd like to have kids. I think if I was forced into such a situation I'd become responsible and be a good influence.