Would you marry a girl that had already gotten a divorce or was married before?

With a married woman she probably has all of those things.GladlyHandly

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"]With a married woman she probably has all of those things.MissLibrarian

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"]With a married woman she probably has all of those things.MissLibrarian

if she isn't a virgin than she is not worthy of me :cry: :P

if she isn't a virgin than she is not worthy of me :cry: :P

Serraph105

Lol at thinking your girlfriend would never cheat on you and lie about it. cd_rom

With a married woman she probably has all of those things.GladlyHandly

Better go to a hardware store, and buy some lube for that rusty logic chain.:P

I would never "legally" marry any woman anyway... but would I choose to spend the rest of my life with her even if she was divorced? Yeah, sure...

It's just weird to me to think about that. My girlfriend right now is the same age as me and if we get married then I'll know everything about her post-puberty life. I don't have to worry about STDs, jealous boyfriends/husbands, her having and abandoming kids or having an abortion or anything. With a married woman she probably has all of those things. Would you marry someone who has been married to someone that wasn't you?GladlyHandly

are you 15 yo by any chance lol?

Lol at thinking your girlfriend would never cheat on you and lie about it. *cough* I mean. At a certain age, that's pretty much your choice. And yes, I would.cd_rom

[QUOTE="cd_rom"]Lol at thinking your girlfriend would never cheat on you and lie about it. *cough* I mean. At a certain age, that's pretty much your choice. And yes, I would.GladlyHandly

That's some staggering logic you've got there. A divorced woman has probably had STD's, abortions and abandoned kids? How in the blue f*** do you come to that conclusion?

As to the initial question: yes, in fact I am married to one.

[QUOTE="cd_rom"]Lol at thinking your girlfriend would never cheat on you and lie about it. *cough* I mean. At a certain age, that's pretty much your choice. And yes, I would.GladlyHandly

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"]It's just weird to me to think about that. My girlfriend right now is the same age as me and if we get married then I'll know everything about her post-puberty life. I don't have to worry about STDs, jealous boyfriends/husbands, her having and abandoming kids or having an abortion or anything. With a married woman she probably has all of those things. Would you marry someone who has been married to someone that wasn't you?Krelian-co

are you 15 yo by any chance lol?

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="cd_rom"]Lol at thinking your girlfriend would never cheat on you and lie about it. *cough* I mean. At a certain age, that's pretty much your choice. And yes, I would.Wolls

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

Darthmatt

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

GladlyHandly

Are you for real?

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

GladlyHandly

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="cd_rom"] i have had girls cheat on other guys for me that down the road did not cheat on me. have been told "i hate you i should have ------- XYZ!" surrealnumber5

riiight, if a girl cheats she will always cheat, maybe you just didnt realize, oh happy ignorance xD

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

GladlyHandly

ive dated girls who were with other man before, at my age thats normal, but is kinda hard for a girl to have aids unless shes slutty, and kids no thanks, not even an option to date

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

worlock77

Are you for real?

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

GladlyHandly

For example, this woman I am seeing right now has a Masters degree, a professional career, appreciates honesty and enjoys traveling. I have a feeling she doesn't have kids, or AIDS.

[QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="GladlyHandly"] Umm.. that's just being pessimisstic though. Not every girl cheats. That's why you don't date girls that have already cheated on someone.GladlyHandly

[QUOTE="surrealnumber5"][QUOTE="GladlyHandly"] Umm.. that's just being pessimisstic though. Not every girl cheats. That's why you don't date girls that have already cheated on someone.Krelian-co

riiight, if a girl cheats she will always cheat, maybe you just didnt realize, oh happy ignorance xD

i cannot think of a single girl i have been in a relationship that would not want to tell me all about how she cheated on me or used me for something

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="Darthmatt"]

Just because someone is divorced, it doesn't mean they are an immoral person.

cd_rom

that's a tough situation. it's not that i wouldn't want to marry a divorced woman, but i would want to know the reason for divorce. i'd want to ask her, and i'd want to ask her ex-husband, but that might be easier said than done.

that's a tough situation. it's not that i wouldn't want to marry a divorced woman, but i would want to know the reason for divorce. i'd want to ask her, and i'd want to ask her ex-husband, but that might be easier said than done.

needled24-7

First of all: Big mess, that's the first thing that comes to mind.

A person going through divorce has big psychological stress on them, if you think about it they had confessed their life to someone some point in their life and all of the sudden that plane of happiness crashed, her trust is going to be hard to earn, and she's always gonna have problems about her past no matter what you do; it'll be worse if she had kids; and it'd be worse for you if the kids were living with you. A big mess I would never step my foot in, but that's only because that's the kind of person I am, I'm simple, only complicated when needed. Met my gf when she was 12, she's 15 now, decided we're gonna get married soon, we've gone through all that junk about the past, what's happened and what-not and everything's set for us. This really is just a lesson to keep everything straight at the beginning of your life before you regret it later.

Anywho no I wouldn't marry a divorced woman

Nope. She has proven that she cannot commit to a marriage and she may end up divorcing me as well. She has proven that she cannot uphold the vows she made, So why should i believe her when she makes those vows to me? I would not marry nor date a previously married woman even if she divorced because her husband cheated on her. STAR_Admiral

First of all: Big mess, that's the first thing that comes to mind.

A person going through divorce has big psychological stress on them, if you think about it they had confessed their life to someone some point in their life and all of the sudden that plane of happiness crashed, her trust is going to be hard to earn, and she's always gonna have problems about her past no matter what you do; it'll be worse if she had kids; and it'd be worse for you if the kids were living with you. A big mess I would never step my foot in, but that's only because that's the kind of person I am, I'm simple, only complicated when needed. Met my gf when she was 12, she's 15 now, decided we're gonna get married soon, we've gone through all that junk about the past, what's happened and what-not and everything's set for us. This really is just a lesson to keep everything straight at the beginning of your life before you regret it later.

Anywho no I wouldn't marry a divorced woman

xxKai

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

that's a tough situation. it's not that i wouldn't want to marry a divorced woman, but i would want to know the reason for divorce. i'd want to ask her, and i'd want to ask her ex-husband, but that might be easier said than done.

starwarsjunky

No that would just be too weird.

[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]

that's a tough situation. it's not that i wouldn't want to marry a divorced woman, but i would want to know the reason for divorce. i'd want to ask her, and i'd want to ask her ex-husband, but that might be easier said than done.

needled24-7

[QUOTE="cd_rom"] Did you just compare kids to AIDS?Lonelynight

[QUOTE="Lonelynight"][QUOTE="cd_rom"] Did you just compare kids to AIDS?GladlyHandly

[QUOTE="Lonelynight"][QUOTE="cd_rom"] Did you just compare kids to AIDS?GladlyHandly

You do realize that a person could have AIDS and kids and yet never have even been married right?

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"] you would deserve an answer. from her at least. if she refused to tell me, i'd walk away and never turn back.starwarsjunky

First of all: Big mess, that's the first thing that comes to mind.

A person going through divorce has big psychological stress on them, if you think about it they had confessed their life to someone some point in their life and all of the sudden that plane of happiness crashed, her trust is going to be hard to earn, and she's always gonna have problems about her past no matter what you do; it'll be worse if she had kids; and it'd be worse for you if the kids were living with you. A big mess I would never step my foot in, but that's only because that's the kind of person I am, I'm simple, only complicated when needed. Met my gf when she was 12, she's 15 now, decided we're gonna get married soon, we've gone through all that junk about the past, what's happened and what-not and everything's set for us. This really is just a lesson to keep everything straight at the beginning of your life before you regret it later.

Anywho no I wouldn't marry a divorced woman

xxKai

Dude, by marrying so young you're just setting yourself up for divorce later on. Rarely does young marriege work out. People change so much during their early adult years that the person at 19 probably isn't going to be the same person at 25.