Would you marry a girl that had already gotten a divorce or was married before?

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="Lonelynight"] Doesn't seem like a bad comparison really.worlock77

You do realize that a person could have AIDS and kids and yet never have even been married right?

[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]that's also easier said than done. but you're right, i would most definitely deserve an answer.

needled24-7

[QUOTE="xxKai"]

First of all: Big mess, that's the first thing that comes to mind.

A person going through divorce has big psychological stress on them, if you think about it they had confessed their life to someone some point in their life and all of the sudden that plane of happiness crashed, her trust is going to be hard to earn, and she's always gonna have problems about her past no matter what you do; it'll be worse if she had kids; and it'd be worse for you if the kids were living with you. A big mess I would never step my foot in, but that's only because that's the kind of person I am, I'm simple, only complicated when needed. Met my gf when she was 12, she's 15 now, decided we're gonna get married soon, we've gone through all that junk about the past, what's happened and what-not and everything's set for us. This really is just a lesson to keep everything straight at the beginning of your life before you regret it later.

Anywho no I wouldn't marry a divorced woman

starwarsjunky

Btw to everyone: Marrying soon I meant marrying at age 20+, not under

[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"][QUOTE="xxKai"]

First of all: Big mess, that's the first thing that comes to mind.

A person going through divorce has big psychological stress on them, if you think about it they had confessed their life to someone some point in their life and all of the sudden that plane of happiness crashed, her trust is going to be hard to earn, and she's always gonna have problems about her past no matter what you do; it'll be worse if she had kids; and it'd be worse for you if the kids were living with you. A big mess I would never step my foot in, but that's only because that's the kind of person I am, I'm simple, only complicated when needed. Met my gf when she was 12, she's 15 now, decided we're gonna get married soon, we've gone through all that junk about the past, what's happened and what-not and everything's set for us. This really is just a lesson to keep everything straight at the beginning of your life before you regret it later.

Anywho no I wouldn't marry a divorced woman

xxKai

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="Lonelynight"] Doesn't seem like a bad comparison really.cd_rom

[QUOTE="STAR_Admiral"]Nope. She has proven that she cannot commit to a marriage and she may end up divorcing me as well. She has proven that she cannot uphold the vows she made, So why should i believe her when she makes those vows to me? I would not marry nor date a previously married woman even if she divorced because her husband cheated on her. cd_rom

If I loved her, then I would.

[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="GladlyHandly"] Of course I don't think kids are as bad as AIDS. I'm just mentioning examples of things that girls can keep secret.GladlyHandly

Of course. My mom is divorced. She is one of the most nicest, coolest, funniest people you can mmet. The only reason she got divorced was because my dad cheated on her. So I'm sure she is not the only one. Judging from your opinion TC I can tell your very young and naive.MgamerBD

You want to marry your mom?

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Of course. My mom is divorced. She is one of the most nicest, coolest, funniest people you can mmet. The only reason she got divorced was because my dad cheated on her. So I'm sure she is not the only one. Judging from your opinion TC I can tell your very young and naive.Nibroc420

You want to marry your mom?

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Of course. My mom is divorced. She is one of the most nicest, coolest, funniest people you can mmet. The only reason she got divorced was because my dad cheated on her. So I'm sure she is not the only one. Judging from your opinion TC I can tell your very young and naive.Nibroc420

You want to marry your mom?

[QUOTE="Nibroc420"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

You want to marry your mom?

chaoscougar1

Sorry i read it like...

Of course. My mom is divorced.MgamerBD

It's just weird to me to think about that. My girlfriend right now is the same age as me and if we get married then I'll know everything about her post-puberty life. I don't have to worry about STDs, jealous boyfriends/husbands, her having and abandoming kids or having an abortion or anything. With a married woman she probably has all of those things. GladlyHandly

Yea, she probably does. Just like every divorced man has STDs, jealous girlfriends/wives, numerous illigetimate (or legitimate) abandoned children, and they all encouraged their ex gfs/wives to have an abortion. I mean... if you married your gf but it didn't work out, that would automatically describe you, right? You've done some of those things already or you plan to?

Right. How sad.

its like walter says, instead of 72 virgins, he would rather have72 experienced chicks who knew what the hell they were doing, lol:P

so in other words, yes i will

[QUOTE="GladlyHandly"][QUOTE="cd_rom"] It's pretty hard to keep kids a secret when you're at the "marry" stage. For that matter, it's pretty hard to keep AIDS a secret.chaoscougar1

Sure. Hopefully she isn't one of those gold diggers in disguise. MistressMinako

she can be a gold digger..... after the 20 year prenup is up. all is fair in love and war, but it is always best never to mix business and pleasure.

If I was like in my 40's, yeah.

its like walter says, instead of 72 virgins, he would rather have72 experienced chicks who knew what the hell they were doing, lol:P

so in other words, yes i will

mlbslugger86

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]

its like walter says, instead of 72 virgins, he would rather have72 experienced chicks who knew what the hell they were doing, lol:P

so in other words, yes i will

STAR_Admiral

The analogy might even fit once they make cars that can....uh....nevermind.