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damn, sorry to read that. so it is official that ur parents r getting devorced? i would suggest they try to get marriage consoling. get a hob to help pay for ur education. i know it will be hard as college can be expensive. iam2greenno not yet. Im thinkin he's just living away for the time being. p.s. we weren;t like this before. It's just a big mistake made by him/
Well, the two had a big argument about money yesterday and my mom is very self-centered, irresponsible and judgmental is forcing my dad out of the house. I don't even think she'll pay rest of the tuition for me as opposed to my dad who's going to leave me 50K once he leaves out of town. Man I hate her (she even stole 1K off my dad once and she denied that...how low can you get??) Plus, I have a test this Sat and the personal stuff is stressing me out. My question to OT: Do you have a relative simliar to mine? So ignorant, obtrusive and does not even consider a thing what is said to them. That stuff just irritates me...you know?hell_blazer899Sorry dude. I really hope your mom realizes the mistakes of her ways and lets your dad come back.
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[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"]happy holidayshell_blazer899that too. I assume you're a failed comedian. Funny TC...thats what comes to mind everytime i read his posts....aaaanyways.....its 4 the better
[QUOTE="biggest_loser"]You were in her womb for 9 months...Toriko42That doesn't mean much You can go to school with someone for 10 years and still hate their guts Thats not the same as YOUR MOTHER - the person who gave birth and life to you. The TC might be angry with her but he cannot forget that! Ever!
You were in her womb for 9 months...biggest_losertre dat. but she once said something about marrying to my dad and having me was a bad/expensive idea. Something along those lines. Some women...
Yea but its my dad who the one... not my mom.. there spreated my mom remarriedfbigent34remarryed huh? sounds like a wise idea.
Well, the two had a big argument about money yesterday and my mom is very self-centered, irresponsible and judgmental is forcing my dad out of the house. I don't even think she'll pay rest of the tuition for me as opposed to my dad who's going to leave me 50K once he leaves out of town. Man I hate her (she even stole 1K off my dad once and she denied that...how low can you get??) Plus, I have a test this Sat and the personal stuff is stressing me out. My question to OT: Do you have a relative simliar to mine? So ignorant, obtrusive and does not even consider a thing what is said to them. That stuff just irritates me...you know?hell_blazer899Well I don't know how old you are, but you're still in high school, so you're probably below 17. There might be extenuating circumstances you are unaware of because your parents are keeping details of their relationship from you. It's very common not to tell children when one parent has had an affair, in order to preserve relationships so the child won't get angry at the cheating parent and feel abandoned. If your father had an affair, that would go some ways to explain your mother's seemingly irrational behaviour. It's very painful. It does seem like you don't have all the information on this. I'd take LJS's advice and stay out of it.
[QUOTE="Mkavanaugh77"]My mom and dad divorced whne i was 6, im 21 now. He was an alcoholic, bit different situation from yours.hell_blazer899yea but you rarely see Asian family parting ways. (I assume you're a different race) erm..... Pls don't think that Asian are the only Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Viets. I'm asian and my race are one of the most common to get divorce... My parents are divorced when i was 6 too xD
[QUOTE="hell_blazer899"][QUOTE="Mkavanaugh77"]My mom and dad divorced whne i was 6, im 21 now. He was an alcoholic, bit different situation from yours.loseittooyea but you rarely see Asian family parting ways. (I assume you're a different race) erm..... Pls don't think that Asian are the only Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Viets. I'm asian and my race are one of the most common to get divorce... My parents are divorced when i was 6 too xD :lol: That's what you learn from watching Maury n Jerry Springer. hah
My parents never got along when I was home, their not even friends but whenever I see them together their arguing and fighting. It's frustrating so I feel ya man. My best advice is to not take sides and do your best to get along. CleanPlayerI'm taking my dad's side since he's vulnerable of being spat at. Trust me, if you were in my position, you would the same.
[QUOTE="hell_blazer899"]Well, the two had a big argument about money yesterday and my mom is very self-centered, irresponsible and judgmental is forcing my dad out of the house. I don't even think she'll pay rest of the tuition for me as opposed to my dad who's going to leave me 50K once he leaves out of town. Man I hate her (she even stole 1K off my dad once and she denied that...how low can you get??) Plus, I have a test this Sat and the personal stuff is stressing me out. My question to OT: Do you have a relative simliar to mine? So ignorant, obtrusive and does not even consider a thing what is said to them. That stuff just irritates me...you know?clicketyclickWell I don't know how old you are, but you're still in high school, so you're probably below 17. There might be extenuating circumstances you are unaware of because your parents are keeping details of their relationship from you. It's very common not to tell children when one parent has had an affair, in order to preserve relationships so the child won't get angry at the cheating parent and feel abandoned. If your father had an affair, that would go some ways to explain your mother's seemingly irrational behaviour. It's very painful. It does seem like you don't have all the information on this. I'd take LJS's advice and stay out of it.
There's a 0% chance that either one is cheating. Also, my mom's personality is inherited from her mom, which is evident because both would yell at me from time to time. Both my mom and my grandma (my mom's side, sometimes my grandpa) would team up and argue/fight with my dad so I had to stop it. One time, they stepped way out of line that I almost punched her:shock: but didn't:shock:
There's a 0% chance that either one is cheating. Also, my mom's personality is inherited from her mom, which is evident because both would yell at me from time to time. Both my mom and my grandma (my mom's side, sometimes my grandpa) would team up and argue/fight with my dad so I had to stop it. One time, they stepped way out of line that I almost punched her:shock: but didn't:shock: hell_blazer899No offense, but I think you're a little too biased to determine the true chance that either is cheating: a little too close to the situation to see what's going on. It seems to me that you're not being entirely fair to your mum out of anger at her that she's insisting your father leave the house. Truly, if she were all about the money (which you seem to suggest what with you commenting she wants to keep the house, doesn't want to pay tuition, stole money, and said marrying and having you was expensive) then she would have either divorced him right away (half share of his stuff and spousal support) or she would have tried to get him to stay (keep access to his income.) It especially doesn't make sense to divorce during these rough financial times as assets can be hidden with losses and debts during settlement negotiations and lawyers are costly. What were they fighting with your father about/
[QUOTE="hell_blazer899"]There's a 0% chance that either one is cheating. Also, my mom's personality is inherited from her mom, which is evident because both would yell at me from time to time. Both my mom and my grandma (my mom's side, sometimes my grandpa) would team up and argue/fight with my dad so I had to stop it. One time, they stepped way out of line that I almost punched her:shock: but didn't:shock: clicketyclickNo offense, but I think you're a little too biased to determine the true chance that either is cheating: a little too close to the situation to see what's going on. It seems to me that you're not being entirely fair to your mum out of anger at her that she's insisting your father leave the house. Truly, if she were all about the money (which you seem to suggest what with you commenting she wants to keep the house, doesn't want to pay tuition, stole money, and said marrying and having you was expensive) then she would have either divorced him right away (half share of his stuff and spousal support) or she would have tried to get him to stay (keep access to his income.) It especially doesn't make sense to divorce during these rough financial times as assets can be hidden with losses and debts during settlement negotiations and lawyers are costly. What were they fighting with your father about/
1. You're right my mom does work 8 hours a day as a massage therapist. Who knows what people can get her into. My dad cheating is a 0 because he's jobless and stay home all the time.
2. Not entirely fair...come on. My dad was the one who gave her the money in buying 2 apartments. Without him, she would have 0 chance--considering the job she's in.
3. Actually my dad wants to divorce her but didn't because of me. He thought we'd start from the beginning and things would work out fine.Obviously this backfired and he was kind enough to give another chance.
4. They fight my dad over the simplest of matters. Money deficiency, Improper arrangemen, parked cars.
Oh man. My grandpa just fought with my dad over parked cars
You were in her womb for 9 months...biggest_loser
That doesnt give her a right to treat him badly. If his dad cares about him more than his mom does then he should go with his dad.
My parents got separated a long time ago.It was best for everyone,I haven't seen my dad in about 6 years now.I really really don't like the man.i havnt spoken to my dad in almost ten years, i live on my own but im in contact with my mum a fair bit. oh and TC stop winging, take it like a man and get over it, it affects you not!
And about that test,speak to your teacher about it,tell him/her what is happening at home,I'm sure they'll understand.
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I'm telling you again..you don't know what's going on with the marriage though it seems your dad is feeding you information to get you on his side...which is totally wrong on his part if he's doing that.1. You're right my mom does work 8 hours a day as a massage therapist. Who knows what people can get her into. My dad cheating is a 0 because he's jobless and stay home all the time.
2. Not entirely fair...come on. My dad was the one who gave her the money in buying 2 apartments. Without him, she would have 0 chance--considering the job she's in.
3. Actually my dad wants to divorce her but didn't because of me. He thought we'd start from the beginning and things would work out fine.Obviously this backfired and he was kind enough to give another chance.
4. They fight my dad over the simplest of matters. Money deficiency, Improper arrangemen, parked cars.
Oh man. My grandpa just fought with my dad over parked cars
hell_blazer899
Your mom is the only one working? How does your dad have all this money since he doesn't bother to work? Yeah money is a big problem in a relationship...especially when one person is hanging around the house all day not contributing to the finances.
Sorry to hear that man. I too have a partial relative (half-sibling) that is irrisponsible lyer that is living in her own little world, so I just distanse myself from that. I know you probably cant do that at the moment I was just responding to your question to others that had someone else like that :?
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