Yep...My dad is separating from my mom

I'm going to modded for this but I went through the same thing and need to say something. Tell your dad, you know, the one that care's about your furture judgeing from your post, to dump her. If not? When you dad give's you 50K when he leaves, NEVER EVER EVER LET YOUR MOM BORROW ANY OF IT!!!!!!!!

She will try to but the guilt trip on you and tell you this and that but do not do it.

This happened to me in a similar situation.

(NOTE: I'm telling you this as a warning, not what's going to happen. Look at your mom and dad as people and not parents one time and see their actions in their arguements. They love you unconditionally but that mean's nothing when they want something. Of course, I could be totally off, and your situation is no where as seriuos as im putting it, but if it is by chance DO NOT GIVE HER ANY OF YOUR MONEY MAN omg just take that from this message if anything.)

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1. You're right my mom does work 8 hours a day as a massage therapist. Who knows what people can get her into. My dad cheating is a 0 because he's jobless and stay home all the time.

2. Not entirely fair...come on. My dad was the one who gave her the money in buying 2 apartments. Without him, she would have 0 chance--considering the job she's in.

3. Actually my dad wantsto divorce her but didn't because of me. He thought we'd start from the beginning and things would work out fine.Obviously this backfired and he was kind enough to give another chance.

4. They fight my dad over the simplest of matters. Money deficiency, Improper arrangemen, parked cars.

Oh man. My grandpa just fought with my dad over parked cars

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Your mom is the only one working? How does your dad have all this money since he doesn't bother to work? Yeah money is a big problem in a relationship...especially when one person is hanging around the house all day not contributing to the finances.

This changes my above response completely. I missed this. Thanks for the clarification Basic. To the Poster. Please read this and prepare for the worst. STAY FREAKIN NEUTRAL OMG.

Well, the two had a big argument about money yesterday and my mom is very self-centered, irresponsible and judgmental is forcing my dad out of the house. I don't even think she'll pay rest of the tuition for me as opposed to my dad who's going to leave me 50K once he leaves out of town. Man I hate her (she even stole 1K off my dad once and she denied that...how low can you get??) Plus, I have a test this Sat and the personal stuff is stressing me out. My question to OT: Do you have a relative simliar to mine? So ignorant, obtrusive and does not even consider a thing what is said to them. That stuff just irritates me...you know?hell_blazer899