I've met many guys that are very shy when they talk to me or to my friends in the begginin, but when they get to know us better they realise that us girls are not so different from you guys... Now I'm not talking specifically about OT posters of course, I am reffering generally. I just don't get it what stops you from talking to us, as easily as to your male friends..>_>
teh_619
I'm a rather attractive guy, but I wasn't blessed with social graces. I not only get nervous around girls, but around girls I really like I can become terrified. When I talk I tend to talk to fast and lose track of where I'm going in my speech, then sometimes I tend to mumble, and during all of this I'm becoming increasingly nervous due to the trainwreck that is becoming my conversation. So most of the time I end up just saying nothing unless I'm just responding to someone else. Rarely do I think of something interesting to say to someone else on my own, and maybe I do sometimes but I just don't know how to put it into words.
All of these behaviors convey a sense of low self-esteem, and most girls pick up on that almost immediately. So in the end most girls will describe me as "nice", but that's a total cop out answer that really irks me sometimes.
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