You know what stinks about dating?

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#51 AtomicBaconBits
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="nippon_gamer"]Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!nippon_gamer

So stop buying **** for her.

Tell her that you're broke and that she needs to pay for **** every once in a while. And if she dumps you, good riddance. Better to be single than to have a golddigger attached to you and taking all your damn money.

Ok but then she will probably screw me over by telling ever one at school im a cheapo. I hate all this chivary bs.

Why do you even give a **** about what some idiots at your school think about you...?
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#52 Poedon
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[QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]I always offer to pay on dates. I only let a guy pay if he absolutely insists.IncipitOmega

I admire u then....

Join the masses that make up the Pearl_of_Egypt fan club:D just don't be a stalker :P

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#53 fireandcloud
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I always offer to pay on dates. I only let a guy pay if he absolutely insists.Pearl_of_Egypt

that must be a huge disappointment for the guys that took you out to mcd's, fully anticipating having to pay for the meal.

dang it! i should have taken her to jean georges!!

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#54 double_decker
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Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!nippon_gamer
It's like legal prostitution, you have to pay to play :P
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#55 ernie1989
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If you're the one asking the other person out, then you should be paying for them since it was a type of invitation; if it's something that you both came up with together, then they better not expect you to pay for them.
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#56 Erasorn
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It's that Chivalry thing. Women has grown accustomed to men doing everything for them to get laid(or just a possibility of getting laid).
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#57 ElectronicMagic
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I agree with the TC. It's completely BS. Women say they want to be completely equal to men, but they want us to pay when we take them out on dates? It would be different if they payed their way on a date and we pay our own. I know after a few dates with a girl, I start to feel like a "John" and I'm paying upfront. Heck, I went to a movie with a friend, who had a boyfriend and was pregnant, yet somehow I had to pay for her ticket! All I am saying is that it sucks.
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#58 ClassicPlayer
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Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!nippon_gamer

I agree with you, I mean like you could spend money on some stuff that you need (clothes), as for the jobs it depends entirly on what type of job it is. Some people are just more lucky then others.

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#59 Raged-wolverine
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It's called chivalry. If you don't like it, find a girl that doesn't place as much importance on it.SmashBrosLegend

i think tht'll be hard to find....here's another thing to do.....become gay and have ur date pay....then it'll all be fine....:P

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#60 luke1889
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I never had a problem with chivalry. We pay for ourselves usually, or take it in turn to pay for the both of us.
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#61 lim_ak
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If you're paying for your dates because you think think you have to then you're a sucker and you deserve to have that money taken away from you. If you want to do it then good for you, but otherwise you're kind of the people that are keeping the problem alive.
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#62 Aquat1cF1sh
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Lol @ this thread.

I believe in the idea that whoever asks for the date pays for it. And I always offer to pay for my share.

Sajedene

Agreed and I also LOL @ this thread.

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#63 maximusmmii
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i think girls have paid for me, more often than i have paid for them.
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#64 Ontain
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Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!nippon_gamer

meh. i've had chicks that were fine with going dutch. the ones that insist you pay wouldn't be of interest to me anyway. unless they are okay with cleaning up stuff because "that's woman's work" (not that i believe that). It's one thing for me to offer. it's another to expect/insist that i pay. because then shouldn't i be allowed my sex stereotypes as well? I don't like hypocrisy.

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#65 Ontain
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[QUOTE="SmashBrosLegend"]It's called chivalry. If you don't like it, find a girl that doesn't place as much importance on it.Raged-wolverine

i think tht'll be hard to find....here's another thing to do.....become gay and have ur date pay....then it'll all be fine....:P

it's not that hard really. as chicks get older they also become more realistic. at least that's what i've found.

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#66 nippon_gamer
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[QUOTE="nippon_gamer"][QUOTE="1stCommando"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="nippon_gamer"]Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!1stCommando

So stop buying **** for her.

Tell her that you're broke and that she needs to pay for **** every once in a while. And if she dumps you, good riddance. Better to be single than to have a golddigger attached to you and taking all your damn money.

Now I agree he shouldn't be buying her gifts left and right, but it's proper for the guy to pay. Yeah the girl should offer to pay every once in a while, but she should never pay unless it's your birthday. That would just be rude as hell to ask her to pay. Girls deserve better than that(unless they treat you like crap).

why is it "proper"? btw whats so good about alabama seems kinda boring.

Because you treat girls with respect. You open car doors for them, hold doors for them, and pay for them. Asking her to pay would be disrespectful. Alabama's not boring. I bet you live in some crowded city when you have no peace and quiet and you can't even see the stars at night. I live on a 800 acre cotton farm where you can hunt, fish, go muddin, ride 4-wheelers, and just relax. I always have something to do- whether it's working on the farm or enjoying the activities you can do on it. By the way I'm only 45 minutes from the great beaches on the Gulf Coast.

im 1 minute away from the pacific ocean i live in pacifica ca

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#67 quiglythegreat
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Why is it that being a man i always have to pay for girls when we go on dates? being a senior in highschool, its not like i have a better job than the girl, actually most of the time they have and make more money then me. I call this sexism!nippon_gamer
I was thinking more about dating's inspiration of suicidal thoughts than the financial cost of the endeavor, but I suppose that wreaks its own havok as well.
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#68 Faylette
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My fiance and I either split the bill or alternate.

Go find a feminist if you don't want to pay all the time, they're pretty good with this junk.

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#69 machiavell8x8
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i think women should pay to prove that they arn't sexist
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#71 liqu1d_couRAGE
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I'm also a senior in high school. I have plenty of money to pay for dates though because I work on the farm every day. Most of the time dates are cheap though. A movie is $6, dinner is around $15. Yeah concerts are around $20 so that can add up. If I don't feel like paying I'll have her at my house and we'll ride 4-wheelers and just relax at our pond.1stCommando

wait. . . where do you live if movies are only 6 bucks i havent paid 6 bucks for a movie in like 10 years

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#72 dbz345
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Me and my girlfriend usually alternate on paying, but in the end, I'm usually the one paying for the good chunk of our dates. But she actually offers to pay for some of it, usually every single time. However, it's out of the fact that we both understand that our relationship is bigger than just paying to get something out of each other, regardless of what that "something" is.

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#73 nippon_gamer
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[QUOTE="1stCommando"]I'm also a senior in high school. I have plenty of money to pay for dates though because I work on the farm every day. Most of the time dates are cheap though. A movie is $6, dinner is around $15. Yeah concerts are around $20 so that can add up. If I don't feel like paying I'll have her at my house and we'll ride 4-wheelers and just relax at our pond.liqu1d_couRAGE

wait. . . where do you live if movies are only 6 bucks i havent paid 6 bucks for a movie in like 10 years

movies are at least 7.50 for me and thats matenee

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#74 some_fly_guy
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[QUOTE="nippon_gamer"][QUOTE="methree15"][QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]

C'mon man re-adjust your bra and realise that women hold all the aces in this world.

Paying for them to have a good time is what happens - though as soon as there's fringe benefits it becomes prostitution for some reason...

D3nnyCrane

Sometimes I think the current payment structre for dating in the western world is kinda modeled after prostitution... payment for... well, you know. bow ckicka bow bowe

dude im in highschool you have to have payed atleat 10 times for a girl before getting the first bow in bow chicka bow bowe

Have you ever tried being funny, charming and intelligent?

Cuts chicka-bow-wow time down by a factor of 4 at least...

he speaks the truth, do wat he said

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#75 Thevenin167
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i think girls have paid for me, more often than i have paid for them. maximusmmii

same, but i still find it shocking when it happens

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#76 killings
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I don't except my boyfriend to pay for me all the time... I would feel guilty if he did.